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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is for the couples...when did you realise hotwifing was for you? Its something that has intrigued us for a while but would like to hear peoples 1st experiences etc? im personally a bit worried about how i will feel about it (mr) but then again i was nervous the 1st time with everything we have tried to date lol 

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By *ipi2001Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We play as a couple,tried hotwifing however we realized that its a bit unbalanced. The wife enjoys and the hubby....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotwifing seems to be such a buzz word now and incredibly popular... as a single man it turns me on greatly!

However I’ll be watching this thread with eagerness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if we're ready to jump fully in, but it's such a turn on for both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Fab partner is currently in London seeing a guy she's been chatting to on fab for ages....

I'm waiting for a phone call, pics and vids. The suspense is killing me!!

Love hot wifing, even if it's with a Fab partner...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I enjoy sitting back and watching herself and the thought of her going off and being a bit slutty and sending me on pics or videos while im in work etc really turns me on aswell as herself i guess nerves are a curse...but would it be worse if there was no nerves

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By *iveralandssklpMan
over a year ago

Turkey

I asked my ex wife to seduce my best friend, while I was at work. (we had had a good drink the night before and he stayed over).

I rang her from work and asked her if she had succeeded. She just said mmm, and I guessed he was still there.

I called again about 2 hrs later and again by the tone of her voice I knew he was still there. I was so excited my cock was nearly bursting through my trousers.

When I got home from work she was on her own and wearing just a robe, I slipped it off her and felt her pussy, it was soaking. She said I have saved it for you. Bruce fucked me 5 times and filled my pussy, now its time for your treat. With that she pulled my head down to her pussy and made me lick his cum out of her. It was the most erotic thing I had ever done. And we repeated it with several other friends.

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By *rs slut n himCouple
over a year ago

dartford

Don’t really get this hole hot wife thing... for what I can see of it , is that the woman got the licence to go shag who she wants when she wants.... that’s it like separate lives.... don’t see what the hubby gets out of it... and when it’s called “ hot wife” ???... no disrespect but a lot I’ve seen on here called hot wife... ain’t that hot... as in my meaning of the word!!!!!!!!

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By *ony 529Man
over a year ago

coventry


"I asked my ex wife to seduce my best friend, while I was at work. (we had had a good drink the night before and he stayed over).

I rang her from work and asked her if she had succeeded. She just said mmm, and I guessed he was still there.

I called again about 2 hrs later and again by the tone of her voice I knew he was still there. I was so excited my cock was nearly bursting through my trousers.

When I got home from work she was on her own and wearing just a robe, I slipped it off her and felt her pussy, it was soaking. She said I have saved it for you. Bruce fucked me 5 times and filled my pussy, now its time for your treat. With that she pulled my head down to her pussy and made me lick his cum out of her. It was the most erotic thing I had ever done. And we repeated it with several other friends.

"
. Wow you're a lucky man I would love to see where are you licked that beautiful lady you look a lucky man Xx

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By *ifeTimeCouple
over a year ago

Grays

Weird. Considering going to BMFC at Eureka I assume to have sex with Black Men then claim to be confused by the hotwife lifestyle. As for the snidey comment about other people's Attractiveness? How judgemental do you want to be towards people going about their own sex lives in a loving relationship. Nasty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t really get this hole hot wife thing... for what I can see of it , is that the woman got the licence to go shag who she wants when she wants.... that’s it like separate lives.... don’t see what the hubby gets out of it... and when it’s called “ hot wife” ???... no disrespect but a lot I’ve seen on here called hot wife... ain’t that hot... as in my meaning of the word!!!!!!!!"

I think your comment is a bit out of order to be honest,my question was for those that partake,if you dont get it thats fine obviously but no need to be basically calling people ugly who do,my wife certainly is a hotwife regardless of what you think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Weird. Considering going to BMFC at Eureka I assume to have sex with Black Men then claim to be confused by the hotwife lifestyle. As for the snidey comment about other people's Attractiveness? How judgemental do you want to be towards people going about their own sex lives in a loving relationship. Nasty. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started to realise when I (the man) liked to hear about men chatting her up also seeing men looking at her. We took it from there really as she liked the attention and how horny it made me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We started to realise when I (the man) liked to hear about men chatting her up also seeing men looking at her. We took it from there really as she liked the attention and how horny it made me."

This

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area

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By *ngels of Sin 69Couple
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Hotwifing for us has a different meaning to me (H), just going off shagging any random I want. My hubby gets off on watching me enjoy myself.

We both have access to the profile and of course discuss who we want to meet etc but I guess I get the best of both worlds, enjoying my hubby and other delicious males when the need takes, for me its a win win.

Hope I've explained our situation properly, there's only so much you can write, living the lifestyle is far better H x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotwife/cuckold group

If you’d like to join, please mail me.

Primeraly looking for couples, we have enough bulls right now.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I've been a hotwife even before they started calling it that & it's worked for us

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By *ayneandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

We don’t consider I have the “hot wife” tag. Yes he is a cuckold, yes I sleep with men whom I choose and I’m picky! And yes I’m in charge. It’s different for every fantasy and situation I suppose ??

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

I have nothing than total respect for the male half of couple I've seen over a number of years...

We get on like friends, she gets to enjoy a husband and bf....

Quite a turn when picking her up or dropping her off and he's waiting.....sometimes we let him watch and join in (mfm).

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By *rs slut n himCouple
over a year ago

dartford


"Weird. Considering going to BMFC at Eureka I assume to have sex with Black Men then claim to be confused by the hotwife lifestyle. As for the snidey comment about other people's Attractiveness? How judgemental do you want to be towards people going about their own sex lives in a loving relationship. Nasty. "

For starters ain’t never been to bmfc.... and what going there got to be confused got to do with anything..... my point was is why it’s called “HOTWIFE” just because they go off and shag alone... call it hall pass wife ... or what ever.... but where does the hot come in to it ... be it they hot or not ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something I've always wanted to try but not sure how to start the conversation with my gf

Any advice?

I'd need to be there with her, would love to watch then join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotwifing isn't for us.

Swinging to us is both of us fully involved in the play equally.

We do appreciate they others do enjoy it though, as each to their own.

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

Hello OP ,Right first time we joined fab it was meet as a couple only however due to parental reasons we couldn't always go out together so it was easier to meet as singles we discussed this and overtime we decided to give it a go.I being mr arranged the meet with a very understanding male who we spoke to for a quite a lot and understood the nervousness.I wouldn't lie I was nervous,apprehensive, all emotions ran through my mind .I dropped her off and went back home waiting for I'm ok message all is fine etc.. I then got a few pics sent to me and so forth.We haven't looked back since! As much as I now enjoy it she does too the pleasure is all hers and mine.So speak to a male who is understanding and willing of both your needs and I'm sure you will have a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what counts as hot-wifing, technically? V interested in this

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By *rs slut n himCouple
over a year ago

dartford


"So what counts as hot-wifing, technically? V interested in this "

I think it’s one person having there cake , and eat it... and one going to work lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Picking mine up in a minute after she's been out for the night...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't this just the same as cuckolding? Or is Hot Wife a somewhat different take on it?

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Isn't this just the same as cuckolding? Or is Hot Wife a somewhat different take on it? "

My understanding of the term hotwife is one that has more than just sex with a third party. It would also involve some social interaction, e.g. going for a meal, or a drink, almost like date. Cuckolding, seems to be just about the sex, sometimes involving humiliation of the cuckold, depending on the couples preference.

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By *rs slut n himCouple
over a year ago

dartford


"Isn't this just the same as cuckolding? Or is Hot Wife a somewhat different take on it?

My understanding of the term hotwife is one that has more than just sex with a third party. It would also involve some social interaction, e.g. going for a meal, or a drink, almost like date. Cuckolding, seems to be just about the sex, sometimes involving humiliation of the cuckold, depending on the couples preference."

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By *rs slut n himCouple
over a year ago

dartford


"Isn't this just the same as cuckolding? Or is Hot Wife a somewhat different take on it?

My understanding of the term hotwife is one that has more than just sex with a third party. It would also involve some social interaction, e.g. going for a meal, or a drink, almost like date. Cuckolding, seems to be just about the sex, sometimes involving humiliation of the cuckold, depending on the couples preference."

Seems great for the lady... like being single again... do what you want ... shag who you want.... and someone at home paying all bills etc... great... totally understand why the lady would love it... especially if fed up of the ol man indoors but what the hubby gets out of it is a mystery lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I get out of it - not knowing what she's up to, then getting a phone call of her being fucked or a video or photos sent to my phone.

But the sex when she gets back is amazing!

At no point am I humiliated like a cuck.

I play separately too, and we meet others together, so none of us gets more than the other...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't this just the same as cuckolding? Or is Hot Wife a somewhat different take on it?

My understanding of the term hotwife is one that has more than just sex with a third party. It would also involve some social interaction, e.g. going for a meal, or a drink, almost like date. Cuckolding, seems to be just about the sex, sometimes involving humiliation of the cuckold, depending on the couples preference.

Seems great for the lady... like being single again... do what you want ... shag who you want.... and someone at home paying all bills etc... great... totally understand why the lady would love it... especially if fed up of the ol man indoors but what the hubby gets out of it is a mystery lol"

He gets a night in, with no squabbling over the telly remote.

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

First time I realised I liked the idea was when I saw the photos from my wife’s hen night. There were the usual pics of the hen dancing/grinding with the guys and I was so turned on by it! I imagined her snogging and being groped by random males and loved it.

After that she went on a few dates with a guy who she met in a club on a work’s night out. Again, I was thrilled by the idea my quiet, loyal wife was out with another man. The rest, as they say, is history.

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By *henanigans2023Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Hubby here. What do I get from her Hotwife play. It is all incredibly intense.....the build up....her getting ready.....putting on her lingerie for another guy...the perfume I bought her...the nail varnish and lippy. Then the wait....possibly a text or two and then when she returns the most incredibly sexual tension and sex for days. It plays with your head but it is awesome. The right lover for her is the secret to making it work. Not for everyone but we love it. xxxxx

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By *rs slut n himCouple
over a year ago

dartford


"Hubby here. What do I get from her Hotwife play. It is all incredibly intense.....the build up....her getting ready.....putting on her lingerie for another guy...the perfume I bought her...the nail varnish and lippy. Then the wait....possibly a text or two and then when she returns the most incredibly sexual tension and sex for days. It plays with your head but it is awesome. The right lover for her is the secret to making it work. Not for everyone but we love it. xxxxx"

But would she be so happy if it was the other way around ... from what I read .,, I think not lol

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By *ooliganMan
over a year ago

Preston

So it's not the same as hot-desking? Oh maaaaan... Back to the drawing board...

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By *.LBCouple
over a year ago

South

17 years ago, wife went black never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just adds another dimension to our swinging life's ..Me, Mr, has slowed down a bit swinging wise, I get more pleasure now in watching her or knowing she is with a guy on her own in our bedroom.. especially if it's being filmed for me to watch later..

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By *henanigans2023Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"17 years ago, wife went black never looked back "

Was she out in the sun too long?

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By *uckold.cplCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"17 years ago, wife went black never looked back "

Hi, just would like to compliment your profile and photos. That's exactly what we are looking for...

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

Mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t really get this hole hot wife thing... for what I can see of it , is that the woman got the licence to go shag who she wants when she wants.... that’s it like separate lives.... don’t see what the hubby gets out of it... and when it’s called “ hot wife” ???... no disrespect but a lot I’ve seen on here called hot wife... ain’t that hot... as in my meaning of the word!!!!!!!!

I think your comment is a bit out of order to be honest,my question was for those that partake,if you dont get it thats fine obviously but no need to be basically calling people ugly who do,my wife certainly is a hotwife regardless of what you think "

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

It's not for everyone.

We enjoy hotwifing.

I consider myself to be pretty attractive to the opposite sex so I have to disagree with the statement made earlier on in the thread about hotwives being ugly....

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By *epaWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

We love it. I watched a porn video a few years ago and it looked appealing.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"It's not for everyone.

We enjoy hotwifing.

I consider myself to be pretty attractive to the opposite sex so I have to disagree with the statement made earlier on in the thread about hotwives being ugly.... "

Is it because your husband is ugly?

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We have been doing it all through our marriage, Garry contacts other men and invites them to fuck me and I enjoy doing it.

We always play as a couple but Garry does not always have sex with me on a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really hotwifing to us is a senario. If we see a guy she likes. We would have a social with him and she might meet him at a later date for some softswing fun. We both find it very erotic and the sex between us after is enhanced. And the same goes if Mr has a single meet.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

newbury

I think hotwifing can be ruined if the single guy is selfish and doesn't take into account the needs of both the wife AND husband.... .

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast


"It's not for everyone.

We enjoy hotwifing.

I consider myself to be pretty attractive to the opposite sex so I have to disagree with the statement made earlier on in the thread about hotwives being ugly.... "

Your a very hot wife....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think hotwifing can be ruined if the single guy is selfish and doesn't take into account the needs of both the wife AND husband.... . "

This

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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"Hubby here. What do I get from her Hotwife play. It is all incredibly intense.....the build up....her getting ready.....putting on her lingerie for another guy...the perfume I bought her...the nail varnish and lippy. Then the wait....possibly a text or two and then when she returns the most incredibly sexual tension and sex for days. It plays with your head but it is awesome. The right lover for her is the secret to making it work. Not for everyone but we love it. xxxxx"

well said - think that pretty much sums things up for me and probably other stag husbands who enjoy giving their wife the freedom to fuck.

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"Hubby here. What do I get from her Hotwife play. It is all incredibly intense.....the build up....her getting ready.....putting on her lingerie for another guy...the perfume I bought her...the nail varnish and lippy. Then the wait....possibly a text or two and then when she returns the most incredibly sexual tension and sex for days. It plays with your head but it is awesome. The right lover for her is the secret to making it work. Not for everyone but we love it. xxxxx

well said - think that pretty much sums things up for me and probably other stag husbands who enjoy giving their wife the freedom to fuck."

Pretty much well said all round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is something that in theory I find incredibly erotic.

I have mentioned to my wife in the past that I would love to share her with a stranger and watch him fuck her.

If I say this as we are making love her pussy gets incredibly wet.

We've recently started roleplaying using a lifelike dildo that she has as I lick her clit.

On Saturday night as I was fucking her she was describing to me what she would let ‘him’ do as they leave me in the hotel bar before calling me to join them.

She says she would like a quick hard fuck with a younger horny guy before leaves and then we make love.

I am not going to push it too fast. It I think we could make it a reality.

I think she’d like a mid to late twenties guy, possibly a black guy, with no more than 8”

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By *rCpl100Couple
over a year ago

in a boat on the Hudson

We have been hotwifing for last 3 years and it has taken our relationship and sex life to a new galaxy. It started with me encouraging her to go out with a co-worker for a drink which turned into an all night fuck fest. She has since then suck a guy at work and got fingered at his desk several times. We also met a young toy boy that she has fucked several times. I am not allowed to join but she always takes pics and movies for my viewing later.... this is single sided I know but I love it and we are never going back !

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By *aughty_Nat69Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Just taking our first steps into this world. See if it is for us or not xxx

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By *ondongreg79Man
over a year ago

london

If it’s a big fantasy and you make it a reality in baby steps I’m sure you’ll love it.

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By *aughty_Nat69Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"If it’s a big fantasy and you make it a reality in baby steps I’m sure you’ll love it."

Thanks. Hoping it goes well xxx

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston


"We have been hotwifing for last 3 years and it has taken our relationship and sex life to a new galaxy. It started with me encouraging her to go out with a co-worker for a drink which turned into an all night fuck fest. She has since then suck a guy at work and got fingered at his desk several times. We also met a young toy boy that she has fucked several times. I am not allowed to join but she always takes pics and movies for my viewing later.... this is single sided I know but I love it and we are never going back !"

Wouldn’t say single sided, it’s what works for you guys and that’s all that matters

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY


"Don’t really get this hole hot wife thing... for what I can see of it , is that the woman got the licence to go shag who she wants when she wants.... that’s it like separate lives.... don’t see what the hubby gets out of it... and when it’s called “ hot wife” ???... no disrespect but a lot I’ve seen on here called hot wife... ain’t that hot... as in my meaning of the word!!!!!!!!"

If you don't see what a man gets out of hotwifing why you looking mm on your profile, seems odd!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hotwife is to me about me meeting other guys for sex with full permission of my husband and as and when i want to with the knowledge that everyone understands im a very happy married woman/wife... hotwife is very much the start/basic's of cuckolding ...hotwife has nothing to do with dates and socials (but you can if you want) same with everything in the swinging world you mould it to suit you as with cuckolding the most important thing about hotwifing is ''the couple'' because its still very much about the couple everytime...without the couple you have nothing same with most things in swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same with everything in swinging when your a couple if it aint both of you that are happy then its nothing not swinging not hotwife not nothing a couple has to be balanced and happy... everything i do on my single profile i know has 100% backing of my husband and vise a versa thats been the same for 20 years like a sports car we are very fine tuned together for everything we do swinging wise

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"hotwife is to me about me meeting other guys for sex with full permission of my husband and as and when i want to with the knowledge that everyone understands im a very happy married woman/wife... hotwife is very much the start/basic's of cuckolding ...hotwife has nothing to do with dates and socials (but you can if you want) same with everything in the swinging world you mould it to suit you as with cuckolding the most important thing about hotwifing is ''the couple'' because its still very much about the couple everytime...without the couple you have nothing same with most things in swinging"

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