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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you cuddle on a meet and does it matter to you whether you do or don't have a cuddle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you cuddle on a meet and does it matter to you whether you do or don't have a cuddle?"
I love cuddling very tactile here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love a cuddle.

Or a night of spooning.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Cuddling, kissing and snuggling are all part of being intimate with someone for me

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Cuddling, kissing and snuggling are all part of being intimate with someone for me "

Same here! Obviously a meet with a couple is a different dynamic though! Then it tends to be sensual with the female - passionate fucking with the Male! Little cuddling involved though!

When I meet a single Male, however, each meet tends to be a ‘mini relationship ‘ - all the good stuff, none of the aggro afterwards! Lots of affection, giggles, sensual kissing, chatting and, of course, great sex! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a cuddler

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I love a snuggle and a cuddle after (or between) rounds. I love lying next to a woman, stroking her skin, looking into her eyes and chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feels weird cuddling - but that could be because I’m married! I do enjoy cuddling though

I used to cuddle my FB, but we usually had chats after fucking about how tragic our lives were, and it would be a ‘Oh come here you’ sypmathetic cuddle. Used to play with my hair too - only meet that did that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a cuddler "
you look cuddly

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By * nicepairCouple
over a year ago

portsmouth

Love a cuddle

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Id love a cuddle buddy

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Save cuddles for jack

I'm not that much of a touchy feel person though really.

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

We like cuddles x

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Love cuddles. Nothing better after great sex than a nice cuddle.

XX

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I love a cuddle with someone I know quite well

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I find most guys I meet are properly into cuddle and spooning sessions after sex, I kick them off when we're going to sleep though or I get too sweaty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't cuddle just anybody. But then I don't need to cuddle a meet. I get that at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always cuddle unless she explicitly says no cuddling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a cheating wife (judge away, I’ve heard it all before) it’s the one thing I save for hubby, but on rare rare very rare occasions, when there has been a very special connection, I have been known to have a brief cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always down for a cuddle :D as _ust peachy said near the top sometimes it’s nice to treat it like a mini relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's part of a meet usually, don't think I've met any men where some kind of cuddles don't happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh to find a cuddle budddy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not a cuddler, no cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you naturally cuddle afterwards if you've enjoyed the sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to have a cuddle, but not always essential

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Love them, the last couple of meets I've had have been overnighters, couldn't go to sleep (when we did eventually) without having a cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you naturally cuddle afterwards if you've enjoyed the sex!"

Not with me, sex could be really good and I still wouldn’t want a cuddle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's part of a meet usually, don't think I've met any men where some kind of cuddles don't happen "

I had fun with a man who sat with his arms folded afterwards....hmmmm.....then was disappointed when I didn't meet him again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love them, the last couple of meets I've had have been overnighters, couldn't go to sleep (when we did eventually) without having a cuddle "

Love overnighters filled with sex and spooning

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Love them, the last couple of meets I've had have been overnighters, couldn't go to sleep (when we did eventually) without having a cuddle

Love overnighters filled with sex and spooning"

Felt nice and not rushed or on the clock so to speak

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By *ischiefmanagedWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk border

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you cuddle on a meet and does it matter to you whether you do or don't have a cuddle?"
nope. But then I do group not 121 and would be a bit weird

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love them, the last couple of meets I've had have been overnighters, couldn't go to sleep (when we did eventually) without having a cuddle

Love overnighters filled with sex and spooning

Felt nice and not rushed or on the clock so to speak "

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Been enjoying lots of cuddles this week, first night without one tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you cuddle on a meet and does it matter to you whether you do or don't have a cuddle?"

Love one be it social or during an intence session or after just to lay together recovering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happened. Maybe people just don't want to cuddle me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you naturally cuddle afterwards if you've enjoyed the sex!

Not with me, sex could be really good and I still wouldn’t want a cuddle "

Yep I agree. I get my cuddles at home. Guess that's the difference between swingers and singles.

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By *weet-cheeks100Woman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Cuddles are underrated.

Especially from a guy with strong arms

Just not too tight lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both love cuddles!! Cuddle monsters

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Do you cuddle on a meet and does it matter to you whether you do or don't have a cuddle?

Love one be it social or during an intence session or after just to lay together recovering "

You don't do cuddles....your hands are too busy wandering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you cuddle on a meet and does it matter to you whether you do or don't have a cuddle?

Love one be it social or during an intence session or after just to lay together recovering

You don't do cuddles....your hands are too busy wandering "

I resemble that statement got to make the most of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on where I am & who I’m with as to if I fancy a cuddle or not.

Some meets just don’t give off the cuddle vibe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you naturally cuddle afterwards if you've enjoyed the sex!

Not with me, sex could be really good and I still wouldn’t want a cuddle

Yep I agree. I get my cuddles at home. Guess that's the difference between swingers and singles. "

no. Even as a single I'd find it weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes I love to cuddle before, between and after great sex and lucky for me the few guys I've met have been partial to cuddles to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddling is amazing. We’re all about intimacy, not just fucking x

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I absolutely love cuddles.. but used to worry I was being too intimate... I wouldn’t anymore and just snuggle right up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple that play together always, no we dont cuddle....i guess thats a hard one be it a couple play meet or single, unless its with each other its a tad too personal.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I absolutely love cuddles.. but used to worry I was being too intimate... I wouldn’t anymore and just snuggle right up!!

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Know what you mean - I usually ask before I do as I know not everyone likes it

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I absolutely love cuddles.. but used to worry I was being too intimate... I wouldn’t anymore and just snuggle right up!!

Know what you mean - I usually ask before I do as I know not everyone likes it "

I would always ask first and always have but if I was told yes then I would just cuddle and make the most of it hehe... where as before I wouldn’t cuddle for too long!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you cuddle on a meet and does it matter to you whether you do or don't have a cuddle?"

Cuddles are good

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I’m a cuddler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing as a couple with another couple I would find it a bit of a tricky situation and I think, well I know I want to leave that to be something just hubby and I share. If I was a singleton though I would love it!! I love a cuddle!! Head on a mans chest and running my fingers all over his torso!! Delish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oddly enough I have only met two women who didn’t want to cuddle and the sex wasn’t very enjoyable with them whereas I have had many long nights of fucking, cuddling, falling asleep, waking and fucking some more then watching the dawn come up as my fb gently snores and pushes her arse towards me to take once again....lovely!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Just the right amount can be purrfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you cuddle on a meet and does it matter to you whether you do or don't have a cuddle?"

A good cuddle is needed on every meet I think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to cuddle on a meet!

The only thing is if it’s after sex I end up unintentionally falling asleep. And me sleeping isn’t cute, mouth wide open! Hahaha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a nice cuddle after sex. Especially with someone who’ve met more than once. And spooning feels special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you cuddle on a meet and does it matter to you whether you do or don't have a cuddle?"

Im into it, as long as i have my ear played with too... dead relaxing lol

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By * see you cumminCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Can't beat a good cuddle....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it just the way it should be...

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By *veready69Man
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

Love to cuddle between rounds. What else wou you do? Go to opposite corners of the bed until the bell rings? Never had a meet without a cuddle.

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By *tevenwantstoMan
over a year ago

dorset

Reading through posts

I love the term cuddle buddy

So if anyone in Devon would like a cuddle buddy i am that cuddle buddy just let me know i love cuddles and kisses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffinate cuddler, before with all sexual excitement, afterwards with all the sweet sexual aromas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddling, kissing and snuggling are all part of being intimate with someone for me

Same here! Obviously a meet with a couple is a different dynamic though! Then it tends to be sensual with the female - passionate fucking with the Male! Little cuddling involved though!

When I meet a single Male, however, each meet tends to be a ‘mini relationship ‘ - all the good stuff, none of the aggro afterwards! Lots of affection, giggles, sensual kissing, chatting and, of course, great sex! ??"

awwww a mini relationship ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A meet without cuddles feels too clinical and pretty much assures I won't meet them again....even worse when they go to shake hands afterwards makes it feel like a business transaction.

I don't need kisses or anything heavy but at least they can give me a cwtch and tell me they've enjoyed it....bonus points if they tell me I'm pretty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A meet without cuddles feels too clinical and pretty much assures I won't meet them again....even worse when they go to shake hands afterwards makes it feel like a business transaction.

I don't need kisses or anything heavy but at least they can give me a cwtch and tell me they've enjoyed it....bonus points if they tell me I'm pretty "

I guess this is why I stick to club meets... as I like to be able to just get up and go after. I am in a bit of an odd place though after coming out of an intimate relationship where I actually enjoyed stuff I'd never wanted to before. Such as kissing him and cuddling up. Stuff with previous relationships I'd not done.

So wondering if I will find it different now. Not actually played yet fully so don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spooning for me, get to do some bum groping whilst you’re at it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give good hug.

Kissing and cuddling maintains intimacy after sex, so batteries can recharge before round two. It's essential in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do but depends on the girl's face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do but depends on the girl's face"

I love a good cuddle

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

In a FWB relationship it’s a must.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do but depends on the girl's face"

Spat my coffee out !

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It's a bit weird cuddling on a meet for me. I love cuddles but prefer them with someone I'm getting more from.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Playing as a couple with another couple I would find it a bit of a tricky situation and I think, well I know I want to leave that to be something just hubby and I share. If I was a singleton though I would love it!! I love a cuddle!! Head on a mans chest and running my fingers all over his torso!! Delish "

I understand that in a couples situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you cuddle on a meet and does it matter to you whether you do or don't have a cuddle?"

Being kinky I have always used cuddles as after care.... why shouldn’t there be after care after sex too?

Also I’m a cuddle/hug whore!

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