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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on and off here for years prefer to meet guys in their mid 30’s but of late just cannot tolerate their ways ie mess you around etc ! I just can’t seem to find the attraction with older guys ie 40’s plus when it comes to meeting ! chat is so much better yes with the older guys so I’m at a cross roads really no way forward maybe my fab days are up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're going to give up anyway why not just throw caution to the wind and meet a few people that you do chat well with and dont look at their age. See what happens

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes totally get what your saying but I need that chemistry there too ! I can chat but once we swop pics I just don’t get that attraction on my part x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe there's more to people than just a pic?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hine I appreciate that too but there has to be physical attraction too I’m very average not asking for a stunner just need that attraction x

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

Maybe the nicer 30s guys are just less shallow than you hoped.

I'd love to meet up with gym fit 19 year old gymnasts for threesomes every weekend. It ain't going to happen though, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hine I appreciate that too but there has to be physical attraction too I’m very average not asking for a stunner just need that attraction x"

Of course! But age shouldn't be an artificial barrier?

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By *ERRYA1Man
over a year ago

Bicester

I'm in my 30s and I'm definitely not a messa, a lot of people on here are idiots, don't take it personal babe. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if I was a younger guy i would laud the youth and physicality ... as an older guy I laud the experience and patience of an older guy ... I suppose it all comes down to a bit of what you fancy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes agree guys and don’t tar all guys with the same brush just had a bad run I suppose x

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By *oresexMan
over a year ago

South West coast

Only you know exactly what you wish for, but if you have a tick box system that includes a certain age you might be excluding a perfect match just for the sake of 1 or 2 years of life, be more flexible and good luck in your search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started chatting to someone a year ago (from a different site) he's age isn't an issue but like you said the picture I got certainly wouldn't be someone I'd go for but he has become a great friend and has helped me no end emotionally though our swinging journey to get us where we are today. Without him I don't think I'd be as confident as I have got. We've met a few times and had the best times. He was the first man to get me to squirt

What I'm trying to say is that sometimes the physical attention is deep inside and don't always go on the outer or age. If you get on well the meet for a social, you might be surprised.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sympathise, I have found pretty much the same. I am just using Fab to make social contacts now, and going to clubs as at least you can guarantee there will be people there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on and off here for years prefer to meet guys in their mid 30’s but of late just cannot tolerate their ways ie mess you around etc ! I just can’t seem to find the attraction with older guys ie 40’s plus when it comes to meeting ! chat is so much better yes with the older guys so I’m at a cross roads really no way forward maybe my fab days are up x"
Yep seems so ce La vie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe there's more to people than just a pic?"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hine I appreciate that too but there has to be physical attraction too I’m very average not asking for a stunner just need that attraction x"

Wo I am very average. You are a stunner!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on and off here for years prefer to meet guys in their mid 30’s but of late just cannot tolerate their ways ie mess you around etc ! I just can’t seem to find the attraction with older guys ie 40’s plus when it comes to meeting ! chat is so much better yes with the older guys so I’m at a cross roads really no way forward maybe my fab days are up x"

Shame your not living down this way. Would have loved to have chatted with you..and more

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"Hine I appreciate that too but there has to be physical attraction too I’m very average not asking for a stunner just need that attraction x

Wo I am very average. You are a stunner!! Xx"

Based on one small boob pic of large boobs haha. The sincerity must be overwhelming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hine I appreciate that too but there has to be physical attraction too I’m very average not asking for a stunner just need that attraction x

Wo I am very average. You are a stunner!! Xx

Based on one small boob pic of large boobs haha. The sincerity must be overwhelming. "

Haha true,but just trying to be nice. Obviously the OP is needing a boost and a bit of TLC. I am outside her age range anyway.

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the great reply’s guys I do have a few good fab friends that have gave me loads of support and advice. I have had a few meets that txting it was all there but when I met that urge to take it further wasn’t x

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