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Do ladies like their hair pulled and to be covered in lovebites.

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By *rotica OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

We had a meet with a really lovely guy..well until we got into the bedroom..when he pulled my hair a lot and started to cover my breasts in lovebites. When I told him to stop he said every woman loves this. Does anyone else not like this?

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By *aitlinRobCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Love bites are a no for me but I quite like some directional hair pulling. Partner needs to be aware of how hard they are doing it though and not yank the hair.

It's ridiculous to say that all woman like the same thing though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like it and if he didnt stop straight away id leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love bites equals lack of class

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

And did your male half not intervene and stop play?

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Live bites are tacky and childish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hair pulling, yes. Love bites? Hell no

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I like having my hair pulled in the moment but not lovebites. I guess *some* women might like them and not like the hair pulling. Or indeed dislike either. Or love both. That's all beside the point though - he sounds like an inexperienced and/or selfish lover if he believes 'all women love' such and such instead of communicating properly and seeing you as an individual. It's probably closer to the truth to say this is what *he* likes doing That attitude would have put me right off, I really hope he stopped when you protested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovebites? Didn't they disappear along with pubic hair?

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Lovebites? No no no!

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I'm quite partial to a bit of hair pulling and I'm possibly one of the few people who loves lovebites but only when done in very specific (not visible when clothed) places, by the right person, (so for me done by someone I am submissive to as a mark or a reminder of that)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love bites? Fuck me that takes me back to the school disco and slow dances to careless Whisper..

Lol..who the fuck gives love bites over the age of 16.

Now hair pulling...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No I don't,a gentle hair pull I don't know,lovebites definitely not.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Love bites?

That's a blast from the past. Do adults still do them after puberty?

And the meet still continued after you told him to stop?

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

He'd get a punch in the face frankly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hair pulling yes. Being bitten -Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate hair pulling but like love bites, before they leave a mark, so kind of biting and sucking my neck

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I like having my hair pulled in the moment but not lovebites. I guess *some* women might like them and not like the hair pulling. Or indeed dislike either. Or love both. That's all beside the point though - he sounds like an inexperienced and/or selfish lover if he believes 'all women love' such and such instead of communicating properly and seeing you as an individual. It's probably closer to the truth to say this is what *he* likes doing That attitude would have put me right off, I really hope he stopped when you protested."

I completely agree with this.

Any guy who started anything like that with me would very soon stop

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hair pulling yes

Love bites nooooo they are so trashy

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"We had a meet with a really lovely guy..well until we got into the bedroom..when he pulled my hair a lot and started to cover my breasts in lovebites. When I told him to stop he said every woman loves this. Does anyone else not like this?"

No I would hate both.

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By *ockandrollaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I'm quite partial to a bit of hair pulling and I'm possibly one of the few people who loves lovebites but only when done in very specific (not visible when clothed) places, by the right person, (so for me done by someone I am submissive to as a mark or a reminder of that)"

Spot on with your comments I agree with others you don’t want to be walking the streets with visible live bites

But I’ve had partners in the past who want to be bitten and marked especially when in the deep thrones of passion

I too like to be bitten at the right time and by the right person

So Visible bites no no no however at the right moment hidden ones yes yes yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate lovebites. I just find them to be very unclassy but love my hair being pulled. It's all down to personal preference I guess x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hair pulling oh yes! Love bites hell no! so not classy

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By *ools47Woman
over a year ago

Failsworth

Hair pulling has it's place.

Love bites no way I'm not 14 and hiding behind the bike sheds.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

Hair pulling is a no for me. As are love bites. I think what would have annoyed me most if I had been in that situation is his attitude to you saying you didn't like it. Shows that he was only there for his own pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a difference between a love bite and a bite.

Saz bites hard during sex. It is not a love bite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actual bites from my LTP I love.

He can basically do what he wants to me and I'll love it.

Has to be a deep desire for a man for me to enjoy anything but basic sex.

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By *rotica OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

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By *rotica OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"I like having my hair pulled in the moment but not lovebites. I guess *some* women might like them and not like the hair pulling. Or indeed dislike either. Or love both. That's all beside the point though - he sounds like an inexperienced and/or selfish lover if he believes 'all women love' such and such instead of communicating properly and seeing you as an individual. It's probably closer to the truth to say this is what *he* likes doing That attitude would have put me right off, I really hope he stopped when you protested."
Yes i kept telling him he was hurting me. My partner kept saying to him to be gentle and told him "if you scare her you wont get anywhere mate. Treat her nicely and she is incredible!" He wanted my partner to go out so he could fuck me alone. Thank god he did not leave. He was getting more and more frustrated that I kept stopping him and he got nowhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like hair pulling but I’m not a fan of lovebites they’re tacky!

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By *aileyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I'm quite partial to a bit of hair pulling and I'm possibly one of the few people who loves lovebites but only when done in very specific (not visible when clothed) places, by the right person, (so for me done by someone I am submissive to as a mark or a reminder of that)"

Me too! I love reminders the next day.

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By *r C Miss CCouple
over a year ago

llanelli

Mrs loves having her hair gripped tightly and then pulled. She diesnt like it being tugged if that makes sense

love bite are a no go for either of us..

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"We had a meet with a really lovely guy..well until we got into the bedroom..when he pulled my hair a lot and started to cover my breasts in lovebites. When I told him to stop he said every woman loves this. Does anyone else not like this?"

most definitely not!!!! i wonder where he got that idea from!!! maybe some do like it and not saying its wrong to like it ! but to say ALL women love it I can only assume he has not a lot of experience of women lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like having my hair pulled in the moment but not lovebites. I guess *some* women might like them and not like the hair pulling. Or indeed dislike either. Or love both. That's all beside the point though - he sounds like an inexperienced and/or selfish lover if he believes 'all women love' such and such instead of communicating properly and seeing you as an individual. It's probably closer to the truth to say this is what *he* likes doing That attitude would have put me right off, I really hope he stopped when you protested.Yes i kept telling him he was hurting me. My partner kept saying to him to be gentle and told him "if you scare her you wont get anywhere mate. Treat her nicely and she is incredible!" He wanted my partner to go out so he could fuck me alone. Thank god he did not leave. He was getting more and more frustrated that I kept stopping him and he got nowhere."

Sounds like a fucking dickhead

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I like having my hair pulled in the moment but not lovebites. I guess *some* women might like them and not like the hair pulling. Or indeed dislike either. Or love both. That's all beside the point though - he sounds like an inexperienced and/or selfish lover if he believes 'all women love' such and such instead of communicating properly and seeing you as an individual. It's probably closer to the truth to say this is what *he* likes doing That attitude would have put me right off, I really hope he stopped when you protested.Yes i kept telling him he was hurting me. My partner kept saying to him to be gentle and told him "if you scare her you wont get anywhere mate. Treat her nicely and she is incredible!" He wanted my partner to go out so he could fuck me alone. Thank god he did not leave. He was getting more and more frustrated that I kept stopping him and he got nowhere."

sounds to me he was a knobhead!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hair pulling, yes. Love bites? Hell no "

Wow stunning x

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

Im ok with hair pulling, but i hate lovebites. One guy told me he is marking his girls

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Hickeys? Really? Thought that was just for teenagers...

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"I like having my hair pulled in the moment but not lovebites. I guess *some* women might like them and not like the hair pulling. Or indeed dislike either. Or love both. That's all beside the point though - he sounds like an inexperienced and/or selfish lover if he believes 'all women love' such and such instead of communicating properly and seeing you as an individual. It's probably closer to the truth to say this is what *he* likes doing That attitude would have put me right off, I really hope he stopped when you protested.Yes i kept telling him he was hurting me. My partner kept saying to him to be gentle and told him "if you scare her you wont get anywhere mate. Treat her nicely and she is incredible!" He wanted my partner to go out so he could fuck me alone. Thank god he did not leave. He was getting more and more frustrated that I kept stopping him and he got nowhere."

Bloody hell - any sort of non consensual deliberately inflicted pain and he should have stopped the very first time and apologised profusely. He should been out on his ear the second time he ignored you - you have every right to stop the meet dead at any point if it's not what you want. What a bastard. I hope you're okay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hair pulling, slapping, choking all good, love bites? Hell no

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Im ok with hair pulling, but i hate lovebites. One guy told me he is marking his girls "

I'd feckin "mark" him lol

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Im ok with hair pulling, but i hate lovebites. One guy told me he is marking his girls

I'd feckin "mark" him lol "

Aye me too and he would stay marked!!!!!! lol

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Actually, that came out wrong. I meant if he'd accidentally hurt you he should have apologised. Obviously doing it numerous times shows it was deliberate and assault if you asked him to stop.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't mind my hair being pulled but love bites.....No way. We used to call them 'tramp stamps'.

If I was in that situation OP I've off stopped things and told him to go as he clearly wasn't listening to you. Or I would of expected my partner to!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hair pulling yes, love it... but not with someone I'm meeting.

Love bites look trashy to me imo

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I like having my hair pulled in the moment but not lovebites. I guess *some* women might like them and not like the hair pulling. Or indeed dislike either. Or love both. That's all beside the point though - he sounds like an inexperienced and/or selfish lover if he believes 'all women love' such and such instead of communicating properly and seeing you as an individual. It's probably closer to the truth to say this is what *he* likes doing That attitude would have put me right off, I really hope he stopped when you protested.Yes i kept telling him he was hurting me. My partner kept saying to him to be gentle and told him "if you scare her you wont get anywhere mate. Treat her nicely and she is incredible!" He wanted my partner to go out so he could fuck me alone. Thank god he did not leave. He was getting more and more frustrated that I kept stopping him and he got nowhere."

Then if he ignored you, your partner should have stepped in and stopped play immediately and thrown him out if he was at yours or removed you from the situation if you weren't accommodating. Having a quiet word doesn't always work with people like that unfortunately.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Hair pulling, yes. Love bites? Hell no "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every woman is different,and have different places where she wants to be touch and stimulate some women love to pull her hair hard but not every man knows to "read" his partener, some man ar to selfish, and is important to communicate even when we do sex.

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Unless it's was agreed on before meeting then it's a no go

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Of course not all women will like it.

Bitten black and blue and dragged around or even positioned by my hair? I LOVE it

Melting round about now at the thought *laughs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rotica OP   Couple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Some good lessons here.....I should have stopped him earlier...I should have made my boundaries clearer. In fairness after i saw the first one i went mad and told him no more but he insisted on having the lights off so neither me nor my boyfriend could see what he was doing. I thought he was pinching me. My solution was to get out of his bed and sleep in his sons tiny bed so he could not keep doing it all night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a meet with a really lovely guy..well until we got into the bedroom..when he pulled my hair a lot and started to cover my breasts in lovebites. When I told him to stop he said every woman loves this. Does anyone else not like this?"

I love the feeling of being given a lovebite on my neck, gets me proper going! However the actual mark of a lovebite I don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re two separate entities!

Hair pulling - yes // lovebites -no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a meet with a really lovely guy..well until we got into the bedroom..when he pulled my hair a lot and started to cover my breasts in lovebites. When I told him to stop he said every woman loves this. Does anyone else not like this?

I love the feeling of being given a lovebite on my neck, gets me proper going! However the actual mark of a lovebite I don’t"

I’m in agreement on this

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Hair pulling no thanks.

The right man biting my neck in the right place I find horny as.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Some good lessons here.....I should have stopped him earlier...I should have made my boundaries clearer. In fairness after i saw the first one i went mad and told him no more but he insisted on having the lights off so neither me nor my boyfriend could see what he was doing. I thought he was pinching me. My solution was to get out of his bed and sleep in his sons tiny bed so he could not keep doing it all night. "

The best solution would of been to show him the door

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

After tonight's session I love a good bite on the arse.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I'm quite partial to a bit of hair pulling and I'm possibly one of the few people who loves lovebites but only when done in very specific (not visible when clothed) places, by the right person, (so for me done by someone I am submissive to as a mark or a reminder of that)"

This

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By *uriousduosCouple
over a year ago

St Leonards

Love bites?!? That’s sooo 90’s!

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By *urhamjayMan
over a year ago

Durham

I've been surprised at the number of women who want hair pulling. No-one seems to want love bites.

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