FabSwingers.com forum: TV/TS

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Help please.

How do I approach this minefield as I think I have fucked up meeting a simply stunning woman as I am not sure how to ask what physical stages someone who has TV/TS on.

Please don’t hammer me guys, I am trying to learn.

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

You'd enjoy Thailand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Help please.

How do I approach this minefield as I think I have fucked up meeting a simply stunning woman as I am not sure how to ask what physical stages someone who has TV/TS on.

Please don’t hammer me guys, I am trying to learn. "

I don’t think anyone HAS tv/Ts ?? I think it’s a lifestyle choice in some cases and a genetic calling for others

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has on their profile smart arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A TV (Transvestite) is Man who dresses as a woman, so if you like Cock then fill your boots.

A TS (Trans Sexual) is a woman who was once a Man! So if you like to put your Cock where a Cock once was, then fill your boots.

But given that your profile says "Straight" I would suggest that you are in that Egyptian River (Denial).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has on their profile smart arse. "

Ha ha just thought I’d clarify for you

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By *othrockercplCouple
over a year ago

Halloween Town

You'd need to clarify with them if they are tv or ts as there's quite a lot of difference.

After that it's a lot easier.

BROADLY speaking...

TV will identify as a man who adopts a female persona and will feminise their looks when in the other persona.

Whilst a TS is someone who was born in the wrong body and does not identify at all as the gender they were born in. They will go out of their way to fully live as they feel they really are, leading many to hormonal and even physical surgery to correct the matter.

Broadly speaking.

It's a bit of a minefield.

Mr GR

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By *aileyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Has on their profile smart arse.

Ha ha just thought I’d clarify for you

Y’all are so mean!

I’m also interested in this just for general knowledge. The person could be in different stages of transition if TS and if it was a potential meet I think both parties should know what’s up.

Also, TS is men or women that identities as the other gender. Not just men to women.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"A TV (Transvestite) is Man who dresses as a woman, so if you like Cock then fill your boots.

A TS (Trans Sexual) is a woman who was once a Man! So if you like to put your Cock where a Cock once was, then fill your boots.

But given that your profile says "Straight" I would suggest that you are in that Egyptian River (Denial).

When does a TS just become a woman?

(Or man, if going the other way).

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

dont ask, dont worry, just have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has on their profile smart arse.

Ha ha just thought I’d clarify for you

Y’all are so mean!

I’m also interested in this just for general knowledge. The person could be in different stages of transition if TS and if it was a potential meet I think both parties should know what’s up.

Also, TS is men or women that identities as the other gender. Not just men to women. "

Lol I wasn’t being mean Sexy Bailey

I may have read it wrong initially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A TV (Transvestite) is Man who dresses as a woman, so if you like Cock then fill your boots.

A TS (Trans Sexual) is a woman who was once a Man! So if you like to put your Cock where a Cock once was, then fill your boots.

But given that your profile says "Straight" I would suggest that you are in that Egyptian River (Denial).

When does a TS just become a woman?

(Or man, if going the other way). "

They don't apart from in name!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the info.

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By *aileyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Thanks for the info.

But your question wasn’t answered. What is the respectful way of inquiring?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the info.

But your question wasn’t answered. What is the respectful way of inquiring?

I would image being polite but to the point and asking but not being too direct and appearing rude - it’s a conversation too be had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask, it should not be a problem unless they are so far up their own arse.

It's not a simple binary choice, so for example someone could be living and presenting as a woman but have had no surgical procedures or be on hormones but still have A GRC certificate which is a legal document.

It's illegal to ask someone to produce it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My question was simply about how more info I can get about an area I know little about will allow me not to upset someone I found stunning and had no reason to try and upset them.

I consider myself to be bright and articulate but I still managed to upset someone with a question about apperience and I didn’t want that.

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By *iercedyvonneTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

As you said, it is a minefield and some get very upset about some trivial things.

My view is that if someone is respectful and asking questions out of genuine interest then I will answer them - it is good for the community in general.

But, we don't know what you asked and also don't know what you are looking for. I get some truly awful and vulgar messages, but it sounds like you're not that sort of guy.

Your best bet is to apologise unreservedly and try to explain you didn't mean to offend but lack of knowledge in T* matters has let you down. Perhaps ask if she would educate you so that you don't make the same mistake again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot see why anyone who has TV/TS as their gender would object to the question "I am ignorant of the transgender spectrum so to avoid offence can you tell me where you are at"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a tranny, ie I like to wear women's clothes and makeup. I go the whole hog, and try to look as much LIKE a woman as I can. I am not TS, so NEVER think I AM a woman. I'm also married, so some things should be obvious, I feel. I am not offended by questions like:

Are you bi?

Does your cosk work?

Are you on hormones?

Do you like your cocktouched/wanked/sucked

All of the above beat, "Howz u bbe?" any day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Further, if Fab were to break the genders down from TV/TS, into Transvestite, Pre-op Transsexual, Post-op Transexual or Crossdresser on profiles, it might help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am a gentleman and despite what has been written by some, I respect everyone.

I would like to tell someone but out of respect, it should not be on an open forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a gentleman and despite what has been written by some, I respect everyone.

I would like to tell someone but out of respect, it should not be on an open forum. "

How about maybe,not asking. Not asking about her physical attributes just yet,get to know her first. You may find your curiosity is satisfied during the course of conversation without having to ask the question directly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes it’s a good point and good advice.

I am learning fast!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it’s a good point and good advice.

I am learning fast!!!!!!"

If you like each other now,hopefully you'll still like each other no matter what stage she is at.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just now know one of the things that doesn’t do anything for me and I didn’t want to offend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just now know one of the things that doesn’t do anything for me and I didn’t want to offend.

Hmmm, if you couldn't bring yourself to get with her prior to surgery but you could afterwards,maybe she would be worth waiting for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me know how you get on. I love 'straight' guys chatting me up. Makes me feel like I'm doing something right

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nastynickers, I have tried to mail you so I could tell you but I cannot. I would like your opinion.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Just be honest open and polite, No dramas.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Honestly I really really was keen so I was! Well clearly not!

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