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By *liny OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/London

I had a meet last with a couple whom I’ve met for a social previously. Everything was going really well, chatting and laughing. Once I started to play with the wife, she made no sound. When I say no I mean absolutely NO sound at all. I’ve never had this before.

There was very little facial reaction to gauge also and it was almost impossible to gauge her level of excitement. A couple of times her eyes closed and the was some slight pelvic movement but I constantly questioned myself if she was enjoying it never mind orgasming.

The husband text me afterwards to say she really enjoyed it and said she blames the condom. I always play safe so I’m in a predicament!

Has anyone else experienced this?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No....I think if she had been silent I might have asked her if she was enjoying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did she have a pulse ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did she have a pulse ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this when I played with a couple. It was so awkward. To not get any response is the worst feeling in the world.

They messaged me afterwards to say they had thoroughly enjoyed the meet and could we do it all again very soon.

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By *liny OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/London

I did ask in a whisper if she was enjoying it and yes she had a pulse ha ha ha

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Verbal feedback is key...and I can’t stop myself when I’m enjoying it. When your partner is silent...especially when you’re giving them a blowjob - it’s the most confusing thing in the world.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Verbal feedback is key...and I can’t stop myself when I’m enjoying it. When your partner is silent...especially when you’re giving them a blowjob - it’s the most confusing thing in the world. "

This.

Also let’s hope they don’t read this. I’ve been told I’m too noisy that ‘it’s ridiculous’ I assume to be told the opposite would also be as cutting. A lot the ‘too fat/too skinny’ jibe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be with a chic who was so loud it put me off Cos I thought no way she’s enjoying it THAT much made me feel like she was taking the piss ! Luckily for me turns out she was normal just didn’t realise how loud she was as she was death in her left ear lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a noisy fwb for a while. Fortunately we always met at her house, but the street could probably hear ndver mind the neighbours. It was a terraced house and one time I got a round of applause from nearby workmen as I left.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I had a woman like this once. Frozen facial expression. Made me do all the work. And all done in total silence. Well I say total silence, sometimes she'd give out the odd hissing sound but that was nothing my puncture repair kit couldn't fix. The whole experience left me totally deflated, which is actually how I left her, at the back of my wardrobe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would freak me out and id literally just ask them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty quiet, didn't realise it was so off putting

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Just looking at your pictures, you werent hurting her were you. Maybe it was the heat or she didnt want her hubby to know how much she was enjoying it, i doubt that though.

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By *sSweetAsSugarCouple
over a year ago

lincoln

Bloody genius. Funniest thing I’ve read this week. Well done sir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silence makes me nervous. Reactions are a huge turn on for me so it would have ruined it for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you had the wrong hole ?

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay


"Maybe you had the wrong hole ? "

That tends to be a lot less than silent!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It would put me off and I don't think I could continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meet last with a couple whom I’ve met for a social previously. Everything was going really well, chatting and laughing. Once I started to play with the wife, she made no sound. When I say no I mean absolutely NO sound at all. I’ve never had this before.

There was very little facial reaction to gauge also and it was almost impossible to gauge her level of excitement. A couple of times her eyes closed and the was some slight pelvic movement but I constantly questioned myself if she was enjoying it never mind orgasming.

The husband text me afterwards to say she really enjoyed it and said she blames the condom. I always play safe so I’m in a predicament!

Has anyone else experienced this? "
yes she just lay there I stopped after a short time made me uncomfortable, she apologised and explained, she was a right chatterbox as well liverpudlian

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I had a woman like this once. Frozen facial expression. Made me do all the work. And all done in total silence. Well I say total silence, sometimes she'd give out the odd hissing sound but that was nothing my puncture repair kit couldn't fix. The whole experience left me totally deflated, which is actually how I left her, at the back of my wardrobe."

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By *liny OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/London


"I'm pretty quiet, didn't realise it was so off putting "

She was completely silent. Not a murmur

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By *liny OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/London


"Just looking at your pictures, you werent hurting her were you. Maybe it was the heat or she didnt want her hubby to know how much she was enjoying it, i doubt that though."

I was VERY gentle with her as with most women until they are relaxed ??

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

You're 43 and this is the first time you've fucked a starfish?

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By *liny OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/London


"You're 43 and this is the first time you've fucked a starfish? "

Nope! Ha ha just not a mute starfish

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"You're 43 and this is the first time you've fucked a starfish?

Nope! Ha ha just not a mute starfish"

I've had a few, very off putting. The problem is that most of them message later and say the sex was great for them. It's hard not to reply sarcastically and ask how I'd know that.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Could be the the walls are thin and the local gossip merchant might be next door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Silence makes me nervous. Reactions are a huge turn on for me so it would have ruined it for me too"

This....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meet last with a couple whom I’ve met for a social previously. Everything was going really well, chatting and laughing. Once I started to play with the wife, she made no sound. When I say no I mean absolutely NO sound at all. I’ve never had this before.

There was very little facial reaction to gauge also and it was almost impossible to gauge her level of excitement. A couple of times her eyes closed and the was some slight pelvic movement but I constantly questioned myself if she was enjoying it never mind orgasming.

The husband text me afterwards to say she really enjoyed it and said she blames the condom. I always play safe so I’m in a predicament!

Has anyone else experienced this? "

Yes we had this with a soft swing no touch couple no sound what so ever from them it was a tad unnerving but they said they had thoroughly enjoyed it, we wernt silent at all. Lol

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I'd have been worried she wasn't really into it, and was just letting it happen for his benefit - her being totally silent would have been causing alarms to ring loudly in my head...

....I don't mind if a woman's quiet, but would expect some sort of reaction - even if only fingers tightening their grip, or a murmured moan, or just a sharp intake of breath...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're 43 and this is the first time you've fucked a starfish? "

What’s a starfish in this context?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"She blames the condom". Did you use it as a gag?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"You're 43 and this is the first time you've fucked a starfish?

Nope! Ha ha just not a mute starfish"

A starfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m surprised you managed to carry on!

If someone was silent with me I’d have to stop as it would be far too awkward and I’d think they weren’t enjoying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""She blames the condom". Did you use it as a gag? "

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verbal feedback is key...and I can’t stop myself when I’m enjoying it. When your partner is silent...especially when you’re giving them a blowjob - it’s the most confusing thing in the world. "

I remember you not being able to stay silent!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""She blames the condom". Did you use it as a gag? "

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By *anTouchThisCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Do they have kids at home? Could just be years of practice at hiding it from them, so it became the norm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a meet last with a couple whom I’ve met for a social previously. Everything was going really well, chatting and laughing. Once I started to play with the wife, she made no sound. When I say no I mean absolutely NO sound at all. I’ve never had this before.

There was very little facial reaction to gauge also and it was almost impossible to gauge her level of excitement. A couple of times her eyes closed and the was some slight pelvic movement but I constantly questioned myself if she was enjoying it never mind orgasming.

The husband text me afterwards to say she really enjoyed it and said she blames the condom. I always play safe so I’m in a predicament!

Has anyone else experienced this? "

Looks like she didn't feel ur willy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a woman like this once. Frozen facial expression. Made me do all the work. And all done in total silence. Well I say total silence, sometimes she'd give out the odd hissing sound but that was nothing my puncture repair kit couldn't fix. The whole experience left me totally deflated, which is actually how I left her, at the back of my wardrobe."

Omg that's hilarious! You had me right till the end

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