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By *icto07985 OP   Man
over a year ago

Romney marsh

If a couple where having a night away in a camper van and posted for a meet but asked you for money towards their diesel, would you pay them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Er,no!!!

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Sounds like they're using you in more ways than one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a couple where having a night away in a camper van and posted for a meet but asked you for money towards their diesel, would you pay them?"
vin?

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

So if we started to accommodate we could ask for money towards our mortgage?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if we started to accommodate we could ask for money towards our mortgage? "
yes I mean why have something everyone wants and give it away for free, make sure you have loyalty vouchers though every fourth session is free

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Absolutely not! Too much of it on here. Buy me a bottle of gin. Take me shopping. Where is the line drawn? Prostitutes in disguise.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Usually get asked to pick people up, and drop them off again after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d avoid this couple, who the fuck asks for diesel money, tight gets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a couple where having a night away in a camper van and posted for a meet but asked you for money towards their diesel, would you pay them?"

Why should I?

Its them doing the travelling anyway

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Asking for expenses is against site rules. Report the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might do, if they were giving out Green Sheild Stamps with every liter..

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"So if we started to accommodate we could ask for money towards our mortgage? "

Oooh that's a good idea

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"So if we started to accommodate we could ask for money towards our mortgage? "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would they like to you drive so they can have a drink too.

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

Do you get to keep the nectar points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit that I once offered a meet £20 towards petrol as she’d driven a considerable distance to meet me, seemed reasonable to me in that it would have cost her a great deal in petrol and ‘splitting the bill’ seemed acceptable. She was quite offended and refused. Said she’d come because she wanted to. I accepted this and waited till she went to the loo and put the money in her handbag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must admit that I once offered a meet £20 towards petrol as she’d driven a considerable distance to meet me, seemed reasonable to me in that it would have cost her a great deal in petrol and ‘splitting the bill’ seemed acceptable. She was quite offended and refused. Said she’d come because she wanted to. I accepted this and waited till she went to the loo and put the money in her handbag. "

This is just so thoughtfull. I hope you both had a great meeting.

I know it's a bit sexist so apologies in advance, but I think it's nice if a guy thoughtfully treats a lady/woman he is meeting. Not financially though. A small gesture even if that's coffee and cake on a social. Perhaps this is just me because I tend to only meet guys where I think there is going to be a long term friendship rather than just one of meets.

Incidentally I once drove from Cleethorpes to Southend for a meeting and didn't ask for a penny! Why would I, I wanted to meet him and he didn't drive. Simples.

Ummmm did I go off on a tangent here lol

What was the question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might do, if they were giving out Green Sheild Stamps with every liter.."

Ahhh those were the days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a no from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If travelling I don't mind paying towards petrol etc prefer to go halves anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might do, if they were giving out Green Sheild Stamps with every liter..

Ahhh those were the days "

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By *orn KinkyTV/TS
over a year ago

cardiff

Tell them to park it outside their house if they can’t afford to put fuel in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've paid in the past, because the one I was meeting was skint. It's not been a usual question though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t pay them.

But I’ve gone halves on a hotel room before with a couple.

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England


"I must admit that I once offered a meet £20 towards petrol as she’d driven a considerable distance to meet me, seemed reasonable to me in that it would have cost her a great deal in petrol and ‘splitting the bill’ seemed acceptable. She was quite offended and refused. Said she’d come because she wanted to. I accepted this and waited till she went to the loo and put the money in her handbag. "

And when she found it she went ape-shit crazy coz you'd been in her bag LOL!

thin ice...

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I wouldn’t pay them.

But I’ve gone halves on a hotel room before with a couple."

Sharing the cost of a room is sensible. Nobody should be gaining anything other than pleasure though.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way. That's a cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a couple where having a night away in a camper van and posted for a meet but asked you for money towards their diesel, would you pay them?"

tell them todo one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But I’ve gone halves on a hotel room before with a couple."

totally different

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I must admit that I once offered a meet £20 towards petrol as she’d driven a considerable distance to meet me, seemed reasonable to me in that it would have cost her a great deal in petrol and ‘splitting the bill’ seemed acceptable. She was quite offended and refused. Said she’d come because she wanted to. I accepted this and waited till she went to the loo and put the money in her handbag. "
why did you do that. Couldnt you respect her wishes. Id be mortified if someone thought i couldnt pay my own way

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I must admit that I once offered a meet £20 towards petrol as she’d driven a considerable distance to meet me, seemed reasonable to me in that it would have cost her a great deal in petrol and ‘splitting the bill’ seemed acceptable. She was quite offended and refused. Said she’d come because she wanted to. I accepted this and waited till she went to the loo and put the money in her handbag.

And when she found it she went ape-shit crazy coz you'd been in her bag LOL!

thin ice..."
more like bat shit crazy as he didnt respect her wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must admit that I once offered a meet £20 towards petrol as she’d driven a considerable distance to meet me, seemed reasonable to me in that it would have cost her a great deal in petrol and ‘splitting the bill’ seemed acceptable. She was quite offended and refused. Said she’d come because she wanted to. I accepted this and waited till she went to the loo and put the money in her handbag. "

So you offended her anyway AND went in her handbag? Eek!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must admit that I once offered a meet £20 towards petrol as she’d driven a considerable distance to meet me, seemed reasonable to me in that it would have cost her a great deal in petrol and ‘splitting the bill’ seemed acceptable. She was quite offended and refused. Said she’d come because she wanted to. I accepted this and waited till she went to the loo and put the money in her handbag.

So you offended her anyway AND went in her handbag? Eek!"

That'd really about annoy me. How dare you go through someones stuff without their permission. She said no thanks but you still went ahead and ignored her.

OP - No, I think you're being taken for a ride here. Whilst splitting the cost of a hotel if fair, asking for travel money is silly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must admit that I once offered a meet £20 towards petrol as she’d driven a considerable distance to meet me, seemed reasonable to me in that it would have cost her a great deal in petrol and ‘splitting the bill’ seemed acceptable. She was quite offended and refused. Said she’d come because she wanted to. I accepted this and waited till she went to the loo and put the money in her handbag. "

The lack of respect there is pretty much off the scale...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a couple where having a night away in a camper van and posted for a meet but asked you for money towards their diesel, would you pay them?"

I'd laugh in their face to be honest. They are taking the piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must admit that I once offered a meet £20 towards petrol as she’d driven a considerable distance to meet me, seemed reasonable to me in that it would have cost her a great deal in petrol and ‘splitting the bill’ seemed acceptable. She was quite offended and refused. Said she’d come because she wanted to. I accepted this and waited till she went to the loo and put the money in her handbag.

So you offended her anyway AND went in her handbag? Eek!

That'd really about annoy me. How dare you go through someones stuff without their permission. She said no thanks but you still went ahead and ignored her.

OP - No, I think you're being taken for a ride here. Whilst splitting the cost of a hotel if fair, asking for travel money is silly."

They didn't go through someone else's stuff. I'm assuming he just dropped the money in the top of the bag which is totally acceptable. Personally I think it's a very nice thing to do.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I must admit that I once offered a meet £20 towards petrol as she’d driven a considerable distance to meet me, seemed reasonable to me in that it would have cost her a great deal in petrol and ‘splitting the bill’ seemed acceptable. She was quite offended and refused. Said she’d come because she wanted to. I accepted this and waited till she went to the loo and put the money in her handbag.

So you offended her anyway AND went in her handbag? Eek!

That'd really about annoy me. How dare you go through someones stuff without their permission. She said no thanks but you still went ahead and ignored her.

OP - No, I think you're being taken for a ride here. Whilst splitting the cost of a hotel if fair, asking for travel money is silly.

They didn't go through someone else's stuff. I'm assuming he just dropped the money in the top of the bag which is totally acceptable. Personally I think it's a very nice thing to do."
what go against someones wishes whose already said their offended at being offered money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must admit that I once offered a meet £20 towards petrol as she’d driven a considerable distance to meet me, seemed reasonable to me in that it would have cost her a great deal in petrol and ‘splitting the bill’ seemed acceptable. She was quite offended and refused. Said she’d come because she wanted to. I accepted this and waited till she went to the loo and put the money in her handbag.

So you offended her anyway AND went in her handbag? Eek!

That'd really about annoy me. How dare you go through someones stuff without their permission. She said no thanks but you still went ahead and ignored her.

OP - No, I think you're being taken for a ride here. Whilst splitting the cost of a hotel if fair, asking for travel money is silly.

They didn't go through someone else's stuff. I'm assuming he just dropped the money in the top of the bag which is totally acceptable. Personally I think it's a very nice thing to do.what go against someones wishes whose already said their offended at being offered money"

This

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