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Is it cuckolding or something else?

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By *exy_1231983 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

So I've seen an earlier post regarding cuckolding and wonder now what catagory I fall in to.

In a nutshell I have a fantasy about my wife being taken by somebody else. It's not a case that I want to be humiliated or forced to watch. It's more of a control thing. Being able to to say to the wife I allow that person to touch you and watch her being pleasured and being satisfied by another. Admittedly I would be getting my kicks being a touch jealous but also from being able to see her move with pleasure.

So the question is what catagory do I fall in to?

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By *addyAndKitten9Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Hotwifing?

Stag & Vixen?

Assumedly you don't get off on any aspect of 'humiliation' (which I would suggest is the key characteristic of cuckolding) but if you want a label maybe one of the two works.

We've just found it easier to explain our specific dynamic to all those involved, or those that ask, rather than using a (often inaccurate) label.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter?

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Does it matter?"
Exactly.. just explain what it is you both enjoy and take it from there...

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

Cuckolding is often used as a catch all term, often by those in the mainstream who have no idea.

I would say that “hotwifing” is a good suggestion of your situation. It’s still not quite as some would define it.

The important thing is that it really doesn’t matter. You can call it whatever you like and own it. Like taking back slut as a positive term.

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By *exy_1231983 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Thanks I do quite like the stag & vixen label. Time to try introduce the idea to the wife fingers crossed lol

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By *weeny_toddMan
over a year ago

kent


"Thanks I do quite like the stag & vixen label. Time to try introduce the idea to the wife fingers crossed lol"

I’m in the same kind of situation without the control I just like the idea of mfm mfmf with my wife being pleasured while I watch and join in. I slowly introduced the idea to my wife while in bed she was receptive to the fantasy of the idea. Then introduced her to tumblr so I could let her know what turns me on luckily for me she gets it too. Now just waiting to turn the fantasy to reality, off to PDI in September fingers crossed! Good luck with your missus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate labels. I’m constantly asked if my husband is a cuck (no, he isn’t.)

Go with the flowwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate labels. I’m constantly asked if my husband is a cuck (no, he isn’t.)

Go with the flowwwwww"

We also dislike labels. If we had to have labels we would have many of them.

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