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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I discovered by chance at the weekend that a couple who live close by are swingers & are on fabs. I'm tempted to send them a message,but my wife says not to because they're too close to home. I really fancy the wife,I guess you'd call her a hotewife & the husband's a nice guy. I see them in their garden occasionally & say hello & we exchange Christmas cards. Looking at their profile they're well into the swinging scene,to be honest they're way out of my class. Any thoughts ? Is my wife right or should I message them anyway ?

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Wifes are alway right

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I discovered by chance at the weekend that a couple who live close by are swingers & are on fabs. I'm tempted to send them a message,but my wife says not to because they're too close to home. I really fancy the wife,I guess you'd call her a hotewife & the husband's a nice guy. I see them in their garden occasionally & say hello & we exchange Christmas cards. Looking at their profile they're well into the swinging scene,to be honest they're way out of my class. Any thoughts ? Is my wife right or should I message them anyway ?"

My other half and I have a ‘not in our back yard’ rule so I’m inclined to agree with your wife.

However, this is something for you and your wife to agree together. If she’s not comfortable with it, don’t do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether she's right or wrong is irrelevant. She doesn;t want you to do it. So sure;y you should respect that, not try and change her mind?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I'm with your Mrs on this one, I don't shag people I know IRL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could open a whole world of trouble leave it alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok,thanks everyone for a dose of reality.

I guess if they were to message me first that would be different,but in the mean time I'll lay low.

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By *hoebesamanthaTV/TS
over a year ago

Droitwich

If you know they are on here you must have read their profile and by simply looking at “who looked at me” they will know it’s you anyway so you won’t need to say anything. You can see your face in your profile pic !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you know they are on here you must have read their profile and by simply looking at “who looked at me” they will know it’s you anyway so you won’t need to say anything. You can see your face in your profile pic ! "

They looked at my profile earlier so I'll wait & see if they make contact.

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By *omtom65Man
over a year ago

walkden


"If you know they are on here you must have read their profile and by simply looking at “who looked at me” they will know it’s you anyway so you won’t need to say anything. You can see your face in your profile pic !

They looked at my profile earlier so I'll wait & see if they make contact."

Keep us updated?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if that's how you're wife feels maybe you should respect that .

We were messaged by a couple who we knew outside of fab and we live close to, we were mortified to start with that we knew them and they knew us but realised we would be at clubs at the same time so it turns out after lots of chat and a very hot meet that we get on well both on and off here...it's worked well for us but if they have looked and obviously seen who you are by your pics and made no contact maybe they prefer to keep it purely outside fab only . Xx

Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you know they are on here you must have read their profile and by simply looking at “who looked at me” they will know it’s you anyway so you won’t need to say anything. You can see your face in your profile pic !

They looked at my profile earlier so I'll wait & see if they make contact."

the problem is your profile is a single guy so they may not be interested,

why not make a cples profile then wink them or fab one of their pics to get their attention

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"I discovered by chance at the weekend that a couple who live close by are swingers & are on fabs. I'm tempted to send them a message,but my wife says not to because they're too close to home. I really fancy the wife,I guess you'd call her a hotewife & the husband's a nice guy. I see them in their garden occasionally & say hello & we exchange Christmas cards. Looking at their profile they're well into the swinging scene,to be honest they're way out of my class. Any thoughts ? Is my wife right or should I message them anyway ?"

By posting this, you already know. Partner says No, you say Yes.

Only you will know if your wife is right.

My guess is she is the one thinking with her brain, rather than your dick.

Just a thought

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Whether she's right or wrong is irrelevant. She doesn;t want you to do it. So sure;y you should respect that, not try and change her mind?"

Absolutely, it's an irrelevant question as she's made her feelings clear. And I'm inclined to agree with her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you know they are on here you must have read their profile and by simply looking at “who looked at me” they will know it’s you anyway so you won’t need to say anything. You can see your face in your profile pic !

They looked at my profile earlier so I'll wait & see if they make contact.

the problem is your profile is a single guy so they may not be interested,

why not make a cples profile then wink them or fab one of their pics to get their attention"

My wife has no interest in swinging,so not an option I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps if you had a couples profile they might know that you and your wife swing if they look at your profile they may stay well clear thinking you are cheating as it’s a single Male profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps if you had a couples profile they might know that you and your wife swing if they look at your profile they may stay well clear thinking you are cheating as it’s a single Male profile "
Unfortunately my wife has no interest in swinging so not an option,I would like to find a lady to play with as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps if you had a couples profile they might know that you and your wife swing if they look at your profile they may stay well clear thinking you are cheating as it’s a single Male profile Unfortunately my wife has no interest in swinging so not an option,I would like to find a lady to play with as a couple."

Ahh ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps if you had a couples profile they might know that you and your wife swing if they look at your profile they may stay well clear thinking you are cheating as it’s a single Male profile Unfortunately my wife has no interest in swinging so not an option,I would like to find a lady to play with as a couple."

Well why keep mentioning your wife then?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

My neighbours were on fab a couple of houses ago .. we never met for sex .. but the sexy smiles and knowing winks when we met in public were a bit of a turn on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My neighbours were on fab a couple of houses ago .. we never met for sex .. but the sexy smiles and knowing winks when we met in public were a bit of a turn on "

Think this is going to be a case of wait & see,if they message me problem solved,if they don't then think what might have been as I walk past their house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key here. When exchanging cards at Christmas slip in a few nude shots of yourself with a handwritten blurb stating how you want to fuck the wife.

For added sensuality you could perhaps spunk in the envelope. I'm sure when they open that card they'll be round like a shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wifes are alway right "
no there not !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Patience is the key here. When exchanging cards at Christmas slip in a few nude shots of yourself with a handwritten blurb stating how you want to fuck the wife.

For added sensuality you could perhaps spunk in the envelope. I'm sure when they open that card they'll be round like a shot. "

Lol,think I'll bide my time & see how things work out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it life is to short...

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By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

Not.In.My.Back.Yard

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