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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I doing something wrong been on here a few months and every meet I have arranged have stood me up or let me down at last minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems not.

You seem a nice guy and photos and agood profile

Id probably try a club.

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find the club's a be werid a single guy going to a club

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Ooooooo I say I’ve got palpitations x

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have absolutely no idea! You’re gorgeous and dominant...you should be beating them off with a big stick (or beating them with your big stick ).

Are they agreeing to meet within the first couple of messages? Or wanting to talk about what you’d do to them straight away? That can be an indication of someone who’s just using you to get themselves off without any intention of meeting sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks fine to me. Text could probably do with padding out a bit if I was going to be picky, but that's about it. You're a good looking guy so just perseverance I think.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It’s the tattoos - you’re gonna have to get some make up and cover them all up.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Am I doing something wrong been on here a few months and every meet I have arranged have stood me up or let me down at last minute "

It seems to be part and parcel of Fab - maybe they're juggling 3 or 4 different people at the same time and then take the 'better offer' - whatever that may be.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have absolutely no idea! You’re gorgeous and dominant...you should be beating them off with a big stick (or beating them with your big stick ).

Are they agreeing to meet within the first couple of messages? Or wanting to talk about what you’d do to them straight away? That can be an indication of someone who’s just using you to get themselves off without any intention of meeting sometimes."

I never just agree to meet up I like to find out about more about the person and there if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s the tattoos - you’re gonna have to get some make up and cover them all up. "

My tattoos are what make me me why would I cover them up sorry that's a big no

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It’s the tattoos - you’re gonna have to get some make up and cover them all up.

My tattoos are what make me me why would I cover them up sorry that's a big no "

It’s the beard - you’re gonna have to shave it off. You may as well do ALL your hair too just to make sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on and off here for few year mate years back was good laugh on here but seems a lot of blows fucked it for us ! You must be getting the guys message you aswell asking if you fancy a bj I get them everyday ! And like you say it’s hard like clubs been a couple but as I guy on ya own seems so fucking odd going into a club especially when you bowl in and hand ya money over you feel like a desperate bloke who can’t pull a chic then look around and it’s all out of shape older guys and just seems all very desperate !

Just like to state I know all clubs ain’t like this but the couple I’ve been just seemed bit weird lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s the tattoos - you’re gonna have to get some make up and cover them all up.

My tattoos are what make me me why would I cover them up sorry that's a big no

It’s the beard - you’re gonna have to shave it off. You may as well do ALL your hair too just to make sure. "

Try again the beard is staying lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It’s the tattoos - you’re gonna have to get some make up and cover them all up.

My tattoos are what make me me why would I cover them up sorry that's a big no

It’s the beard - you’re gonna have to shave it off. You may as well do ALL your hair too just to make sure.

Try again the beard is staying lol"

It’s the location - you’re gonna have to move to Lancashire

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been on and off here for few year mate years back was good laugh on here but seems a lot of blows fucked it for us ! You must be getting the guys message you aswell asking if you fancy a bj I get them everyday ! And like you say it’s hard like clubs been a couple but as I guy on ya own seems so fucking odd going into a club especially when you bowl in and hand ya money over you feel like a desperate bloke who can’t pull a chic then look around and it’s all out of shape older guys and just seems all very desperate !

Just like to state I know all clubs ain’t like this but the couple I’ve been just seemed bit weird lol "

Yeah I do get guys messaging me but am just like thanks but am ok I'll give it a few more months then may come off here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lim Jim 68Man
over a year ago

Guernsey


"It’s the tattoos - you’re gonna have to get some make up and cover them all up.

My tattoos are what make me me why would I cover them up sorry that's a big no

It’s the beard - you’re gonna have to shave it off. You may as well do ALL your hair too just to make sure.

Try again the beard is staying lol

It’s the location - you’re gonna have to move to Lancashire "

Play nicely Steve

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s the tattoos - you’re gonna have to get some make up and cover them all up.

My tattoos are what make me me why would I cover them up sorry that's a big no

It’s the beard - you’re gonna have to shave it off. You may as well do ALL your hair too just to make sure.

Try again the beard is staying lol

It’s the location - you’re gonna have to move to Lancashire "

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your bloody delicious...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d you’re stood up then report the profile.

Let down at the last minute, well real life has a habit of getting in the way on occasions.

If you think you’re being let down ‘cos the cab, then reasses your communication / messaging style.

Do you make firm arrangements, use another method for communication aside of the site, come across as interested for examples.

A little tweak might make all the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d you’re stood up then report the profile.

Let down at the last minute, well real life has a habit of getting in the way on occasions.

If you think you’re being let down ‘cos the cab, then reasses your communication / messaging style.

Do you make firm arrangements, use another method for communication aside of the site, come across as interested for examples.

A little tweak might make all the difference. "

*cab - cba / can’t be arsed

fecking auto carrot...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you recommend in twicking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I doing something wrong been on here a few months and every meet I have arranged have stood me up or let me down at last minute "
Seems you must be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am I doing something wrong been on here a few months and every meet I have arranged have stood me up or let me down at last minute Seems you must be "

I know right

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"What do you recommend in twicking "

Without knowing how the arrangements are made, it’s hard to say (and you can’t quote messages on here anyway).

Maybe you’ve just had a really shitty run of luck? It happens to us all...I had seven cancelled meets in a row once and I was so frustrated I practically combusted.

Just takes the one to break the dry spell!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your help everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I doing something wrong been on here a few months and every meet I have arranged have stood me up or let me down at last minute "

That's not good, if someone atranges a meet then ditches last min I would be upset. The build up is amazing so for this to happen is wrong, especially if the excuse is poor.

Are these people you arrange to meet verified? Maybe some are not who they say

Good luck hon and hope it gets better x

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