FabSwingers.com forum: Does Anyone Actually Understand Cuckolding ?

By *imjayne OP Couple
over a year ago

Stafford

We like to meet from time to time a nice single guy for some cuckolding fun but our experience of most guys on here is that they think a hard shag while hubby watches is cuckolding !

Any other similar couples it difficult to meet the right sort of guys on here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not alone guys we have same issue and think that fab is not best place to be to find Mr right

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By *layfulfoxMan
over a year ago

nowhere

Feel free to tell me how it should work, either here or privately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckolding can mean various things im very much into it and try to have cuckold meetings but due to many guys not getting it couples that are looking are cautious with every right about single men that enjoy and know how iy really goes

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It's all about communication. Cuckolding can mean different things to different people.

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

"We like to meet from time to time a nice single guy for some cuckolding fun but our experience of most guys on here is that they think a hard shag while hubby watches is cuckolding !

Any other similar couples it difficult to meet the right sort of guys on here ?"

The spectrum of cuckolding is very broad and different couples will have different desires.

I often message couples saying that I would like to become their sexual knave and to be treated like a cuck,before sharing ideas of what I would like to happen.

It might be worth saying on your profile that you are interested in cuckoldress and that you are looking for these elements... you could also add that the male guest within your relationship status posses the following qualities...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fairly confident I get it. I didn't know what it was called but fantasised about it. Then someone told me it was cuckolding except without the humiliation part. So in essence I get it because that's how my mind works. I still haven't found a couple who want to try it with me yet though.

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By *imjayne OP Couple
over a year ago

Stafford

"Feel free to tell me how it should work, either here or privately"

Suggest you research on the internet !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically it’s banging the wife in front of the husband. Hope this helps OP X

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"We like to meet from time to time a nice single guy for some cuckolding fun but our experience of most guys on here is that they think a hard shag while hubby watches is cuckolding !

Any other similar couples it difficult to meet the right sort of guys on here ?"

Do you have a conversation with the guys you meet up front to explain what you mean and expect from a cuckolding experience? If not that might be your problem - cuckolding can mean different things to different people so ensuring a common understanding is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi. Totally agree with you. Don’t think fab attracts the right sort of guy that really understands what it really means. Most on here thinks it’s exactly what your saying. Wow wouldn’t it be fab to find someone who understands our needs and desires.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK

"Feel free to tell me how it should work, either here or privately

Suggest you research on the internet !"

I dont think this helps much - as it means different things to different people - for one couple if mean me f*cking (to put in crudely) while her husband was simply quiet and said nothing. For another couple, they rented out a dungeon in which we played and hubby was caged and on his knees - while his mistress told him what do do. For another, it was me going on dates (cinema/dinner etc) with the wife and taking her to my place. In each case, the couple told me what they wanted (and it was different things) - there is no way I would have been able to guess...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Basically it’s banging the wife in front of the husband. Hope this helps OP X"

Oh how very wrong you are sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man just fucks wife in front of hubby nothing more wouldn't that be a case of voyeurism/hotwife rather than cuckolding.

A cuckold couple get off on having a man come to fuck wife while humiliating hubby. Hubby needs to feel inadequate for wifes amazing pussy and so she has a hung bull come to enjoy her pussy. Hubby would be told by bull how good wife is, making him taste her juice off his fingers (or cock), hubby licking up bulls cum from wife etc. While wife tells hibby just how useless he is and how good bulls cock is.

Essentially cuckolding is more than just fucking wifey. Its hubbies humiliation, a sense of liberation or dominance for wifey and a bull whos happy to help this couple live their desired fantasies.

Though of course afterwards you should stop treating hubby like the cuck and more like hubby. The humiliating side is to be saved for just the act itself and not after.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK

"Hi. Totally agree with you. Don’t think fab attracts the right sort of guy that really understands what it really means. Most on here thinks it’s exactly what your saying. Wow wouldn’t it be fab to find someone who understands our needs and desires. "

I think you have go explain what you want to a potential male friend - I just commented to the OP that my experience has varied vastly from each cuckold couple I have played with to another. There was no way I could have guess until they told me what they wanted and didnt want. One couple wanted to play in their dungreon with hubby caged another wanted me to date the lovely wife - each experience was very different and hugely enjoyable...

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By *ockandrollaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I may be wrong but I haven’t seen any cuckquean’s on here well I’ve never saw the term used

And agree with it’s all about communication and what one couple wants can differ to another

Different strokes for different folks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often message couples saying that I would like to become their sexual knave and to be treated like a cuck,before sharing ideas of what I would like to happen."

this is not cuckolding you cannot be a cuck if you are a single guy ??goes againts everything that cuckolding is ?? deary me and we agree op not many understand it at all..

but at least the very basics are a cuck is married or in a relationship for his wife/girlfriend to cuck him if you a single man looking to do cucky things then your just a plain ole sub nothing more nothing less

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By *layfulfoxMan
over a year ago

nowhere

"If a man just fucks wife in front of hubby nothing more wouldn't that be a case of voyeurism/hotwife rather than cuckolding.

Essentially cuckolding is more than just fucking wifey. Its hubbies humiliation, a sense of liberation or dominance for wifey and a bull whos happy to help this couple live their desired fantasies.

Though of course afterwards you should stop treating hubby like the cuck and more like hubby. The humiliating side is to be saved for just the act itself and not after.

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Very helpful

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By *imjayne OP Couple
over a year ago

Stafford

"Basically it’s banging the wife in front of the husband. Hope this helps OP X"

I think you’ve illustrated my point exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Basically it’s banging the wife in front of the husband. Hope this helps OP X

Oh how very wrong you are sir "

You’re obviously new to the forums ?!

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By *imjayne OP Couple
over a year ago

Stafford

"We like to meet from time to time a nice single guy for some cuckolding fun but our experience of most guys on here is that they think a hard shag while hubby watches is cuckolding !

Any other similar couples it difficult to meet the right sort of guys on here ?

We have conversations with guys who think they are ‘bulls’ but when we have met for a social they have no idea of the interaction required and think if they turn up with cock in hand that’s their job done !

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over a year ago

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

I have been the "BULL" on many occasions and realise its not just banging the wife,

There is much more to it. the role play, the mind games and the rewards of everyone enjoying it.

People also think all cuckolding is humiliation, well that's wrong as well. some cuckolds may love the humiliation aspect but so far non of the cuckolds and hotwifes I have played with have ever really wanted that.

Most just like the sub/dom aspect of it. for others its more a release of their bi side in a way that its (supposed) to be out of their power and that they have been made to do it! but truth is, its all a sex game, and may I ad a fun sex game at that, where everyone should get enjoyment out of it.

It is actually down to cuckolding that I found my bi side as it where.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like to meet from time to time a nice single guy for some cuckolding fun but our experience of most guys on here is that they think a hard shag while hubby watches is cuckolding !

Any other similar couples it difficult to meet the right sort of guys on here ?

I may be coming more from the stag vixen angle but that's why I think "bull" is the wrong word. It conjures up images of an alpha male who's really there just to shag the Mrs. No wonder then that so many men come at it with that attitude. I prefer "lover" as a word as it conjures up images that are more transgressive of the boundaries of a married couple's relationship. And I think it's that which lies at the heart of cuckolding... the sense of danger in flirting with cheating. At least that's my take on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've removed cuckolding from our profile very quickly as all messages we've received regarding it were either plain rude or relating to humiliation only. No thank you, not for us.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK

"We like to meet from time to time a nice single guy for some cuckolding fun but our experience of most guys on here is that they think a hard shag while hubby watches is cuckolding !

Any other similar couples it difficult to meet the right sort of guys on here ?

Thats interesting - what kind of interaction would you like in a social ?? I have had a variety of experiences with “cuckold” couples which have been very different from each other - and I dont think I would have known in advance -

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By *edonisticCuckMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I definitely get it. I just wish there was more women around that are looking for a cuck!

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

"If a man just fucks wife in front of hubby nothing more wouldn't that be a case of voyeurism/hotwife rather than cuckolding.

Essentially cuckolding is more than just fucking wifey. Its hubbies humiliation, a sense of liberation or dominance for wifey and a bull whos happy to help this couple live their desired fantasies.

Though of course afterwards you should stop treating hubby like the cuck and more like hubby. The humiliating side is to be saved for just the act itself and not after.

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that's it in a nutshell.

We enjoy this very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on what the cuckolding couple want out of it. I do think it is just as much about psychology as sexuality, as the bull you really have to plug into the couples needs and dynamic. Personally I love ideas around the cuck in chasity and denied just as much, if not more than sex with the hotwife, its the mix of both which really makes it enticing for me , although personally I much prefer a medium to long term situation, one offs dont really do it for me.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Nope... however I will stay quiet on my veiws because so many like to judge. Even if u give ur opinion because theirs is obviously correct... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can come round and show any women that are not sure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of men understand it differently to cples . They are not ‘wrong’ though . Despite both sides having different wants/ needs the key to it all is ‘ communication’ / finding a balance that suits all .. This is the way to true harmony in all things not just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication is key from the offset with a new potential bull. If you don’t explain to them what you want they will just follow the basic stereotype of the bull. Each cuckold relationship is different so no one is going to know exactly what your needs and wants are. Educate the others to then help them grow into the role you want filled.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"Communication is key from the offset with a new potential bull. If you don’t explain to them what you want they will just follow the basic stereotype of the bull. Each cuckold relationship is different so no one is going to know exactly what your needs and wants are. Educate the others to then help them grow into the role you want filled. "

This! Absolutely!

The best fun I have with couples is when I understand what they both want. Then sharing it is so much more fun. Whether it’s soft and sensual or more kinky, it’s knowung that your sharing real erotic intimacy that is such a big turn on for me. And for most couples I think, whatever it is they like to share.

Also, being invited to share a bed with a couple is a big deal. I’d hate to waste it by getting the dynamic wrong

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London

Before meeting my girlfriend 90+% of the meets I had were with couples who enjoyed elements of cuckold play.

For me the metal aspects were just as important as the physical, perhaps more so. That is why from my perspective it was important for me to know what motivated both the wife and husband ( boyfriend and girlfriend). For cuckolding with an authentic feel there are no shortcuts so all involved need to have the desire to take the time to get to know each other.

My time as a Bull was often insanely frustrating but whenever I met a couple that was a good match it always felt worth the effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Following this thread with interest. I have been meeting couples for cuckold and hotwife meets since my early 20's.

From a reverse perspective I find couples are also unsure or don't fully understand the cuckold lifestyle once you get speaking to them.

I enjoy getting to know a couple and understanding what makes them both tick and what stimulates them to ensure any meet is defined by their desires.

Eddie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Following this thread with interest. I have been meeting couples for cuckold and hotwife meets since my early 20's.

From a reverse perspective I find couples are also unsure or don't fully understand the cuckold lifestyle once you get speaking to them.

I enjoy getting to know a couple and understanding what makes them both tick and what stimulates them to ensure any meet is defined by their desires.

Eddie

Good to hear from the other perspective. Once again communication is the key, that’s what people need to do instead of assuming everyone knows what the score is..

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

I think it has to be said, that there are no hard and fast "rule" to cuckholding.

There may be "flavours" or "guidelines".

So, it's no surprise that something that's defined per person or per couple isn't "got" by another person.

You need to define what you want clearly,perhaps on your profile?

(Granted, that means people reading profiles, which our deleted items attest to people not reading...)

Flames

(Part of a Hotwife not cuck couple, so, we do appreciate the issue...)

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

After reading all these (conflicting) statements I’m gonna stick my hand up and admit, NO, I don’t think I do.

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By *ierre1Man
over a year ago

Hinckley

I would like to think I understand all the different nuances involved in cuckolding. I totally get it as I read up what the couple desires and I have ideas myself from past cuckold experiences.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

Seems from reading the posts, and as I suspected it’s all about the communication.

What one couple enjoy most about cuckolding may well not be what another couple are looking for.

I would love to chat to a couple, learning what it is they are ideally looking for, and not forgetting that I will be looking for certain things too. That said I hope we are all open to trying and experimenting too, it can be huge fun finding new things to rock your world.

Here’s hoping I get to chat to couples soon,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have removed Cuckold Couple from our profile as we don't think we really meet the 'requirements' some expect. Yes, hubby likes to watch me with another guy or guys and takes photos if all agree. However he's not into the denial or humiliation side of cuckolding at all. Most of the time he's not even present when I meet but at home or waiting in the car. He likes to have pics sent to him if possible and for me to tell him all the details when I return. Is this true cuckolding? We're not sure tbh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If any couples need a lesson in cuckolding - get in touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My understanding of the the term cuckold is a word traditionally used to describe an adulterous wife.

If a man is cuckolded, his wife has a sexual relationship with another man.

Nowadays some couples enjoy the benefits of inviting another man into their sexual relationship with all parties being fully aware. Which can be for a variety of diverse reasons relating to each individual.

Infidelity still occurs in today's society in which case some husband's are unaware of their cuckold status.

In our experience it enabled my wife and I to explore our diverse needs with one individual. He enjoys the process of developing the scenarios so we all get enjoyment and indulge each other's needs. Be it emotional and psychological sexual elements.

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

"I definitely get it. I just wish there was more women around that are looking for a cuck!

so so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody has there own view - what 1 couple thinks / wants May be totally different what they want. So I don’t think there is a set rule but would know the basics

What I find works best - is good communication between either parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each couple had their own idea about cuckolding and what they want from it, however there is always more to it than fucking a guys wife.

I do like there to be open and honest communication about what the expectations are, boundaries and aspirations. With all of that out in the open then you are able to decide if it is something all three of you want to proceed with.

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By *ouplewhoshareherCouple
over a year ago

shardlow

We agree, I think everyone maybe has their own idea on idea x

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands

"I can come round and show any women that are not sure?

You definitely don't get it if you think it's only about the woman!

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

"I can come round and show any women that are not sure?

You definitely don't get it if you think it's only about the woman!"

very true

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Youy are probably more likely to find a guy that understands on a fetish site rather than a swinguing one. As you have found out lots of guys call themselves a 'Bull' without any idea what the role entails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have removed Cuckold Couple from our profile as we don't think we really meet the 'requirements' some expect. Yes, hubby likes to watch me with another guy or guys and takes photos if all agree. However he's not into the denial or humiliation side of cuckolding at all. Most of the time he's not even present when I meet but at home or waiting in the car. He likes to have pics sent to him if possible and for me to tell him all the details when I return. Is this true cuckolding? We're not sure tbh!!"

This sounds like hotwife to me but I could be wrong after reading this thread! Sounds hot though, would love to be the other guy in this scenario

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

We have the opposite issue, we're not now nor want to be in a cuckold relationship but every guy who sends us the (feel we would get on) message soon starts into cucking and being a "bull".

A lot of people i think see it as an oppurtunity to borrow someones wife and look no deeper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s important to appreciate that all couples are different. You need to understand what all parties want.

Once you taken the time to understand a couple you can get into chucks head, tease and excite whilst enjoying the pleasure of his wife.

There is no black and white cuck couple or even Hotwife, stag, cuck queen couple etc. Etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cuckolding the term come from cuckoo birds laying there eggs in other birds nest hence = basic cuckold means to seed another mans wife ....anything else after that is just add-ons that people and the porn industery have added hotwife fun is the very basics of cuckolding ..no 2 cuckold couples should be the same we all like different and thats were the guys go wrong rather than find out if and what the couple want they just jump in because they watched the latest cuckold porn film and thought hey cool i can do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s important to appreciate that all couples are different. You need to understand what all parties want.

Once you taken the time to understand a couple you can get into chucks head, tease and excite whilst enjoying the pleasure of his wife.

There is no black and white cuck couple or even Hotwife, stag, cuck queen couple etc. Etc. "

this well said

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"It’s important to appreciate that all couples are different. You need to understand what all parties want.

Once you taken the time to understand a couple you can get into chucks head, tease and excite whilst enjoying the pleasure of his wife.

There is no black and white cuck couple or even Hotwife, stag, cuck queen couple etc. Etc. "
Exactly, and key to it is taking the time to understand what it is they both like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this really comes down to the expectations of the cuckold couples.....

Some just want casual fun from time to time

Others want a full on relationship....

Being a single guy the latter can be very difficult.....

You still have to date and spend time with your vanilla friends.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like to meet from time to time a nice single guy for some cuckolding fun but our experience of most guys on here is that they think a hard shag while hubby watches is cuckolding !

Any other similar couples it difficult to meet the right sort of guys on here ?"

I feel cuckolding is different for each person and each couple this has been reflected in my own personal experiences. So like everyone else has said it takes communicating your needs and wants clearly and in a way that said potential bull or partner understands. As you mentioned interaction again this takes communication plus chemistry sometimes you chat through messages but when it comes to the social it becomes obvious that between you all hubby wife and bull there is no chemistry. Cuckolding in my eyes is a dynamic of three all have to have some sort of chemistry for it to be enjoyable for everyone involved..which sometimes can take time and not just the initial social. Maybe invest time in getting to know someone who has potential or meets some of your requirements and you maybe pleasantly surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with Brian0398 Cuckolding is so personal. I love to clean after my FB allows me too after others. But then again, waiting for call to collect after her use so intoxicating. Then again listening to her being tortured turns me on too

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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago

Longridge

"We like to meet from time to time a nice single guy for some cuckolding fun but our experience of most guys on here is that they think a hard shag while hubby watches is cuckolding !

Any other similar couples it difficult to meet the right sort of guys on here ?"

I've met a few cuckold couples and non of them have had the same interpretation of the scenario.

The couple should be clear as to which variety they are looking for as stating guys don't understand when the reality is that he may misread what you expect and not penalise him for being unaware of your version.

There are no hard fast rules and many variations labelled as cuckold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread has me totally confused. Can someone please tell me what cuckolding is then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These threads are always a magnet to the fantasists and the just plain deranged and are entertaining for that alone. A special thanks to the 29 y/o contributer which made us laugh a lot!

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By *az1Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hi everyone. I’m a young bull been in the swinging and cuckolding life style for around 5 years now and quite experienced. I’m mature, respectful, discreet and polite. I understand everyone has their own limits, goals and thoughts on this lifestyle.

I’ve been with couples before for short term and long term. But now I am looking for a couple who I could help explore the scene and open them to new ideas by taking them further in to this lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's all about communication. "

Every thing in relationship, sex, fetishes, kink is about communication.

Bit of prep can make the cooking easier, as they say.

Mistress Amelia x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Basically it’s banging the wife in front of the husband. Hope this helps OP X

I think you’ve illustrated my point exactly!"

He’s been a member for over a year OP, and with no veris, so don’t expect him to know anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Basically it’s banging the wife in front of the husband. Hope this helps OP X

I think you’ve illustrated my point exactly!

He’s been a member for over a year OP, and with no veris, so don’t expect him to know anything

You see the green arrow on my profile yeah, that’s the sign I have verifications yeah, I choose to hide them, if people need to see them they can.

Oh and also it was a joke, but thanks for your input !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Basically it’s banging the wife in front of the husband. Hope this helps OP X

I think you’ve illustrated my point exactly!

He’s been a member for over a year OP, and with no veris, so don’t expect him to know anything

You see the green arrow on my profile yeah, that’s the sign I have verifications yeah, I choose to hide them, if people need to see them they can.

Oh and also it was a joke, but thanks for your input ! "

Just don’t get your need to throw a useless comment into a genuine query in that case, you then go on to say that another poster clearly hasn’t been in the forums before.

It’s the mindlessness of your comments that amazes me. You’re not alone, a lot of single guys, girls and couples seem to think that when people ask for genuine advice from a community they feel part of, that it’s cool to throw worthless comments in the mix rather than actually contribute to the discussion in a positive and constructive manner

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By *ave biMan
over a year ago

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over a year ago

"Basically it’s banging the wife in front of the husband. Hope this helps OP X

I think you’ve illustrated my point exactly!

He’s been a member for over a year OP, and with no veris, so don’t expect him to know anything

You see the green arrow on my profile yeah, that’s the sign I have verifications yeah, I choose to hide them, if people need to see them they can.

Oh and also it was a joke, but thanks for your input !

Just don’t get your need to throw a useless comment into a genuine query in that case, you then go on to say that another poster clearly hasn’t been in the forums before.

If you’re amazed by that, you should see what I can with a whisk, a can of beans and a pair of roller skates.

You have a good day now X

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over a year ago

"Basically it’s banging the wife in front of the husband. Hope this helps OP X

I think you’ve illustrated my point exactly!

He’s been a member for over a year OP, and with no veris, so don’t expect him to know anything

You see the green arrow on my profile yeah, that’s the sign I have verifications yeah, I choose to hide them, if people need to see them they can.

Oh and also it was a joke, but thanks for your input ! "

It made us chuckle. A little light humour amongst the nonsense is good but unlikely to be appreciated or even understood by the presbyterian elements.

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over a year ago

"I may be wrong but I haven’t seen any cuckquean’s on here well I’ve never saw the term used

And agree with it’s all about communication and what one couple wants can differ to another

Different strokes for different folks xx"

I don’t think I’m a cuckquean, but I’m certainly into hothusbanding. Nothing does it for me more then watching my husband have sex with another women. It’s also a great way to satisfy my bi side, by joining in. It’s definitely about dominance, and Im not sure I really enjoy full swops with other couples. For me, having sex with another man, ironically, seems like a betrayal!

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By *otentialcuckMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"My understanding of the the term cuckold is a word traditionally used to describe an adulterous wife.

If a man is cuckolded, his wife has a sexual relationship with another man.

Infidelity still occurs in today's society in which case some husband's are unaware of their cuckold status.

Best description in the thread, modern cuckoldry involves both partners being aware and an agreed set of rules, ie is the husband always present?

cuckolding takes many levels from simply the husband sat watching his wife being pleasured by another guy without a word being said

(body language and the look of pure pleasure in the eyes of a wife to the eyes of her helpless husband sat watching can be so erotic and sexually arousing to the cuck hubby)

through to humiliation from either the wife, bull or both. This can be in the form of verbal humiliation to the cuck actively participating through direction from the wife, bull or both including clean up of 1 or both.

The important thing is mutual agreement on what both husband and wife are comfortable with and any boundaries set in advance, well that's the easy bit sorted, finding the right bull? well that's a different story and a much harder mission. Ive been in a hotwife cuckold relationship before and on average 80% of so called bulls just didn't understand the concept of cuckolding and thought it was just come round and shag the wife, just my twopeneth worth

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"It's all about communication. Cuckolding can mean different things to different people. "

There are many levels to it.

Depends on how you want it, it’s a minefield so can get why some guys don’t know.

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over a year ago

"Basically it’s banging the wife in front of the husband. Hope this helps OP X

I think you’ve illustrated my point exactly!

He’s been a member for over a year OP, and with no veris, so don’t expect him to know anything

You see the green arrow on my profile yeah, that’s the sign I have verifications yeah, I choose to hide them, if people need to see them they can.

Oh and also it was a joke, but thanks for your input ! "

I got you Tame

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over a year ago

"Basically it’s banging the wife in front of the husband. Hope this helps OP X

I think you’ve illustrated my point exactly!

He’s been a member for over a year OP, and with no veris, so don’t expect him to know anything

You see the green arrow on my profile yeah, that’s the sign I have verifications yeah, I choose to hide them, if people need to see them they can.

Oh and also it was a joke, but thanks for your input !

Just don’t get your need to throw a useless comment into a genuine query in that case, you then go on to say that another poster clearly hasn’t been in the forums before.

If you’re amazed by that, you should see what I can with a whisk, a can of beans and a pair of roller skates.

You have a good day now X

I once made a home made microphone using a squirrel, a piece of string and a microphone.

Can you beat that?

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over a year ago

"Basically it’s banging the wife in front of the husband. Hope this helps OP X

I think you’ve illustrated my point exactly!

He’s been a member for over a year OP, and with no veris, so don’t expect him to know anything

You see the green arrow on my profile yeah, that’s the sign I have verifications yeah, I choose to hide them, if people need to see them they can.

Oh and also it was a joke, but thanks for your input !

Just don’t get your need to throw a useless comment into a genuine query in that case, you then go on to say that another poster clearly hasn’t been in the forums before.

The only useless comment I seen, was you telling someone a verified member, is not verified.

Shows how much you know

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

"Basically it’s banging the wife in front of the husband. Hope this helps OP X

I think you’ve illustrated my point exactly!

He’s been a member for over a year OP, and with no veris, so don’t expect him to know anything

You see the green arrow on my profile yeah, that’s the sign I have verifications yeah, I choose to hide them, if people need to see them they can.

Oh and also it was a joke, but thanks for your input !

Just don’t get your need to throw a useless comment into a genuine query in that case, you then go on to say that another poster clearly hasn’t been in the forums before.

If you’re amazed by that, you should see what I can with a whisk, a can of beans and a pair of roller skates.

You have a good day now X

I once made a home made microphone using a squirrel, a piece of string and a microphone.

Can you beat that?"

But you already had a microphone

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over a year ago

"Basically it’s banging the wife in front of the husband. Hope this helps OP X

I think you’ve illustrated my point exactly!

He’s been a member for over a year OP, and with no veris, so don’t expect him to know anything

You see the green arrow on my profile yeah, that’s the sign I have verifications yeah, I choose to hide them, if people need to see them they can.

Oh and also it was a joke, but thanks for your input !

Just don’t get your need to throw a useless comment into a genuine query in that case, you then go on to say that another poster clearly hasn’t been in the forums before.

If you’re amazed by that, you should see what I can with a whisk, a can of beans and a pair of roller skates.

You have a good day now X

I once made a home made microphone using a squirrel, a piece of string and a microphone.

Can you beat that?

But you already had a microphone "

Huh, so I did

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

For us at least and it has taken a long time, it is about the wife's pleasure. Now that comes from many faccett.

From strapon play to feminisation. To a good looking well endowed bull.

From my side (m) I love to see wifey fully pleasure.

Wifey likes me involved in prep work and licking duties

For me seeing her really let herself go and not worried about me is the true cuck world for those moments she is cuck me. She knows it she knows I want it too and she can do anything she desires knowing I won't think anything worse of her and still madly love her.

But that's just us

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"For us at least and it has taken a long time, it is about the wife's pleasure. Now that comes from many faccett.

From strapon play to feminisation. To a good looking well endowed bull.

From my side (m) I love to see wifey fully pleasure.

Wifey likes me involved in prep work and licking duties

But that's just us "

Exactly us too

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

You see the green arrow on my profile yeah, that’s the sign I have verifications yeah "

No it's not

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

A lot of guys will say almost anything to get a shag, including incredible deceit.

As each couples cuckold situation is potentially unique, it's really important to find someone who has reciprocal needs. Spend lots of time communicating and if they won't be open, assume they are more likely to want to mislead and just get their own needs met.

Assume most will not be compatible

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By *teve and mandyCouple
over a year ago

purley

We love our cuckolding lifestyle,we like me to be with my lovers whilst cuck hubby is our sissy cuck slave for our fun and humiliation.He is even bring up other mens children !!!!

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By *iclassyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

For us its about my wife having total freedom to meet who she wants.First she will be messaging potential guy or lady privately then we meet hopefully with myself but if shes totally happy sometimes alone.I do however wish to be present on one occasion.

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over a year ago

"Hi

We love our cuckolding lifestyle,we like me to be with my lovers whilst cuck hubby is our sissy cuck slave for our fun and humiliation.He is even bring up other mens children !!!! "

It sounds like you love him dearly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a man just fucks wife in front of hubby nothing more wouldn't that be a case of voyeurism/hotwife rather than cuckolding.

Essentially cuckolding is more than just fucking wifey. Its hubbies humiliation, a sense of liberation or dominance for wifey and a bull whos happy to help this couple live their desired fantasies.

Though of course afterwards you should stop treating hubby like the cuck and more like hubby. The humiliating side is to be saved for just the act itself and not after.

Copied from diff post.

As the cuck this pretty much sums it up for me, plus the humiliation before the event too, seeing the messages they exchange, having to prepare my wife for another man knowing he will get things I don’t anymore.

If Miss plays alone we like to take pics and vids and send these to me in chastity at home showing me what I don’t have and how I’m unable to satisfy her.

The ideal would be a long term bull that Miss dates, has nights and weekends away with and that I can serve too.

We find lots talk a good game but rarely deliver!

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over a year ago

I thought I did, but now I’m not so sure.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I thought I did, but now I’m not so sure."

Its ok. Seems we can make it up as we go along

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over a year ago

"I thought I did, but now I’m not so sure.

Its ok. Seems we can make it up as we go along "

It’s not something I’m interested in, don’t really like dudes watching me, think it’s creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So after reading this thread what's blatantly obvious is its different things to different people, with that in mind I'd guess communication is the key to see if you are on the same page , if you are great but if not , next !

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By *ingle Dad SeekingMan
over a year ago

Northern England

I actually posted this in the stories section of the forums some time ago, but it doesn't do any harm to give it another public airing.

You're certainly going to laugh at this; but my interest in cuckoldry goes back a LONG way. I was probably only 10 or 11 at the time! You probably won't remember it, but there was a TV sitcom back in the day called "Man About the House".

Well, in it, Mildred (played by the actress Yootha Joyce) the married, but sexually frustrated landlady, frequently made overt sexual advances to Robin (played by Richard O'Sullivan) - the bloke from the upstairs flat - whilst bemoaning her husband's sexual inadequacies. Well, whilst watching it, something "clicked" with me. I think it was her manifest, yet unfulfilled sexuality (or was it her negligee and fluffy slippers ha ha), coupled with the ineptitude of her husband, that put the thought of satisfying another man's wife into my head.

Yootha also featured on a cover of a Smiths record - which sealed the deal for me, as I'm a big fan of the Smiths.

Growing up, and as a teenager, I had the major hots for some of my mate's mothers; but I think that's pretty standard.

Anyway these fantasies remained just that for decades (my marriage was pretty vanilla); until 2001. I was going through my divorce at the time, not in a particularly good place, and alone at my Chairman's retirement party.

At my table was John; one of our suppliers, and his lovely wife Louise. They were from the same town as me, so we at least had something to talk about, besides my matrimonial woes!

As we talked, drank and the evening progressed; I found that my mood had lifted, and I was really enjoying their company. Louise and I danced, and flirted, and as the three of us sat round the table at the end of the evening, she asked me if I'd like to go back to their room "for a nightcap" - accompanied by a broad smile and a theatrical wink of approval from John.

She gave me their room number, and asked me to give them 10 minutes to "freshen up". After the allotted time, I nervously made my way up to their room; unsure if it was to be a wind up, a mug of cocoa or a night of debauchery - fortunately their room was on the same floor as mine, so no suspicions were aroused in any case.

I knocked on their door, and John almost immediately opened it, quickly ushering me inside, where Louise was waiting, draped across the bed in her lingerie. He closed the door behind me, held his arm out towards her, and said "help yourself".

I didn't need any encouragement; and within seconds, I was on the bed beside her, our arms around each other and kissing passionately. I was completely aware of (and actually turned on by) John's presence; and our hands were all over each other, as we knelt together on the bed; undressing, caressing, licking and sucking each other.

I pinned her to the bed and entered her. As we fucked, she orgasmed, and commented breathlessly; "John, this is how a real man fucks" - which sent me over the edge, and I came deep inside her as we kissed.

Presently, I glanced across at John in the chair, he was still watching us intently - and frantically wanking away. Louise looked across at him, and said; "wimp; stop wanking, come over here, and clean up this mess". He didn't need any encouragement; in an instant he had his face buried between Louise's thighs, and was eagerly lapping away, and devouring my spunk and her juices.

Presently, John got up, made us all a cuppa, and we sat, talked, and laughed about the experience; they had done it before - with a waiter on holiday a few years previously, but they told me that they wanted something regular at home.

I laughed, and commented that I'd been set up for this; they agreed, and told me that they had discussed it whilst I was away at the bar earlier in the evening. I certainly wasn't going to complain.

John then joined us on the bed, and we all fucked the rest of the night away - including giving Louise a DP. As the sun was rising, we all eventually collapsed on the bed and slept for a few hours.

When we awoke; Louise and I exchanged numbers, I skipped breakfast, went back to my room and then home. I sent her a text, telling her how much I had enjoyed our time together; and during the week, we exchanged several fruity messages, and arranged to meet again at their house on the following Saturday night.

Her text messages revealed that Louise loved to be dominated and used, John got off on the humiliation, and well, I just loved the dynamics of it all, and being the third side to a very kinky triangle That was the start of a regular 4 year "thing".

As time went by, any inhibitions we may have had, completely disappeared. Louise especially loved to be DP'd, and the close proximity of the other man's cock is inevitable. Almost to my surprise, I was cool with it - especially when I saw how much it turned her on.

She loved to have me fuck her anally from behind and spank her, whilst John laid underneath and licked her clit and vagina.

One night; it must've been our third or fourth meeting, I felt John's tongue lick my balls and cock whilst I fucked her. It was pleasurable. After my orgasm, he licked and sucked my cock clean too.

Prior to our next meeting, I did some research on cuckoldry; and I instructed Louise to buy John a cock cage, and keep him in chastity till we met again. Louise and I would each hold a key.

Prior to my arrival, John was to help her bathe, then shave her, lay out her clothes, and then put on her underwear - knickers and a little camisole top.

On my arrival, John greeted me at the door - dressed accordingly. I gave his cock cage a little wiggle and laughed, as he led me into the lounge, where Louise was waiting.

He served us drinks and nibbles, and generally flounced around, whilst Louise and I chatted and got reacquainted.

She suggested it would be deliciously humiliating for "the wimp" - and pleasurable for me, to have John suck her lover's cock and lick his arse. I found myself agreeing, and I told her that she should assist.

He was surprisingly proficient, and I complimented him on his cock sucking skills. "I trained him well with my dildo" Louise replied.

For a while, the two of them selflessly shared, sucked, and licked my cock, balls and arse - and most gratifying it was too.

Presently, as Louise looked lustfully into my eyes, I gestured upwards - meaning that we should carry on in the bedroom.

They both got up, and I followed Louise's shapely bottom upstairs to their marital bed, whilst John tagged along meekly behind.

That night, the sex was particularly intense; Louise enjoyed being "used"; and John encouraged this from his chair by the door - imploring me to "give her a good seeing to". As I took her, Louise breathlessly replied to her husband; "he should give YOU a good seeing to".

In the heat of the moment, and to my surprise; I found the idea appealing; and told him to get his sissy arse up on the bed, and kneel beside her.

She reached over to the bedside drawer, and produced a bottle of lube. I withdrew from her, and told John to remove his knickers. Louise joined me, squirted the lube over my hard cock and expertly and liberally smeared it around, and in his anus - unbeknown to me, Louise had a strap on - and she'd been "pegging" him with it for quite some time!

She kissed me, taking hold of my erection, and then guided it into her husbands arse. I began to fuck him, whilst kissing her and fingering her.

Subsequently, we removed his cage, and permitted him to relieve himself into Louise's knickers - and then lick them clean.

They both enjoyed being spanked enormously; and I obtained a range of implements to supplement my hands: a paddle, a flogger (her favourite), my daughters old riding crop, and a wooden spoon from their kitchen.

As time progressed, we acquired more paraphernalia; ropes, gags, clamps, and an under the mattress restraint system, with cuffs for the wrists and ankles.

As the months went by, and the better we knew each other, the more uninhibited the sex became, and the more uninhibited the sex was, the more we all enjoyed it.

On many occasions we adjourned to the bathroom and indulged in some very kinky watersports fun. We especially enjoyed having Louise squat over my cock and "let go" as John licked and sucked the pair of us.

We carried on our monthly assignations till I met my ex girlfriend in 2005, but we still remained friends.

Sadly Louise contracted breast cancer in 2013 and passed away in 2014 after a hard battle with the disease. I attended her funeral with my girlfriend at the time (who knew all about our tryst).

....and here I am! Last week I met a lovely local couple on here; hopefully it will become a regular thing.

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over a year ago

Some of us understand it a lot, and have had some great experiences. It’s always unfortunate when guys use it as an excuse to get into a woman’s knickers

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over a year ago

The cuckold spectrum is huge. Some couples want different things to other couples. For some humiliation is key to others it’s not. Cuckolding is a three way relationship and friendship based heavily on trust, everyone has to enjoy what you are doing. I’ve had lots of cuckolding fun as a bull and am currently on the lookout for a couple for regular fun.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"We like to meet from time to time a nice single guy for some cuckolding fun but our experience of most guys on here is that they think a hard shag while hubby watches is cuckolding !

Any other similar couples it difficult to meet the right sort of guys on here ?"

The problem as everyone else has said is that your definition is just that.... yours!

I can ask 10 people and I bet I would get 10 different answers

So all you can do is tell people what it means in your play so people are aware

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

"We like to meet from time to time a nice single guy for some cuckolding fun but our experience of most guys on here is that they think a hard shag while hubby watches is cuckolding !

Any other similar couples it difficult to meet the right sort of guys on here ?

The problem as everyone else has said is that your definition is just that.... yours!

I can ask 10 people and I bet I would get 10 different answers

So all you can do is tell people what it means in your play so people are aware "

This

Everyone’s interpretation can be different, for us cuckoldry is best when everyone involved understands what each of them want entirely.... You don’t get this in a quick wham bam

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over a year ago

I could be wrong and I've struggled with this alot.. as most have said everyone seems to have a different interpretation of this.

I understood it that Cuckolding is primarily because the freind/partner/husbund/fcuk buddy has a small dick or cums quick so there for cannot please the women... she then seeks or they seek a man who can fullfill what he can't and he pleases her in front of him.

and no thats not the same as watching someone fcuk someone for the sake of it... a man has to have some flaws where by another man can fullfill...

that's to me what essential Cuckolding is ..

right?

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

"I could be wrong and I've struggled with this alot.. as most have said everyone seems to have a different interpretation of this.

and no thats not the same as watching someone fcuk someone for the sake of it... a man has to have some flaws where by another man can fullfill...

that's to me what essential Cuckolding is ..

right?"

It can hold an element of that yes, but for us that’s more psychological as him is certainly above average in size however enjoys the tease. It doesn’t have to be a perminant dynamic more a role play that all parties enjoy

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over a year ago

It feels like, from the single male point of view, this thread has made it look hugely more complex than it is. Yes you need to discuss stuff if you want to get exactly what you want. But I can't help but think you can kinda wing it too.

For me the basic thing is that you're cheating with a man's wife right under his nose. The norm across all scenarios is that the male isn't supposed to just satisfy the woman. He's supposed to do so in such a way that he rubs in the fact that she's cheating. After this, to my mind, the only difference is humiliation or not. If you're of the more bi persuasion, or you just get a kick out of shaming another guy, you can be fucking his wife but spending a fair bit of your time focused on him, showing him how much better at it than him you are. I couldn't do this simply because I'm straight. If I started focusing on the dude I'd go flat. Plus, humiliating a partner can be quite an extreme thing. So you'd probably want to take tentative steps into that if you hadn't asked, as some couples prefer the wife to do the humiliating and for the male to merely adapt his fucking to emphasise her points.

If you're not going to humiliate then woppee it's basically cheating from the single male point of view. If you find the idea of cheating a turn on and you like the idea of planning meets that emphasise the fact you're cheating, maybe with the husband in the closet watching "unbeknownst to you both"

as you both fuck and talk about how you hope he doesn't find out... then just run with him it.

Hopefully I haven't just made a complete fool of myself. But I do think it's simpler from the single male view point than it has been made out on this thread and, though I'm sure an integral part of it is talking things through with the husband as that's where he gets his kicks, I don't think people need to be scared off it as super complex and with lots of fiddly rules

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over a year ago

"I could be wrong and I've struggled with this alot.. as most have said everyone seems to have a different interpretation of this.

and no thats not the same as watching someone fcuk someone for the sake of it... a man has to have some flaws where by another man can fullfill...

that's to me what essential Cuckolding is ..

right?

then what your after isn't true Cuckolding

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over a year ago

"I could be wrong and I've struggled with this alot.. as most have said everyone seems to have a different interpretation of this.

and no thats not the same as watching someone fcuk someone for the sake of it... a man has to have some flaws where by another man can fullfill...

that's to me what essential Cuckolding is ..

right?

then what your after isn't true Cuckolding "

I’ve read the whole thread and from what I can gather it’s when a dude bangs a woman in front of her husband, while the wife says ‘You’re so much bigger than my useless hubby’ etc Hope this has finally cleared this up.

Kind regards X

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

"I could be wrong and I've struggled with this alot.. as most have said everyone seems to have a different interpretation of this.

and no thats not the same as watching someone fcuk someone for the sake of it... a man has to have some flaws where by another man can fullfill...

that's to me what essential Cuckolding is ..

right?

then what your after isn't true Cuckolding "

That’s the point, true cuckolding is whatever you want it to be. There are no absolutes only degrees of depth

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

"I could be wrong and I've struggled with this alot.. as most have said everyone seems to have a different interpretation of this.

and no thats not the same as watching someone fcuk someone for the sake of it... a man has to have some flaws where by another man can fullfill...

that's to me what essential Cuckolding is ..

right?

then what your after isn't true Cuckolding

Kind regards X"

lol

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over a year ago

"Basically it’s banging the wife in front of the husband. Hope this helps OP X

Oh how very wrong you are sir "

That's exactly the sort of comment that the op is referring to.... I bet you don't get any offers if that's what you think cuckolding is.... very ignorant

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over a year ago

"Basically it’s banging the wife in front of the husband. Hope this helps OP X

Oh how very wrong you are sir

That's exactly the sort of comment that the op is referring to.... I bet you don't get any offers if that's what you think cuckolding is.... very ignorant "

I bet you don’t get many jokes, when this one clearly went over your head. Oh and I get plenty !

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over a year ago

"I may be wrong but I haven’t seen any cuckquean’s on here well I’ve never saw the term used

And agree with it’s all about communication and what one couple wants can differ to another

Different strokes for different folks xx

Omg, this is exactly me!!!! I was actually starting to think I was the only one in the world lol

I'm really glad you've commented on this post, it's actually made me feel really good, i'd love to chat with you sometime about it if that's ok? xGx

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over a year ago

"I may be wrong but I haven’t seen any cuckquean’s on here well I’ve never saw the term used

And agree with it’s all about communication and what one couple wants can differ to another

Different strokes for different folks xx

Omg, this is exactly me!!!! I was actually starting to think I was the only one in the world lol

I'm really glad you've commented on this post, it's actually made me feel really good, i'd love to chat with you sometime about it if that's ok? xGx"

This is exactly me too

me and my partner had our first mfff experience a few weeks ago and I loved it, seeing him with 2 other women drove me wild! I feel like I'm getting withdrawal symptoms already and need to get my next fix

. I fully get what your saying about the not wanting to sleep with a man though, I'm so glad I'm not on my own

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over a year ago

"I may be wrong but I haven’t seen any cuckquean’s on here well I’ve never saw the term used

And agree with it’s all about communication and what one couple wants can differ to another

Different strokes for different folks xx

Omg, this is exactly me!!!! I was actually starting to think I was the only one in the world lol

I'm really glad you've commented on this post, it's actually made me feel really good, i'd love to chat with you sometime about it if that's ok? xGx

This is exactly me too

. I fully get what your saying about the not wanting to sleep with a man though, I'm so glad I'm not on my own

Oh my days, there's more of us! We did chat about me meeting couples for a soft swap experience but something always felt a bit off, I thought I was maybe just a bit strange that I didn't want any involvement from another guy as it felt like I was betraying my hubby, but I'm totally at ease with watching him devour another woman before we all get jiggy together

do u think we should start an appreciation society?! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Basically it’s banging the wife in front of the husband. Hope this helps OP X

Oh how very wrong you are sir

That's exactly the sort of comment that the op is referring to.... I bet you don't get any offers if that's what you think cuckolding is.... very ignorant "

There is very little consensus what cuckolding is, on this thread. Do you think more than a few contributors are ignorant as well?

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By *ittlevixenWoman
over a year ago

Mold North Wales

"I'm fairly confident I get it. I didn't know what it was called but fantasised about it. Then someone told me it was cuckolding except without the humiliation part. So in essence I get it because that's how my mind works. I still haven't found a couple who want to try it with me yet though. "

That’s more stag/vixen. cuckolding includes humiliation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’ve learnt anything about cuckolding from this thread, it’s that it’s a very serious business and you mustn’t make light of it.

Good luck to everyone on your future cuckolding endeavours, here’s to you both and also the bloke banging your wife X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s more stag/vixen. cuckolding includes humiliation "

Isn't stag and vixen a form of cuckolding? Does cuckolding always involve humiliation? I'd appreciate some guidance on this as if the answer is no and yes then I'll take it off my list of interests and my profile text because I'm really not into humiliation

Thanks

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

That’s more stag/vixen. cuckolding includes humiliation

Thanks

The problem, and the cause of a lot of confusion, is that there seems to be a school of thought that you can define anything any way you want, labels are for jam etc.

That's a bit like describing yourself as a train spotter when what you actually do is collect names and registration numbers of Eddie Stobart lorries.

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

There’s a Taboo SX Cuck Party in Blackpool on 6th Sept some on here may like

We’re hoping to find some nice bi-femd and maybe a bull...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Basically it’s banging the wife in front of the husband. Hope this helps OP X"

Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To build up a true cuckold relationship takes time and a series of meets. Not only sex meets.

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By *lexLucyCouple
over a year ago

London

"I could be wrong and I've struggled with this alot.. as most have said everyone seems to have a different interpretation of this.

and no thats not the same as watching someone fcuk someone for the sake of it... a man has to have some flaws where by another man can fullfill...

that's to me what essential Cuckolding is ..

right? "

As a cuckold couple of almost 8 years now we have seen pretty much everything and it's true what most say here. 90% of the guys don't have a clue. And how could they? Each cuck couple is different and so, as others have said, communication beforehand is paramount. And I have spent my cuckold life teaching/explaining/coaching talented men to what we are into exactly. I have created some of the best "bulls" (a word I don't like) LOL. But I am afraid that this Doctor Frankenstein operation makes the whole thing lose some of the edge for inevitably it becomes role play (we like it but we prefer the spontaneity of it all). It is so thrilling, when once every hundred years (only twice in 8 years for us) He comes along! The expert single guy who is EXACTLY on your same page and, before you say anything, he knows exactly what goes on in your mind and in your dreams and makes all the most twisted and subtle mind games come true. Real cuckold is mainly in the mind. The fucking, the sex, the more physical aspects are going to be there, of course, but, IMO, it is a mistake to consider them central (they will inevitably be at the centre of it, what's usually missing is all the rest). So to reply to your message: There can be some truth in it for some couples (definitely in mine and my wife's case) but it's not just about the fucking, there is a lot more that goes on before, during and after. Guys tend to think in terms of ACTION. Doing, making, moving the pelvis. The single guys who are aware of the mind and can play with it are extremely rare and extremely precious!

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By *are2bedifferentCouple
over a year ago

birstall

I would love to cuckquean my man it's so horny to be humiliated by a hot sexy girl playing with my man

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"I would love to cuckquean my man it's so horny to be humiliated by a hot sexy girl playing with my man"

Hi, sent you a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like to meet from time to time a nice single guy for some cuckolding fun but our experience of most guys on here is that they think a hard shag while hubby watches is cuckolding !

Any other similar couples it difficult to meet the right sort of guys on here ?"
I don't can you explain it to me

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I suspect the best bloke, would be a switch, who has been cuckold; like myself.

It’s a total horny angst ridden mindfuck. It’s not just about sex!!!

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

"I could be wrong and I've struggled with this alot.. as most have said everyone seems to have a different interpretation of this.

and no thats not the same as watching someone fcuk someone for the sake of it... a man has to have some flaws where by another man can fullfill...

that's to me what essential Cuckolding is ..

right?

Very well put

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I could be wrong and I've struggled with this alot.. as most have said everyone seems to have a different interpretation of this.

and no thats not the same as watching someone fcuk someone for the sake of it... a man has to have some flaws where by another man can fullfill...

that's to me what essential Cuckolding is ..

right?

Very well put

(Smiles) Isn’t the mind the base of all kink play?

The rest is just physical, non cognitive play.

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By *pace_Cowboy_BrumMan
over a year ago

Kings Norton, Birmingham, B30

I love the cuckolding scene from a voyeuristic point of view as yet to indulge.

I am however well aware that it's a very wide ranging term.

Cuckold means different things to different people. All kind of around same core but with different elements or, kinks thrown in.

For a while, I always thought it must be an IR thing as looking it up online always seemed to bring back Black Bull humiliating white hubby. That put me off for a while as don't like the race element personally.

One day I hope to learn more and experience cuckold scene first hand. If there's anyone in Bournville or South Brum that fancies giving some education / play, happy to hear from you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand it as the couple (male) will talk to you about it in the cam rooms (when I am on cam), set it all up, getting excited and say, I will get back to you when she gets home. Next day I will be blocked or no mail gets sent.

Resulting in my faith for this being tested and I move on as does life.

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By *lexLucyCouple
over a year ago

London

"Real cuckold is mainly in the mind. The fucking, the sex, the more physical aspects are going to be there, of course, but, IMO, it is a mistake to consider them central (they will inevitably be at the centre of it, what's usually missing is all the rest). So to reply to your message: There can be some truth in it for some couples (definitely in mine and my wife's case) but it's not just about the fucking, there is a lot more that goes on before, during and after. Guys tend to think in terms of ACTION. Doing, making, moving the pelvis. The single guys who are aware of the mind and can play with it are extremely rare and extremely precious!

Very well put

(Smiles) Isn’t the mind the base of all kink play?

The rest is just physical, non cognitive play."

If only most "bulls" were aware of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey im none the wisey after reading that lot, ill stay clear of the whole cuck thing i think.

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By *strokeC100Couple
over a year ago

chester

I think for a happily married couple there could be few more intense experiences. As people have said it means different things for different people once you go beyond the basic one of the wife fucking a man other than her husband, and if our experience is typical, cuckold couples themselves evolve as they become more comfortable with it.

I’m certain (speaking as the cuckold in a long and very happy marriage) that this is more of a challenge for the wife , as she is likely to be concerned about hurting the man she loves and maybe endangering the marriage itself, which for all the sexual pleasure cuckolding brings is usually far more important to her.

This can bring tensions as the couple may explore different stages of cuckolding. A challenge also to the bull in sensing where a couple may be at and when, if he wishes, to push at boundaries. A couple in the early stages at least are unlikely to state explicitly what they would appreciate and what they really wouldn’t! As in many aspect of our sexual expereinces it is easier for us to be “made” to do things we may actually want, than to ask for them. And of course a cuckold couple will want a bull who is sexually confident and assertive. His skill is knowing what they really want to be told to do, but what may at that moment be too far.

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By *obin_and_marionMan
over a year ago

Beaconsfield

"We like to meet from time to time a nice single guy for some cuckolding fun but our experience of most guys on here is that they think a hard shag while hubby watches is cuckolding !

There are so many different views of what is meant by cuckolding that you're better off not using the terminology and instead saying what you're looking for.

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By *teve and mandyCouple
over a year ago

purley

"Hi

We love our cuckolding lifestyle,we like me to be with my lovers whilst cuck hubby is our sissy cuck slave for our fun and humiliation.He is even bring up other mens children !!!!

It sounds like you love him dearly"

Yes !! but it is our lifestyle we have chosen all most from first meeting hubby.Hubby is a sissy cuck .

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"Hi

We love our cuckolding lifestyle,we like me to be with my lovers whilst cuck hubby is our sissy cuck slave for our fun and humiliation.He is even bring up other mens children !!!!

It sounds like you love him dearly

Yes !! but it is our lifestyle we have chosen all most from first meeting hubby.Hubby is a sissy cuck ."

And that goes to show that communication trust and respect are the best recipes for great sex. And it does seem like you have a magic time!

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By *teve and mandyCouple
over a year ago

purley

"Hi

We love our cuckolding lifestyle,we like me to be with my lovers whilst cuck hubby is our sissy cuck slave for our fun and humiliation.He is even bring up other mens children !!!!

It sounds like you love him dearly

Yes !! but it is our lifestyle we have chosen all most from first meeting hubby.Hubby is a sissy cuck .

And that goes to show that communication trust and respect are the best recipes for great sex. And it does seem like you have a magic time!

Yes we do,love sissy cuck bring up other mens kids

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"Hi

We love our cuckolding lifestyle,we like me to be with my lovers whilst cuck hubby is our sissy cuck slave for our fun and humiliation.He is even bring up other mens children !!!!

It sounds like you love him dearly

Yes !! but it is our lifestyle we have chosen all most from first meeting hubby.Hubby is a sissy cuck .

And that goes to show that communication trust and respect are the best recipes for great sex. And it does seem like you have a magic time!

Yes we do,love sissy cuck bring up other mens kids"

Wow! Why don’t you rent him out while I look after you!

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"Hi

We love our cuckolding lifestyle,we like me to be with my lovers whilst cuck hubby is our sissy cuck slave for our fun and humiliation.He is even bring up other mens children !!!!

It sounds like you love him dearly

Yes !! but it is our lifestyle we have chosen all most from first meeting hubby.Hubby is a sissy cuck .

And that goes to show that communication trust and respect are the best recipes for great sex. And it does seem like you have a magic time!

Yes we do,love sissy cuck bring up other mens kids

Wow! Why don’t you rent him out while I look after you!

Hhmmm. That wouldn’t work would it. He wouldn’t be able to watch us then, would he!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckolding is sexual alchemy. The greatest story ever told. A message repeated through time through myth and legend. Chalcopyrite; The eternal triangle of copper(wife) sulphur(husband) and iron(lover) as reflected in the geology of the earth. And Friday the 13th is international hotwife day. I'll just leave this here..

https://www.britishhomeopathic.org/charity/how-we-can-help/articles/homeopathic-medicines/c/cuprum-metallicum/

All is mental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Term comes from the cuckoo bird !

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"I could be wrong and I've struggled with this alot.. as most have said everyone seems to have a different interpretation of this.

and no thats not the same as watching someone fcuk someone for the sake of it... a man has to have some flaws where by another man can fullfill...

that's to me what essential Cuckolding is ..

right?

then what your after isn't true Cuckolding

That’s the point, true cuckolding is whatever you want it to be. There are no absolutes only degrees of depth

"
Surely true cuckolding at least involves some Spandau Ballet in the background?

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"Cuckolding is sexual alchemy. The greatest story ever told. A message repeated through time through myth and legend. Chalcopyrite; The eternal triangle of copper(wife) sulphur(husband) and iron(lover) as reflected in the geology of the earth. And Friday the 13th is international hotwife day. I'll just leave this here..

https://www.britishhomeopathic.org/charity/how-we-can-help/articles/homeopathic-medicines/c/cuprum-metallicum/

All is mental "
Yey, and now we get the homeopaths too - we are truly blessed... If all the homeopathic recipes in the UK were washed away in a flood, would that just make them stronger?

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"I love the cuckolding scene from a voyeuristic point of view as yet to indulge.

I am however well aware that it's a very wide ranging term.

Cuckold means different things to different people. All kind of around same core but with different elements or, kinks thrown in.

One day I hope to learn more and experience cuckold scene first hand. If there's anyone in Bournville or South Brum that fancies giving some education / play, happy to hear from you. "
The connection of race and transgression is deeply coded in Anglo Saxon culture - hence Othello being described to Brabantio as 'an old black ram tupping your white ewe...'

However, the inter racial aspects of cuck porn probably reflect the fact that so much of the UK porn market is now dominated by American rather than European product, and America is a deeply racist society that still acts out the tensions and memes of the pre 13th Amendment society of the south.

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By *heffcouple77Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Apart from most guy's not knowing what cuckolding is why is there none in sheffield lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem we find with the single guys is that I don't think they know how to seduce. I think there maybe such a sense of relief that they've actually made it through the front door of a would be shags house that it's a bit like a rabbit caught in the headlamp of a car.

Don't rush is my advice. Find out what everyone wants from the evenings fun and games and don't just assume that everyone wants the same things as the other meet you had a few weeks ago. Don't be crass and make cheap shots at the male as you are just making yourself look stupid and boring. What he wants may not be what the mrs thinks he wants and vice versa. Tease out of them some kinkiness and naughtiness that is maybe hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://www.britishhomeopathic.org/charity/how-we-can-help/articles/homeopathic-medicines/c/cuprum-metallicum/

All is mental Yey, and now we get the homeopaths too - we are truly blessed... If all the homeopathic recipes in the UK were washed away in a flood, would that just make them stronger?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feel free to tell me how it should work, either here or privately

Suggest you research on the internet !

Well put, very different things to different couples.

Sadly most the cuck couples I’ve engaged with on here are also wannabe fantasists, or rather the male is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Basically it’s banging the wife in front of the husband. Hope this helps OP X"

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

https://www.britishhomeopathic.org/charity/how-we-can-help/articles/homeopathic-medicines/c/cuprum-metallicum/

All is mental Yey, and now we get the homeopaths too - we are truly blessed... If all the homeopathic recipes in the UK were washed away in a flood, would that just make them stronger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://www.britishhomeopathic.org/charity/how-we-can-help/articles/homeopathic-medicines/c/cuprum-metallicum/

All is mental Yey, and now we get the homeopaths too - we are truly blessed... If all the homeopathic recipes in the UK were washed away in a flood, would that just make them stronger?

I am not a homeopath and have no interest in it. You made an assumption based on the data location link. No doubt sadly you will always miss the point because you already know everything. Your perception of me is a reflection of you; my reaction to you is an awareness of me. you used homeopaths as a source of data. 'nuff said..."
but none of my text said anything about it. People see what they want to see. Guess you only read the newspaper headlines and not the content.. sucker for dogma and rhetoric. When you can de-code metaphors and parables come back to me

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By *teve and mandyCouple
over a year ago

purley

We love and always done cuckolding,hubby is a sissy cuck to me and my lovers.He/it is humiliated for our fun ,not his.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"We love and always done cuckolding,hubby is a sissy cuck to me and my lovers.He/it is humiliated for our fun ,not his."
wow what a fantastic profile and pics..I love the pic of cuck in his tights and jumper!

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By *teve and mandyCouple
over a year ago

purley

Thanks,sissy cuck hubby is always dressed like that

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury

Looking good..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can come round and show any women that are not sure?

I think you have fallen flat on your face before unlocking your own front door.

What you should have said was I can come round and show any couple that are not sure.....

You are not meeting up with one person it is two people. You may only touch the woman but your actually having a sexual encounter with the man as well.....

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By *teve and mandyCouple
over a year ago

purley

"Looking good..

Thanks

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"I can come round and show any women that are not sure?

I think you have fallen flat on your face before unlocking your own front door.

What you should have said was I can come round and show any couple that are not sure.....

You are not meeting up with one person it is two people. You may only touch the woman but your actually having a sexual encounter with the man as well....."
Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s more stag/vixen. cuckolding includes humiliation

Thanks

Surely as a single male you would need to be into some form of humiliation in order to keep persevering with FAB

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By *ittlevixenWoman
over a year ago

Mold North Wales

"I have been the "BULL" on many occasions and realise its not just banging the wife,

There is much more to it. the role play, the mind games and the rewards of everyone enjoying it.

It is actually down to cuckolding that I found my bi side as it where."

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over a year ago

"We like to meet from time to time a nice single guy for some cuckolding fun but our experience of most guys on here is that they think a hard shag while hubby watches is cuckolding !

Any other similar couples it difficult to meet the right sort of guys on here ?"

For some that's exactly what it is. For others it's much more. It's what a couple want it to be, there are no rules.

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

"I have been the "BULL" on many occasions and realise its not just banging the wife,

There is much more to it. the role play, the mind games and the rewards of everyone enjoying it.

It is actually down to cuckolding that I found my bi side as it where."

Well covered, it’s different for everyone so our advice would be to talk it through with all parties lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly best thing tell the person you are meeting what you want from them and what they can expect from you.

Know your boundary and do t cross it

It would be a lot easier if people are honest about what they want

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