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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Partner has fallen deeply for a guy that we have just met. she has made it very clear to him and me, that she wants him all to herself rather than have a threesome, that was the original plan. Any advice please?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Partner has fallen deeply for a guy that we have just met. she has made it very clear to him and me, that she wants him all to herself rather than have a threesome, that was the original plan. Any advice please?"

She has fallen for him?

That’s never good. I’m sure you have rules and boundaries. If she is over crossing them (sounds as if she is) then tell her so. If you have a good marriage, she will respect this and nothing will happen. However, if she’s fallen for him...that can’t be good

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d stick to your couple rules mate ! If you and ya partner have agreed on always playing together stick to your guns neither of you should be made to feel unhappy or uncomfortable

How ever on the other hand you could reep some rewards by pushing your boundaries

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell her how it makes you feel. Did she tell you she had feelings for him or did he tell you? If she did then at Least she was honest. I couldn't go through with a meet if my partner had admitted feelings but that's me personally.

Bella x

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's time for a good talk with your partner.

Have rules or boundaries been broken.If the pair of them have been working towards this then that's not very nice.

Does your partner still want to be with you but play exclusively with the other guy.

Theres lots of things we could all say.I mean here I am a single lad giving relationship advice,but I will say this mate....

Whatever the outcome is hope you come through ok squire.