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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They say age is just a number, but who likes older men and why?

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Older are more gentlemanly I find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find older men to be more relaxed and respectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer older men, always have.

There isn’t some mad reason why, I just do!

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By *odg123Man
over a year ago

southampton

We certainly are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good morning ladies x

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading

Experience and self confidence enhance sexual experiences .significantly . That’s why older women in general are better in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife here- I'm attracted to certain types of older men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always been my age and older

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By *oth_cook69Couple
over a year ago

WOKING

There’s hope for us older guys yet!!

Any ladies or couples that would like like to chat please get in touch.

I’m friendly and respectful albeit a bit naughty and to top it all I have Mrs Cook’s blessing to have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh ladies - your so kind …… now let me get my satnav out and plan a route to visit you all lol

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Age is definitely not "just a number". It often comes with wrinkles, saggy bits, white hair which is falling out etc etc. Having said that some older men can still be very attractive. Naturally I think my partner is, but in confirmation so do plenty of other women that we meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is definitely not "just a number". It often comes with wrinkles, saggy bits, white hair which is falling out etc etc. Having said that some older men can still be very attractive. Naturally I think my partner is, but in confirmation so do plenty of other women that we meet "

I think I kept my looks, but lost me hair lol

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By *veready69Man
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

Grey pubes. Fuck....didn't see THAT coming....??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Grey pubes. Fuck....didn't see THAT coming....??"

No pubes - it hinds a multitude of things lol

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

I'm old and in need ....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm old and happy

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By *ustme6Man
over a year ago

tamworth

Must be in denial ....but don't consider myself 'older'...

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

There's hope for us then ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find older men more attractive, respectful and friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find older men more attractive, respectful and friendly "

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Experience and self confidence enhance sexual experiences .significantly . That’s why older women in general are better in bed"

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I'm old and happy "

Nah, you're the grumpiest old man I know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must be in denial ....but don't consider myself 'older'... "

Well, quite, it's all relative.

Try not to stand next to anyone younger than about 40 though.

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By *uddly biker chickWoman
over a year ago

Llandudno


"Good morning ladies x"

46 is a good age

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Wife here- I'm attracted to certain types of older men "

Younger looking ones? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good morning ladies x

46 is a good age "

Age is truly a number and even more so on here - only this week I met a guy mid/late 60's and although we had a wonderfully enjoyable meet (I am bisexual), he put me to shame and was at like a teenager - not complaining, just envious lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youthfull looking,friendly respectfull easy goin 60 year old here looking for friendship & fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love older. Too many reasons to list why

Mrs

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By *idCheshFunMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Older men 60+ are my fav x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A thread in praise of the older guy... thank the Lord...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always gone for older ,but at my age they come with a fee zimmer

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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

male half on this .been telling k how lucky she is for years .thank you, you very kind folks for agreeing.many a good tune played on an old fiddle.ha ha [we age gap couple been together a long time]

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What would you class as older? I tend to go for guys who are seven or eight years older than me but I wouldn’t class that as an older guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like to accept that from many people's perspective I'm am older man, but threads like this are reassuring for when I do!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you class as older? I tend to go for guys who are seven or eight years older than me but I wouldn’t class that as an older guy. "

Filters seperate the young and the older...

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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"What would you class as older? I tend to go for guys who are seven or eight years older than me but I wouldn’t class that as an older guy. "
just when i was on a roll could you stretch that 7 or 8 years a bit ?[well a good bit really]ha ha .i was up there for a while .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm loving this thread, 40 in a few weeks and starting uni in 3 weeks! Hoping for all sorts of student shenangains

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't feel my age.

Or act it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to be more respectful and know how to please a lady

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Tend to be more respectful and know how to please a lady "

Absolutely and this young lady knows what she’s talking about.

Pity, I’m a couple of years too late.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I don't feel my age.

Or act it.

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Or look it!

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By *ax55Man
over a year ago

Hertford

hi im 46 and fill a lot younger any younger girls here that would be interested in me

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

What are we saying qualifies as 'older'?

Is it simply "X amount of years older than me" or is there some sort of generic cut-off point, past which you're in the 'older' category?

Can there be a sub-category of 'baby-faced but older'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi im 46 and fill a lot younger any younger girls here that would be interested in me"

Fill a lot younger? Do you? Hahahaha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are we saying qualifies as 'older'?

Is it simply "X amount of years older than me" or is there some sort of generic cut-off point, past which you're in the 'older' category?

Can there be a sub-category of 'baby-faced but older'

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Me personally I’d call men over the age of 35 “older” since that’s 10 years plus older than me.

I don’t think there’s a set age though, 35 will be “younger guys” for some!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We are like a great wine, mature, tasty, full bodied and well worth laying down.

After you, that is....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your comments have made an old man very happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tend to be more respectful and know how to please a lady "

I just wish more guys knew that you don't have to be nasty to people to get your way. Gentleman are underated and overlooked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing like ageing disgracefully ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want toyboys.

Give me an older man who knows what he's doing and will take his time doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually go for older and more experienced than me. I like to feel as if I am being led astray.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally prefer older men within my decade and above, less hangups, not trying to prove how macho they are, articulate, respectful and can engage their brains can relate to life experiences and understanding of women's needs and wants..

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

So when we say older, what kind of age are most thinking about!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am older than most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I second the comments but a toe curling fuck would make me feel far better..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We certainly are "
we certainly do? first words of your profile is..... genuinly single male????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am older than most "

Not as old as me young man.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

Mrs has always liked good looking older men she can't say exactly why but she does think older guys are more courteous and more experienced

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By *hynot5642Man
over a year ago

Southampton

When you get to my age you are nearly always older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say I'm finding this thread quite reassuring!

I think we all become more confident and relaxed as we get older which feeds through into how we approach sex. I know it has for me.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"What would you class as older? I tend to go for guys who are seven or eight years older than me but I wouldn’t class that as an older guy. "

As the majority of profiles are searching for guys under 45, I would say 46 and above would be classed as ‘older’. I can confirm my inbox went noticeably more quiet when I turned 46

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually (not all the time) older men have more patience and stamina in the bedroom, it partly comes from age but experience is essential. That's why I say not all the time!

Younger men with experience or older men without experience don't have the right combo, needs to be age and experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a physically well kept older man. They are more confident in their abilities and aren't naive about what a real-life womans body looks like. Plus they can generally go for hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what counts as older?

30? 40? 60?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What age is older

I’m back and available if the right woman or couple arranged something

Pm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually go for older and more experienced than me. I like to feel as if I am being led astray. "

I’m a little older and would love to lead you astray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't want toyboys.

Give me an older man who knows what he's doing and will take his time doing it. "

You like your deep slow long screw on the beach then eh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How old is a older man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tend to be more respectful and know how to please a lady "

Would love to respectfully fill you and please you deeply longer harder

Alex x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you class as older? I tend to go for guys who are seven or eight years older than me but I wouldn’t class that as an older guy. "

49 years young maybe??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a 63 year old would I be to old I have found that as I get older I get more kinky have a look at my profile

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By *hegreyMan
over a year ago

Ripon

I was thinking im too old ??,there's hope someone near me thinks the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you class as older? I tend to go for guys who are seven or eight years older than me but I wouldn’t class that as an older guy.

As the majority of profiles are searching for guys under 45, I would say 46 and above would be classed as ‘older’. I can confirm my inbox went noticeably more quiet when I turned 46 "

I’m 45, so using your theory I’m on the cusp.....Probably sums me up

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm reading this thread with my hotlist out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what counts as older?

30? 40? 60?"

Everyone’s definition of older will be different.

For me it’s 35+ but that’s because of my age, no doubt as I get older my definition of older will get higher up in age!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get alot of looks from younger women. When I was 20, I fancied older women, so I understand why some younger women go for the older man.

Last year, I went to bed with a 68yrs woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am passed it. Only person who looks at me is my self in the mirror lol

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By *eter56Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm 56 that's not old - is it?

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By *otplumMan
over a year ago

Margate


"I'm 56 that's not old - is it?"

I don't think so! I am still as randy as ever, difference is I like to take my time now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like older men. No idea why.

A lot of the porn i watch is older male based.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 56 that's not old - is it?"

Will be to some, won’t be to others.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

What’s that song about the oldest swinger in town? Lol lol I certainly find middle aged men attractive and there seem to be lots of guys of that age who want to try things out and I’m always happy to assist

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Her seems to like this older man! Not sure why - I think she may just be after my bus pass

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford

I'm quite at ease with being called an older man at 46. The only frustration is that it seems 45 is a common upper age limit. Personally I prefer to base my attraction on the person more than a specific age, but then I would say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you need to remember is older guys have the experience,,,if they can remember what their old man is for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you need to remember is older guys have the experience,,,if they can remember what their old man is for "

Experience and age don’t always come together.

I’ve met older men who haven’t a clue what they’re doing in the bedroom and I’ve met guys my own age who are amazing in bed.

It’s all about the individual.

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By *ustard_keen_ukMan
over a year ago

Bermondsey

Obvious question....bit what kind of older men

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By *rTouretteMan
over a year ago

Muswell Hill


"Good morning ladies x

46 is a good age "

I quite agree. I hear 47 will be the must have age soon

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford


"Obvious question....bit what kind of older men"

Men, that are older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are we saying qualifies as 'older'?

Is it simply "X amount of years older than me" or is there some sort of generic cut-off point, past which you're in the 'older' category?

Can there be a sub-category of 'baby-faced but older'

Me personally I’d call men over the age of 35 “older” since that’s 10 years plus older than me.

I don’t think there’s a set age though, 35 will be “younger guys” for some! "

Feeling old now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you need to remember is older guys have the experience,,,if they can remember what their old man is for

Experience and age don’t always come together.

I’ve met older men who haven’t a clue what they’re doing in the bedroom and I’ve met guys my own age who are amazing in bed.

It’s all about the individual. "

Well im 60,experienced,and i know my way round a girls body.

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

52 and still have moments .i may retire one day but it’s fun to grow old disgracefully x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the older we get, the more comfortable we become with ourselves.. That specific kind of confidence is inherently sexy.. as is the intellectual and sexual experience they possess (generally speaking). Maybe older men want more than just the usual clink-clank train track fuck.. Probably because they've already done that.. and so the persuit of pleasure demands something more intense, like connection and passion and etc.

Either way, their prowess is definitely there.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Good morning ladies x

46 is a good age

I quite agree. I hear 47 will be the must have age soon "

I'm 47 in fabyears

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

It’s a well known fact that older men make better lovers. Why else would the rather gorgeous Melana be with Donald?

Have I spelt her name right?

I am at my sexual peak, with a cock to die for, I am something of a catch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always had a thing for older men and I have been with a lot older than me. I just seem to have more fun. Still not ruling out the younger men haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My brain still writes cheques my body can't deliver

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By *av_55Man
over a year ago

NE

From the older man’s perspective I think it’s probably more to do with the gentleman thing and the way we conduct ourselves at clubs,party’s and socials be it for a meet or play

But by the same token some younger chaps I have socialised with are wiser than there years

Plus there stamina helps.. alas not there choice of attire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older than what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find older men so attractive so I bagged myself one I must admit he gets attention wherever we go always has

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"I find older men so attractive so I bagged myself one I must admit he gets attention wherever we go always has "

We have a similar age difference and struggle to meet couples to swap with sometimes... even though I don’t consider 46 as particularly old!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"What would you class as older? I tend to go for guys who are seven or eight years older than me but I wouldn’t class that as an older guy.

As the majority of profiles are searching for guys under 45, I would say 46 and above would be classed as ‘older’. I can confirm my inbox went noticeably more quiet when I turned 46

I’m 45, so using your theory I’m on the cusp.....Probably sums me up "

Make the most of your remaining days of 45 mate, your profile will fall outside many local searches once you turn 46

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am glad to be in that group... older men... we are in no rush to get finished... we know what we are doing... and take pleasure in everything...

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

And of course we are always fucking grateful. Just don’t expect us to remember, oh, remember what? I got it - your name!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

We get better with age. I'm certainly much better in pretty much every way than when I was a kid.

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

govan

How old is older? I'm 41! Past it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How old is older? I'm 41! Past it? "
if your past it im dead

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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"How old is older? I'm 41! Past it? if your past it im dead "
ha ha male half still spunking a couple times a day .want to be the 1st fabber to get to the age range 99.and get meets .

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

And we take our time eating pussy ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They say age is just a number, but who likes older men and why?"
quantify older I don't feel old but then to a 20 year old I am

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By *teven12ABCMan
over a year ago

Wigan lancs

older guys know what they want

and get straight down to it

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By *ameraman7Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

There’s hope for me still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wife here- I'm attracted to certain types of older men "

Happy to see if I am that type lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer the older man now. Far better company in and out of the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How old is older? I'm 41! Past it? if your past it im dead ha ha male half still spunking a couple times a day .want to be the 1st fabber to get to the age range 99.and get meets ."
if you do .let me know and i will message her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I much prefer the older man now. Far better company in and out of the bedroom "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks we try our best

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"They say age is just a number, but who likes older men and why?"

An older man, older than me.....would be.....ancient

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"They say age is just a number, but who likes older men and why?"

They tend to be more respectful, not chavs and not dingbats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They say age is just a number, but who likes older men and why?

An older man, older than me.....would be.....ancient

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ancient here

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By *itguy21066Man
over a year ago

leicester

Male coughs and steps forward to see what females might say about him as an older guy???

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By *etsplay200Couple
over a year ago

Hagley

Feels naughty. ... especially with the school uniform on.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"They say age is just a number, but who likes older men and why?

An older man, older than me.....would be.....ancient

ancient here "

You don’t look it from this angle.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think I listen more now, be more subtle in my approach and feel comfortable about who I am and what I want.

If that’s makes me more attractive, due to my experience then great.

But if you don’t fancy me then I shall be in my den and I won’t give you the password to get in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to think I listen more now, be more subtle in my approach and feel comfortable about who I am and what I want.

If that’s makes me more attractive, due to my experience then great.

But if you don’t fancy me then I shall be in my den and I won’t give you the password to get in "
sexy

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By *rofessJayWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Older men are more confident, often adventurous and can be so naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the older we get, the more comfortable we become with ourselves.. That specific kind of confidence is inherently sexy.. as is the intellectual and sexual experience they possess (generally speaking). Maybe older men want more than just the usual clink-clank train track fuck.. Probably because they've already done that.. and so the persuit of pleasure demands something more intense, like connection and passion and etc.

Either way, their prowess is definitely there. "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quietly looking forward to being an older gentleman, I look young for my age now so hopefully that carries on and I get all the girls who like old dudes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think us older guys in general are more respectful too. If I message some one and they aren't interested then I wouldn't dream of bombarding them with messages and being rude to them. Just move on and except it for what it is. Been fortunate to meet a gorgeous woman in her late 20s a few times now and she certainly appreciates an older guy who ensures that her pleasure is the priority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Older men are more confident, often adventurous and can be so naughty"

opss….hit wrong tab again ……

oh you say the nicest of things lol xxx - sadly not all women would share that view point and some - not all - put any man over 40 in the "dirty old man" category and add into that, a Bisexual man, we are scuppered lol

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.


"I don't want toyboys.

Give me an older man who knows what he's doing and will take his time doing it. "
Ah, a desirable woman who appreciates a gentleman. Fab.

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By *rickyd72Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I do appreciate the positive comments on this thread. I definitely fit into the category of "older man".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think us older guys in general are more respectful too. If I message some one and they aren't interested then I wouldn't dream of bombarding them with messages and being rude to them. Just move on and except it for what it is. Been fortunate to meet a gorgeous woman in her late 20s a few times now and she certainly appreciates an older guy who ensures that her pleasure is the priority."

Not all.

I’m only interested in older guys 35+ and I still get bombarded and get abuse when polite.

From my experience being older doesn’t automatically mean you’re more respectful.

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By *rickyd72Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I think us older guys in general are more respectful too. If I message some one and they aren't interested then I wouldn't dream of bombarding them with messages and being rude to them. Just move on and except it for what it is. Been fortunate to meet a gorgeous woman in her late 20s a few times now and she certainly appreciates an older guy who ensures that her pleasure is the priority.

Not all.

I’m only interested in older guys 35+ and I still get bombarded and get abuse when polite.

From my experience being older doesn’t automatically mean you’re more respectful. "
that's a shame. And shame on the disrespectful guys on here, whatever their age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think us older guys in general are more respectful too. If I message some one and they aren't interested then I wouldn't dream of bombarding them with messages and being rude to them. Just move on and except it for what it is. Been fortunate to meet a gorgeous woman in her late 20s a few times now and she certainly appreciates an older guy who ensures that her pleasure is the priority.

Not all.

I’m only interested in older guys 35+ and I still get bombarded and get abuse when polite.

From my experience being older doesn’t automatically mean you’re more respectful. that's a shame. And shame on the disrespectful guys on here, whatever their age."

It sure is.

People of all ages can be nasty, disrespectful, rude and abusive.

I don’t think you just get to a certain age overnight and become a better person or more respectful, you either are or you aren’t.

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By *rickyd72Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I think us older guys in general are more respectful too. If I message some one and they aren't interested then I wouldn't dream of bombarding them with messages and being rude to them. Just move on and except it for what it is. Been fortunate to meet a gorgeous woman in her late 20s a few times now and she certainly appreciates an older guy who ensures that her pleasure is the priority.

Not all.

I’m only interested in older guys 35+ and I still get bombarded and get abuse when polite.

From my experience being older doesn’t automatically mean you’re more respectful. that's a shame. And shame on the disrespectful guys on here, whatever their age.

It sure is.

People of all ages can be nasty, disrespectful, rude and abusive.

I don’t think you just get to a certain age overnight and become a better person or more respectful, you either are or you aren’t. "
how very true. I'm sorry you have to endure nasty, disrespectful, rude and abusive messages on here. There is no excuse for it at all in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a fair point the kind ladues have made. Also beeb told by ladies of all ages that us older men are very atfentive to the wlmans wants, needs and desires unlike some younger blokes (and before the young brigaade slag me off- i am nit generalising i did say sone younger ones)

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By *rofessJayWoman
over a year ago

wherever


"Older men are more confident, often adventurous and can be so naughty

opss….hit wrong tab again ……

oh you say the nicest of things lol xxx - sadly not all women would share that view point and some - not all - put any man over 40 in the "dirty old man" category and add into that, a Bisexual man, we are scuppered lol

I had one older guy that I was talking too - got me so worked up just reading his msgs and fantasies

"

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By *ndulge101Couple
over a year ago

Village life in West Yorks

Jay loves to be taken by an older man as long as she makes him good and hard first

Just a bit kinky that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the older guy xx

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By *otYourUsualGirlWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

I like mature men who know the more intricate parts of mental domination. That usually comes with age.

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By *unkkMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

When does an older man become too old?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 46,seeking older xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They say age is just a number, but who likes older men and why?

An older man, older than me.....would be.....ancient

ancient here

You don’t look it from this angle....."
which angle are you looking at me from

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By *ice but naughty80Man
over a year ago

ayrshire


"Grey pubes. Fuck....didn't see THAT coming....??"

Yip. Found that out a while ago. Looked down and it looked like I was getting gobbled by Santa

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"They say age is just a number, but who likes older men and why?

An older man, older than me.....would be.....ancient

ancient here "

Even more ancient here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might possibly be too old, deffo ancient, vintage, veteran, or whatever the next oldest is

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Age isn't just a number and I've always preferred older men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age isn't just a number and I've always preferred older men."
ttl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my point of view, a young sexy woman who has a liking for older men turns me on more than a woman at a similar age to me. Being 47 will put some women off but the ones that aren't are for me, the holy grail lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Age isn't just a number and I've always preferred older men."
hello there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When does an older man become too old?

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When you don't see them again.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

This thread has a certain amount of interest '). 50 but full of life x

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By *icegentglosMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Where are all the oldie lovers ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the older guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this is music to my ears ,so many times I read profiles and see the age limits up to 50 now I've turned 51,what am I supposed to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older by definition is a relative term. For most women and couples on here I am not just older but simply old and outside their stated age range. I am not complaining because that is perfectly understandable and I am a realist. Obviously that means I am likely to have a low level of interest but, like winning on the lottery, you have to be in it to win it.

Meanwhile the forums are a welcome distraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well this is music to my ears ,so many times I read profiles and see the age limits up to 50 now I've turned 51,what am I supposed to do "

You’re supposed to move on to women who’s age range fits your age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find i’m too old for the older men, as they seem to prefer younger women than me so i may have to start looking for a Toyboy instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older men suit me cause I'm an auld burd!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I find i’m too old for the older men, as they seem to prefer younger women than me so i may have to start looking for a Toyboy instead. "

Same here.. only the other way round

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By *oyeurs DelightCouple
over a year ago

london

Love grown and sexy. They know what they're doing and generally last longer too. Experience counts. So don't discount them peeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to meet an older couple xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U look a hottie xz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 50, I have better sex than any time in my teens etc. Finally learned the pleasure of sensual togetherness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im older, and lovely, and sensual. Dont do me any good though ??

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By *odjamMan
over a year ago

woodford

I'm older so there is hope for me yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 39 and my hubby is 54, I'd never go with a man under 50. They are far hotter, considerate and eager to please. We have an amazing sex life, could never get that with a younger man, they just bang away thinking they are doing it right haha

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

We don’t select friends on age but in our experiences older couples seem to be more compatible. There’s a certain relaxed attitude, good conversation and general fun about mid forties and above that just seems to work for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They say age is just a number, but who likes older men and why?"
you're same age as me I'm not old omg am I?

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

Busby

Hi I'm Andy and I am 103

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I'm Andy and I am 103 "
What did she say in the telegram?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching with interest

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I prefer older men (k). I'm 30 and I have never slept with anyone more than a few months younger than myself. I just prefer them older. My age limit is around the upper end of 50s but depends on the person

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By *ruesome-twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Hi I'm Andy and I am 103 What did she say in the telegram? "

That she likes older men

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