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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are there any true bulls who understand the dynamics of cuckolding. Not just fucking cucks wife and job done.

Love to hear from the genuine real bulls. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man just fucks wife in front of hubby nothing more wouldn't that be a case of voyeurism/hotwife rather than cuckolding.

A cuckold couple get off on having a man come to fuck wife while humiliating hubby. Hubby needs to feel inadequate for wifes amazing pussy and so she has a hung bull come to enjoy her pussy. Hubby would be told by bull how good wife is, making him taste her juice off his fingers (or cock), hubby licking up bulls cum from wife etc. While wife tells hibby just how useless he is and how good bulls cock is.

Essentially cuckolding is more than just fucking wifey. Its hubbies humiliation, a sense of liberation or dominance for wifey and a bull whos happy to help this couple live their desired fantasies.

Though of course afterwards you should stop treating hubby like the cuck and more like hubby. The humiliating side is to be saved for just the act itself and not after.

This would be my experience and knowledge of cuckolding. Though I do know everyone gas different ideas about a lot of things.

Will be interesting to see what others think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If a man just fucks wife in front of hubby nothing more wouldn't that be a case of voyeurism/hotwife rather than cuckolding.

Essentially cuckolding is more than just fucking wifey. Its hubbies humiliation, a sense of liberation or dominance for wifey and a bull whos happy to help this couple live their desired fantasies.

Though of course afterwards you should stop treating hubby like the cuck and more like hubby. The humiliating side is to be saved for just the act itself and not after.

This would be my experience and knowledge of cuckolding. Though I do know everyone gas different ideas about a lot of things.

Will be interesting to see what others think

Hence we said it's NOT about just fucking wife.

We know and realise the different levels and each couple are different. We seek the higher end of cuckold. X

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By *wingingSam93Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd pretty much echo everything that the gentleman above me stated however (and I can only speak from my own perspective here as someone who is not a Bull per se but has assumed the Bull role on a number of occasions) I'd also add a couple of things...

For me, the actual fucking is only a small element of it. I find that most of the fun derives from the psychological aspects of the encounter: the humiliation and degradation. That only works,I think, when all cards are on the table and you know that couple relatively well.

Anyone can fuck a fellas missus but to properly satisfy his needs (as both are equally important) you have to know exactly how to humiliate him and that only becomes apparent with openness and honesty.

Just my 2 cents

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By *MOURWoman
over a year ago

Wakefield area near the M1 jk 39

Hi.

I am looking for a w/e gent to play with in a cuck situation , he must understand the rules and play.

He will be sub and caged at the side of the bed while we fuck and play, Humiliation is a part of our play.

No face hair guys not my thing massive cock would be welcome but not a must .

Private inbox me please ..genuine ad for a genuine guy.

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By *az1Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hi everyone. I’m a young bull been in the swinging and cuckolding life style for around 5 years now and quite experienced. I’m mature, respectful, discreet and polite. I understand everyone has their own limits, goals and thoughts on this lifestyle.

I’ve been with couples before for short term and long term. But now I am looking for a couple who I could help explore the scene and open them to new ideas by taking them further in to this lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think this is a hard one ! So many different terms I’m not W/E and I’ve played bull for lots of couples , some it’s been because I’m 19 stone alpha male and I’ve just had to play and enjoy there misses and I’ve litearally walked in And told the guy to get on his knees and face the wall whilst I enjoy his misses , some have been tied to a chair and made to watch ! Some just want you to come and play with there Misses whilst they watch ? Which is call voyersm but other call cuckholding ! A lot of couples have a lot of different ideas to. I know holding so it’s hard to answer as all seem different

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

As the male half of an occasional cuckold couple i can tell you that if a "bull" thinks he can turn up and start to "humiliate" me, he'll be quickly shown the door. My wife can say and do what she wants, but the bull is number 3 in the pecking order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what I’m saying it’s not all about that it’s down to what each couples idea of cuckholding is ! Not all couples want a massive cock guy to come humiliate the man in most cases I’ve had it’s been far from that

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

As in many of the kink dynamics, boundaries and needs, need to be explored.

Shame there is not many bi ladies who like to cuck their partner

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

90% of men calling themselves a bull have no fucking clue. Of the 10% that do, probably 90% don't have a thick 8"+ cock, that's probably the really problem with your wish list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As the male half of an occasional cuckold couple i can tell you that if a "bull" thinks he can turn up and start to "humiliate" me, he'll be quickly shown the door. My wife can say and do what she wants, but the bull is number 3 in the pecking order."

That's totally fair too. Everyone has their different takes on these things. This is why good communication is key to everyone being happy and everyone knowing where the boundaries are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been meeting couples since I was 21 for cuckold meets. In my experience I have to get to know both hubby and wife and understand what makes each of them tick, what stimulates and what turns them off and what they want out of a cuckold lifestyle.

There is no one definition of cuckolding, I love the journey and getting to know the couple and then developing the relationship as the meets go on and we all act on our feelings from the previous meet.

Eddie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally get the whole cuckold thing. But I wouldn't call myself a bull. More like a lover. But maybe that's because I'm not into the whole humiliation thing. I'm more into turning the hubby on by having a steamy hot affair with his wife right under his nose in ways that really rub it in

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I totally get the whole cuckold thing. But I wouldn't call myself a bull. More like a lover. But maybe that's because I'm not into the whole humiliation thing. I'm more into turning the hubby on by having a steamy hot affair with his wife right under his nose in ways that really rub it in

That’s more the stag and vixen dynamic, right there. I love that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s more the stag and vixen dynamic, right there. I love that!"

I love that you love that Elcee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there any true bulls who understand the dynamics of cuckolding. Not just fucking cucks wife and job done.

Love to hear from the genuine real bulls. X "

I find this SO tricky when it comes to bulls. Then again I also think most cuck wannabes don’t get the dynamic and subtleties of cuckolding either.

It’s so much more than the act of fucking.

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

"As in many of the kink dynamics, boundaries and needs, need to be explored.

Shame there is not many bi ladies who like to cuck their partner

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Bookmarking this thread.

We enjoy cuckolding.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Bookmarking this thread.

We enjoy cuckolding.

Ss"

Happy to help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like everything there are degrees! There is a difference between scratching your arse and taking the skin off.

The key is excellent communication between all parties. The bull must understand this. It may be the case that the desires of s cuckold couple are NOT at all what the bull wants and vice versa.

Better to discuss precisely what is wanted in the first instance then let things develop. Can be very rewarding!

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