FabSwingers.com forum: Would you let your wife go to a swingers club?

By *innerdate OP Man
over a year ago

Leigh

How many guys would let their wife or girlfriend go to a swingers club either alone or with a friend, male or female?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this aimed at 'singles' or anyone, if anyone then yes I'd let her go with friends or on her own if she wanted to.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Why do you ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband says yes, if I wanted to go I could go

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

She has her own mind so she would make that decision, not me.

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By *ad BehaviourCouple
over a year ago

coventry

Mine goes a few times a month without me....i prefer private meets myself

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Absolutely, not an issue for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She has her own mind so she would make that decision, not me."

I was just writing this

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

Do you have meets on your own?

If so then she can go somewhere on her own

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I prefer the term "agree to" rather than let but that's just me being picky.

I don't think Mr N would agree to me going on my own or with male or female friends. He likes to be in on the action. I would only want to go with him anyway so there's no argument to be had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure, if she wanted to.

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

'let'? Depends how long it takes you to unchain her from the kitchen sink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as she has done her daily chores, forfilled your sexual needs, and is home by midnight.....

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

I often do, her last visit was on a Friday night, strangely she seemed to enjoy it

She will usually go on a Monday as it’s Bi night.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

My husband 'won't let me' go to a club without him, I have no wish to so there is no problem there.

On the flip side, I have given him the OK a couple of times he has gone to clubs on his own.

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By *rednwilma1Couple
over a year ago

york

Sure.. i would have no problem 'letting' her go

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We've been clubbing for years. She actually hasn't been on her own, but if she wanted to then I wouldn't object. But she's always shagged out after a night in club and sleeps in the car on the way home, so it's not likely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go with a FB. I 'tell' hubby and no, he absolutely is not allowed.

Life can be so unfair

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I quite like the idea of another guy taking Mandy to a swingers club!

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d definitely be happy with her going alone or with friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife never been to a club alone, but been to a few of our friends house/ hot tube party's alone

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By *hezzie BikersCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"How many guys would let their wife or girlfriend go to a swingers club either alone or with a friend, male or female? "

Not a problem with us

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

Unsurprisingly I'd love to take someone's wife to a club, he could be allowed to join later, but not acknowledge us, just watch from a distance until finally me and his wife decide he can join us. Just a horny scenario I've discussed with someone once!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My partner has no issues of me going on.my own

Hes even taken me and dropped me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she wanted to go on her own , be no harm ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many guys would let their wife or girlfriend go to a swingers club either alone or with a friend, male or female? "
If I had one I wouldn't but hey I don't so it's not an option

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

While she has never been to a club without me (not that I know of anyway) there wouldn't be a problem if she wanted to.

The only condition would be that she would have to give me chapter and verse when she got home.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Sometimes I unlock the chain and allow her to do things, obviously she has to be closely supervised by myself or another suitable male...

Frisky has been to clubs a couple of times without me but prefers me there.

She knows that as long as she's safe and enjoying herself I am happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I unlock the chain and allow her to do things, obviously she has to be closely supervised by myself or another suitable male...

Frisky has been to clubs a couple of times without me but prefers me there.

She knows that as long as she's safe and enjoying herself I am happy."
awwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, in general terms, would you let your partner go alone? I think for us, the pleasure is received by watching and then having your partner getting involved..... I wouldn't be too keen on S going without me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cee has no problem with me going to clubs with another guy. I have done many times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many guys would let their wife or girlfriend go to a swingers club either alone or with a friend, male or female? "

My partner would be happy for me to go alone, but i would have a problem with it (is a head thing!! Lol)

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I absolutely wouldn't

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By *icvon 69Man
over a year ago

glossop

swinging is for us a couple to enjoy Together either of us would not go alone but every relationship is different. Different strokes for different folks

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

Wouldn’t be a problem to me. She has never been on her own to a club yet, but she has gone off and played on her own with others and has meet swinging friends and played on her own

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Yup I go on my own and he loves hearing about it afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotwife been to both Chams and Xtasis with a male friend

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm trying to imagine any situation where I'd need approval from my partner...hmmmm...nope, can t think of one!

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Asking the same question and changing wife to husband, should be equal, but it doesn't have the same impact ..

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

"I'm trying to imagine any situation where I'd need approval from my partner...hmmmm...nope, can t think of one!"

Nor me lol i am my own person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs S would never need approval, but would also never consider going. The life is something we do together, an escape from the day to day and a naughty bit of fun between us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The very statement would you let her go seems to me that you think you are the boss lol we are equal here so if that’s what she wanted she would do it no matter what I said lol

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

To be honest I am flattered that you think I have any say in the matter.

I'm a foot taller than Frisky, considerably heavier than her but she is definitely in charge...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why not as my last relationship was an open one. I don't do jealousy.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Phrased like that, he can let the door smack his arse on the way out of my life.

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"How many guys would let their wife or girlfriend go to a swingers club either alone or with a friend, male or female? "

Let ? People are free to make their own choices ! Discuss is one thing but ask permission ? Hello !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many guys would let their wife or girlfriend go to a swingers club either alone or with a friend, male or female?

Let ? People are free to make their own choices ! Discuss is one thing but ask permission ? Hello !

Sexism is alive and well in Fabland.

Still, its strangely comforting

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