FabSwingers.com forum: When you send a face pic

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And the messages stop

That!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And the messages stop

That!!!"

Doesn’t happen very often but when it does ouch! Shakes the old confidence that’s for sure. I’m no Victoria’s Secret angel but no Mrs Doubtfire either

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

"And the messages stop

That!!!"
. I have mine on show sometimes but know what you mean can knock your enthusiasm a bit .if I upload a new body or cock shot I mite get maybe 15-20 likes ( mostly men ) .if I upload a new picture of the face doing my elephantmans stunt double pose maybe 3-4 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens, not often thankfully!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And the messages stop

That!!!"
you're ugly to them obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone is a match, in the great scheme of things it’s a very small percentage against the positive ones, 100s will like you so chin up and get on with it

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Maybe they knew you or you weren't their type,we can't all fancy everyone.

Don't be disheartened, lots more lovely people to chat to and meet.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

That's why I like to swap face pics early on before a connection or chemistry has had a chance to build - I fully accept that I'm not for everyone so by swapping pics early it lessens the disappointment if someone's not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One guy told me I wasn't mumsy enough when he saw my face pic. I can't win lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send em all to me ladies..I appreciate all faces..in my own unique way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens most of the time ... but c'est la vie ... i am still able to sleep at night despite the rejection

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By *ysonfuryMan
over a year ago

Stockport

There is always a bit of excitement sending that first face pic especially if it's to someone local. Will they know me what will they do if they do ha. Must admit the thanks but no thanks reply can be a blow but you can't be every bodies cup of tea

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By *ussex SpareMan
over a year ago

mid Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you're just too good looking, it knocks their confidence because they are not..

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By *ussex SpareMan
over a year ago

mid Sussex

Happens alot, I stay away from cock pic's as my avatar and send a face pic in a message but 60/40 no further messages, it goes quiet.

Maybe I'm just ugly?

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

We all get it. But yes it does knock you a bit but forget those ones and carry on. And there's nothing wrong with my nice smile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have our face pics public.. I have too many tattoos to go un noticed.

So.. eliminating the question of attraction to others.

Adam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta be thick skinned to be on a site like this. Just remember not everyone is attracted to everyone.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why my face pic is on my profile...filters that reaction so I can remain blissfully ignorant (until I see that I’ve had 650 views and only a hundred or so messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has different taste that's what makes life interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to send a face picture with my first message,which could be why I'm not having much luck, I'll admit I'm not the most photo genic man on here. But ever the optomist I'll keep trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to me every god damn time

it destroys me a little more each and every time... i never been confident with my facial looks...so fabs rejection has helped me realise that i was right not to be confident with my face...mentally its hard somedays..hate my reflections.....but life goes on and there is always someone else worse off somewhere i suppose so fuck it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always remember the first time I sent a face pic to someone- way way back. The reply came back "You're pleasant " Really !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened 4 times this week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know that feeling, OP

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"I always remember the first time I sent a face pic to someone- way way back. The reply came back "You're pleasant " Really !!"

Damned by faint praise!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"And the messages stop

That!!!"

They may recognise you or are not attractive to them.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I always remember the first time I sent a face pic to someone- way way back. The reply came back "You're pleasant " Really !!"

How utterly "nice"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always remember the first time I sent a face pic to someone- way way back. The reply came back "You're pleasant " Really !!

How utterly "nice"

I know!!!

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"And the messages stop

That!!!"

iv been rejected before its no big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens, block and move on, thus avoiding an awkward situation when you mistakenly contact them a few months later! Not like we’ve ever done that

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

Must admit hate that first face pic moment, especially as I don’t photograph well, the majority of people I’ve actually met for the first time after sending face pics say that they don’t do me justice, nice for the ego tbf.

And having a nice personality will always make someone more attractive in my book

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By *estaftermidnightCouple
over a year ago

Chorley

You can’t please everyone. Mark it down as their loss and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We're not particularly arsed tbf, it's more amusing than anything else, especially as we were only reciprocating out of politeness and didn't really find the recipients that attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keep my fingers crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why my face pic is on my profile...filters that reaction so I can remain blissfully ignorant (until I see that I’ve had 650 views and only a hundred or so messages

Same. I always have mine on as my profile pic and I always send one in my first message. I find it more disheartening on POF than this site to be fair, especially if you both have things in common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why my face pic is on my profile...filters that reaction so I can remain blissfully ignorant (until I see that I’ve had 650 views and only a hundred or so messages

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be more but I can't send due to filters

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I send mine to give people nightmares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send mine to give people nightmares

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awwww you're cute

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I send mine to give people nightmares

awwww you're cute"

Far from it

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By *eliciousKisserMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

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By *eliciousKisserMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Haha! Know the feeling! It really is a leap of faith. When you press that send button, you take a deep breath and hope you are not sending it to one of your Aunties - who unbeknown to you is a seasoned Fabber loool "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's someone you have never met

If it's someone you don't know

If it's someone who judges you by pixels alone

Why would it ever matter

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"That's why I like to swap face pics early on before a connection or chemistry has had a chance to build "

Surely once there is the connection and chemistry, the looks are less important?

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

"That's why I like to swap face pics early on before a connection or chemistry has had a chance to build

Surely once there is the connection and chemistry, the looks are less important? "

Yup totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much you can do unfortunately, you can't be everyone's type

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I know I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know I'm not

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Good?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a bit of a downer when that happens but like said above you can’t be everyone’s type.

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There loss

Onwards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only do it to crack their phone screens

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

It’s all part of the fab experience.

It doesn’t happen very often but if it does then c’est la vie. I’d rather meet someone that does find me attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I never send a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate that just a kind no not for me would do a little common curtiousy wouldnt go a miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting on replies and that’s before face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think you can judge by a pic

most people scrub up well or look better in the flesh if they make the effort for a meet......

social.............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I thought it was just me (& my mugshot)

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"And I thought it was just me (& my mugshot)

Not just you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It happens to everyone. Everyone can’t fancy everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I thought it was just me (& my mugshot)

Not just you

Well I do have a face fit for radio!! lol

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"And I thought it was just me (& my mugshot)

Not just you

Well I do have a face fit for radio!! lol

I don't even have that

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Total respect for anyone who takes the effort to reply even if no thanks, nothing personal taken as clearly looks are important rather than the possible quality within...

Those who can't be arsed to reply at all also inspire me....lucky escape as can't give you time of the day.....could you imagine quality of a meet with them......

Waiting for the onslaught.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens a fair bit, not really bothered, can't fancy everyone.

I've done it to women as well.

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