FabSwingers.com forum: Ugh. Turn off

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I used to fuck this man I met on fab, who never ever failed to make me cum. But last time we fucked he asked ‘when are you going to cum?’

Erm, when you make me?

Was a bit of a turn off.

Is there anything that said to you, is a turn off during sexy times?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it in yet?

I’m joking, I think the worst was when we were both tight for time and my ex was going through her shopping list during a session. Not good

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

"I need the toilet"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to fuck this man I met on fab, who never ever failed to make me cum. But last time we fucked he asked ‘when are you going to cum?’

Erm, when you make me?

Was a bit of a turn off.

Is there anything that said to you, is a turn off during sexy times?"
Yep calling out the wrong name......... Not good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to fuck this man I met on fab, who never ever failed to make me cum. But last time we fucked he asked ‘when are you going to cum?’

Erm, when you make me?

Was a bit of a turn off.

Is there anything that said to you, is a turn off during sexy times?

Yep calling out the wrong name......... Not good "

Uhoh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to fuck this man I met on fab, who never ever failed to make me cum. But last time we fucked he asked ‘when are you going to cum?’

Erm, when you make me?

Was a bit of a turn off.

Is there anything that said to you, is a turn off during sexy times?

Yep calling out the wrong name......... Not good

Uhoh"
Well You wouldn't be happy would you

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I used to fuck this man I met on fab, who never ever failed to make me cum. But last time we fucked he asked ‘when are you going to cum?’

Erm, when you make me?

Was a bit of a turn off.

Is there anything that said to you, is a turn off during sexy times?"

That's my biggest one. It's not a tick box exercise, and while it usually happens for me, nothing makes it less likely than someone overtly expecting it and getting impatient for it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Oh, and I temporarily turned off a guy a few weeks ago. I'd put body lotion on my legs. He licked my legs. Apparently it was the worst taste known to man, and he ran from the room in horror. We resumed, and it was funny (for me) in the moment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cum in a guys mouth a few minutes after he cum in his wife. Let’s say the moment to swallow my juice had passed for him.

Me and the lady were dying on floor he flew across the room into bathroom. He did apologise after though for being rude about it

Didn’t get a second meet invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When ive had my legs between a womans legs and she said "i love you to suck the cum from my cunt from last night"

That was it for me, things stopped there and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest one I’ve experienced so far is a harsh “don’t talk!” As if we’re supposed to be militant and not enjoy sex at all. It was weird for me and I just played out the motions as I was “supposed” to. All sexual interest died after that night!

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By *oman wantedCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Liverpool/Manchester

Falling asleep x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman referring to her 'foo foo'.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"When ive had my legs between a womans legs and she said "i love you to suck the cum from my cunt from last night"

That was it for me, things stopped there and then "

Made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similar to what you’ve said.

“When are you gonna cum” it just puts me off!

Or when they say “Do you like that” I don’t kniw why but I find it a little cringe! Haha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Similar to what you’ve said.

“When are you gonna cum” it just puts me off!

Or when they say “Do you like that” I don’t kniw why but I find it a little cringe! Haha. "

I don’t mind ‘do you like that’ if they try something new and I clearly enjoy it...but after the same wham bam bang every time? Yes...I told you ten minutes ago I like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Similar to what you’ve said.

“When are you gonna cum” it just puts me off!

Or when they say “Do you like that” I don’t kniw why but I find it a little cringe! Haha.

I don’t mind ‘do you like that’ if they try something new and I clearly enjoy it...but after the same wham bam bang every time? Yes...I told you ten minutes ago I like that!"

Yeah that’s true!

I had one who was asking it in missionary, and I just nodded my head cringing inside!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Similar to what you’ve said.

“When are you gonna cum” it just puts me off!

Or when they say “Do you like that” I don’t kniw why but I find it a little cringe! Haha.

I don’t mind ‘do you like that’ if they try something new and I clearly enjoy it...but after the same wham bam bang every time? Yes...I told you ten minutes ago I like that!

Yeah that’s true!

I had one who was asking it in missionary, and I just nodded my head cringing inside!

Sometimes just answer honestly; ‘erm it’s alright...’ they just stare at ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me just as bad as when will you come is 'how many times did you come?' and 'did you come?'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me just as bad as when will you come is 'how many times did you come?' and 'did you come?'."

Yes!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to fuck this man I met on fab, who never ever failed to make me cum. But last time we fucked he asked ‘when are you going to cum?’

Erm, when you make me?

Was a bit of a turn off.

Is there anything that said to you, is a turn off during sexy times?"

“I can keep going like this forever, takes me ages to cum”

... fucking great, that’s just turned this from a fun session into a marathon / endurance test and my fanny is going to be rubbed fucking raw

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I bet you've not had anyone as good as me before..."

Usually said by someone mediocre...

Urgh....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Similar to what you’ve said.

“When are you gonna cum” it just puts me off!

Or when they say “Do you like that” I don’t kniw why but I find it a little cringe! Haha. "

Yes it's a bit cringy because they should know from body language and your reactions. However how they say it is important. It can be said in a sexy more rhetoric way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""I bet you've not had anyone as good as me before..."

Usually said by someone mediocre...

Urgh...."

"I promise [whatever bs claims, normally not knowing a thing what you like sexually but presuming all women are the same]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""I bet you've not had anyone as good as me before..."

Usually said by someone mediocre...

Urgh....

"I promise [whatever bs claims, normally not knowing a thing what you like sexually but presuming all women are the same]""

Ahh yes

“I can make you squirt “

Absolute mood killer right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""I bet you've not had anyone as good as me before..."

Usually said by someone mediocre...

Urgh....

"I promise [whatever bs claims, normally not knowing a thing what you like sexually but presuming all women are the same]"

Ahh yes

“I can make you squirt “

Absolute mood killer right there "

Oh the squirt claim. Yes such bs.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I can’t make women squirt, I struggle do get it in, I always do you like that, that’s where I am going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it in yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'suck me to make me hard'

'i won't disappoint you' - if non disappointment is the aim here then this is not the sex I want. And you probably will disappoint me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When ive had my legs between a womans legs and she said "i love you to suck the cum from my cunt from last night"

That was it for me, things stopped there and then

Made me laugh

The funny thing is, post like these bring back the memories I'd love to forget lol

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Oh, and I temporarily turned off a guy a few weeks ago. I'd put body lotion on my legs. He licked my legs. Apparently it was the worst taste known to man, and he ran from the room in horror. We resumed, and it was funny (for me) in the moment! "

Haha I've done similar with lotion on my nips...doh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to fuck this man I met on fab, who never ever failed to make me cum. But last time we fucked he asked ‘when are you going to cum?’

Erm, when you make me?

Was a bit of a turn off.

Is there anything that said to you, is a turn off during sexy times?"

Sshhhh the neighbours will hear...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I go to guide their hands to my clit and they keep pushing me away.. I just want to cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where you're in doggy and you can hear her snoring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to fuck this man I met on fab, who never ever failed to make me cum. But last time we fucked he asked ‘when are you going to cum?’

Erm, when you make me?

Was a bit of a turn off.

Is there anything that said to you, is a turn off during sexy times?

Sshhhh the neighbours will hear...

THIS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I go to guide their hands to my clit and they keep pushing me away.. I just want to cum

Pfftt put some honey on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I go to guide their hands to my clit and they keep pushing me away.. I just want to cum

Unless they're already down there then I don't think that is right. A guy pushing my hand to wank him off would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to fuck this man I met on fab, who never ever failed to make me cum. But last time we fucked he asked ‘when are you going to cum?’

Erm, when you make me?

Was a bit of a turn off.

Is there anything that said to you, is a turn off during sexy times?"

Absolute silence when making out with another couple in the room who was also making out, in a voyeuristic only meet, they didn't make a sound pretty weird. Not even when they both came.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing a smoker

People being lazy

Mood Hoover's!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I go to guide their hands to my clit and they keep pushing me away.. I just want to cum

Unless they're already down there then I don't think that is right. A guy pushing my hand to wank him off would put me off."

I wouldn't be forcing their hand down there ahaha.. just when they think they've got the right spot and they don't.. but also won't accept help

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to fuck this man I met on fab, who never ever failed to make me cum. But last time we fucked he asked ‘when are you going to cum?’

Erm, when you make me?

Was a bit of a turn off.

Is there anything that said to you, is a turn off during sexy times?

Sshhhh the neighbours will hear...

I had a guy that wanted to shut my blinds and windows every time he came over. He only ever came over during the day, when I knew all my neighbours were working. My bedroom is boiling hot all the time - I’m keeping those windows open!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I go to guide their hands to my clit and they keep pushing me away.. I just want to cum

Pfftt put some honey on it

Am I sleeping with Winnie the pooh??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I go to guide their hands to my clit and they keep pushing me away.. I just want to cum

Unless they're already down there then I don't think that is right. A guy pushing my hand to wank him off would put me off.

I wouldn't be forcing their hand down there ahaha.. just when they think they've got the right spot and they don't.. but also won't accept help

Oh yes I'm with you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I go to guide their hands to my clit and they keep pushing me away.. I just want to cum

Pfftt put some honey on it

Am I sleeping with Winnie the pooh??

Nope, it's just something I would like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I go to guide their hands to my clit and they keep pushing me away.. I just want to cum

Pfftt put some honey on it

Am I sleeping with Winnie the pooh??

Nope, it's just something I would like

Glad to hear you're still keen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I go to guide their hands to my clit and they keep pushing me away.. I just want to cum

Pfftt put some honey on it

Am I sleeping with Winnie the pooh??

Nope, it's just something I would like

Glad to hear you're still keen

Keen on what

? You're too busy for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I go to guide their hands to my clit and they keep pushing me away.. I just want to cum

Pfftt put some honey on it

Am I sleeping with Winnie the pooh??

Nope, it's just something I would like

Glad to hear you're still keen

Keen on what

? You're too busy for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to fuck this man I met on fab, who never ever failed to make me cum. But last time we fucked he asked ‘when are you going to cum?’

Erm, when you make me?

Was a bit of a turn off.

Is there anything that said to you, is a turn off during sexy times?"

I’m terrible for asking that. If a guy goes on and on then I want to know if they are actually going to cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to fuck this man I met on fab, who never ever failed to make me cum. But last time we fucked he asked ‘when are you going to cum?’

Erm, when you make me?

Was a bit of a turn off.

Is there anything that said to you, is a turn off during sexy times?"

That! Being put on a time scale for an orgasm. Nothing like a bit of pressure to completely turn me off

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By *lim Jim 68Man
over a year ago

Guernsey

I was receiving a lovely blow job when my friend's phone bleeped to say she had a message...she reched over to her phone and read the message without breaking stride.

Impressive, but the moment was lost.

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"I was receiving a lovely blow job when my friend's phone bleeped to say she had a message...she reched over to her phone and read the message without breaking stride.

Impressive, but the moment was lost."

Lol ... women can multiskill!

Next time ask for a tea, 2 sugars!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was receiving a lovely blow job when my friend's phone bleeped to say she had a message...she reched over to her phone and read the message without breaking stride.

Impressive, but the moment was lost."

Whenever my old FB would come over I’d text my hubby to double check it was alright. My FB got to my house before my hubby replied, and when he did he replied with ‘sure, when?’ So I just opened the next (all while sucking my FBs cock) and took a selfie and sent it to him

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"When I go to guide their hands to my clit and they keep pushing me away.. I just want to cum

Lol this is so me

but that is because I like to tease especially if in domme mode

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I go to guide their hands to my clit and they keep pushing me away.. I just want to cum

Lol this is so me

but that is because I like to tease especially if in domme mode

Domme aye?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I had a "why arent you moaning?" (I was actually honest as he was an idiot and turned out to be the worst shag ever... Should have left after the foreplay turned out to be a "take your clothes off") so I said "well guess" and then he told me "Oh, just fake it then". I left. I have a right pussy and couldn't feel a thing when he was fucking me...

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"When I go to guide their hands to my clit and they keep pushing me away.. I just want to cum

Lol this is so me

but that is because I like to tease especially if in domme mode

Domme aye?"

Well I like to be in control - if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once I had a "why arent you moaning?" (I was actually honest as he was an idiot and turned out to be the worst shag ever... Should have left after the foreplay turned out to be a "take your clothes off") so I said "well guess" and then he told me "Oh, just fake it then". I left. I have a right pussy and couldn't feel a thing when he was fucking me..."

Oh lord

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was definitely the face I made. These are the guys that don't know where the clit is but could swear they'd make you cum (and squirt if it's on here...) and make you feel like a weirdo when you don't... let's be humble guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Obviously it’s OUR fault for not cumming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously!!!! They do all this hard work and we are denying ourselves amazing orgasms...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few weeks ago we were in a club. A guy walked in and Iza took a shine to him "Big, Black handsome guy" so after a little chit chat went upstairs to the play rooms. 5 min's later she reappeared shaking her head. When I asked what was wrong she said "FUCKING HELL" he had stripped, kissed, fucked and cum and returned back to the bar in 5 mins. She said he asked her "did you enjoy that" she asked if he had finished again he asked "did you enjoy" she looked at the full condom hanging like a dead duck and realised yes, he had finished

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a lady many years ago for a social meet. She was a bit nervous so was hitting the drink pretty well. We went back to her place for a bit of fun, and she was on top riding me when she says "I need to stop, I'm going to be sick!"

And she was twice more during the night, I couldn't get away fast enough in the morning.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Yes.. "snif my bum"

Fuck. X

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Oh lord"

Flashbacks to an old boyfriend. "You're supposed to fake it, it makes the moment!" He and others told me female orgasms were a myth. Oh my.

Oh, and that boyfriend told me I was frigid and didn't like giving blowjobs. I love giving blowjobs. I just don't like the taste or texture of crusty dried piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to fuck this man I met on fab, who never ever failed to make me cum. But last time we fucked he asked ‘when are you going to cum?’

Erm, when you make me?

Was a bit of a turn off.

Is there anything that said to you, is a turn off during sexy times?"

You should cum harder so he notices then.

Worst thing is if she just lies there as if she was mummyfied 10000 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to fuck this man I met on fab, who never ever failed to make me cum. But last time we fucked he asked ‘when are you going to cum?’

Erm, when you make me?

Was a bit of a turn off.

Is there anything that said to you, is a turn off during sexy times?

You should cum harder so he notices then.

Worst thing is if she just lies there as if she was mummyfied 10000 years ago."

But...I hadn’t cum yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to fuck this man I met on fab, who never ever failed to make me cum. But last time we fucked he asked ‘when are you going to cum?’

Erm, when you make me?

Was a bit of a turn off.

Is there anything that said to you, is a turn off during sexy times?

You should cum harder so he notices then.

Worst thing is if she just lies there as if she was mummyfied 10000 years ago.

But...I hadn’t cum yet

It was a joke

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By *ikely ladMan
over a year ago

Hounslow

I just keep quiet until my head is like a walnut being crushed. At least i know i'm giving ultimate pleasure.

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