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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any ideas how to explain your kinky side to your new partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her about what she likes, hopefully you will be asked. If she's curious, might be a good thing...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Tell them you would like to have an open conversation about sex. Note that conversation involves two people talking about something. Then say you'd like to discuss kinks and what you both enjoy to see if there's things you both enjoy or would like to try.

A sex life involves two people and they might have some surprises in store for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's actually very good advice. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only way is to say you need to talk to her about something, then talk honest and open.

Not always easy but there's no other way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show her your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you be with someone you can't talk to about this sort of stuff

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why would you be with someone you can't talk to about this sort of stuff "

He's trying to change that by asking for advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you be with someone you can't talk to about this sort of stuff "

Lack of communication is quite a common problem and often the reason for relationships breaking down.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Not everyone is as adventurous. She may be horrified. Depends on how much u like her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how long you have been together and if you see a future in it. Maybe put swinging or your kinks on the back burner until you have more data fab will always be here but love may not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any ideas how to explain your kinky side to your new partner"

Your new partner was very forthcoming with us, there is more to her than meets the eye. She's going to blow your mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Good luck,it's not always easy especially if you really like someone,you kinda don't want anything you say to put them off or visa versa you don't want to hear something that will put you off.

Hopefully she's open minded.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Show her your profile "

That's not really fair,he did say a new partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discuss it during sex, bring it up as a fantasy and see how she reacts to it and take your judgment from that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any ideas how to explain your kinky side to your new partner"
just sit her down with a cup of tea and say stay here I've got something to show you then go get changed into your knickers bra and suspenders and go back in room if she spits tea out she's ok with it if she swallows and cup and pinky are still sticking up then theirs a good chance she's your ex

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By *icvon 69Man
over a year ago

glossop

It depends who your being honest with i was married and could never have told her what I was about she would phoned the err police. thankfully thats done and now im with the love of my life and I put cards on table from the beginning explained what I was about and she excepted me for me I can tell her anything??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any ideas how to explain your kinky side to your new partner"

Yes, you sat so and so like to do this, what do you think?

If she says yes, you say do you want to try it?

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By *BCambsCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

I don't believe someone should become your new partner without an open and honest discussion about what you like sexually.

If you don't match sexually it's not going to work, learnt that the hard way!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would you be with someone you can't talk to about this sort of stuff

He's trying to change that by asking for advice."
thankyou a sensible response

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