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By *onny Bones OP   Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

Hey everybody

Just a topical question that has had me wondering for some time!

Other than the mass delete which I know many do periodically, why do you unfriend someone on here?

Is it due to lack of contact after the request had been accepted? Or have you seen the pictures in their private gallery and had second thoughts??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The former

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only done it a couple times regretted it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We used to unfriend if we'd had no contact or response to a message for a couple of weeks (assuming they'd been on line). Now we rarely accept friend requests so just leave the list there. One maybe two of the people on it contact us now and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're an arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a meet arrangement falls through. After all, if you’ve not met, how can you be friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If no contact has been made since we added them. Of if they have not been on fir a while (talking months).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone stops messaging for a while. If they are nt in contact I presume they have lost interest.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I have the occasional prune.

People I've not heard from for a while or meets that haven't come off.

General dead wood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's rare I friend someone I haven't met, but if I do, I will unfriend them if I don't think we are ever going to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they're an arse "

I like your arse...

Anyway, I digress

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By *onny Bones OP   Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven


"If they're an arse "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually unfriend for little or no contact or if they let me down in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friends clear out every now and again. If people don't make the effort to chat every now and again, then I don't see the point in being friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I unfriend when I can't be arsed with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it if you can tell they continually come online, but do not respond to messages. If I take the time to make someone a friend and they accept, it's not an unreasonable expectation to get some communication. You get friend notifications before other types so there is no excuse other than apathy or disinterest. And my time is too valuable to waste on people that can't be bothered to answer 1 message in a fortnight.... (This is obviously a big pet peeve for me....)

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hey everybody

Just a topical question that has had me wondering for some time!

Other than the mass delete which I know many do periodically, why do you unfriend someone on here?

Is it due to lack of contact after the request had been accepted? Or have you seen the pictures in their private gallery and had second thoughts??"

If they have p****d me off they don’t deserve my ‘friendship’.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"If they're an arse "

I’m glad you don’t unfriend everyone who’s an arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't talk to them regularly, I don't have them on my friends list.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I have the occasional prune.

People I've not heard from for a while or meets that haven't come off.

General dead wood."

Prunes help keep you regular!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who set a date to meet then fall silent

People who never quite get to setting a date

People that I don’t know very well who have not kept in touch

People who have met but have no idea what aftercare is (so we won’t be meeting again).

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I do it quite regular,I see no point in staying friends if we never chat .

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think I've only ever unfriended one person and that was when I realised, as a result of their forum presence, that I had no interest in messaging/meeting them and therefore didn't see the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All sorts of reasons, no contact, statuts updates, pictures, rudeness, disrespect

I only add people I actually chat to frequently now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually unfriended a few earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I delete someone it’s usually within minutes of accepting the request (if they have shit photos). Otherwise I’ll leave someone there forever. I don’t feel the need to delete a person, even if they haven’t spoken for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of interaction mostly

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We only accept friends requests from those we have met but if after a while it seems there will be no further meets/lack of communication then we remove them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually unfriended a few earlier "

*goes to check*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only reason I’d unfriend someone is if there was no contact for ages after the initial messages or if they displayed behaviour that I really didn’t like.

I’ve not done it since I’ve returned, I like to pretend that I’m popular

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Only friends with people I've met in real life. See no point otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when I’m bored and lost interest in them

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I don’t really see much point in having someone on my friends list if we don’t interact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually unfriended a few earlier

*goes to check*"

Haha not you!

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"People who set a date to meet then fall silent

People who never quite get to setting a date

People that I don’t know very well who have not kept in touch

People who have met but have no idea what aftercare is (so we won’t be meeting again)."

This plus ppl I've not met who I won't ever meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes if they've met someone I find unsavoury who then puts me off meeting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All sorts of reasons, no contact, status updates, pictures, rudeness, disrespect

I only add people I actually chat to frequently now "

This!

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