FabSwingers.com forum: Couple 2 couple long term

By *ivefortodaytwo OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

We were curious to know if any of you guys had a long term couple as partners . Ie, two couples meeting , swapping, etc on a regular basis . Going out for meals and others things couples do but with the added benefit of swapping with each other and overnight stays ......

We just think it would be good to build a swinging relationship with another couple where each knows what each other truly likes .....

Maybe we are weird lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had all you said on two separate occasions. Was good fun and would definitely do it again if found the right couple x

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By *ivefortodaytwo OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

"We have had all you said on two separate occasions. Was good fun and would definitely do it again if found the right couple x

As I say it’s sounding like the perfect situation..... along with playing with others xx

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We have tried to find a couple for this as it would be ideal but unfortunately very difficult to find (well for us anyway)

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By *ay2naughtyCouple
over a year ago

penrith

We have been extremely lucky and have made some great long term friends, 4 couples for several years.

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By *4tCouple
over a year ago

warrington

seems all our friends are swingers, vanilla friends now are all abroad

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

We’ve got three couples we play with regularly, it’s fun, relaxed and you don’t have to prove who you already are to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet with about 3-4 couples pretty much every time we go to a club.. which is always liberty elite

as were a non swap couple it’s easier to go and meet others that you know rather than ones you don’t and then have to explain you don’t swap x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you find genuine friends you know you hit the jackpot

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We play regularly with a couple of good friends, have been doing so for over 10 years now, apart from the sex we enjoy visiting places, together socialising and holidaying together. We always bareback when we meet. We sleep swapped in different beds sometimes. Unfortunately they're quite a way away, but that means our meets involve staying over.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Yes one 3 years the other 5years and every meet has been awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for about 4 years now

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By *bthreeCouple
over a year ago

Yeovil

Yes for about 6 years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we have done this with 2 other couples in the past and would to strike up another relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi we do this met a great couple 12 months ago see them every Saturday been away with each others partners its amazing and your not weird xx

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By *ivefortodaytwo OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

Looks like most of you that have found fun with a steady couple are down south, think we need to move ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not long term yet, only about 4 months.

But we meet whenever we can, our children have been introduced, we've had completely vanilla family days out and we're all going away together next year.

It's been surprising how well we've all clicked together so quickly, and they're definitely considered very good friends

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By *ivefortodaytwo OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

"Not long term yet, only about 4 months.

But we meet whenever we can, our children have been introduced, we've had completely vanilla family days out and we're all going away together next year.

It's been surprising how well we've all clicked together so quickly, and they're definitely considered very good friends

Perfect that’s what want , although our kids are adults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a few long term friends and have even been on a cruise with one of them . We don’t live in each other’s pockets but chat and when we can we meet up

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By *irDandSubCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Yes we have a few special couple friends. It adds to the dynamics and makes for some interesting nights out

"We were curious to know if any of you guys had a long term couple as partners . Ie, two couples meeting , swapping, etc on a regular basis . Going out for meals and others things couples do but with the added benefit of swapping with each other and overnight stays ......

We just think it would be good to build a swinging relationship with another couple where each knows what each other truly likes .....

Maybe we are weird lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think that’s weird at all. The social side is just as important and finding like minded people to spend some good time with sounds good to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is exactly what we are looking for. The journey continues...

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By *nJ_NW_cplCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Many years ago we became very good friends with the first couple we full swapped with and went for meals and nights out, we also stayed at their house many times and even took our kids to their kids birthday parties. It was very enjoyable and yes we would do it all again, no kids parties anymore they are to old lol xxx

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We have been looking for a couple to do exactly this with but it is proving almost impossible to find.

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By *ivefortodaytwo OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

"I don’t think that’s weird at all. The social side is just as important and finding like minded people to spend some good time with sounds good to us

And your local to us

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By *ivefortodaytwo OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

"Many years ago we became very good friends with the first couple we full swapped with and went for meals and nights out, we also stayed at their house many times and even took our kids to their kids birthday parties. It was very enjoyable and yes we would do it all again, no kids parties anymore they are to old lol xxx"

And your pretty local to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think that’s weird at all. The social side is just as important and finding like minded people to spend some good time with sounds good to us

And your local to us

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By *alnSimCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We've been yearning for this for ages. It's so much fun having a regular long term friend as it's easier to understand each other and push the boundaries further. It's the ideal scenario for us and our search still continues.

Also means you are no longer spending so much time searching and vetting new couples every time you want to have a meet. It's so laborious.

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By *ivefortodaytwo OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

"We've been yearning for this for ages. It's so much fun having a regular long term friend as it's easier to understand each other and push the boundaries further. It's the ideal scenario for us and our search still continues.

Also means you are no longer spending so much time searching and vetting new couples every time you want to have a meet. It's so laborious.

Totally agree, hopefully find a possible couple tonight in infusions xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would love this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds ideal!

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By *achelnMarkCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire

What we'd prefer actually.

When we first started we had 2x couple friends we saw for a couple of years, one fizzled out naturally and one went bang for no reason known to us

Thought it'd be easy to do the same, but 14 years later lol.... Almost managed it but someone moved the goalposts!

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By *alnSimCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Also means you are no longer spending so much time searching and vetting new couples every time you want to have a meet. It's so laborious.

Totally agree, hopefully find a possible couple tonight in infusions xxx"

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

We had this a couple of times with couples and a single male.. it was great because everyone was on the same level. We would also meet in various combination depending on who was available which added to the fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to have friends with benefits, but very had to find. we will keep looking. Most just want a one off and move onto the next (anyone can do that). finding genuine couples is very difficult. Stay happy xx

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Yes we've had a 3 year thing with another couple

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By *inkswithpanCouple
over a year ago

lough

We just think it would be good to build a swinging relationship with another couple where each knows what each other truly likes .....

Maybe we are weird lol "

This is the sort of thing we are looking for also, just finding the right couple that we all click with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking for the same thing also! X

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By *wingme22Man
over a year ago

Galway

Myself and my wife have enjoyed this with a couple for 4 years now. They have become family friends too. It is hard when we doing family stuf as all you want to do is ravage them.

They are out there just need to put time to find the right couple for ye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This would be an ideal situation for us, we aren't looking at racking up numbers, finding 1 or 2 couples we could meet with every so often is more appealing than just meeting strangers for sex, more chemistry if there's a friendship type relationship there and only adds to the while experience, at least that's what we think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just think it would be good to build a swinging relationship with another couple where each knows what each other truly likes .....

Maybe we are weird lol "

We had that and it was great til the other lady got pregnant by me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just think it would be good to build a swinging relationship with another couple where each knows what each other truly likes .....

Maybe we are weird lol

We had that and it was great til the other lady got pregnant by me...

Wow, lesson learnt I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just think it would be good to build a swinging relationship with another couple where each knows what each other truly likes .....

Maybe we are weird lol "

We would ideally love to meet a couple we could build a close friendship with and have fun with also. We did once many years ago, but they gradually become possessive and suffered aggressive jealousy if we had a social with anyone else. It become quite bad and we had over a year away from fab and swinging. Since returning we tend to keep people at arms length but still hope that one day we will meet one or two couples with similar interests who we can share ourselves with x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just think it would be good to build a swinging relationship with another couple where each knows what each other truly likes .....

Maybe we are weird lol

We had that and it was great til the other lady got pregnant by me...

Wow, lesson learnt I guess

Yes, my sperm is stronger than common contaception methods?

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By *alnSimCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We just think it would be good to build a swinging relationship with another couple where each knows what each other truly likes .....

Maybe we are weird lol

That's an interesting perspective. Thanks for sharing. I guess like with all things in life, you have to be mindful of the potential side affects and ensure you deal with them in a timely manner before things get out of hands.

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By *ivefortodaytwo OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

So any couples interested in the idea ??? We are based in north Manchester ....... we may not be your cup of tea or is yours but, we don’t know until we try xxx

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By *urreySunSeekersCouple
over a year ago

Camberley

Have had some joy with this but life makes a habit of screwing things up.

But will are still alive so still seeking a few elusive couples for fun, naughty but regular escapades!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

So many couples interested in this yet not one is in the North East such a shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could not think of anything more boring ..we love the variety swinging..we already have friends we share time with ..so why bring sex into it to spoil it..it's a dangerous thing too ..it would only take one partner to fall in love with another partner and all hell would break loose..and yes that could happen because sex is involved as well as friendships..

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By *ivefortodaytwo OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

"Could not think of anything more boring ..we love the variety swinging..we already have friends we share time with ..so why bring sex into it to spoil it..it's a dangerous thing too ..it would only take one partner to fall in love with another partner and all hell would break loose..and yes that could happen because sex is involved as well as friendships.."

I agree in some respects but, if your in a solid relationship then love, like in all aspects of swinging, doesn’t come into it....... if theirs a risk of love happening then surely you shouldn’t be swinging as it’s just sex no emotion . Just our honest opinion but, We do understand fully what your saying although we wouldn’t just be tied to this couple just a regular couple who knows what you like without the awkwardness of I don’t like that etc, still play with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been on long enough to have long term friends, but have made some great ones we hope to build up to it with. Really like the idea.

We're close to you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But life is too short..swinging is about sex not relationships.. so why start one with another couple..I am sure you will have couples friends so why bring sex into it .. We have been swingers for over 25 years.. she is going through a stage meeting on her own..there is no jealousy in our relationship..we/she only ever meets the same person/s once.. we both have friends and couples friends, so I don't see why we need them in our swinging life ..it just get's too complicated..but it's a case of what works for us might not work for others and the other way around, we get that ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would like this but struggling to find a couple who have similar interests to us! We want a bi couple who full swap and are experienced but not too experienced! The search continues....

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

This is something we would like. A regular couple for socialising with as well as fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is something we would like. A regular couple for socialising with as well as fun."

don't' you have none swinging friends for socialising

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By *ivefortodaytwo OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

Fully understand . I think it’s more of freinds who are into swinging so you can discuss openly and be at ease with each other , with vanilla couples you can’t have open conversations if that makes sense, it does in our mind lol

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"This is something we would like. A regular couple for socialising with as well as fun.

don't' you have none swinging friends for socialising"

Of course we do. We would just like to find a couple to meet semi-regularly for drinks etc. and fun.

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By *ivefortodaytwo OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

"This is something we would like. A regular couple for socialising with as well as fun.

don't' you have none swinging friends for socialising

Of course we do. We would just like to find a couple to meet semi-regularly for drinks etc. and fun."

Agree x

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By *teve and mandyCouple
over a year ago

purley

We are looking and hoping to meet with other couples/single males for a long period

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"This is something we would like. A regular couple for socialising with as well as fun.

don't' you have none swinging friends for socialising

Of course we do. We would just like to find a couple to meet semi-regularly for drinks etc. and fun.

Agree x"

Swinging is different things to different people. Some prefer one offs and thats their choice. We enjoy going to clubs and they usually end up as one offs.

But it would be nice to meet one or 2 couples occassionally, like people have said, to socialise and have a drink/meal, discuss things you cant with vanilla friends and have sexy fun.

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By *ivefortodaytwo OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

"This is something we would like. A regular couple for socialising with as well as fun.

don't' you have none swinging friends for socialising

Of course we do. We would just like to find a couple to meet semi-regularly for drinks etc. and fun.

Agree x

Swinging is different things to different people. Some prefer one offs and thats their choice. We enjoy going to clubs and they usually end up as one offs.

But it would be nice to meet one or 2 couples occassionally, like people have said, to socialise and have a drink/meal, discuss things you cant with vanilla friends and have sexy fun."

Totally agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the idea of meeting a couple for regular socialising with the added benefit of sexual encounters however it's difficult enough to find other couples for anything more than a social meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just think it would be good to build a swinging relationship with another couple where each knows what each other truly likes .....

Maybe we are weird lol "

We'd love that. Maybe in time it'll happen. Fingers crossed.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

We just think it would be good to build a swinging relationship with another couple where each knows what each other truly likes .....

Maybe we are weird lol "

It’s what we have always wanted never achieved tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just think it would be good to build a swinging relationship with another couple where each knows what each other truly likes .....

Maybe we are weird lol

We'd love that. Maybe in time it'll happen. Fingers crossed."

And then one of the partners falls in love with one of the other partners and they have a sneaky relationship..or one of the couple becomes obsessed with one of the partners..it might get too complicated.. friends are friends swingers are swingers..keep those lifes separate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just think it would be good to build a swinging relationship with another couple where each knows what each other truly likes .....

Maybe we are weird lol

We'd love that. Maybe in time it'll happen. Fingers crossed.

It could happen without swinging as well. Nobody should have even friends then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just think it would be good to build a swinging relationship with another couple where each knows what each other truly likes .....

Maybe we are weird lol

We'd love that. Maybe in time it'll happen. Fingers crossed.

It could happen without swinging as well. Nobody should have even friends then

Of course it could.. but sex is involved straight away with this scenario ..if you click sexually you already have a head start on a effair starting..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just think it would be good to build a swinging relationship with another couple where each knows what each other truly likes .....

Maybe we are weird lol

We'd love that. Maybe in time it'll happen. Fingers crossed.

It could happen without swinging as well. Nobody should have even friends then

Of course it could.. but sex is involved straight away with this scenario ..if you click sexually you already have a head start on a effair starting.."

Let's just agree to disagree on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just think it would be good to build a swinging relationship with another couple where each knows what each other truly likes .....

Maybe we are weird lol

We'd love that. Maybe in time it'll happen. Fingers crossed.

It could happen without swinging as well. Nobody should have even friends then

Of course it could.. but sex is involved straight away with this scenario ..if you click sexually you already have a head start on a effair starting..

Let's just agree to disagree on this one

Life would be boring if we all thought the same things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would ideally like to meet a couple for this x

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By *bwitchedWoman
over a year ago

Batley, West Yorkshire

We just think it would be good to build a swinging relationship with another couple where each knows what each other truly likes .....

Maybe we are weird lol "

We'd love to find this too. Have found long term partners individually but so far it hasn't happened with another couple, but we have made some lovely friends over the years so we live in hope that one day it will happen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have made friends with a cpl , met twice loads of fun and keep in contact every day in kik.... clicked well with chat which led to the fun. Trying all sorts of new things too, currently trying to find a date fir next adventure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is our absolute dream scenario. Finding one special couple to build a lasting, erotic relationship. All of us savouring the shared thrill of regular meetings, working towards a long-term situation where we spend nights together and occasionally even swap completely for the evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just think it would be good to build a swinging relationship with another couple where each knows what each other truly likes .....

Maybe we are weird lol

We had that and it was great til the other lady got pregnant by me...

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this happened to us and embrased the sitiuation and everybody was happy

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

We just think it would be good to build a swinging relationship with another couple where each knows what each other truly likes .....

Maybe we are weird lol "

We might actually find that very rewarding and fun, certainly a different twist on what we have done before!

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By *ivefortodaytwo OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

We just think it would be good to build a swinging relationship with another couple where each knows what each other truly likes .....

Maybe we are weird lol

We might actually find that very rewarding and fun, certainly a different twist on what we have done before!"

If only we got together xx

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

It’s something we’d consider.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to be in a relationship for this

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By *r FuckableMan
over a year ago

Stoke

I met my ex wife on a swinging site and we were together 7 years, but not a couple,there's a woman on here however, I've seen a few times and I'd take her tomorrow as a partner, she's something special.

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By *othofus69Couple
over a year ago

bridgend

We've had friends we've played with a few times, but haven't met up with them for a while due to us both having kids. We are more friends than fbs just when the drink takes over.

Would love this as it's a social with benefits rather than meeting up solely for sex.

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