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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have vacancies .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who expect the sub to prove themselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

FFS get a grip, whatever type of D/s relationship you want, it's about communication and compatibility!

What say you others?

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

The clichéd references are often a giveaway with the wannabees

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who expect the sub to prove themselves "

And then you see their face pics - i love to be kinky but I'm still "shallow".

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"FFS get a grip, whatever type of D/s relationship you want, it's about communication and compatibility!

What say you others?"

Any "Dom/me" who expects a sub to "prove" themselves worthy is of no interest to me - the ONLY thing a Dom/me and or sub should have to prove to one another is, as you say, a connection and chemistry and a like-minded approach to the dynamic that will compliment one another.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have vacancies .

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And offer training.

I wonder if it's salaried

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I have a social meet with a Dom this week that could be long term ..... he is not expecting anything from me ... just an initial meet to see if there is connection and chemistry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a social meet with a Dom this week that could be long term ..... he is not expecting anything from me ... just an initial meet to see if there is connection and chemistry "

That's how it should be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Doms who collect subs - take up stamp collecting

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I remember the first Dom I had, was 16 & a smidge naive but the moment he said he wanted me to be his slave and locked in a cage pretty much 24/7 I pretty much told him to fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a social meet with a Dom this week that could be long term ..... he is not expecting anything from me ... just an initial meet to see if there is connection and chemistry "

I hope it goes well x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I remember the first Dom I had, was 16 & a smidge naive but the moment he said he wanted me to be his slave and locked in a cage pretty much 24/7 I pretty much told him to fuck off "

I am not submissive per se, and therefore am appalled at the vacancies, the collectors, being told to prove my worth, all because they think if a woman states she is submissive, they have expectations.

They seem to forget we're people in our own right and have other traits. I am sub with the right Dom, not any Dom.

They need to "grow up", by that they need to obtain emotional intelligence and realise that being sub isn't our dominant trait .

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I have a social meet with a Dom this week that could be long term ..... he is not expecting anything from me ... just an initial meet to see if there is connection and chemistry

That's how it should be "

Exactly

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I have a social meet with a Dom this week that could be long term ..... he is not expecting anything from me ... just an initial meet to see if there is connection and chemistry

I hope it goes well x"

Fingers crossed .... thanks ... seems to have all the qualities needed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Doms who want to give trials

Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes .

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Doms who want to give trials

Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes ."

I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doms who want to give trials

Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes .

I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol "

A tiered salary for qualifications and experience

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Doms who want to give trials

Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes .

I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol

A tiered salary for qualifications and experience "

Definitely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god im rocking in my chair reading that. Jeez

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doms who want to give trials

Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes .

I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol

A tiered salary for qualifications and experience

Definitely! "

What about bonuses and overtime?

I'm really selling this rather well

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Doms who want to give trials

Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes .

I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol

A tiered salary for qualifications and experience

Definitely!

What about bonuses and overtime?

I'm really selling this rather well "

Bonuses and overtime are a must lol and compo for injuries

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Doms who want to give trials

Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes .

I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol

A tiered salary for qualifications and experience

Definitely!

What about bonuses and overtime?

I'm really selling this rather well "

Perhaps it could be performance linked - maybe with a half year and annual appraisal scheme?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doms who want to give trials

Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes .

I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol

A tiered salary for qualifications and experience

Definitely!

What about bonuses and overtime?

I'm really selling this rather well

Perhaps it could be performance linked - maybe with a half year and annual appraisal scheme? "

The cane for underperforming and spanking for doing well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doms who want to give trials

Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes .

I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol

A tiered salary for qualifications and experience

Definitely!

What about bonuses and overtime?

I'm really selling this rather well

Bonuses and overtime are a must lol and compo for injuries "

Does a Master's mark count?

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Doms who want to give trials

Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes .

I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol

A tiered salary for qualifications and experience

Definitely!

What about bonuses and overtime?

I'm really selling this rather well

Perhaps it could be performance linked - maybe with a half year and annual appraisal scheme?

The cane for underperforming and spanking for doing well "

And obligatory team building days, natch.

I nearly spat my coffee out laughing when a Dom kindly offered to ‘take me under his guidance so I could become the best version of me possible’.

I already am, mate...you need better than playing on insecurities if you want me on my knees

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doms who want to give trials

Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes .

I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol

A tiered salary for qualifications and experience

Definitely!

What about bonuses and overtime?

I'm really selling this rather well

Perhaps it could be performance linked - maybe with a half year and annual appraisal scheme?

The cane for underperforming and spanking for doing well

And obligatory team building days, natch.

I nearly spat my coffee out laughing when a Dom kindly offered to ‘take me under his guidance so I could become the best version of me possible’.

I already am, mate...you need better than playing on insecurities if you want me on my knees "

I've heard that thrown about too.

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