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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is it that drives so many people to fantasise about sleeping with someone older/younger than themselves?

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By *aseyjones7Man
over a year ago

leicestershire

Statistically you are limiting your options if you only meet people exactly the same age as yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m attracted to men older than 30. Don’t find men my own age attractive. Not a fantasy, just a preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t speak for anyone else but for as long as I can remember I’ve always preferred men older than myself.

Weird but I think it stems from my parents being 19 years apart in age & their relationship is wonderful!

I’ve never gone for anyone younger than me and find it hard to go for anyone exactly my age either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m attracted to men older than 30. Don’t find men my own age attractive. Not a fantasy, just a preference "

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Why limit your chances, i fancy someone first before I look at how old they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to prefer younger guys because I like how they look rather than it being some kind of age fantasy

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

When I was a younger I dont think it was a fantasy, I just enjoyed the more mature lady compared to girls my age at the time. I enjoyed the company and maturity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably because it's not very often those social circles interact. I mean it's rare for me to talk to anyone over 30 in a social setting. You tend to move with people your own age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably because it's not very often those social circles interact. I mean it's rare for me to talk to anyone over 30 in a social setting. You tend to move with people your own age. "

This is very true.

Another reason for me definitely which I mentioned the other day elsewhere.

My social circle is mostly under 30 and mostly non white, so on here I look for the complete opposite.

It’s certainly not a fantasy for me and definitely a preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it is nice to see that there are some that like older... makes being here worthwhile

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Younger people are usually more attractive arent they, it makes a change from being with people your own age, something different, reminds you of when you were young. Sometimes young people are less cynical, more optimistic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my youth I lusted after sexy mature older women, now I'm mature myself I prefer sexy younger women. I've no idea why I just know what I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone around the same age or older for me.

I think the experience factor plays a part for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only really younger guys that show an interest, so not a fantasy, just the only option

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By *amdacarrCouple
over a year ago

lincoln and chameleons

My usual preference is for young guys but that said I'm having a whale of a time on holiday both with the teen gardeners and at a naked BBQ where the guys were aged into their 70's.

So I guess for me all work in the right circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was 20 I wanted people older... 40+

Now I’m well into my mid 30’s I’m looking more and more at people 20+

Odd how your desire changes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it that drives so many people to fantasise about sleeping with someone older/younger than themselves? "

Your question is about fantasies and yes all people have fantasies, both vanilla and sexual, the drivers are usually rooted in what is perceived as unobtainable or an early influence that shaped something idealistic.

If a fantasy is achievable in any way, so long as it is safe sane and legal then life is too short not to do something that makes it comes true.

We have a 35 yr age gap and happily live our fantasies as happy realities together

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By *r genuine oneMan
over a year ago

walsall

Dont know what it is but definatly prefer an older woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always preferred younger... my age and above are too bland (flood gates for abuse open LOL)

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"I’m attracted to men older than 30. Don’t find men my own age attractive. Not a fantasy, just a preference "

Typical we are 400 miles apart

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By *r_LickCouple
over a year ago

aberdeen

Not sure really it just happened with us. I'm 54 and she's 34

We've been together 14yrs now

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Mrs love's younger guy's .

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Curiosity and lust?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The curiosity of a older sophisticated lady attracts me! Especially the ladies who are classy but when they are in the bedroom they are deviants!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The women that like younger guys need to pm me immediately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both prefer younger, in the 20s or 30s. However Marie likes to have a few at once!

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Don't really look at a persons age, if they look good and we are attracted to them then as long as they have the personality to match then all is good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We both prefer younger, in the 20s or 30s. However Marie likes to have a few at once! "

Bonus I’m only 23 then, shame there’s a million miles between us though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mad about older women, its the tabboo, the experience, the looks, shape and intelectual stimulas. It seems so wrong but feels so right. Especially when they groan in orgasm with that mature voice. mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it that drives so many people to fantasise about sleeping with someone older/younger than themselves? "

It's hard to find someone born on the same day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like younger women if they have a nice firm body.

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By *khot1Couple
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow

Some women like older men because there more mature and stable... Some men like younger women because there having a mid life crisis or immature

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By *ike rotchticklesMan
over a year ago

oldham

Older women for me... they have a certain auora arround them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to date/meet older women not because it’s some fantasy I’m wanting to fulfill, but because I prefer their company. I get on well with girls in my age group, but I feel more of a connection/attraction with someone older than me. My friends say I’m older than I really am, but I say I’d rather be with someone I click with on an intellectual/maturity level and that, in my experience, has been with women older than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to prefer younger guys because I like how they look rather than it being some kind of age fantasy "

I agree

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm living the dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always dated a similar age, so much younger or older would be new. New things are the unknown and exciting. Sometimes things aren’t as good as you imagine, but you never knew till you try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only really dated/slept with women around my age so I've got an itch to scratch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All about personality for me . I am still feeling like I did in my mid twenties. So I can get on really well with younger women who like older men . Particularly in role play scenarios that are solely about younger women and their enjoying older men etc .. that being said I also enjoy the company of women of my own age .. maybe they give me a bit of a feeling of grounding and being me back to earth

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By *ilky barkedMan
over a year ago

london

Prefer older women to take control and teach me some experienced naughtyness. They can take the lead I Spose

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By *obmarieCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wales& Border

Both of us have been luck enough to have experience both younger and older. We've both come to the same conclusion it not so much of an age thing as just being on the same wave length as the person your with at the time!

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By *ilky barkedMan
over a year ago

london

Would like to have a couple but ain’t got the balls lool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always preferred older, just something about older women !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dating younger people can be a double edged sword.....

The good - they are full of energy and very spontaneous

The bad - when speaking to them about certain subjects... you can feel old at times...

The ugly - break ups take longer to end and they can become very clingy

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"Some women like older men because there more mature and stable... Some men like younger women because there having a mid life crisis or immature "

Or because younger women tend to look better physically lol.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

A lack of fibre in their diet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d happily not even know someone’s age, if I was attracted to them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love older and younger women. Oldest is 68yrs recently. It's exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy both older and younger. It changes Depending on the day really :p

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