FabSwingers.com forum: Kissing on meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just curious as to when you have a meet do you like to kiss the others or do you find this too personal and just kiss your own partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious as to when you have a meet do you like to kiss the others or do you find this too personal and just kiss your own partner "
This is a common thread but for me no kissing no sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must for us both whether I’m meeting solo or we meet as a couple.

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By *INTONIC300Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow/Manchester/Edinburgh

Wow wouldn't meet with anyone unless everyone involved kissed.Big turn on for me.Feel it would be very impersonal with no kissing.A good kisser can make my juices flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing. For me, it would be strange to not kiss and fuck them. In my opinion, fucking someone is a bit more intimate than the kiss. Although, I understand when people say they don’t kiss.

But, I’m a kisser. That’s what gets me going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious as to when you have a meet do you like to kiss the others or do you find this too personal and just kiss your own partner "

If you don’t kiss me like you mean it you’re not sticking ‘that’ in me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Rob don’t get it either lol, must be me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is better than the sex for me a lot of the time, a big turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like kissing during sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all part of the foreplay..

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

There has to be kissing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, kissing is essential. It’s the seductive and sensuality of it that turns me on. I love kissing and I am pretty good at it. Seeing others kiss around you is a huge. Turn on too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't kiss our casual sex partners. Nothing against people who do, it's just the way we play.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Rob don’t get it either lol, must be me! "

He doesn't get that you do or that you don't?

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Ooh love a good snog

If I meet with Jack,we both kiss others.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

At the moment, we won't kiss members of the opposite sex during a meet. It's more that we're not sure how we'd feel watching the other doing it.

For us it's something that's more intimate than the other things we've done and we want to keep that for each other. We may move past that at some point.

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By *ools47Woman
over a year ago

Failsworth

No kissing means no playing, for me kissing is a very important part of an encounter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious as to when you have a meet do you like to kiss the others or do you find this too personal and just kiss your own partner This is a common thread but for me no kissing no sex "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Rob don’t get it either lol, must be me!

He doesn't get that you do or that you don't?"

He doesn’t get how you could fuck someone but not kiss them, on a one on one with someone then course kissing but in ffm or mmff scenario i feel its more personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing, no play.

I don't get how having a cock stuck into you is somehow less intimate than kissing someone.

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By *ivelaughlove16Couple
over a year ago

norfolk/Suffolk border

We love kissing it adds to the build up of what comes next ,mind you we are soft swing only so everything that happens follows naturally on from the kissing we find

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Rob don’t get it either lol, must be me!

He doesn't get that you do or that you don't?

He doesn’t get how you could fuck someone but not kiss them, on a one on one with someone then course kissing but in ffm or mmff scenario i feel its more personal "

I suppose it depends how you define intimacy or personal.

The good thing about being open minded where sex is concerned is that you can accept other people's legal and consensual preferences.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No kissing, no play.

I don't get how having a cock stuck into you is somehow less intimate than kissing someone. "

Well put like that getting a "cock stuck into you" doesn't sound too intimate to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Essential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to kiss on a meet, it gets me really horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I kiss

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Kissing is very important. It would seem clinical if there wasn’t any.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Love kissing as I find it such a turn on. Without kissing it’s jusy too clinical.

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By *harliebluestockingsCouple
over a year ago

london

We always kiss. Lots of it.

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By *inotGringoMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

It doesn’t feel quite right if you don’t kiss. I’m always all for kissing, but I understand it’s an issue for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we don't kiss anyone we play with save that for us

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By *ekyllnHideCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Omg - kissing is the best bit.....if someone is a naff kisser then the chemistry just isn’t there!!!

Love it when a guy comes up to you from behind and starts on your neck....then twists you round grabbing a handful of hair at the same time!!!

It would be far to clinical to have no kissing.....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always kiss the other person on meets.

If I wasn't allowed to kiss someone then they certainly wouldn't be allowed to do anything else with me.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

A common thread. Each to their own but I don't get the "no kiss no sex" attitude. I love to kiss other wonen, but not keen on kissing men other than my partner, yet I have great sex with many guys (sometimes a few at a time) and not one has ever said "not fucking you if you don't kiss".

For us swinging is about fulfilling our fantasies. My fantasies are purely about being fucked, kissing just doesn't play a part, and to a certain degree the absence of intimate kissing heightens the sexual enjoyment - it makes it more casual and anonymous.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"A common thread. Each to their own but I don't get the "no kiss no sex" attitude. I love to kiss other wonen, but not keen on kissing men other than my partner, yet I have great sex with many guys (sometimes a few at a time) and not one has ever said "not fucking you if you don't kiss".

come to think of it no guy has ever said to me "I'm not putting my cock in your mouth unless I've kissed it first"

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By *hil LandererMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Just curious as to when you have a meet do you like to kiss the others or do you find this too personal and just kiss your own partner "

Oh if there is an attraction for sure

It's what sets the scene surely x

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By *hil LandererMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Omg - kissing is the best bit.....if someone is a naff kisser then the chemistry just isn’t there!!!

Love it when a guy comes up to you from behind and starts on your neck....then twists you round grabbing a handful of hair at the same time!!!

Have we met before

It would be far to clinical to have no kissing.....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jo will always kiss on our meets it’s extremely important

I choose not to kiss on the lips as my lips are usually required elsewhere

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

It's a must for me...wouldn't meet if kissing wasn't an option

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By *picy2Couple
over a year ago

essex

Kissing is a must

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By *ekyllnHideCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Omg - kissing is the best bit.....if someone is a naff kisser then the chemistry just isn’t there!!!

Love it when a guy comes up to you from behind and starts on your neck....then twists you round grabbing a handful of hair at the same time!!!

Have we met before

It would be far to clinical to have no kissing.....x

I don’t believe so......????

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm a kisser. I'm not sure how I'd handle it if someone else didn't want to, as kissing helps set the tone for me. But I'd try.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I've decided that kissing isn't essential BUT if there is no kissing then we had better keep the lube handy...

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Omg - kissing is the best bit.....if someone is a naff kisser then the chemistry just isn’t there!!!

Love it when a guy comes up to you from behind and starts on your neck....then twists you round grabbing a handful of hair at the same time!!!

It would be far to clinical to have no kissing.....x

Believe me, the sex I have is far from clinical!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually but have met one with halitosis and it was as non starter. It all depends on the person though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Omg - kissing is the best bit.....if someone is a naff kisser then the chemistry just isn’t there!!!

Love it when a guy comes up to you from behind and starts on your neck....then twists you round grabbing a handful of hair at the same time!!!

It would be far to clinical to have no kissing.....x

Yes this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure I'd say "no kiss, no play" but I would always vastly prefer kissing to be a part of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems to be definate thumbs up for kissing, thanks for all the replies x

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By *sfleurWoman
over a year ago

wednesfield

I met guys when my late hubby was unable to satisfy me - told them no kissing as I had love at home & he was love of my life & father of our son - but now I love to kiss as I have full kissable lips ;p

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By *eyKMan
over a year ago

North

I'd struggle to have quality sex and not kiss.

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Kissing is a major turn on for me, I would never meet without kissing. It’s so intimate and personal, and great kissing leads to amazing sex in my experience x. Bring it in!

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By *wizzlenipsMan
over a year ago

Newport

"I'd struggle to have quality sex and not kiss. "

What the man said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love to kiss but I can still enjoy passionate exciting sex whilst being denied it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like kissing during sex"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is a major turn on for me, I would never meet without kissing. It’s so intimate and personal, and great kissing leads to amazing sex in my experience x. Bring it in!

That's where it is

Cher. It's in his kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a huge turn on for me!! It’s all about the kiss

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

For me, it’s a kissing at every opportunity I can get

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By *es AmisCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

No kissing would leave me with nothing to brandish downstairs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Diane always kisses..I like to see her do it too

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

We like kissing both sexes bit of a turn on for both of us

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