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Transition from soft to full play

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By *mberandlenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

prescot

Struggling. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Him, Her or both ?

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By *mberandlenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

prescot

Both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Struggling how? If you both aren't comfortable with it then the simple answer is don't do it

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By *mberandlenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

prescot

Struggling to find a coupe we are both attracted to rather than the sharing aspect I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does it mean when people say soft play. I'm a novice and need some education.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Struggling to find a coupe we are both attracted to rather than the sharing aspect I think. "

We were the other way round. We started off full swop and transitioned to soft swing.

I find I need to be just as attracted for soft swing though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What does it mean when people say soft play. I'm a novice and need some education. "

It really depends on the individual. The main thing is that most people say own partner penetration only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go at your own pace , we are soft swap which has progressed with the right cpl

No hurrry or pressure to do anything

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By *ipi2001Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Full swap is better... The point is to find the right couple. Attraction is important... But also a couple who intends playing considering all people involved.its a combination difficult to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Struggling how? If you both aren't comfortable with it then the simple answer is don't do it "
whats the rush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Struggling. x"

Be happy with soft play for now. Let it come naturally, if it don't then it's fine. We are in same place and both say we will "know" when time is right

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By *mberandlenny OP   Couple
over a year ago

prescot


"Struggling. x

Be happy with soft play for now. Let it come naturally, if it don't then it's fine. We are in same place and both say we will "know" when time is right "

Good point x

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

What helped us was going with the energy rather than initial attraction.

When it feels amazing and smoothly flows, just go with what feels right at the time.

Lots of conversation, make sure you both are clear on your boundaries of it happens and ultimately enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If soft play is same room and playing with own partner, what is it if you same room swap partners but just for kissing, masturbation and oral but no penetration?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took us 10 years as softies , but when you find the right couple , it's really easy, you will just know

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