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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so me and mu guy just love what we get upto.. He really enjoys me with other guys as he watches... he's so kool..so many choices for me and such little time...

BUT i also love to watch him with a girl.. this is the problem... he is by no means rough or ugly but by far clean and handsome... so many girl not sure if they actually want to play...

Thinking about holding off on the guys until we find a willing girl for not just for him but to play..This problem is not to do with us a couple as we are nice friendly people and attractive too..

Guess all the guys will miss out until his time comes...

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

maybe having a pic of him too on the profile may help with the search happy hunting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nope it's not that..pictures are supplied and all come back positive...

It's the state of minds and the fact they don't really know what they want from the site that stands out...

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

ahh ok..well...that's the extent of my advice with no sleep...lol...my 6 year old decided at 3:40 he was done sleeping for the night...so I am a bit sleep deprived...lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bless you...

you will be falling asleep come mid morning...

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

I will have a quick nap after tesco delivery making sure I set the alarm to make sure I am up to collect the winks from school...lol at least this time he didn't wake up his sisters too...lol

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Maybe you could make your profile wording a bit more clearer as to what you have just said your seeking on here because I've just read it as your seeking guys.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

There is nothing on your profile about the male half or to attract single fems. half hearted attempt me thinks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i was reading your profile i would be very attracted to you and would love to see you and myself having fun with my partner, but there is nothing of your partner for me to even consider, which would put us off right away. we like a picture of the guy so its not half way down the line of exchanging email that we find out the guy isn't my type then its the awkward how do you say to someone that they aren't your type without upsetting them. so best to just avoid...

also the profile text doesn't really give that much away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You aske for people to be "creative" in their messages to you..... but you profile is a little basic, how about working on that a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so me and mu guy just love what we get upto.. He really enjoys me with other guys as he watches... he's so kool..so many choices for me and such little time...

BUT i also love to watch him with a girl.. this is the problem... he is by no means rough or ugly but by far clean and handsome... so many girl not sure if they actually want to play...

Thinking about holding off on the guys until we find a willing girl for not just for him but to play..This problem is not to do with us a couple as we are nice friendly people and attractive too..

Guess all the guys will miss out until his time comes... "

meet a couple ?

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


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meet a couple ?"

Just what I was going to say - you could get to do both want in one night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect that what a very large amount of people on here want.

I'm not sure that many blokes will be put out, since your not going to meet them until you have meet a woman.

Plenty that do and meet, all the best

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Why not try looking for a couple that you are both attracted to and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah go for a couple, that way you do both, and its a lot easier to find a couple than a single girl.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We do meet couples and for those that gave advice as to more info regarding female for male.. all good but why do it in a nasty way... saying and giving ppl advice in a good way works just as well..

to those people... shame on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple Play

Have you asked your guy what he wants?

Not asking this in a bad way.

We have been swinging for almost 2 years,

We only did our first MFF couple of weeks ago, TBH we were not looking for it, it just happened.

I J, have a high sexdrive did lots of untoward stuff before, but A my OH has a higher sex drive than me.

My point is i'm happy to see her having fun and being made feel special...maybe your guy thinks that too.

I'm sure A will be on later to put her point forward too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Couple Play

Have you asked your guy what he wants?

Not asking this in a bad way.

We have been swinging for almost 2 years,

We only did our first MFF couple of weeks ago, TBH we were not looking for it, it just happened.

I J, have a high sexdrive did lots of untoward stuff before, but A my OH has a higher sex drive than me.

My point is i'm happy to see her having fun and being made feel special...maybe your guy thinks that too.

I'm sure A will be on later to put her point forward too "

Yeah we know together what we want... but not many women like the idea of playing whilst i watch... shame .. so much fun to be had

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"We do meet couples and for those that gave advice as to more info regarding female for male.. all good but why do it in a nasty way... saying and giving ppl advice in a good way works just as well..

to those people... shame on you."

Sometimes I think posts may be misinterpreted... it's more difficult to convey certain things in written form than it is when they're being spoken.

I didn't think that any of the posts made by anyone were meant in a derogatory or demeaning way.

Anyway, hope you guys find what it is that you're looking for.

All the best

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