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By *irtySekrets OP   Couple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Has Swinging Changed in the last 10 years?

When we were on then, it was fairly easy to meet plenty of like minded couples.

Now, it seems such a hard Task.

There was also plenty of Genuine Single Guys who would be happy to play in a Group 3 Some type of Meet.

Now it’s like, “I just want to Shag your Mrs while you get me a Beer” kind of scenario

Or are we imagining it?

N&S xxxx

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Nope. It has definitely changed in the years I've been around. Used to be more social, would think nothing of travelling the length of the country for a big organised 'munch'. Still have friends from those days that I spent the night chatting d*unken shit with, then the mornings comparing hangovers and stories over breakfast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has changed a lot over the years largely I think because it is so easy for lying cheating gits in their thousands use their phones to get on sites like this behind the wife's back.

When you only had one computer in the house or if you're old enough, sending a letter to someone who had an advert in a swingers magazine and hoping for a reply, it was a lot simpler and more truthful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It had changed,have come back to it after nearly 10 years off,huge sense of entitlement of some young single men but still some really respectfull young guys out there

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By *irtySekrets OP   Couple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent


"It has changed a lot over the years largely I think because it is so easy for lying cheating gits in their thousands use their phones to get on sites like this behind the wife's back.

When you only had one computer in the house or if you're old enough, sending a letter to someone who had an advert in a swingers magazine and hoping for a reply, it was a lot simpler and more truthful."

Agree on this fully xxx

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By *irtySekrets OP   Couple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent


"It had changed,have come back to it after nearly 10 years off,huge sense of entitlement of some young single men but still some really respectfull young guys out there "
This x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately most guys just want to shag anything. No class, unable to make conversation, very desperate and pushy. Not many real swingers these days

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By *irtySekrets OP   Couple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent


"Unfortunately most guys just want to shag anything. No class, unable to make conversation, very desperate and pushy. Not many real swingers these days "

We are finding this too. It seems nothing to do with Swinging but just Hook Ups. Wham Bam Cum. No interaction. Flirting. Just the cold act of emptying their Balls lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately most guys just want to shag anything. No class, unable to make conversation, very desperate and pushy. Not many real swingers these days

We are finding this too. It seems nothing to do with Swinging but just Hook Ups. Wham Bam Cum. No interaction. Flirting. Just the cold act of emptying their Balls lol x"

I noticed this at clubs as well. Lots of guys expecting to play because they are in the club. This is so wrong attitude to have... as a single lady attending clubs I do experience not nice comments or pure rudeness because I refuse to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has Swinging Changed in the last 10 years?

When we were on then, it was fairly easy to meet plenty of like minded couples.

Now, it seems such a hard Task.

There was also plenty of Genuine Single Guys who would be happy to play in a Group 3 Some type of Meet.

Now it’s like, “I just want to Shag your Mrs while you get me a Beer” kind of scenario

Or are we imagining it?

N&S xxxx"

Nope it has definitely changed and not for the better.

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By *irtySekrets OP   Couple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent


"Has Swinging Changed in the last 10 years?

When we were on then, it was fairly easy to meet plenty of like minded couples.

Now, it seems such a hard Task.

There was also plenty of Genuine Single Guys who would be happy to play in a Group 3 Some type of Meet.

Now it’s like, “I just want to Shag your Mrs while you get me a Beer” kind of scenario

Or are we imagining it?

N&S xxxx

Nope it has definitely changed and not for the better. "

Pleased it’s not our imagination then.

To us, it seems the naughtyness and being naughty has been overtaken with the “I wanna fuk your bird” Brigade.

Sad really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think it will evolve further? Could it evolve into a nationwide private group that tales are told of free mason style? The front line clubs get left to the the New wave and invite only sites and very private clubs are where the traditional swingers meet? As they get over run by infiltrators a further evolution begins and so on?

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I guess it is like everything else in life - it goes through cycles.

As one generation matures, a new one emerges. So it keeps repeating.

The older one begins to think we're all going to hell in a hand cart because the new one wants to do things differently.

You were that new generation once. We all were.

I've never been in a position to view this site from a couple's perspective, only that of a single person.

And I'm very pleased to say the people coming through today seem just as sexually adventurous as those 10 years ago.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’ve been swinging 14yrs but only recently on this site ... deffo changed I’ve been part of a couple and a single too ... these days it’s all about guys just wanting ticks on their lists ... suggest anything like clubs or socials etc and it’s a case of not my thing ..,, no just let me get your knickers off

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