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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Since joining here, have you changed your mind on any morals or principles that you had before you joined?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since joining here, have you changed your mind on any morals or principles that you had before you joined?

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No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since joining here, have you changed your mind on any morals or principles that you had before you joined?

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No.

Still believe honest and respect are always key.

We are alway amazed at the 'honest people' who are cheating. How is that??

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By *ere2pleasureUMan
over a year ago

Kington

My views on human relationships have changed and I've learnt things that have given me new insights to human intimacy... I've not considered if any morals or principles have changed, but I guess they have...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since joining here, have you changed your mind on any morals or principles that you had before you joined?

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nope.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I hadn't realised there was so many hypocritical "swingers".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've developed them a little more. They've been tested in unexpected ways. But no, they're still still as they were.

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Surely there's an argument that if you changed them, you didn't truly hold them in the first place. Morals and principles aren't exactly like opinions that can change...?

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

newbury

Before I joined I'd have never slept with a married woman without her partner's knowledge. But I've met a number of couples at clubs where they're married to different people, and a simply lovely married lady. Now I abstain from judgement.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely there's an argument that if you changed them, you didn't truly hold them in the first place. Morals and principles aren't exactly like opinions that can change...?"

I see whet you're coming from but such as the man who has commented that he would never play with married women but now does. I personally think that is a change of principle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really no.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Since joining here, have you changed your mind on any morals or principles that you had before you joined?

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Hell yeah !

In so many ways as neither of us had any ideas of swinging , what went on and so on . We’ve tried just about everything imaginable since then , and seen and experienced so many things which before joining here we would have thought were just wrong .

Loved every minute of it too

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Since joining here, have you changed your mind on any morals or principles that you had before you joined?

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Have you changed any of yours Ruby?

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

newbury


"Surely there's an argument that if you changed them, you didn't truly hold them in the first place. Morals and principles aren't exactly like opinions that can change...?

I see whet you're coming from but such as the man who has commented that he would never play with married women but now does. I personally think that is a change of principle."

Absolutely changed. Probably enlightened to be honest - much less judgemental.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

newbury


"Since joining here, have you changed your mind on any morals or principles that you had before you joined?

Hell yeah !

In so many ways as neither of us had any ideas of swinging , what went on and so on . We’ve tried just about everything imaginable since then , and seen and experienced so many things which before joining here we would have thought were just wrong .

Loved every minute of it too "

'Just wrong'....do tell!!!!!!!!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

No our morales and principles are just the same as they were when we first joined the site.

What has evolved our time is our boundaries with regards to swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined with low morals but slightly getting the principle of a priest who like to go on holiday during winter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that most of us develop thinly thought out morals on things that we haven't really thought about and that it's only when we're really confronted on it that we're really forced to drill down into what's right and wrong in that given situation. I'm glad to say that Fab has helped me develop and change my morals on certain things over the years and I look forward to this being an ongoing process throughout the rest of my life

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

This is the old monotheist conditioning we've had drilled into us all our lives. Having sex with other people, singly or in groups isn't immoral if everyone consents. Sex is a completely natural and incredibly pleasurable human activity but the major religions all want to control and limit it, don't they?

Just do what you all want and don't feel guilty, as long as everyone involved is doing things willingly.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

To me, morals are the standards that society expects of us while principles are the personal standards we hold ourselves to.

The former I couldn’t give a flying swizzle about - they change dependant on geography and era so they certainly don’t affect me any.

The latter, I hold pretty dear and boil down to ‘do no harm’.

As long as what I do isn’t hurting anyone, then it’s alright by me. Thought that before I joined the site and still think that now.

So nope, not changed since I got here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pinch of salt it is what it is

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"Since joining here, have you changed your mind on any morals or principles that you had before you joined?

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No, I still abide by 3 simple tests:

a) Does it feel natural?

b) Is the other person 18 or over?

c) It does not harm another person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

Never change your rules nor morals. You had them in place for a reason, x

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London


"Since joining here, have you changed your mind on any morals or principles that you had before you joined?

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yes i never thought id be ok with a partner meeting other men, but now i think its hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

Never change your rules nor morals. You had them in place for a reason, x"

Not getting at you in particular but, for me, this is the epitome of intransigence. We should all have the humility to review our moral standpoint in relation to life experience and the experience of others from time to time... if only because that's the right moral thing to do

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

nope my morales haven't changed at all sometimes my morales help filter out some people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since joining here, have you changed your mind on any morals or principles that you had before you joined?

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yes I had to become immoral

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"No our morales and principles are just the same as they were when we first joined the site.

What has evolved our time is our boundaries with regards to swinging. "

same here!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Since joining here, have you changed your mind on any morals or principles that you had before you joined?

Hell yeah !

In so many ways as neither of us had any ideas of swinging , what went on and so on . We’ve tried just about everything imaginable since then , and seen and experienced so many things which before joining here we would have thought were just wrong .

Loved every minute of it too "

I guess we must be different as we wouldn’t have dreamt of doing some of this stuff before we started , and bear in mind I was 50 and my wife 30 when we began ,

I was borderline homophobic , never even met a tv and had no gay friends , wife the same .

Wouldn’t have dreamt of having a guy dressed as a woman sucking me off , or fucking a post op ts woman .

Watersports were never a thought , then we met a few people into it and love it now .

Or am I mixing morals and principles up with simple openness to try new stuff ?

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Since joining here, have you changed your mind on any morals or principles that you had before you joined?

Hell yeah !

In so many ways as neither of us had any ideas of swinging , what went on and so on . We’ve tried just about everything imaginable since then , and seen and experienced so many things which before joining here we would have thought were just wrong .

Loved every minute of it too

I guess we must be different as we wouldn’t have dreamt of doing some of this stuff before we started , and bear in mind I was 50 and my wife 30 when we began ,

I was borderline homophobic , never even met a tv and had no gay friends , wife the same .

Wouldn’t have dreamt of having a guy dressed as a woman sucking me off , or fucking a post op ts woman .

Watersports were never a thought , then we met a few people into it and love it now .

Or am I mixing morals and principles up with simple openness to try new stuff ? "

they probably more unsure feelings rather than morals and principals

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Yes. I used to say i'm only looking for fit people. Until i realised a lot of them are dicks and up thier own ass . Now we tend to get to know them more and see what type of people they are

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Yes. I used to say i'm only looking for fit people. Until i realised a lot of them are dicks and up thier own ass . Now we tend to get to know them more and see what type of people they are "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck yeah!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I used to say i'm only looking for fit people. Until i realised a lot of them are dicks and up thier own ass . Now we tend to get to know them more and see what type of people they are

Same here "

There’s hope for some of us yet then...

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