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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid."
maybe because it saves explaining it to all and sundry when they ask to play. Personally I just say not looking right now

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid."

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not just me then lol.

Great name by the way

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid."

Agree ... something's don't need to be that open .... but each to their own .....

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid."

I agree.....

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By *ools47Woman
over a year ago

Failsworth

I usually post it's bj and social week. Those I see more regularly know the score and benefit from a bj if we meet. And those that I have yet to have a social with know we can arrange a social.

Doesn't bother me what others put it's their choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually post it's bj and social week. Those I see more regularly know the score and benefit from a bj if we meet. And those that I have yet to have a social with know we can arrange a social.

Doesn't bother me what others put it's their choice."

I like this. A bit like steak and bj night. I’ve thought about putting something up to say not meeting this week but didn’t want to broadcast my cycle. If others do that’s fine though. We don’t need to be too coy about this stuff surely?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think on a site where people have statuses saying "come over and suck my cock" or " looking to have my brains fucked out" that women saying they have their period is too much information by comparison really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a swingers site where people have pictures posted of the most intimate parts of their body being stretched, filled with cum, and a lot more that I won’t speak of.

Yet it bothers you that a woman writes in her status that it’s her time of the month?! Menstrual cycles are natural, maybe she posted it so everyone who viewed her profile knows beforehand. I personally wouldn’t post it but each to their own.

I thought it was only 13 year old boys who got weirded out by periods... I guess not.

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By *ainteeKWoman
over a year ago

PERTH


"This is a swingers site where people have pictures posted of the most intimate parts of their body being stretched, filled with cum, and a lot more that I won’t speak of.

Yet it bothers you that a woman writes in her status that it’s her time of the month?! Menstrual cycles are natural, maybe she posted it so everyone who viewed her profile knows beforehand. I personally wouldn’t post it but each to their own.

I thought it was only 13 year old boys who got weirded out by periods... I guess not. "

Yes!!! Exactly this!!! We're all supposedly grown ups here.

Personally I wouldn't put it on a status, I'll just tell anyone who asks to meet, but if some people find it easier just to make it a status good for them. I'd sooner see a dozen "I'm on my period" statuses than a dozen unsolicited dick pics but guess which happens more frequently...

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid."

Fab is the Facebook doncha know. Expect pics of what people had for dinner soon.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Periods are still a taboo subject in the UK. I personally think it’s a private time for a woman so I would never post such personal information.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Periods are still a taboo subject in the UK. I personally think it’s a private time for a woman so I would never post such personal information. "

Its becoming less of a taboo and so it should.. no one should be ashamed to talk about it as the menstrual cycle is a huge indicator of a womans health! It can be affected by anything from stress to cancer.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Periods are still a taboo subject in the UK. I personally think it’s a private time for a woman so I would never post such personal information.

Its becoming less of a taboo and so it should.. no one should be ashamed to talk about it as the menstrual cycle is a huge indicator of a womans health! It can be affected by anything from stress to cancer."

So have you tried to discuss it in general life and seen the reaction? I sort of have done in the past just to ‘test the water’. It’s definitely taboo and really if it’s being discussed with men, they really do not understand the problem. I once worked with a chap who asked me ‘is it like a cut, is it sore and painful down there?’ I didn’t go into it as I soon realised that man had formed his own opinion of what it was.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally I wouldn't put it as a status but each to their own....suppose though it saves getting loads of "meet me now for a fuck" messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is a swingers site where people have pictures posted of the most intimate parts of their body being stretched, filled with cum, and a lot more that I won’t speak of.

Yet it bothers you that a woman writes in her status that it’s her time of the month?! Menstrual cycles are natural, maybe she posted it so everyone who viewed her profile knows beforehand. I personally wouldn’t post it but each to their own.

I thought it was only 13 year old boys who got weirded out by periods... I guess not. "

Didn't actually say it weirded me out so nice projecting there, what I find odd is displaying it for all to see.

Equating it too the pics of sexual parts and activities is a false equivalent as generally periods aren't associated with sex (and yes I totally know you can have sex, go horse riding or sky diving during your period).

I totally get the point that it saves time explaining why you're not meeting but I do think displaying it in your status isn't very classy. Just my tuppence worth though.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Some people have period play as a kink or fetish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a swingers site where people have pictures posted of the most intimate parts of their body being stretched, filled with cum, and a lot more that I won’t speak of.

Yet it bothers you that a woman writes in her status that it’s her time of the month?! Menstrual cycles are natural, maybe she posted it so everyone who viewed her profile knows beforehand. I personally wouldn’t post it but each to their own.

I thought it was only 13 year old boys who got weirded out by periods... I guess not.

Didn't actually say it weirded me out so nice projecting there, what I find odd is displaying it for all to see.

Equating it too the pics of sexual parts and activities is a false equivalent as generally periods aren't associated with sex (and yes I totally know you can have sex, go horse riding or sky diving during your period).

I totally get the point that it saves time explaining why you're not meeting but I do think displaying it in your status isn't very classy. Just my tuppence worth though.

"

It might be someone's kink to fuck a menstruating woman. I would rather that than poo activities.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Periods are still a taboo subject in the UK. I personally think it’s a private time for a woman so I would never post such personal information. "

You're right about it being taboo. At least we're past the stage where it was believed a menstruating woman could turn milk sour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is a swingers site where people have pictures posted of the most intimate parts of their body being stretched, filled with cum, and a lot more that I won’t speak of.

Yet it bothers you that a woman writes in her status that it’s her time of the month?! Menstrual cycles are natural, maybe she posted it so everyone who viewed her profile knows beforehand. I personally wouldn’t post it but each to their own.

I thought it was only 13 year old boys who got weirded out by periods... I guess not.

Didn't actually say it weirded me out so nice projecting there, what I find odd is displaying it for all to see.

Equating it too the pics of sexual parts and activities is a false equivalent as generally periods aren't associated with sex (and yes I totally know you can have sex, go horse riding or sky diving during your period).

I totally get the point that it saves time explaining why you're not meeting but I do think displaying it in your status isn't very classy. Just my tuppence worth though.

It might be someone's kink to fuck a menstruating woman. I would rather that than poo activities. "

Yeah I did mention that people have sex during periods.

Just to be clear I've no issues about periods nor am I squeamish and think it's taboo. I just find announcing it weird.

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By *trongbobMan
over a year ago

rochester


"Some people have period play as a kink or fetish. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I refer to it as shark week . I wouldn't put it in a status, but I don't see how it makes them less classy with it being a fact of life and all. Much better than the "who wants to come and swallow my load" ones I regularly come across.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I refer to it as shark week . I wouldn't put it in a status, but I don't see how it makes them less classy with it being a fact of life and all. Much better than the "who wants to come and swallow my load" ones I regularly come across."

Maybe it's just me then but I wouldn't put a status or send a message like that either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Periods are still a taboo subject in the UK. I personally think it’s a private time for a woman so I would never post such personal information.

Its becoming less of a taboo and so it should.. no one should be ashamed to talk about it as the menstrual cycle is a huge indicator of a womans health! It can be affected by anything from stress to cancer.

So have you tried to discuss it in general life and seen the reaction? I sort of have done in the past just to ‘test the water’. It’s definitely taboo and really if it’s being discussed with men, they really do not understand the problem. I once worked with a chap who asked me ‘is it like a cut, is it sore and painful down there?’ I didn’t go into it as I soon realised that man had formed his own opinion of what it was."

Of course, im very open like that. As i said its becoming less of a taboo not that it isnt a taboo anymore.

I would of put the guy right. I would of answered honestly any questions he had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a swingers site where people have pictures posted of the most intimate parts of their body being stretched, filled with cum, and a lot more that I won’t speak of.

Yet it bothers you that a woman writes in her status that it’s her time of the month?! Menstrual cycles are natural, maybe she posted it so everyone who viewed her profile knows beforehand. I personally wouldn’t post it but each to their own.

I thought it was only 13 year old boys who got weirded out by periods... I guess not. "

Exactly - I've seen far more offensive statuses.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is a swingers site where people have pictures posted of the most intimate parts of their body being stretched, filled with cum, and a lot more that I won’t speak of.

Yet it bothers you that a woman writes in her status that it’s her time of the month?! Menstrual cycles are natural, maybe she posted it so everyone who viewed her profile knows beforehand. I personally wouldn’t post it but each to their own.

I thought it was only 13 year old boys who got weirded out by periods... I guess not.

Exactly - I've seen far more offensive statuses."

Again not offended I said it's a little weird announcing it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I refer to it as shark week . I wouldn't put it in a status, but I don't see how it makes them less classy with it being a fact of life and all. Much better than the "who wants to come and swallow my load" ones I regularly come across.

Maybe it's just me then but I wouldn't put a status or send a message like that either. "

Its no longer an issue for me but I wouldn't it mention to anyone either but I wouldn't mention in my status that I needed to go to the toilet either. However I think requiring women to keep quiet about the fact that they're menstruating or suggesting that those who mention it aren't very nice is the thin end of a wedge, the other end of which prevents hindu women from attending temple during their period and means the practice of chhaupadi was only recently outlawed in Nepal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I refer to it as shark week . I wouldn't put it in a status, but I don't see how it makes them less classy with it being a fact of life and all. Much better than the "who wants to come and swallow my load" ones I regularly come across."

I also can't see what it's got to do with being classy? If they'd put "damn this shit, my cunt is bleeding like a waterfall and the clots are blocking the toilet" then I could see where that wouldn't be classy!

Women get lots of messages on a daily basis and just letting potential meets know that an instant meet won't be happening because they are menstruating is fine.

Much better than "who wants my load".

Maybe women on their period should not be allowed to come on fab?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Periods are still a taboo subject in the UK. I personally think it’s a private time for a woman so I would never post such personal information.

Its becoming less of a taboo and so it should.. no one should be ashamed to talk about it as the menstrual cycle is a huge indicator of a womans health! It can be affected by anything from stress to cancer.

So have you tried to discuss it in general life and seen the reaction? I sort of have done in the past just to ‘test the water’. It’s definitely taboo and really if it’s being discussed with men, they really do not understand the problem. I once worked with a chap who asked me ‘is it like a cut, is it sore and painful down there?’ I didn’t go into it as I soon realised that man had formed his own opinion of what it was.

Of course, im very open like that. As i said its becoming less of a taboo not that it isnt a taboo anymore.

I would of put the guy right. I would of answered honestly any questions he had"

I didn’t ‘put him right’ as he was a father of two and I thought it a touch weird he assumed we were walking round bleeding from cuts down there every month! I could not be bothered explaining to such a naive man. Then I wondered is this what other men think?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I refer to it as shark week . I wouldn't put it in a status, but I don't see how it makes them less classy with it being a fact of life and all. Much better than the "who wants to come and swallow my load" ones I regularly come across.

I also can't see what it's got to do with being classy? If they'd put "damn this shit, my cunt is bleeding like a waterfall and the clots are blocking the toilet" then I could see where that wouldn't be classy!

Women get lots of messages on a daily basis and just letting potential meets know that an instant meet won't be happening because they are menstruating is fine.

Much better than "who wants my load".

Maybe women on their period should not be allowed to come on fab? "

Yeah that's totally what I was saying . It's a bodily function and I think making it your status is strange and how many messages one gets is irrelevant unless you're responding to each and every one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid."
they're telling you so you don't waste you're time messaging them saying " do you wanna fuck now?" with a dick pic attached

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid.they're telling you so you don't waste you're time messaging them saying " do you wanna fuck now?" with a dick pic attached "

Funnily enough I've never done that but don't tar everyone with your brush.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I refer to it as shark week . I wouldn't put it in a status, but I don't see how it makes them less classy with it being a fact of life and all. Much better than the "who wants to come and swallow my load" ones I regularly come across.

I also can't see what it's got to do with being classy? If they'd put "damn this shit, my cunt is bleeding like a waterfall and the clots are blocking the toilet" then I could see where that wouldn't be classy!

Women get lots of messages on a daily basis and just letting potential meets know that an instant meet won't be happening because they are menstruating is fine.

Much better than "who wants my load".

Maybe women on their period should not be allowed to come on fab?

Yeah that's totally what I was saying . It's a bodily function and I think making it your status is strange and how many messages one gets is irrelevant unless you're responding to each and every one. "

To a point I agree. I don't understand why people announce bodily functions to the entire world. I've known guys describe their most recent poo in proud and graphic terms. I think though that women are so sick of being treated like pariahs during their period or it being implied that they're unclean that some of us don't take too kindly to being told to keep quiet about it.

I realise that you're just saying don't make a song and dance out of it if you don't need to though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I refer to it as shark week . I wouldn't put it in a status, but I don't see how it makes them less classy with it being a fact of life and all. Much better than the "who wants to come and swallow my load" ones I regularly come across.

I also can't see what it's got to do with being classy? If they'd put "damn this shit, my cunt is bleeding like a waterfall and the clots are blocking the toilet" then I could see where that wouldn't be classy!

Women get lots of messages on a daily basis and just letting potential meets know that an instant meet won't be happening because they are menstruating is fine.

Much better than "who wants my load".

Maybe women on their period should not be allowed to come on fab?

Yeah that's totally what I was saying . It's a bodily function and I think making it your status is strange and how many messages one gets is irrelevant unless you're responding to each and every one.

To a point I agree. I don't understand why people announce bodily functions to the entire world. I've known guys describe their most recent poo in proud and graphic terms. I think though that women are so sick of being treated like pariahs during their period or it being implied that they're unclean that some of us don't take too kindly to being told to keep quiet about it.

I realise that you're just saying don't make a song and dance out of it if you don't need to though. "

Yeah that's fair I don't think I put it across very well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I don't understand why people announce bodily functions to the entire world. I've known guys describe their most recent poo in proud and graphic terms. I think though that women are so sick of being treated like pariahs during their period or it being implied that they're unclean that some of us don't take too kindly to being told to keep quiet about it.

I realise that you're just saying don't make a song and dance out of it if you don't need to though. "

Exactly, very eloquently put as always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a swingers site where people have pictures posted of the most intimate parts of their body being stretched, filled with cum, and a lot more that I won’t speak of.

Yet it bothers you that a woman writes in her status that it’s her time of the month?! Menstrual cycles are natural, maybe she posted it so everyone who viewed her profile knows beforehand. I personally wouldn’t post it but each to their own.

I thought it was only 13 year old boys who got weirded out by periods... I guess not.

Didn't actually say it weirded me out so nice projecting there, what I find odd is displaying it for all to see.

Equating it too the pics of sexual parts and activities is a false equivalent as generally periods aren't associated with sex (and yes I totally know you can have sex, go horse riding or sky diving during your period).

I totally get the point that it saves time explaining why you're not meeting but I do think displaying it in your status isn't very classy. Just my tuppence worth though.

"

It’s not projecting at all.

If you’re not weirded out by it or uncomfortable you wouldn’t have posted this thread in my opinion.

Periods aren’t related to sex but it is part of the reproductive system, and a vagina is a reproductive organ so I really can’t understand the issue.

If someone mentioned they were sitting on the toilet having a number 2 then I could understand where you are coming from with the “classy” comment, but alerting people via their status that “it’s my time of the month” or “Mother Nature has turned up so I can’t meet” will most likely cut down on the “Can we meet” messages for those days. I really can’t see the problem.

Someone said periods are taboo to talk about, I’ve never noticed that, maybe the older generation consider it more taboo as it was when you were younger but these days it’s freely spoken about & there’s nothing wrong with talking about something natural in a discreet way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid.they're telling you so you don't waste you're time messaging them saying " do you wanna fuck now?" with a dick pic attached

Funnily enough I've never done that but don't tar everyone with your brush. "

But you’re tarring women who might mention their time of month to cut down on meet messages with the same brush by calling it unclassy.

I really can’t see how that makes a woman unclassy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid."

Why u stressing its a natural part of life do u moan when a lady has a baby thats messy too get a grip fella

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is a swingers site where people have pictures posted of the most intimate parts of their body being stretched, filled with cum, and a lot more that I won’t speak of.

Yet it bothers you that a woman writes in her status that it’s her time of the month?! Menstrual cycles are natural, maybe she posted it so everyone who viewed her profile knows beforehand. I personally wouldn’t post it but each to their own.

I thought it was only 13 year old boys who got weirded out by periods... I guess not.

Didn't actually say it weirded me out so nice projecting there, what I find odd is displaying it for all to see.

Equating it too the pics of sexual parts and activities is a false equivalent as generally periods aren't associated with sex (and yes I totally know you can have sex, go horse riding or sky diving during your period).

I totally get the point that it saves time explaining why you're not meeting but I do think displaying it in your status isn't very classy. Just my tuppence worth though.

It’s not projecting at all.

If you’re not weirded out by it or uncomfortable you wouldn’t have posted this thread in my opinion.

Periods aren’t related to sex but it is part of the reproductive system, and a vagina is a reproductive organ so I really can’t understand the issue.

If someone mentioned they were sitting on the toilet having a number 2 then I could understand where you are coming from with the “classy” comment, but alerting people via their status that “it’s my time of the month” or “Mother Nature has turned up so I can’t meet” will most likely cut down on the “Can we meet” messages for those days. I really can’t see the problem.

Someone said periods are taboo to talk about, I’ve never noticed that, maybe the older generation consider it more taboo as it was when you were younger but these days it’s freely spoken about & there’s nothing wrong with talking about something natural in a discreet way. "

Damn I'm the older generation at 40 that's it game over

Tell me how announcing it on your status is discreet again?

Don't know if you missed the part where I said I've no problem with discussing it just any bodily functions posted as a status aren't classy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid.

Why u stressing its a natural part of life do u moan when a lady has a baby thats messy too get a grip fella"

I agree.

It just reminds me of back in school when boys would see your tampon in your bag and start with “Ewwww you’re bleeding for a week” “You’re on your jamrag” What a horrid phrase!

Then when you needed the loo we’d slip the tampon on up our blazer sleeve or discreetly put it in our pocket so not to get teased. Women shouldn’t have to “hide” away or be quiet about being on their period because it makes some men (or women) uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid.

Why u stressing its a natural part of life do u moan when a lady has a baby thats messy too get a grip fella"

No stress buddy but why are you bringing childbirth into it that's a bit weird man.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


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Someone said periods are taboo to talk about, I’ve never noticed that, maybe the older generation consider it more taboo as it was when you were younger but these days it’s freely spoken about & there’s nothing wrong with talking about something natural in a discreet way. "

Menstruation is still a taboo in many culture. You're right when I was younger people didn't mention periods in the same way they do now but its due to us being prepared to break that tradition that its acceptable for your generation to be so open. Well that and the ad men with their white shorts, skate boards and discreet blue liquid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a swingers site where people have pictures posted of the most intimate parts of their body being stretched, filled with cum, and a lot more that I won’t speak of.

Yet it bothers you that a woman writes in her status that it’s her time of the month?! Menstrual cycles are natural, maybe she posted it so everyone who viewed her profile knows beforehand. I personally wouldn’t post it but each to their own.

I thought it was only 13 year old boys who got weirded out by periods... I guess not.

Didn't actually say it weirded me out so nice projecting there, what I find odd is displaying it for all to see.

Equating it too the pics of sexual parts and activities is a false equivalent as generally periods aren't associated with sex (and yes I totally know you can have sex, go horse riding or sky diving during your period).

I totally get the point that it saves time explaining why you're not meeting but I do think displaying it in your status isn't very classy. Just my tuppence worth though.

It’s not projecting at all.

If you’re not weirded out by it or uncomfortable you wouldn’t have posted this thread in my opinion.

Periods aren’t related to sex but it is part of the reproductive system, and a vagina is a reproductive organ so I really can’t understand the issue.

If someone mentioned they were sitting on the toilet having a number 2 then I could understand where you are coming from with the “classy” comment, but alerting people via their status that “it’s my time of the month” or “Mother Nature has turned up so I can’t meet” will most likely cut down on the “Can we meet” messages for those days. I really can’t see the problem.

Someone said periods are taboo to talk about, I’ve never noticed that, maybe the older generation consider it more taboo as it was when you were younger but these days it’s freely spoken about & there’s nothing wrong with talking about something natural in a discreet way.

Damn I'm the older generation at 40 that's it game over

Tell me how announcing it on your status is discreet again?

Don't know if you missed the part where I said I've no problem with discussing it just any bodily functions posted as a status aren't classy. "

I didn’t say specifically you, I’ve spoken about similar before with family and the older family members would mention it was taboo when they were young 20/30 years ago, you are 15 years older than me at 40 so to me would be considered “older”.

Saying “it’s my time of the month so can’t meet this week” IS a discreet way to say you’re on your period.

Saying “I’m bleeding from my vagina for a whole week and it’s coming out like niagra falls” is not so discreet. In my opinion “time of the month” is a discreet way of mentioning your period.

Again, I can’t see how mentioning something natural in a way as I’ve described is unclassy.

Some of the statuses “Need a pussy to fuck to shreds tonight my cocks hard and I want fuck and go” (actually saw that today) I’ve seen on here from some men & women are what I’d call unclassy.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's not something I personally would post and would think it would invite weird random comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Someone said periods are taboo to talk about, I’ve never noticed that, maybe the older generation consider it more taboo as it was when you were younger but these days it’s freely spoken about & there’s nothing wrong with talking about something natural in a discreet way.

Menstruation is still a taboo in many culture. You're right when I was younger people didn't mention periods in the same way they do now but its due to us being prepared to break that tradition that its acceptable for your generation to be so open. Well that and the ad men with their white shorts, skate boards and discreet blue liquid."

Absolutely agree and this was the point I was trying to make.

I’ve spoken with women family members about it before and it was taboo back when they were my age and younger, but not so now, that’s why I explained maybe older people find it strange when they see others mention it so flippantly.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid."

But it's not about you, is it.

Other people's profiles are exactly that - other people's profiles.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"This is a swingers site where people have pictures posted of the most intimate parts of their body being stretched, filled with cum, and a lot more that I won’t speak of.

Yet it bothers you that a woman writes in her status that it’s her time of the month?! Menstrual cycles are natural, maybe she posted it so everyone who viewed her profile knows beforehand. I personally wouldn’t post it but each to their own.

I thought it was only 13 year old boys who got weirded out by periods... I guess not.

Didn't actually say it weirded me out so nice projecting there, what I find odd is displaying it for all to see.

Equating it too the pics of sexual parts and activities is a false equivalent as generally periods aren't associated with sex (and yes I totally know you can have sex, go horse riding or sky diving during your period).

I totally get the point that it saves time explaining why you're not meeting but I do think displaying it in your status isn't very classy. Just my tuppence worth though.

It’s not projecting at all.

If you’re not weirded out by it or uncomfortable you wouldn’t have posted this thread in my opinion.

Periods aren’t related to sex but it is part of the reproductive system, and a vagina is a reproductive organ so I really can’t understand the issue.

If someone mentioned they were sitting on the toilet having a number 2 then I could understand where you are coming from with the “classy” comment, but alerting people via their status that “it’s my time of the month” or “Mother Nature has turned up so I can’t meet” will most likely cut down on the “Can we meet” messages for those days. I really can’t see the problem.

Someone said periods are taboo to talk about, I’ve never noticed that, maybe the older generation consider it more taboo as it was when you were younger but these days it’s freely spoken about & there’s nothing wrong with talking about something natural in a discreet way. "

Agree.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid.

But it's not about you, is it.

Other people's profiles are exactly that - other people's profiles.

"

Thanks for stating the obvious, appreciated. Obviously it's about me I made the thread that's how forums work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid.they're telling you so you don't waste you're time messaging them saying " do you wanna fuck now?" with a dick pic attached

Funnily enough I've never done that but don't tar everyone with your brush. "
I've actually never done that ever

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid."
I agree, definitely not needed.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Someone said periods are taboo to talk about, I’ve never noticed that, maybe the older generation consider it more taboo as it was when you were younger but these days it’s freely spoken about & there’s nothing wrong with talking about something natural in a discreet way.

Menstruation is still a taboo in many culture. You're right when I was younger people didn't mention periods in the same way they do now but its due to us being prepared to break that tradition that its acceptable for your generation to be so open. Well that and the ad men with their white shorts, skate boards and discreet blue liquid.

Absolutely agree and this was the point I was trying to make.

I’ve spoken with women family members about it before and it was taboo back when they were my age and younger, but not so now, that’s why I explained maybe older people find it strange when they see others mention it so flippantly."

Maybe. However there are thousands of years of cultural pressure behind the taboo surrounding periods. Certain sections of society are in the fortunate position of being able to talk about menstruation freely, go where they want and do what they want when they have their period but if you look at traditions in various religions you'll see that it doesn't apply everywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Someone said periods are taboo to talk about, I’ve never noticed that, maybe the older generation consider it more taboo as it was when you were younger but these days it’s freely spoken about & there’s nothing wrong with talking about something natural in a discreet way.

Menstruation is still a taboo in many culture. You're right when I was younger people didn't mention periods in the same way they do now but its due to us being prepared to break that tradition that its acceptable for your generation to be so open. Well that and the ad men with their white shorts, skate boards and discreet blue liquid.

Absolutely agree and this was the point I was trying to make.

I’ve spoken with women family members about it before and it was taboo back when they were my age and younger, but not so now, that’s why I explained maybe older people find it strange when they see others mention it so flippantly.

Maybe. However there are thousands of years of cultural pressure behind the taboo surrounding periods. Certain sections of society are in the fortunate position of being able to talk about menstruation freely, go where they want and do what they want when they have their period but if you look at traditions in various religions you'll see that it doesn't apply everywhere."

Very much so!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So we're all agreed. I'm an idiot and I should reconsider attempts at lighthearted threads in the future.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So we're all agreed. I'm an idiot and I should reconsider attempts at lighthearted threads in the future.

"

Now, where have I said you're an idiot? I thought I was having a mature discussion around menstruation and the attitudes towards it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So we're all agreed. I'm an idiot and I should reconsider attempts at lighthearted threads in the future.

Now, where have I said you're an idiot? I thought I was having a mature discussion around menstruation and the attitudes towards it "

No one said it just feeling a little like one for what I thought was just a silly thread.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

No one posts I not meeting because my piles are sore. Hehe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we're all agreed. I'm an idiot and I should reconsider attempts at lighthearted threads in the future.

"

You’re not an idiot.

Opinions are like arseholes and all that, we don’t have to agree but we can all agree to disagree!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So we're all agreed. I'm an idiot and I should reconsider attempts at lighthearted threads in the future.

You’re not an idiot.

Opinions are like arseholes and all that, we don’t have to agree but we can all agree to disagree! "

Yeah forums are good for disagreements. I should however think things through before posting. I was drinking cider last night I'll blame that.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"So we're all agreed. I'm an idiot and I should reconsider attempts at lighthearted threads in the future.

Now, where have I said you're an idiot? I thought I was having a mature discussion around menstruation and the attitudes towards it

No one said it just feeling a little like one for what I thought was just a silly thread. "

It’s not a silly thread. I personally think periods are private and not to be advertised, how I see it is ‘advertising’ it makes it come across as tacky! Sorry if that offends which is not my intention but the forums are for differing opinions.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So we're all agreed. I'm an idiot and I should reconsider attempts at lighthearted threads in the future.

Now, where have I said you're an idiot? I thought I was having a mature discussion around menstruation and the attitudes towards it

No one said it just feeling a little like one for what I thought was just a silly thread. "

You shouldn't feel like an idiot.

You've actually opened up discussion which can never be a bad thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Someone said periods are taboo to talk about, I’ve never noticed that, maybe the older generation consider it more taboo as it was when you were younger but these days it’s freely spoken about & there’s nothing wrong with talking about something natural in a discreet way.

Menstruation is still a taboo in many culture. You're right when I was younger people didn't mention periods in the same way they do now but its due to us being prepared to break that tradition that its acceptable for your generation to be so open. Well that and the ad men with their white shorts, skate boards and discreet blue liquid."

Don’t forget the dogs and the roller blades. I often wonder how many takes they had to film of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they are still up for playing, so will ensure only getting messages from guys that are too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we're all agreed. I'm an idiot and I should reconsider attempts at lighthearted threads in the future.

"

Maybe select a more gender neutral and less judgemental topic in the future, with more potential for smutty puns?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So we're all agreed. I'm an idiot and I should reconsider attempts at lighthearted threads in the future.

Maybe select a more gender neutral and less judgemental topic in the future, with more potential for smutty puns? "

Yeah maybe you're right lol. It's been interesting though.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"So we're all agreed. I'm an idiot and I should reconsider attempts at lighthearted threads in the future.

Maybe select a more gender neutral and less judgemental topic in the future, with more potential for smutty puns?

Yeah maybe you're right lol. It's been interesting though. "

What I would like to know is what do men think periods are like? Ha ha I await the strange ideas

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

Whilst some people are repulsed by it there will be those who enjoy period play.

Is it not possible them putting it up is a way to draw those to their profile who would enjoy it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whilst some people are repulsed by it there will be those who enjoy period play.

Is it not possible them putting it up is a way to draw those to their profile who would enjoy it? "

A red cock is better than blue balls right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have put a status up saying cant meet atm. Then get messages asking why. So maybe they say due to mother nature to stop the asking why messages

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Whilst some people are repulsed by it there will be those who enjoy period play.

Is it not possible them putting it up is a way to draw those to their profile who would enjoy it?

A red cock is better than blue balls right? "

Oooooh

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Someone said periods are taboo to talk about, I’ve never noticed that, maybe the older generation consider it more taboo as it was when you were younger but these days it’s freely spoken about & there’s nothing wrong with talking about something natural in a discreet way.

Menstruation is still a taboo in many culture. You're right when I was younger people didn't mention periods in the same way they do now but its due to us being prepared to break that tradition that its acceptable for your generation to be so open. Well that and the ad men with their white shorts, skate boards and discreet blue liquid.

Don’t forget the dogs and the roller blades. I often wonder how many takes they had to film of that."

I laugh at the tena lady ad of the woman zip wiring through the trees. I hope I never suffer from incontinence, I hate heights

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By *uck69696969Man
over a year ago

Towcester


"Maybe they are still up for playing, so will ensure only getting messages from guys that are too? "

Sometimes find this - and as a bloodhound I love a girl that has no qualms play when on. If she's relaxed about it and up for fun then why should the girl be frowned upon for playing during her period

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must admit i find it a bit immature for want of a better word ..

or copying it because theyve seen it posted elsewhere

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By *urse234Woman
over a year ago

somewhere in Essex


"This is a swingers site where people have pictures posted of the most intimate parts of their body being stretched, filled with cum, and a lot more that I won’t speak of.

Yet it bothers you that a woman writes in her status that it’s her time of the month?! Menstrual cycles are natural, maybe she posted it so everyone who viewed her profile knows beforehand. I personally wouldn’t post it but each to their own.

I thought it was only 13 year old boys who got weirded out by periods... I guess not. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid."
I've never put that on my profile update

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid."

To save people contacting them to meet, we don't do it, but find it quite useful,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i enjoy the taste of a woman when its her time of the month , remember as a kid when you used to play with the copper jar for hours and then by accident you would put your fingers in your mouth ..... taste the same

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"So we're all agreed. I'm an idiot and I should reconsider attempts at lighthearted threads in the future.

Maybe select a more gender neutral and less judgemental topic in the future, with more potential for smutty puns?

Yeah maybe you're right lol. It's been interesting though.

What I would like to know is what do men think periods are like? Ha ha I await the strange ideas "

Man up girls. A little tummy ache once a month, nothing compared to the hassle men have of shaving every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread Coquin - do you often batter hornets nests with a stick?

So just to join in the fun and throw my favourite pussy amongst the pigeons - how would anyone feel if we moved things back a few days and had a PMT warning?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid."

I couldn't agree more. It makes me cringe whenever I read something like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see women posting on their updates they cant play due to that time of month. Its a horrible feeling being horny or needy and you cant or won't play in that situation. I think women do it to obviously let the masses know but also because they just need a good cwtch off someone. Women can feel incredibly down on a period. Their moods are all over the place and they just want some TLC. Posting it is the only way some may get it. I think theres nothing wrong with it myself. Ive seen a hell of alot worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a swingers site where people have pictures posted of the most intimate parts of their body being stretched, filled with cum, and a lot more that I won’t speak of.

Yet it bothers you that a woman writes in her status that it’s her time of the month?! Menstrual cycles are natural, maybe she posted it so everyone who viewed her profile knows beforehand. I personally wouldn’t post it but each to their own.

I thought it was only 13 year old boys who got weirded out by periods... I guess not. "

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By *ightboy69Man
over a year ago

Torquay

Few ex gf's have loved playing during blood week , they were too horny not too ! And as I explained at the time there is always anal

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By *inny999Woman
over a year ago

blackburn


"Why on earth do people post statuses saying that they can't play due to the time of the month or mother nature visiting. I literally couldn't give a fuck about someone's menstrual cycle to be honest and I find it weird broadcasting it on your status. Maybe it's just me but some things are better left unsaid.

Fab is the Facebook doncha know. Expect pics of what people had for dinner soon."

You can almost see what some have had for dinner on here!

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