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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Alternative user names for me that may not get so much negative attention.... how can a user name be so genuinely off putting? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whos it upsetting ?? if it just forum user's then think again because they are a very small % of the site ...be who you want to be ?? theres a zillion worse names than yours on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I find some user names incredibly off putting but at least with a name like yours I know why you’re into and can steer clear.

Think of it as a filter so maybe a positive thing in the long run.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But that’s the thing yeah I gotta admit I love fucking arse but it ain’t the only thing lol .... it’s as if I get ignored because it seems it’s the only thing I’m looking for x

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By *mushkittenWoman
over a year ago

manchester

Sorry but i would avoid you i hate anything over graffic n block any graffic message senders too

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Sorry but i would avoid you i hate anything over graffic n block any graffic message senders too"

We're with you on this.

In many ways, it's like putting your CV up and you are hoping to get a bite from somebody you are interested in. First impressions count, if the initial impression is good, then its picture and profiles, if things are still good and the viewer like what they see, them the rest is down to you.

Sometimes what you really like, isn't going to appeal to the masses, that's fine, its your profile, but an understanding of what makes other tick generally is your best friend here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But that’s the thing yeah I gotta admit I love fucking arse but it ain’t the only thing lol .... it’s as if I get ignored because it seems it’s the only thing I’m looking for x"
their you have answered your own analogy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your name suggest you like to get a good bumming. Try being suggestive without being so direct. Although this is basically a place for people who are more liberated sexually there still needs to be a mental attraction for many. The very first thing they see is your username, we would make it a little less brash.

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By *BWarksCouple
over a year ago

warwick


"Your name suggest you like to get a good bumming. Try being suggestive without being so direct. Although this is basically a place for people who are more liberated sexually there still needs to be a mental attraction for many. The very first thing they see is your username, we would make it a little less brash."

Yes we agree with this

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Have a more bland name like mine then you don’t get the hassle. I’ve seen forum threads where men have said they wouldn’t meet woman with like ‘cumdump’ in their name and women wouldn’t meet ‘pussy wrecker’ etc. So names on fab can influence meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think your name is absolutely fine. I rarely look at the username and have any thoughts on it unless it is humorous. People on here enjoy getting their knickers in a twist over the smallest of things and you have to think to yourself "do I really want to fuck them if they are so touchy about a name?".

I get a lot of grief about my username and this question stands me in good stead when it comes to choosing who I want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 26/07/18 06:40:09]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what is wrong with my name?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

graphic usernames are a huge turn off,enough said

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"But that’s the thing yeah I gotta admit I love fucking arse but it ain’t the only thing lol .... it’s as if I get ignored because it seems it’s the only thing I’m looking for x"

Well thats a good enough reason to ditch the name. Its difficult enough for men without creating extra hurdles for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but i would avoid you i hate anything over graffic n block any graffic message senders too

We're with you on this.

In many ways, it's like putting your CV up and you are hoping to get a bite from somebody you are interested in. First impressions count, if the initial impression is good, then its picture and profiles, if things are still good and the viewer like what they see, them the rest is down to you.

Sometimes what you really like, isn't going to appeal to the masses, that's fine, its your profile, but an understanding of what makes other tick generally is your best friend here."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what is wrong with my name?"
you don't look erotic maybe

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