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By *Y MAN n ME OP   Couple
over a year ago

FIFE

Suggestion for new "FAB" site...

OK further to reading another thread about bi folks, it got me wondering...

First we have FAB the original... then we have Fabguys(for bi guys) and then came FabFlirts(for singles I beleive)

SO why can't there be a Fab BI Only site?

In my opinion it would be a great success!

what are others _iews on this???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read another thread that says women who say they are Bi are really straight and men who say they are straight are really Bi so now I am just confused!

What are the chances that they would be honest on another site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just read another thread that says women who say they are Bi are really straight and men who say they are straight are really Bi so now I am just confused!

What are the chances that they would be honest on another site?"

exactly !!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

we are better all together... respecting difference and celebrating sexual freedom.

just not with each other .... every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fabflirts never really has very many people on it and no forum much better on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just read another thread that says women who say they are Bi are really straight and men who say they are straight are really Bi so now I am just confused!

What are the chances that they would be honest on another site?

exactly !!"

+1

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been on fabguys (for obvious reasons) but there seem to be loads of gay men on here so can't see that segregation would work

You would just get people joining both sites so pointless exercise really

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Why do you think resources should be taken from this site to create something that would interest a few.

Why not start your own?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how many of the 'straight' men on here are on fabguys

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I wonder how many of the 'straight' men on here are on fabguys

"

the GAY sites are full of em... same pics and all.

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley


"Suggestion for new "FAB" site...

OK further to reading another thread about bi folks, it got me wondering...

First we have FAB the original... then we have Fabguys(for bi guys) and then came FabFlirts(for singles I beleive)

SO why can't there be a Fab BI Only site?

In my opinion it would be a great success!

what are others _iews on this???"

Together we stand...divided....we have no fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many of the 'straight' men on here are on fabguys

the GAY sites are full of em... same pics and all.

"

That's just lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the point of a bi site, we all pick and mix from this site. Don't you straights worry though I'm bi but it's not catching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then we need a fat only site and a skinny only site, perhaps a ginger fat site and slim blonde site, a short haired site and a long haired site or maybe we can just have a site each where we are the only member ?

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By *amslam1000Man
over a year ago

willenhall

I'm BI so soddem

or me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then we need a fat only site and a skinny only site, perhaps a ginger fat site and slim blonde site, a short haired site and a long haired site or maybe we can just have a site each where we are the only member ?"

...... I'd still mail me without reading my profile and get blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how about fabverified&genuine site

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By *Y MAN n ME OP   Couple
over a year ago

FIFE

Ok it would appear another branch of Fab is not needed! so why are there always threads about finding bi couples??

we are honest on our profile to say we are both bi but find alot do not wish to show their true sexuality. such a shame when looking for fun they would be overlooked.

Oh well it is each to their own so back to searching for couples that fit our likes, thanks anyway folks,xx

We do know that some guys are on fabguys as bi and straight on here but perhaps that is the only way to find the varied fun we all seek.

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By *Y MAN n ME OP   Couple
over a year ago

FIFE


"how about fabverified&genuine site"

most of the filters on here do allow you to only see those verified or site supporters so why is there not a complete sexuality filter???? yes I have read admin's comments of how difficult it is to be sure only bi profiles get through but surely if past requests are anything to go by it could be worth a try,there is no filter to block out straight profiles either so a trial could be considered!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi and I'm happy here thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how about fabverified&genuine site

most of the filters on here do allow you to only see those verified or site supporters so why is there not a complete sexuality filter???? yes I have read admin's comments of how difficult it is to be sure only bi profiles get through but surely if past requests are anything to go by it could be worth a try,there is no filter to block out straight profiles either so a trial could be considered!?"

Actually, from a website programming point of _iew, modifying the search page filters to include a sexual preferences filter is really not that difficult - a few lines of ASP code to pass addtional parameters to the SQL selelct (or whatever they are using)

"Fab my Pictures" was far more complex just from the point of _iew of additional ASP pages, more tables in databases etc,etc,etc.

The overall principle is though, Garbage In, Garbage Out. Selection filters for sexual preference would provide results based on what people set in their profiles.

So if your down as Straight but secretly Bi, your not going to get picked if you use a sexual preference filter to search for only Bi folk! Your going to have to come out of the closet!

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

I would rather have one site with shed loads of members actively participating then multiple sites each with smaller numbers of members on.

I enjoy reading posts on the forum from people who don't meet my criteria for having "sexy time" with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are better all together... respecting difference and celebrating sexual freedom.

just not with each other .... every time"

i agree

i dont see why we need a different site for every group of people

just means more sites to join, straight people will join bi sites just as couples joined fabflirts as its easier to find single woman

may as well all just stay together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how about fabverified&genuine site"

ive only every had one no show on here and that was by a guy who had more verifications than most women

being verified does not make you genuine

you can still piss people about just because you turn up sometimes

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Vive la difference i say...why live in ghettoes when we can celebrate sexual diversity

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

where would that leave me as a straight woman who likes to play with bi guys?? can i get a guest profile on fabguys??

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"where would that leave me as a straight woman who likes to play with bi guys?? can i get a guest profile on fabguys??"

no but u can meet me and kev

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"where would that leave me as a straight woman who likes to play with bi guys?? can i get a guest profile on fabguys??"

*Calmly and discreetly directs your attention towards my profile*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know about anyone elses experience, but fab flirts is a deadzone.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"where would that leave me as a straight woman who likes to play with bi guys?? can i get a guest profile on fabguys??

*Calmly and discreetly directs your attention towards my profile*

"

You know it's not discreet when you post it in a public forum, right? You big floozy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm oh here and fabguys but only ever had meets from here.

Never understood why there was a separate Guy only site anyway which if for big curious, bi sexual and gay guys anyway, so why have yet another just for bi only?

What is it about bi or bi curious guys that makes some women unable to meet them? I can understand them not wanting say a MMF with both guys getting it on in front of them but on a one on one basis how can you tell if the Guy is bi or bi c?

So no we don't need yet another site for just bi people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keep bi/straight/gay on one site but split the site like this instead!

have one site for all the negative people and one for all the positive people!

as soon as someone comes on the forums or is an ass or negative on their profile they should be reported and relagated to the misrable bastard website haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could call the negative site fabmoaners.com as it still sounds like a sex site too haha

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

A very interesting thread and it made us think about what we would like!

Okay, we’d like to see the following sites:

1. A site for straight men

2. A site for straight women

3. A site for straight men who, although not Bi or curious, would suck a cock in the right situation

4. A site for straight women who are not Bi but in the heat of the moment, may chew on a rug!

5. A site for curious men who have never sucked a cock, but think they might

6. A site for curious women who have never rug-munched but might

7. A site for Bi men who love eating the Beef Enchilada.

8. A site for Bi women who love to eat the Chicken Kebab

9. All of the above sites for males in couples whose wives are straight

10. All of the above sites for females in couples whose husbands are straight

11. All of the above sites for couples where they haven’t got a clue about sexuality

12. One site for all the old swingers in each appropriate category

13. One site for all the younger swingers in each appropriate category

14. One site for all the “middling” swingers in each appropriate category

15. One site for each kind of fetish in each category

16. One site for the OP, who wants to see all of us segregated!

I may have missed some but that should keep the site owners busy and break the bank! Oh yes and we want them all by tomorrow!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never been on fabguys (for obvious reasons) but there seem to be loads of gay men on here so can't see that segregation would work

You would just get people joining both sites so pointless exercise really

"
Same as Fabflirts

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

2, 4, 9 and 12 please with fried rice and a portion of chips xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A very interesting thread and it made us think about what we would like!

Okay, we’d like to see the following sites:

1. A site for straight men

2. A site for straight women

3. A site for straight men who, although not Bi or curious, would suck a cock in the right situation

4. A site for straight women who are not Bi but in the heat of the moment, may chew on a rug!

5. A site for curious men who have never sucked a cock, but think they might

6. A site for curious women who have never rug-munched but might

7. A site for Bi men who love eating the Beef Enchilada

8. A site for Bi women who love to eat the Chicken Kebab

9. All of the above sites for males in couples whose wives are straight

10. All of the above sites for females in couples whose husbands are straight

11. All of the above sites for couples where they

haven’t got a clue about sexuality

12. One site for all the old swingers in each appropriate category

13. One site for all the younger swingers in each appropriate category

14. One site for all the “middling” swingers in each appropriate category

15. One site for each kind of fetish in each category

16. One site for the OP, who wants to see all of us segregated!

I may have missed some but that should keep the site owners busy and break the bank! Oh yes and we want them all by tomorrow!!!

"
I love a couple who are easily pleased lol x

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"we are better all together... respecting difference and celebrating sexual freedom.

just not with each other .... every time"

*this* is wisdom

+2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are better all together... respecting difference and celebrating sexual freedom.

just not with each other .... every time

*this* is wisdom

+2 "
+3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think too many want the site to do everything for them.If its not filters for this filters for that its something else.

Dear Fab,

Can u please not allow me to act like a responsible person capable of making informed decisive choices.I feel it would be good if you could mail me into my inbox couples etc who want to meet me,In fact can you just in fact taxi me to them or them to me.

(throw in some condoms too).

Thanks very much,

Your fucking lazyasfuckfabber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not close Fab Guys and just have a section on here for Bi or Gay people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just have a search section, like will/wont meet smokers, will/wont meet bi

simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think too many want the site to do everything for them.If its not filters for this filters for that its something else."

I thought I was the only one who thought this way. Thank Christ somebody else shares the same _iew as myself.

It does appear that lots of people want the site to do everything for them automatically.

What ever became of looking through profiles, sending out a few speculative messages and see what happens ?

Is that not part of the fun of being on a site such as this, or do some people want it to run like a well oiled production line managed by robots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think too many want the site to do everything for them.If its not filters for this filters for that its something else.

I thought I was the only one who thought this way. Thank Christ somebody else shares the same _iew as myself.

It does appear that lots of people want the site to do everything for them automatically.

What ever became of looking through profiles, sending out a few speculative messages and see what happens ?

Is that not part of the fun of being on a site such as this, or do some people want it to run like a well oiled production line managed by robots"

I don't think its beyond reasonable to expect a swingers site to have a search button/selection for searching by sexual orientation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think too many want the site to do everything for them.If its not filters for this filters for that its something else.

I thought I was the only one who thought this way. Thank Christ somebody else shares the same _iew as myself.

It does appear that lots of people want the site to do everything for them automatically.

What ever became of looking through profiles, sending out a few speculative messages and see what happens ?

Is that not part of the fun of being on a site such as this, or do some people want it to run like a well oiled production line managed by robots"

U only copied my thoughts!!!!!!-bloody microbrainprocessor chips are being flung around like fuck around this botfactory xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I may have missed some but that should keep the site owners busy and break the bank! Oh yes and we want them all by tomorrow!!!

"

Tomorrow FFS? Later today would be a bit more like the thing !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't think its beyond reasonable to expect a swingers site to have a search button/selection for searching by sexual orientation!

"

Prof, you are 100% right in what you say, but the other poster and myself were referring to the many filters and features that people have asked for over recent months/years. Sometimes it does look like they want the site to do all the work for them - including having the meet on their behalf and telling them what it was like. OK the last bit was a bit of a piss take

I certinly see no problem in basic search critera being available, but some folks take it to the point of being silly

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By *Y MAN n ME OP   Couple
over a year ago

FIFE


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16. One site for the OP, who wants to see all of us segregated! "

SORRY think you missed my point, I do not want segregation just a bi search/filter to make it easier to find other bi couples, well at least those who are honest about their sexuality.... is that such a bad request????after all we can block single guys if we don't want them

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"[Removed by poster at 25/11/11 23:40:06]"

Oh no you fuckin didn't!! Read the OP and you will see you have asked for a web site!!

Sheesh! Single guys, eh? (runs for cover)

And anyway, that list was not all about your post, but about the other posts in the recent past asking for different things..

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By *ir Suck-a-lotMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"we are better all together... respecting difference and celebrating sexual freedom.

just not with each other .... every time"

I agree here, we should all stick together, and celebrate our sexul preferences together, in and out of the bed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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16. One site for the OP, who wants to see all of us segregated!

SORRY think you missed my point, I do not want segregation just a bi search/filter to make it easier to find other bi couples, well at least those who are honest about their sexuality.... is that such a bad request????after all we can block single guys if we don't want them

"

Errrm, this is a quote from your opening post

"SO why can't there be a Fab BI Only site?"

Looks like it's a site that your after fella, not a filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" MY MAN n ME: Suggestion for new "FAB" site...

OK further to reading another thread about bi folks, it got me wondering...

First we have FAB the original... then we have Fabguys(for bi guys) and then came FabFlirts(for singles I beleive)

SO why can't there be a Fab BI Only site?

In my opinion it would be a great success!

what are others _iews on this???"


"

16. MY MAN n ME:

SORRY think you missed my point, I do not want segregation just a bi search/filter to make it easier to find other bi couples, well at least those who are honest about their sexuality.... is that such a bad request????after all we can block single guys if we don't want them

"

Make your mind up for fucks sake

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I agree they have changed position on this thread but to be fair to the OP they have championed a Bi filter for a long time now... Admin have mentioned many times it is something they may look at.

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By *Y MAN n ME OP   Couple
over a year ago

FIFE


"I agree they have changed position on this thread but to be fair to the OP they have championed a Bi filter for a long time now... Admin have mentioned many times it is something they may look at."

Cheers for that View! xx

that was the point we were trying to make, the fact that certain features haven't been added to this site but new sideshoots are being developed... I'm sure we are not the only ones who would use and value the bi search/filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree they have changed position on this thread but to be fair to the OP they have championed a Bi filter for a long time now... Admin have mentioned many times it is something they may look at.

Cheers for that View! xx

that was the point we were trying to make, the fact that certain features haven't been added to this site but new sideshoots are being developed... I'm sure we are not the only ones who would use and value the bi search/filter."

I (and my partner who is also on here user her own profile) would both welcome a sexual orientation selection.

It only needs to be a set of tick boxes (similar to the man/woman/couple ones) which allow you to select from the sexual orientation options which you get on your profile.

I mean, crap on a cracker - you can filter as a couple on finding a MM Couple for Watersports in the Aberdeen area who are Geniune, have pics and want to meet today aged between 41 and 43 years old.

But try a search to just return all the Straight Males in Derbyshire? Fail.

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