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By *ick and Bum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dawlish

So....

The chat on Fab was great, social down the pub went well and now you’ve invited them over to yours for a meet.

How do you break the ice? Or what’s the most interesting ice breaker you’ve experienced in the scene. We always seem to struggle with this, never got awkward (thankfully) but never known quite how to turn the pleasant conversation into a trip upstairs to start what everyone is really thinking about.

Worst case it was gone 1am by the time we “started” (well worth it though).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we're having a drink I usually ask as soon as the glasses are empty "shall we go upstairs?" If no drinks involved then I ask the same even sooner.

Or we start playing where we are and the rest follows.

Nobody objected to it yet.

Mrs

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

I usually bring out me stamp and bottle too collections - that usually gets them going

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By *ick and Bum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dawlish


"I usually bring out me stamp and bottle too collections - that usually gets them going"

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By *immy142Man
over a year ago

somewhere near Tewkesbury

We usually ask an open ended question like, “how does everyone feel about going a bit further?” Or “would anyone object if we.....?”

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By *layfulfoxMan
over a year ago

nowhere

This was an issue on my meet, we both knew why we came back but were too polite to ask. Think maybe next time just push her against the wall as soon as we get in

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We sometimes use a board game to get us all nude and in the mood, have one called "Daredevil" we bought through the internet many years back.

Or we have a drink and a chat, where we discuss our and their boundaries, then we just say "let's go up to the bedroom." When we all get there we swap partners and undress one another, taking it slowly.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Surely it's overkill to bring a ship along for a first date -wouldn't it be easier to hire a peddalo or row boat and work your way up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strangst and most immediate ice breaker I experienced whilst alone and away from home was at a Northants / Oxon Premier Inn.

Where a cpl I had a drink with invited me back to their room because the third party who was supposed to have joined them had stood them up without any explanation.

Though flattered I declined the offer, explained that I was married and faithful to my Missus and beat a hasty retreat.

Pity that sort of thing didn't happen a few years earlier when I was a single man.

It certainly broke the ice though. ??????

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By *heif6999Man
over a year ago

malton

Fat penguins break the ice

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"Fat penguins break the ice "

Only in the Southern Hemisphere thou

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