FabSwingers.com forum: Girlfriend's first party this weekend! Any advice?

By *amesnite11 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

I've been to a few parties before, but going to Eureka's with my girlfriend for the first time this weekend. She's looking to play with a few single males 35 and under as a delayed birthday present, and is a little nervous but very excited about it (no offense to any gentlemen over 35, I'm sure you're lovely but just a little out of our age range!).

Just wondering if anyone would have some advice for us, and if you know/are a respectful and considerate gentleman who would like to join us? Any advice would be very appreciated!

Happy swinging to all!

We have a joint account, but aren't able to post on forums yet, hence posting on this one.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your girlfriends first party!?!?! Your wrong in the head you sicko she's only one

Jokes aside - relax and only do what she feels comfortable doing. Maybe don't go with expectations and see what develops.

By *edgeend6Couple
over a year ago

Southampton

Spend a good time socialising and putting the feelers out until she feels comfortable, if she's nervous about playing maybe just play together at first so she gets used to being around others playing and watching. I love Changing into lingerie and peacocking around for a bit, makes me horny and feel a bit more confident! Maybe it'll do the same for her

By *amesnite11 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"It's your girlfriends first party!?!?! Your wrong in the head you sicko she's only one

Jokes aside - relax and only do what she feels comfortable doing. Maybe don't go with expectations and see what develops."

Haha, ok good advice! I want it to all be at her own pace and for there to be no pressure to do anything. Really just to treat it as though we're going to look around and if she wants anything to develop then that's up to her

By *amesnite11 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"Spend a good time socialising and putting the feelers out until she feels comfortable, if she's nervous about playing maybe just play together at first so she gets used to being around others playing and watching. I love Changing into lingerie and peacocking around for a bit, makes me horny and feel a bit more confident! Maybe it'll do the same for her

That sounds like a good idea, thank you! I think us playing together is the way to go, and if she is interested in more happening then we will take it from there.