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Wtf is vanilla??

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By *heekimonki2017 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Someone explain it to me as I thought it was an ice cream....serious though what is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s a milkshake flavour you can get from McDonalds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s a milkshake flavour you can get from McDonalds "

This made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone explain it to me as I thought it was an ice cream....serious though what is it?"
It's just a label it means nothing this is the real world, real people, real messages and hopefully real meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone explain it to me as I thought it was an ice cream....serious though what is it?"

Terminology for plain old fashioned sex minus kinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s a milkshake flavour you can get from McDonalds

This made me chuckle "

Sorry OP, i’m in a silly mood, didn’t mean to be rude xx

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By *heekimonki2017 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Lol it ok silly mood better than a bad mood .still not got a clue what they mean when they say it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol it ok silly mood better than a bad mood .still not got a clue what they mean when they say it lol"

It most definitely is x

It’s just a term to suggest “plain” “normal” “run of the mill” ... and swinging terms ...”no kink” etc ...... hope this helps x

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By *heekimonki2017 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Ahhh I see so it means boring sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhh I see so it means boring sex lol"

My vanilla sex isn’t boring... in my opinion that is ...... just more “straight down the line” x

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By *heekimonki2017 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I'll have to take your word for it unless you can prove it ?? any sex is good sex just some better than others xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll have to take your word for it unless you can prove it ?? any sex is good sex just some better than others xx"

Please do take my word that’s it’s not boring hehe.....I don’t feel the need to prove it though, I’ve been with my Hubby 20 years and as long as he all good with it then so am I ..... enjoy your not boring sex hehe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhh I see so it means boring sex lol"

It depends on whether you consider non-kinky sex boring. I think it all depends on who it's with

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By *eorgeo1Man
over a year ago

Slaley


"Lol it ok silly mood better than a bad mood .still not got a clue what they mean when they say it lol

It most definitely is x

It’s just a term to suggest “plain” “normal” “run of the mill” ... and swinging terms ...”no

kink” etc ...... hope this helps x"

Thanks for that, I never understood what it meant either. My partner and I love this type of sex. Thanks again.

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

Our understanding of Vanilla is non-swinging sex and friends - people in the mundane world who don’t take in the joys of our pleasurable little world.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

If you have to ask then you are probably vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have to ask then you are probably vanilla "

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

Vanilla to us meant people not on the site. I have a thing about meeting people who's not on here in reality at the moment

Mrs

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It means none lifestyle people to me.

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester


"Someone explain it to me as I thought it was an ice cream....serious though what is it?"

I like strawberry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s a milkshake flavour you can get from McDonalds "

The only flavour I like from thee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It also depends on who your with... to swswingers it tends to mean normal sex or people outside of the lifestyle. To bdsm people most swingers would be labelled vanilla too.

I tend to refer to it a bit like muggles from Harry potter and mean none swing or kink related

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone explain it to me as I thought it was an ice cream....serious though what is it?It's just a label it means nothing this is the real world, real people, real messages and hopefully real meets "

I have my 'real life' and I also have 'Fab life'. The two never collide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd use it to describe anything ordinary and respectable. If someone wants a social to be vanilla I'd take that as a sign to keep my hands to myself and not be too cheeky. If they say they don't want it to be vanilla... wah hey! phwoar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd use it to describe anything ordinary and respectable. If someone wants a social to be vanilla I'd take that as a sign to keep my hands to myself and not be too cheeky. If they say they don't want it to be vanilla... wah hey! phwoar! "

This for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd use it to describe anything ordinary and respectable. If someone wants a social to be vanilla I'd take that as a sign to keep my hands to myself and not be too cheeky. If they say they don't want it to be vanilla... wah hey! phwoar! "
I'd expect all socials to be hands to themselves. Would end very quickly if they helped themselves

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By *oisineandAlCouple
over a year ago

limerick

vanilla means old fashioned connections.

you dont have kink in your life. No bdsm etc. vanilla is a term used for people who are not involved in the kink world or bdsm world. They have no concept of playing either way. very straight down the line. narrow minded sort off.

In my relationship I do vanilla and kink/bdsm. Vanilla is old fashioned values with nothing inbetween.

while in our relationship vanilla is not boring as we live on the verge on vanilla and kink. one part of us dont do kink but enjoys seeing the other who does. lol so he is not really vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd use it to describe anything ordinary and respectable. If someone wants a social to be vanilla I'd take that as a sign to keep my hands to myself and not be too cheeky. If they say they don't want it to be vanilla... wah hey! phwoar! I'd expect all socials to be hands to themselves. Would end very quickly if they helped themselves "

And don't you go thinking I'm letting your fingers anywhere near me either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd use it to describe anything ordinary and respectable. If someone wants a social to be vanilla I'd take that as a sign to keep my hands to myself and not be too cheeky. If they say they don't want it to be vanilla... wah hey! phwoar!

This for me too "

Phwoar! Fancy a social?

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