FabSwingers.com forum: What is a BBW?

By *upidscouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I mean size wise ..... My wife thinks she's on the larger size (size 16/18 her bra size is in the profile

) but I have seen much bigger than her in the clubs. Granted some of her curves aren't in the right place - her words not mine - but it seems a lot of profiles say not into big ladies & I don't know if that means her/us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally would class 18 to 24 BBW anything over that an ssbbw however everyone has their own opinion on this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a term I’ve never liked, if I find a woman beautiful I just do, doesn’t matter what size they are, curves are sexy!

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By *upidscouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

She needs a confidence boost at the moment (joint profile so she can fully read what I've wrote) but is still really self-concious about her size & nothing I seem to say makes a difference. Her tits are amazing but maybe we need to word our profile different?

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

To some people a bbw is classed as size 18 and over, for others it is anyone above a size 12.

It's subjective depending on who you ask.

Lots of people don't really like the bbw label. Just because I am big doesn't mean I will be seen as beautiful by everyone.

Regardless of what size you are confidence and being comfortable in your own skin is sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think at that size she is a bbw but that doesn’t mean she’s not gorgeous.

But not for everyone.

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

When I was sz 16/18 and 18/20 I classed myself as curvy, I'm a sz 32 at present and an ssbbw. BbW to me is more 20-24 but height can make a huge difference as does where you carry the weight. I'm classed as a pear shape due to the size of ass and hips even though I have huge boobs too

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It’s just a label. There’s no rule to it & it means something different to everyone.

She is whatever she feels she is - ultimately she has to be confident & comfortable in her own skin, and I’m not sure she is if she describes her curves as “not being in the right places”

I don’t really look on Fab profiles as I prefer to meet people in clubs, but judging from forum posts, the number of guys who love bigger girls is probably the majority on here ... and I’d also say that clubs are the same!!

Maybe try a few clubs & see if that helps boost her confidence - I know it does with a lot of ladies, as there are plenty of other curvy girls at club nights

Good luck!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a term i really dislike. To some people i might fall into that category and for other's i won't.

I'm far more than my dress size and don't want to be defined by it.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I mean size wise ..... My wife thinks she's on the larger size (size 16/18 her bra size is in the profile

I absolutely detest ‘bbw’ label. Buses are ‘big’ not women. Your wife has curves.

Guys please quit with ‘bbw’.

Same goes for ‘bbc’.

Labels are horrible and there are better ways of describing human beings....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit i really do hate the term BBW. I would rather be called fat cuddly chunky big curvy anything but BBW.

I am big but thats me. If people don't like big then please move along, If you enjoy big then stay chat and see where it goes but at the end of the day I am me. Your good lady shouldn't be ashamed of her size, We go to naturist clubs and see lots of bigger ladies enjoying life naked ad love to show off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the term BBW and don’t mind being called it at all, hence why it’s in my username!

I’d class a BBW as 18+ up to about a size 24/26 then that is SSBBW category!

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

"I mean size wise ..... My wife thinks she's on the larger size (size 16/18 her bra size is in the profile

I know this is not the question.... but I would question as to whether she is wearing the right bra size.... size 16/18 and wearing a 40F doesn’t sound quite right to me.....

check that the back is nice and snug with the ability to put 2 fingers under for comfort.

I only say this as I’m a 18/20 and wear a 38 back....

Also don’t get measured at Debenhams... they tried to size me at a 42F...... there was no way in hell my boobs would fit into an F... and 42 literally falls off me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean size wise ..... My wife thinks she's on the larger size (size 16/18 her bra size is in the profile

It can be big beautiful women or big breasted women.

I’d say it is women over size 18 who knows on the bra size. But men do type it in the search.

Upload pics. I hated my boobs till I come here. Long story.

It could help. It might not. She has you. Just keep reinforcing how nice she is to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean size wise ..... My wife thinks she's on the larger size (size 16/18 her bra size is in the profile

I know this is not the question.... but I would question as to whether she is wearing the right bra size.... size 16/18 and wearing a 40F doesn’t sound quite right to me.....

check that the back is nice and snug with the ability to put 2 fingers under for comfort.

I only say this as I’m a 18/20 and wear a 38 back....

Also don’t get measured at Debenhams... they tried to size me at a 42F...... there was no way in hell my boobs would fit into an F... and 42 literally falls off me. "

Sorry but I’m a size 14 an wear a 40 back also measured at debanhams. So it is subjective to the person.

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

"I mean size wise ..... My wife thinks she's on the larger size (size 16/18 her bra size is in the profile

I know this is not the question.... but I would question as to whether she is wearing the right bra size.... size 16/18 and wearing a 40F doesn’t sound quite right to me.....

check that the back is nice and snug with the ability to put 2 fingers under for comfort.

I only say this as I’m a 18/20 and wear a 38 back....

Also don’t get measured at Debenhams... they tried to size me at a 42F...... there was no way in hell my boobs would fit into an F... and 42 literally falls off me.

Sorry but I’m a size 14 an wear a 40 back also measured at debanhams. So it is subjective to the person.

It is subjective to an extent.... urs sounds even stranger haha. I only mention because incorrect support can lead to back problems

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

"I must admit i really do hate the term BBW. I would rather be called fat cuddly chunky big curvy anything but BBW.

They won't enjoy life for long if they drop dead due to their weight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ssbbw bbe etc. For me I like a larger lady. Large so when you make love you never touch the same place twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must admit i really do hate the term BBW. I would rather be called fat cuddly chunky big curvy anything but BBW.

They won't enjoy life for long if they drop dead due to their weight. "

Well that killed the thread

I know a few men who have dropped down dead , who weren’t fat! One was even a doctor. So stick that in your pipe

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

"I must admit i really do hate the term BBW. I would rather be called fat cuddly chunky big curvy anything but BBW.

They won't enjoy life for long if they drop dead due to their weight.

Well that killed the thread

I know a few men who have dropped down dead , who weren’t fat! One was even a doctor. So stick that in your pipe

Yeah, shit happens but more chance of an early death if you're overweight and eat a crap diet. Just facts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must admit i really do hate the term BBW. I would rather be called fat cuddly chunky big curvy anything but BBW.

They won't enjoy life for long if they drop dead due to their weight.

Well that killed the thread

I know a few men who have dropped down dead , who weren’t fat! One was even a doctor. So stick that in your pipe

Yeah, shit happens but more chance of an early death if you're overweight and eat a crap diet. Just facts. "

You can be curvy and still be eat healthy food not all big ppl eat junk food all day. Sometimes its due to a medical condition so stick you narrowmindedness up your bum

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

"I must admit i really do hate the term BBW. I would rather be called fat cuddly chunky big curvy anything but BBW.

I also don't like the term and there are a lot of women (myself included) that are big but not beautiful.

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

"I must admit i really do hate the term BBW. I would rather be called fat cuddly chunky big curvy anything but BBW.

They won't enjoy life for long if they drop dead due to their weight.

Well that killed the thread

I know a few men who have dropped down dead , who weren’t fat! One was even a doctor. So stick that in your pipe

Yeah, shit happens but more chance of an early death if you're overweight and eat a crap diet. Just facts.

You can be curvy and still be eat healthy food not all big ppl eat junk food all day. Sometimes its due to a medical condition so stick you narrowmindedness up your bum

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

"I must admit i really do hate the term BBW. I would rather be called fat cuddly chunky big curvy anything but BBW.

They won't enjoy life for long if they drop dead due to their weight.

Well that killed the thread

I know a few men who have dropped down dead , who weren’t fat! One was even a doctor. So stick that in your pipe

Yeah, shit happens but more chance of an early death if you're overweight and eat a crap diet. Just facts.

You can be curvy and still be eat healthy food not all big ppl eat junk food all day. Sometimes its due to a medical condition so stick you narrowmindedness up your bum

Haha. Curvy usually just means fat. Rarely is it a medical condition, it's normally people eating too much crap and not doing enough exercise. You know it's true.

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

"I must admit i really do hate the term BBW. I would rather be called fat cuddly chunky big curvy anything but BBW.

They won't enjoy life for long if they drop dead due to their weight.

Well that killed the thread

I know a few men who have dropped down dead , who weren’t fat! One was even a doctor. So stick that in your pipe

Yeah, shit happens but more chance of an early death if you're overweight and eat a crap diet. Just facts.

You can be curvy and still be eat healthy food not all big ppl eat junk food all day. Sometimes its due to a medical condition so stick you narrowmindedness up your bum

Haha. Curvy usually just means fat. Rarely is it a medical condition, it's normally people eating too much crap and not doing enough exercise. You know it's true. "

Try looking up hyperthyroidism numpty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how come BBC isnt the same as BBW

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

A lot of ladies I have met don’t like the term BBW but in today’s PC world a lot of people are scared to use the word fat me included.As far as I am concerned I rather have a chat see how things goes for me it’s about the character of the person not their size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think is a term to give women body confidence.....

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By *uddly biker chickWoman
over a year ago

Llandudno

"I must admit i really do hate the term BBW. I would rather be called fat cuddly chunky big curvy anything but BBW.

They won't enjoy life for long if they drop dead due to their weight.

Well that killed the thread

I know a few men who have dropped down dead , who weren’t fat! One was even a doctor. So stick that in your pipe

Yeah, shit happens but more chance of an early death if you're overweight and eat a crap diet. Just facts.

You can be curvy and still be eat healthy food not all big ppl eat junk food all day. Sometimes its due to a medical condition so stick you narrowmindedness up your bum

Haha. Curvy usually just means fat. Rarely is it a medical condition, it's normally people eating too much crap and not doing enough exercise. You know it's true. "

Let's try and educate the ignorant here a little shall we.

I can only speak for myself. In 2010 I was involved in a motorbike accident where I got smashed up badly. I was facing a leg amputation but they put it together to give me a chance. I spent months in a wheelchair not being able to walk. Even the physios didn't bother helping me because they never thought I'd be able to again as my injuries were that bad. I proved them all wrong and did my own rehab but only to a point. 4 years ago I gave up as there was no more I could do. I was however walking again but still couldn't do some things such as exercise!! I couldn't walk up stairs properly either so I resigned to the fact that this is how it was going to be. 4 months ago I found DDPY. Any one who doesn't know what this is then search for Arthurs story on you tube. A month ago, for the first time in over 7 years I walked upstairs like a normal person and lost just over 2 stone with more to go. I'd ballooned in size over time. Lost all my self confidence.

Oddly enough I don't even like eating junk very much.

Moral of the story is don't judge everyone the same. It's odd but sometimes the wheel turns a full circle and usually comes back to smack you in the face. One day that fat person could be you. Karma has a strange way of working.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s what you are comfortable with. But would probably agree with people above who said bbw is size 20+ and ssbbw is size 28+.

I use the term ssbbw because I think that clearly indicates to people straight away what my body type/ size will be.

However I think a lot of women me included who feel uncomfortable with the term because it feels like we are proclaiming we arrogantly think we are beautiful.

So I use the term because it’s helpful as a quick description, not because I like it or think I’m beautiful.

The reality is some people will find me hideous, some will find me attractive and life would be so boring if we were all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must admit i really do hate the term BBW. I would rather be called fat cuddly chunky big curvy anything but BBW.

They won't enjoy life for long if they drop dead due to their weight.

Well that killed the thread

I know a few men who have dropped down dead , who weren’t fat! One was even a doctor. So stick that in your pipe

Yeah, shit happens but more chance of an early death if you're overweight and eat a crap diet. Just facts.

You can be curvy and still be eat healthy food not all big ppl eat junk food all day. Sometimes its due to a medical condition so stick you narrowmindedness up your bum

Haha. Curvy usually just means fat. Rarely is it a medical condition, it's normally people eating too much crap and not doing enough exercise. You know it's true.

Let's try and educate the ignorant here a little shall we.

Oddly enough I don't even like eating junk very much.

Don’t bother attempting to educate the ignorant, they’re like that for a reason, usually by choice.

Some people find threads like this in order to troll/attention seek and tell us fat/overweight people how we are going to die early and how we should lose weight... yes doctor!

Thing is, they wouldn’t say it to the fat woman they’re sitting next to on the bus, or the one serving them in a shop. They usually do it behind their screens.

At the end of the day, fat/overweight/obese/chunky people can lose their weight someway, somehow... self appointed doctors who feel the need to jump on threads like this to state the obvious or troll can’t lose their ugly personalities & ignorance nowhere near as easy. If only!

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By *uddly biker chickWoman
over a year ago

Llandudno

"I must admit i really do hate the term BBW. I would rather be called fat cuddly chunky big curvy anything but BBW.

They won't enjoy life for long if they drop dead due to their weight.

Well that killed the thread

I know a few men who have dropped down dead , who weren’t fat! One was even a doctor. So stick that in your pipe

Yeah, shit happens but more chance of an early death if you're overweight and eat a crap diet. Just facts.

You can be curvy and still be eat healthy food not all big ppl eat junk food all day. Sometimes its due to a medical condition so stick you narrowmindedness up your bum

Haha. Curvy usually just means fat. Rarely is it a medical condition, it's normally people eating too much crap and not doing enough exercise. You know it's true.

Let's try and educate the ignorant here a little shall we.

Oddly enough I don't even like eating junk very much.

Don’t bother attempting to educate the ignorant, they’re like that for a reason, usually by choice.

Some people find threads like this in order to troll/attention seek and tell us fat/overweight people how we are going to die early and how we should lose weight... yes doctor!

Thing is, they wouldn’t say it to the fat woman they’re sitting next to on the bus, or the one serving them in a shop. They usually do it behind their screens.

Totally agree with you there. They can't. It's why I try to see beyond what the eye sees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You ladies are beautiful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You ladies are beautiful x

Oh stop it.

Flattery will get you anywhere.

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By *upidscouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I mean size wise ..... My wife thinks she's on the larger size (size 16/18 her bra size is in the profile

I know this is not the question.... but I would question as to whether she is wearing the right bra size.... size 16/18 and wearing a 40F doesn’t sound quite right to me.....

check that the back is nice and snug with the ability to put 2 fingers under for comfort.

I only say this as I’m a 18/20 and wear a 38 back....

Also don’t get measured at Debenhams... they tried to size me at a 42F...... there was no way in hell my boobs would fit into an F... and 42 literally falls off me. "

I've messaged you directly, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You ladies are beautiful x

Oh stop it.

Flattery will get you anywhere.

Oh I hope so x

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By *upidscouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Ever since having our baby at the end of 2016 & going through a lot of trauma in her life she's put weight on - IT DOES NOT BOTHER ME IN THE SLIGHTEST! She's beautiful no matter what her size!

We only go to club's for swinging, we've not been invited elsewhere or parties etc & she thinks it's because of her size. She honestly isn't that big, before the baby she was a 14/16 but now some of her 16's don't fit so she's buying 18's but hates it, there is a few guys on here we know as friends who have played with her who will totally agree with me - she's all tits!!! Those are huge, and absolutely amazing!!!

She's got a bit of tummy now but like I've said to her now life seems to be settling down together we can change that IF SHE WANTS TO.

I certainly don't see her as BBW particularly but just wanted others opinions. I'm hoping to get some stunning photos of her on here if we can find someone willing to help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the term "curvalicious"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You ladies are beautiful x

Oh stop it.

Flattery will get you anywhere.

Oh I hope so x"

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By *uddly biker chickWoman
over a year ago

Llandudno

"You ladies are beautiful x

Oh stop it.

Flattery will get you anywhere.

It does help doesn't it

Not like the other idiot who doesn't have a clue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a big girl and won't be labelled.. I'm a fat average woman.. simples. Only Willy Wonka sugarcoated shit.

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

I only stated facts. I didn't say ALL overweight people are like that because they're lazy and eat too much, just most of them. Britain is the fattest nation in Europe and not far behind America. You hear it constantly everywhere that the nation has to change their diets and do more exercise otherwise a lot of people will find themselves in an early grave. Do what you like though, it's your body. I don't even need to be saying any of this because it's well known.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"I only stated facts. I didn't say ALL overweight people are like that because they're lazy and eat too much, just most of them. Britain is the fattest nation in Europe and not far behind America. You hear it constantly everywhere that the nation has to change their diets and do more exercise otherwise a lot of people will find themselves in an early grave. Do what you like though, it's your body. I don't even need to be saying any of this because it's well known. "

And yet you still do, a lot.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

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"I must admit i really do hate the term BBW. I would rather be called fat cuddly chunky big curvy anything but BBW.

They won't enjoy life for long if they drop dead due to their weight.

Well that killed the thread

I know a few men who have dropped down dead , who weren’t fat! One was even a doctor. So stick that in your pipe

Yeah, shit happens but more chance of an early death if you're overweight and eat a crap diet. Just facts.

You can be curvy and still be eat healthy food not all big ppl eat junk food all day. Sometimes its due to a medical condition so stick you narrowmindedness up your bum

Haha. Curvy usually just means fat. Rarely is it a medical condition, it's normally people eating too much crap and not doing enough exercise. You know it's true.

Let's try and educate the ignorant here a little shall we.

Oddly enough I don't even like eating junk very much.

Don’t bother attempting to educate the ignorant, they’re like that for a reason, usually by choice.

Some people find threads like this in order to troll/attention seek and tell us fat/overweight people how we are going to die early and how we should lose weight... yes doctor!

Thing is, they wouldn’t say it to the fat woman they’re sitting next to on the bus, or the one serving them in a shop. They usually do it behind their screens.

Oh strangers on the street, every other week love to tell me how fat I am. I'm just minding my own business and never met them before but they still do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must admit i really do hate the term BBW. I would rather be called fat cuddly chunky big curvy anything but BBW.

They won't enjoy life for long if they drop dead due to their weight.

Well that killed the thread

I know a few men who have dropped down dead , who weren’t fat! One was even a doctor. So stick that in your pipe

Yeah, shit happens but more chance of an early death if you're overweight and eat a crap diet. Just facts.

You can be curvy and still be eat healthy food not all big ppl eat junk food all day. Sometimes its due to a medical condition so stick you narrowmindedness up your bum

Haha. Curvy usually just means fat. Rarely is it a medical condition, it's normally people eating too much crap and not doing enough exercise. You know it's true.

Let's try and educate the ignorant here a little shall we.

Oddly enough I don't even like eating junk very much.

Don’t bother attempting to educate the ignorant, they’re like that for a reason, usually by choice.

Some people find threads like this in order to troll/attention seek and tell us fat/overweight people how we are going to die early and how we should lose weight... yes doctor!

Thing is, they wouldn’t say it to the fat woman they’re sitting next to on the bus, or the one serving them in a shop. They usually do it behind their screens.

Oh strangers on the street, every other week love to tell me how fat I am. I'm just minding my own business and never met them before but they still do it.

Because they are bullies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My god your body is amazing,super sexy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also equate this term to women with large natural breasts. I’m not hung up on the size of the woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My god your body is amazing,super sexy x"

Thanks

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

And yet you still do, a lot.

Funny that isn’t it!!

Some people get their kicks by bringing others down & trying to suck the joy out of people’s lives - usually because their own is equally empty

Newsflash kiddo - we’re all gonna die. What counts is how much you live before you do.

I’ve just lost a close friend to cancer at 42. She was diagnosed 10 years ago & she has wrung every drop out of those 10 years. She’s probably lived more than most people in their 70’s.

She definitely didn’t spend it trying to make everyone else feel crappy.

Maybe you should take a leaf out of her book & try being a positive pippin rather than a negative nelly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My god your body is amazing,super sexy x

Thanks

Yours I have fabbed many times ,very sexy yummy body x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BBW means different things to different people and the term really doesn't bother me ..nor does fat, large, ample or whatever ..and a size 20 can look totally different on a 5'2" woman compared to a 5'8' woman... Just try and love yourself .. surely beautiful can be within and not just physical beauty which is very subjective anyway ..only thing I know is it helps if you're confident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is nowhere near a BBW. 16 to 18 Is nicely curved. and ver y horny x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrong emoji on the end of that sorry

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

And yet you still do, a lot.

Funny that isn’t it!!

Some people get their kicks by bringing others down & trying to suck the joy out of people’s lives - usually because their own is equally empty

Newsflash kiddo - we’re all gonna die. What counts is how much you live before you do.

I’ve just lost a close friend to cancer at 42. She was diagnosed 10 years ago & she has wrung every drop out of those 10 years. She’s probably lived more than most people in their 70’s.

She definitely didn’t spend it trying to make everyone else feel crappy.

Maybe you should take a leaf out of her book & try being a positive pippin rather than a negative nelly!!

I wasn't trying to suck the joy out of anyone's life. You make a fair point too. Though it's not great if you're too fat and unfit to play with the kids/grandchildren and restricted by your weight on things you can do. Diabetes and heart disease aren't fun either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you are gorgeous with a fantastic pic post.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

And yet you still do, a lot.

Funny that isn’t it!!

Some people get their kicks by bringing others down & trying to suck the joy out of people’s lives - usually because their own is equally empty

Newsflash kiddo - we’re all gonna die. What counts is how much you live before you do.

I’ve just lost a close friend to cancer at 42. She was diagnosed 10 years ago & she has wrung every drop out of those 10 years. She’s probably lived more than most people in their 70’s.

She definitely didn’t spend it trying to make everyone else feel crappy.

Maybe you should take a leaf out of her book & try being a positive pippin rather than a negative nelly!!

The OP was asking about dress sizes, not about health advice though. You've hijacked his thread a bit to go in your own direction. Why not start your own advice thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My god your body is amazing,super sexy x

Thanks

Yours I have fabbed many times ,very sexy yummy body x"

Wait til you get your hands all over it..

Umm.. ok back to topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly you don’t need to be saying it but you choose to. Whys that? Because you must have nothing else better to do.

You’re not a doctor, you’re not a dietician so I’m not sure why you deem yourself important enough to tell people why they are the way they are and what they should do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yet you still do, a lot.

Funny that isn’t it!!

Some people get their kicks by bringing others down & trying to suck the joy out of people’s lives - usually because their own is equally empty

Newsflash kiddo - we’re all gonna die. What counts is how much you live before you do.

I’ve just lost a close friend to cancer at 42. She was diagnosed 10 years ago & she has wrung every drop out of those 10 years. She’s probably lived more than most people in their 70’s.

She definitely didn’t spend it trying to make everyone else feel crappy.

Maybe you should take a leaf out of her book & try being a positive pippin rather than a negative nelly!!

It’s also not great when you’re terminally ill with cancer at 51 years of age and may not live to see your first born grandchild, that’s my mothers friend.

But hey, her BMI is in the healthy range so it doesn’t matter does it?

Focus on your own life and try to better that. I can’t be that great if you spend your days in this forum telling fat people they’re fat and should lose weight. Thank you so much for stating the obvious.

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Exactly you don’t need to be saying it but you choose to. Whys that? Because you must have nothing else better to do.

You’re not a doctor, you’re not a dietician so I’m not sure why you deem yourself important enough to tell people why they are the way they are and what they should do.

Well no, late last night when I first wrote it I didn't have anything better to be doing at the time. I've done a lot today though.

And no I'm not a doctor, although any doctor or dietician would say the same thing. Anyway, like I said, do what you like. It doesn't impact me tbh.

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By *upidscouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

This is my opinion too! I certainly never think of her as BBW!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly you don’t need to be saying it but you choose to. Whys that? Because you must have nothing else better to do.

You’re not a doctor, you’re not a dietician so I’m not sure why you deem yourself important enough to tell people why they are the way they are and what they should do.

Well no, late last night when I first wrote it I didn't have anything better to be doing at the time. I've done a lot today though.

And no I'm not a doctor, although any doctor or dietician would say the same thing. Anyway, like I said, do what you like. It doesn't impact me tbh. "

But again you’re not a doctor so it isn’t your place to be on here giving us the moral talk about weight.

Is your life honestly that unfulfilling that you constantly need to repeat yourself? This isn’t the first time I’ve seen your comments. Like a broken record.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Just make her feel good about herself.... that's all you need to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly you don’t need to be saying it but you choose to. Whys that? Because you must have nothing else better to do.

You’re not a doctor, you’re not a dietician so I’m not sure why you deem yourself important enough to tell people why they are the way they are and what they should do.

Well no, late last night when I first wrote it I didn't have anything better to be doing at the time. I've done a lot today though.

And no I'm not a doctor, although any doctor or dietician would say the same thing. Anyway, like I said, do what you like. It doesn't impact me tbh. "

If it doesnt impact you then why do you feel the need to comment. Its none of your business what anyones size is. What ive learned is someone who belittles some one over their size usually is hiding a fault of they own. Whats the matter? Ur winkie only grow to the size of a cocktail sausage? So you feel the need to take out your frustration on others. Lord above. Grow up and go find some one who actually cares what you think. Us girls are happy here with our curves

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By *uddly biker chickWoman
over a year ago

Llandudno

Exactly right. You don't need to be saying it. It's clear that she's already on a downer where her self confidence is in her boots. She didn't need that off you. I agree that yes many do overeat and yes many do eat the wrong things but if you've never been there then please don't knock people. Losing weight is as difficult as learning to walk again was for me. Think before commenting of the affect you have on people. Not asking you to say anything nice but just don't say anything at all if it's going to have a negative affect on someone even more.

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Exactly you don’t need to be saying it but you choose to. Whys that? Because you must have nothing else better to do.

You’re not a doctor, you’re not a dietician so I’m not sure why you deem yourself important enough to tell people why they are the way they are and what they should do.

Well no, late last night when I first wrote it I didn't have anything better to be doing at the time. I've done a lot today though.

And no I'm not a doctor, although any doctor or dietician would say the same thing. Anyway, like I said, do what you like. It doesn't impact me tbh.

Guess you didn't look at my pictures then lol. And if I want to comment I will. If you don't like some of the answers on here then don't come on.

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By *uddly biker chickWoman
over a year ago

Llandudno

Thata just it. We all probably have!!! A photo is only a small percentage of a person. The rest is even clearer to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly you don’t need to be saying it but you choose to. Whys that? Because you must have nothing else better to do.

You’re not a doctor, you’re not a dietician so I’m not sure why you deem yourself important enough to tell people why they are the way they are and what they should do.

Well no, late last night when I first wrote it I didn't have anything better to be doing at the time. I've done a lot today though.

And no I'm not a doctor, although any doctor or dietician would say the same thing. Anyway, like I said, do what you like. It doesn't impact me tbh.

Guess you didn't look at my pictures then lol. And if I want to comment I will. If you don't like some of the answers on here then don't come on. "

I actually agree with you

although I don't see myself as lazy, just clever and awesome enough to get other people to do things for me lol, and yeah I eat crap, and I know that I'm at risk of diabetes etc, but cake tastes so good

oh, and I hate the term bbw, totally prefer 'chunky but funky!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean size wise ..... My wife thinks she's on the larger size (size 16/18 her bra size is in the profile

It probably does sound strange haha. Totally agree with you. Having the correct bra, makes the world of difference in support an back problems

I know this is not the question.... but I would question as to whether she is wearing the right bra size.... size 16/18 and wearing a 40F doesn’t sound quite right to me.....

check that the back is nice and snug with the ability to put 2 fingers under for comfort.

I only say this as I’m a 18/20 and wear a 38 back....

Also don’t get measured at Debenhams... they tried to size me at a 42F...... there was no way in hell my boobs would fit into an F... and 42 literally falls off me.

Sorry but I’m a size 14 an wear a 40 back also measured at debanhams. So it is subjective to the person.

It is subjective to an extent.... urs sounds even stranger haha. I only mention because incorrect support can lead to back problems "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must admit i really do hate the term BBW. I would rather be called fat cuddly chunky big curvy anything but BBW.

They won't enjoy life for long if they drop dead due to their weight.

Well that killed the thread

I know a few men who have dropped down dead , who weren’t fat! One was even a doctor. So stick that in your pipe

Yeah, shit happens but more chance of an early death if you're overweight and eat a crap diet. Just facts.

You can be curvy and still be eat healthy food not all big ppl eat junk food all day. Sometimes its due to a medical condition so stick you narrowmindedness up your bum

Haha. Curvy usually just means fat. Rarely is it a medical condition, it's normally people eating too much crap and not doing enough exercise. You know it's true.

Let's try and educate the ignorant here a little shall we.

Oddly enough I don't even like eating junk very much.

Don’t bother attempting to educate the ignorant, they’re like that for a reason, usually by choice.

Some people find threads like this in order to troll/attention seek and tell us fat/overweight people how we are going to die early and how we should lose weight... yes doctor!

Thing is, they wouldn’t say it to the fat woman they’re sitting next to on the bus, or the one serving them in a shop. They usually do it behind their screens.

Oh strangers on the street, every other week love to tell me how fat I am. I'm just minding my own business and never met them before but they still do it.

I’m sorry to hear that. I’ve only ever had people shout at me in the street for being skinny, really skinny yes. But I was young an very active. Since putting on 5 stone. Only get people sing how big I am. Which is a lot nicer. No stranger has ever called me fat. Yet many would tell me to eat some food.

I hate body shaming. Just goes to show. It happens no matter what size you are

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 18 is BBW, I just met one and it reminded me why I like BBW's so much!

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