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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thought I’d do a post to see what people think of my profile!

I’ve got a fair few photos and also a bio but I struggle to get many people viewing my profile or messaging me!

Sometimes when I message couples/women with a well thought out message after reading profile I still do not get a response!

Would be great if someone could give me some tips on my profile or tell me perhaps where I’m going wrong!

Be as cruel as you want I won’t be offended haha

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

Nothing wrong with the pictures you have included but they are a bit repetitive. I would love to see maybe shower tease pic, bum pic etc but that's just me.

I don't find anything particularly wrong with your profile.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with the pictures you have included but they are a bit repetitive. I would love to see maybe shower tease pic, bum pic etc but that's just me.

I don't find anything particularly wrong with your profile.

Mrs "

Great pics and write up. Plenty of detail I think it’s good as is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a bit “one size fits all” young girls, older cougars....... makes it sound like you’re not too fussy. Perhaps add some variety to a our photos too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PS - you don’t need someone to go to a club with, go by yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"PS - you don’t need someone to go to a club with, go by yourself "

This is what I was going to say. I find "not 100% sure what I am after" a bit off putting as I like a man who knows what he wants, so maybe I'd delete that bit and have a think about which experiences you'd like from this site and what you can offer potential meets. Pictures are good if a little repetitive, you're a good looking guy . Unfortunately it's a bit of a numbers game on here, couples and females are spoilt for choice with single males.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

May sound daft, but for me the fact your pics are taken in the same place makes me think there'd be no adventure, that meeting you would be staying confined to one room, or a changing room.

Just goes to show how powerful images can be in painting a picture in our own minds, even if they're not correct.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Learn to use the timer on your phone's camera - it's simple and allows for a better range of pics that aren't just various ones of you holding a phone - which, as others have said are a little bit samey. If you're stuck for ideas of pics to take, have a look at other single guys profiles for inspiration.

You've only been here three weeks (this time) which is no time at all - it can take months to get that first meet and you really need to sell yourself better to do so - think about what you want to get from the site, what you think you can offer potential meets, and the type of person you want to meet - then try and include that in your profile and inject some of your personality.

I'll be absolutely honest too - your age may well go against you - a lot of people here will have kids your age. Now that doesn't mean you can't get anything from the site - it's just another hurdle you face and another reason you need to make yourself stand out.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Also,2 of your pics are taken with you sitting on the bog. Unless you're hinting you like poop play I'd lose them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your just having the same problem every other single man has? I've been on and off here about 6 years, when I started it was a lot easier, it's getting to the point now it's almost impossible to get a meet? Its a shame such a good site has gone this way if it was possible to get rid of all the men wasting people's time then it would.

This will probably be the last time I have an account on here I get much more action from pof? Which about sums it up now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"PS - you don’t need someone to go to a club with, go by yourself "

Thanks for the advise xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"PS - you don’t need someone to go to a club with, go by yourself

This is what I was going to say. I find "not 100% sure what I am after" a bit off putting as I like a man who knows what he wants, so maybe I'd delete that bit and have a think about which experiences you'd like from this site and what you can offer potential meets. Pictures are good if a little repetitive, you're a good looking guy . Unfortunately it's a bit of a numbers game on here, couples and females are spoilt for choice with single males."

Also thank you for the input, I’ll certaknly make changes

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Your just having the same problem every other single man has? I've been on and off here about 6 years, when I started it was a lot easier, it's getting to the point now it's almost impossible to get a meet? Its a shame such a good site has gone this way if it was possible to get rid of all the men wasting people's time then it would.

This will probably be the last time I have an account on here I get much more action from pof? Which about sums it up now."

Almost impossible to get a meet? But you've had two in the past couple of months so not that impossible

As I often say, it's as hard or easy as we as individuals want to make it - with the right approach and attitude, along with a decent profile and pics etc it doesn't have to be difficult at all.

As for getting rid of time wasters, while they do exist and I feel for anyone that has had the misfortune to encounter one that has genuinely wasted their time - they're easily avoidable 95% of the time, and they've made no difference to my experience of the site at all - although it would obviously be better for all if people didn't do it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice everyone!

Gonna make a few changes to my profile and hopefully start attracting some more women and couples haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my view the way you start your profile,put me off ! Instead of a greeting you get I been here before and I am back ! Back until when? I usually give a pass because does not sound reliable.

Also you don't say what you looking for just couples and woman. What are you in to ?

Pictures are fine but text need some work. Good luck .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"PS - you don’t need someone to go to a club with, go by yourself

This is what I was going to say. I find "not 100% sure what I am after" a bit off putting as I like a man who knows what he wants, so maybe I'd delete that bit and have a think about which experiences you'd like from this site and what you can offer potential meets. Pictures are good if a little repetitive, you're a good looking guy . Unfortunately it's a bit of a numbers game on here, couples and females are spoilt for choice with single males.

Also thank you for the input, I’ll certaknly make changes "

I don’t think anyone was commenting on your profile?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Too many mirror selfies.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I really dislike the single females and couples are spoilt for choice.. sure there are greater numbers of single guys than other genders.. if you believe what's written by folk on the forums and in the couples and single ladies statuses... most of the guys aren't worth bothering with.

Make yhour profile as appealing interesting and enticing as you can ..know your worth the good guys will reap the rewards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey man. Gay guy here chiming in. You’re very attractive. You have anough pictures of your face which is great. (As someone else said there’s a couple which seem to be copies of one another). Why not smile in some of them? I think it’s great to look neutral and masculine but I think a smile is attractive - ladies am I right?

Also, why don’t you list any interests? I think it’s sort of lazy not to tick a couple boxes of what you’re into.

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