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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it me or is it extremely narrow-minded and stupid, to call someone a liar and block them because he (me) don't sound like "a black man" over the phone?!

So how am I meant to sound then?! I was born in London and lived here everyday of my life, so guess what, I sound like me, a man that so happens to be black.

What also pissed me off is not only have I been called a liar, some of those people that has left me genuine verifications are liars too now, women whom I've sat down and had drinks with face to face.

Because I don't sound like a black man, what the actual fuck!!!

Can't believe some people can be this way in 2018 but you know what, am the lucky one I've missed that bullet!!

At least I give people the opportunity to be themselves I'm not a stereotype.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I was blocked by a woman in here, who I was chatting very nicely with, getting along really well, until she asked to see my private pics because "I like to see what I'm going to get lol" So, I obliged her, by sending her a friend invite so that she could view my hidden pics. "Are you sure that's your cock? There's no mention of it in your veris?" says she, before blocking me

There's a lot of odd people in here mate, don't stress over them, just move on as there's plenty of great people too

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

Try not to take it too personally! there are no shortage of pricks on this site, of every age, race and gender...not to mention the intolerant and the plain stupid!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It amazes me how rude and ignorant some supposedly "grown ups" can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s really shitty!

But don’t get worked up, they probably expected you to sound “ghetto” or speak “street slang” and was shocked when you didn’t!

I’ve had it happen to me before, not on here, and I was just shocked!

Some of the things people come out with amaze me!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Is it me or is it extremely narrow-minded and stupid, to call someone a liar and block them because he (me) don't sound like "a black man" over the phone?!

So how am I meant to sound then?! I was born in London and lived here everyday of my life, so guess what, I sound like me, a man that so happens to be black.

What also pissed me off is not only have I been called a liar, some of those people that has left me genuine verifications are liars too now, women whom I've sat down and had drinks with face to face.

Because I don't sound like a black man, what the actual fuck!!!

Can't believe some people can be this way in 2018 but you know what, am the lucky one I've missed that bullet!!

At least I give people the opportunity to be themselves I'm not a stereotype.

"

It'll be a bloke in a string vest and half a cheese sandwich in his beard wanking over his laptop.

He'll see this and love how it's got to you,

Maintain a Glass half full attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wtf is a black man meant to sound like??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me or is it extremely narrow-minded and stupid, to call someone a liar and block them because he (me) don't sound like "a black man" over the phone?!

So how am I meant to sound then?! I was born in London and lived here everyday of my life, so guess what, I sound like me, a man that so happens to be black.

What also pissed me off is not only have I been called a liar, some of those people that has left me genuine verifications are liars too now, women whom I've sat down and had drinks with face to face.

Because I don't sound like a black man, what the actual fuck!!!

Can't believe some people can be this way in 2018 but you know what, am the lucky one I've missed that bullet!!

At least I give people the opportunity to be themselves I'm not a stereotype.

"

Hey its just people, they are just so suspicious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks peepz, I won't lie it did get under my skin for a few minutes but am cool now, unfortunately there are no shortages of such people, let's hope the good ones shine, like you guys, thanks again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wtf is a black man meant to sound like?? "

I'd defo like to know now lol

Maybe we could make this a game guess if this person is really the nationality they claim lol

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

u should have started ur conversation with

helloooooooo motherfucker lmao

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Wtf is a black man meant to sound like??

I'd defo like to know now lol

Maybe we could make this a game guess if this person is really the nationality they claim lol"

I(he) get this a lot, op. I don't sound 'black' either, apparently. 'You're the whitest black man we know' has been said but most people sound just like me from around where I live regardless of skin tone.

Ignore it, op, probably seeking a stereo type for their fantasies.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"Try not to take it too personally! there are no shortage of pricks on this site, of every age, race and gender...not to mention the intolerant and the plain stupid!

"

definately sounds like fab

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Wtf is a black man meant to sound like?? "

This

Lucky escape I'd say

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Let's have a quick chorus of ole man river...

Probably the craziest thing someone has done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yo rooood bwoyyyy yoo jus isna black nuff init! Ya shud da laid ya jiggity jiggity rap shit down on da bitches ass. Word!

I suspect she was expecting something a bit like that. Such a shame when real life doesn't live up to stereotypical bullshit isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was looking for a Jamaican ting.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Don't let it get to you op your probably better off without them.

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By *raceytvcdTV/TS
over a year ago

mansfield


"She was looking for a Jamaican ting."
this site is full of bull shitters, time wasters and twats just hit the block button x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well if wanted the Jamaican thin i would of happily given it to her as that's where my family from lol

Hahaha yeah am gonna start talking street and wear my jeans down by my knees lol

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford


"Yo rooood bwoyyyy yoo jus isna black nuff init! Ya shud da laid ya jiggity jiggity rap shit down on da bitches ass. Word!

I suspect she was expecting something a bit like that. Such a shame when real life doesn't live up to stereotypical bullshit isn't it? "

HAHAH this cracked me up, is this another language? what is a jiggity? I'm Jamaican heritage and never heard of this thing you call jiggity hahahaha but it really made me laugh out loud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She was looking for a Jamaican ting."

Hahahahahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The human ability for stupidness is a wonder to behold and knows no bounds. Carry on mate, her loss I should imagine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf is a black man meant to sound like??

I'd defo like to know now lol

Maybe we could make this a game guess if this person is really the nationality they claim lol

I(he) get this a lot, op. I don't sound 'black' either, apparently. 'You're the whitest black man we know' has been said but most people sound just like me from around where I live regardless of skin tone.

Ignore it, op, probably seeking a stereo type for their fantasies. "

I get the you’re not really black thing a lot.....

If it’s someone I don’t like I reply with “ Well let me fuck your sister then , tell your parents I’m not really black “

If it’s someone I like I reply with “ Well tell that to the cop with his gun drawn, the next time I get pulled over driving “

They will never bring it up again....

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Well if wanted the Jamaican thin i would of happily given it to her as that's where my family from lol

Hahaha yeah am gonna start talking street and wear my jeans down by my knees lol"

Shame she didn't give you the chance to say; "Is it 'coz I is white?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if wanted the Jamaican thin i would of happily given it to her as that's where my family from lol

Hahaha yeah am gonna start talking street and wear my jeans down by my knees lol"

Omg please don’t. I love well spoken men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yo rooood bwoyyyy yoo jus isna black nuff init! Ya shud da laid ya jiggity jiggity rap shit down on da bitches ass. Word!

I suspect she was expecting something a bit like that. Such a shame when real life doesn't live up to stereotypical bullshit isn't it?

HAHAH this cracked me up, is this another language? what is a jiggity? I'm Jamaican heritage and never heard of this thing you call jiggity hahahaha but it really made me laugh out loud."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well if wanted the Jamaican thin i would of happily given it to her as that's where my family from lol

Hahaha yeah am gonna start talking street and wear my jeans down by my knees lol

Shame she didn't give you the chance to say; "Is it 'coz I is white?" "

Omg that would have been hilarious, so wish I could of now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if wanted the Jamaican thin i would of happily given it to her as that's where my family from lol

Hahaha yeah am gonna start talking street and wear my jeans down by my knees lol"

Honestly I don’t know you , but don’t believe the hype....

The idiots you see that talk street and wear their jeans below their knees are not true black people...

They are just urban people......

We have 3 doctors in my family... 1 is a surgeon , 30 nurses, 1 banker who is a director of a Fortune 500 company , 8 teachers , 3 are professors , numerous business owners.

What they all have in common is they were raised middle class and upper middle class.

You will never see these black people on tv because we are the true minority. We are just paying our bills and trying to give our children a better life. We don’t have time to protest or be outraged because we are working.....

Being urban is not a race thing it’s a socioeconomic thing...

You dress like your cohorts around you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully that person will be reading this thread and realised what stupid, narrow minded F%#kwit he / she is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well if wanted the Jamaican thin i would of happily given it to her as that's where my family from lol

Hahaha yeah am gonna start talking street and wear my jeans down by my knees lol

Honestly I don’t know you , but don’t believe the hype....

The idiots you see that talk street and wear their jeans below their knees are not true black people...

They are just urban people......

We have 3 doctors in my family... 1 is a surgeon , 30 nurses, 1 banker who is a director of a Fortune 500 company , 8 teachers , 3 are professors , numerous business owners.

What they all have in common is they were raised middle class and upper middle class.

You will never see these black people on tv because we are the true minority. We are just paying our bills and trying to give our children a better life. We don’t have time to protest or be outraged because we are working.....

Being urban is not a race thing it’s a socioeconomic thing...

You dress like your cohorts around you..."

Don't you worry, am not about to change myself for the worse to please someone else's expectations of me, if you want me to become a better person then you're for me if you want me to pick up my stereotypical idiot when I leave you behind.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Wa gwan?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wa gwan? "

Blood fire, tis day hot

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Is it me or is it extremely narrow-minded and stupid, to call someone a liar and block them because he (me) don't sound like "a black man" over the phone?!

So how am I meant to sound then?! I was born in London and lived here everyday of my life, so guess what, I sound like me, a man that so happens to be black.

What also pissed me off is not only have I been called a liar, some of those people that has left me genuine verifications are liars too now, women whom I've sat down and had drinks with face to face.

Because I don't sound like a black man, what the actual fuck!!!

Can't believe some people can be this way in 2018 but you know what, am the lucky one I've missed that bullet!!

At least I give people the opportunity to be themselves I'm not a stereotype.

"

It probably not just me but i don't really get the fetishisation of black men (and women), not sounding "black enough" is a strong indicator that you dodged a bullet mate xxx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Well if wanted the Jamaican thin i would of happily given it to her as that's where my family from lol

Hahaha yeah am gonna start talking street and wear my jeans down by my knees lol

Shame she didn't give you the chance to say; "Is it 'coz I is white?"

Omg that would have been hilarious, so wish I could of now lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It'll be a bloke in a string vest and half a cheese sandwich in his beard wanking over his laptop "

Hey, why pick on me?

Mr B

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By *ockandrollaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

You aren’t Chris Eubank are you

What a few silly lady but as already said there are alias of silly people on here

Keep your pecker up fella

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"Is it me or is it extremely narrow-minded and stupid, to call someone a liar and block them because he (me) don't sound like "a black man" over the phone?!

So how am I meant to sound then?! I was born in London and lived here everyday of my life, so guess what, I sound like me, a man that so happens to be black.

What also pissed me off is not only have I been called a liar, some of those people that has left me genuine verifications are liars too now, women whom I've sat down and had drinks with face to face.

Because I don't sound like a black man, what the actual fuck!!!

Can't believe some people can be this way in 2018 but you know what, am the lucky one I've missed that bullet!!

At least I give people the opportunity to be themselves I'm not a stereotype.

"

To be fair, your verifications don't state you are a black guy.

To help this poor woman out, all the future verifications we give out will have the line "Genuine black guy" add to them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the way you wrote that thread I thought you were ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if wanted the Jamaican thin i would of happily given it to her as that's where my family from lol

Hahaha yeah am gonna start talking street and wear my jeans down by my knees lol"

Stop being posh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got blocked this morning. I replied politely that he was not for me. He was indignant that I looked at his profile and then said no to him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it me or is it extremely narrow-minded and stupid, to call someone a liar and block them because he (me) don't sound like "a black man" over the phone?!

So how am I meant to sound then?! I was born in London and lived here everyday of my life, so guess what, I sound like me, a man that so happens to be black.

What also pissed me off is not only have I been called a liar, some of those people that has left me genuine verifications are liars too now, women whom I've sat down and had drinks with face to face.

Because I don't sound like a black man, what the actual fuck!!!

Can't believe some people can be this way in 2018 but you know what, am the lucky one I've missed that bullet!!

At least I give people the opportunity to be themselves I'm not a stereotype.

To be fair, your verifications don't state you are a black guy.

To help this poor woman out, all the future verifications we give out will have the line "Genuine black guy" add to them... "

Going to have to get a genuine black guy stamp of approval on my profile now lol

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

That's just bonkers!!

I worked with a Chinese man with an Irish accent, I wonder what they would make of him lol

Just laugh about it and move on, all you can do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's just bonkers!!

I worked with a Chinese man with an Irish accent, I wonder what they would make of him lol

Just laugh about it and move on, all you can do "

I thought you were going to tell a joke then. Chinese man with an Irish accent walks into a bar

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"That's just bonkers!!

I worked with a Chinese man with an Irish accent, I wonder what they would make of him lol

Just laugh about it and move on, all you can do

I thought you were going to tell a joke then. Chinese man with an Irish accent walks into a bar "

HaHa sorry to disappoint x

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Perhaps she was expecting a Lenny Henry Brummie accent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps she was expecting a Lenny Henry Brummie accent."

Or dmx type voice where I bark or growl every few words lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me or is it extremely narrow-minded and stupid, to call someone a liar and block them because he (me) don't sound like "a black man" over the phone?!

So how am I meant to sound then?! I was born in London and lived here everyday of my life, so guess what, I sound like me, a man that so happens to be black.

What also pissed me off is not only have I been called a liar, some of those people that has left me genuine verifications are liars too now, women whom I've sat down and had drinks with face to face.

Because I don't sound like a black man, what the actual fuck!!!

Can't believe some people can be this way in 2018 but you know what, am the lucky one I've missed that bullet!!

At least I give people the opportunity to be themselves I'm not a stereotype.

"

Sounds like you’ve had a lucky escape to be honest, she sounds like an idiot..... or maybe what you Londoners call a ‘Lump of school’ .... Sorry Googled that slang

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London


"Wtf is a black man meant to sound like??

This

Lucky escape I'd say "

Agreed

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We'd meet you but you'd have to give us a rendition of 'Old man's river' first keep smiling mate.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

WTF

Sounds like they needed to be sure as they were ticking off a box or liked that objectification rather than the person behind it.

Luckiest escape ever if you ask me

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By *witch4Fun24Couple
over a year ago

Leicester


"That's just bonkers!!

I worked with a Chinese man with an Irish accent, I wonder what they would make of him lol

Just laugh about it and move on, all you can do

I thought you were going to tell a joke then. Chinese man with an Irish accent walks into a bar "

There is a half Chinese man that comes to our local club with a very strong Irish accent, a lot of people do a double take when they first met him and it is hilarious to watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place is full of pathetic people.

Take no notice and move on.

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