FabSwingers.com forum: THE PURPOSE OF FORUMS

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've noticed that when attempts to discuss why people do certain things in the various Forums some people confuse this with attempts to restrict other rights tyo enjoy themselves the way they wish.

A constant message appears asking people not to criticise others' wishes even when no criticism has been made.

Individuals are free to do whatever they choose, however, the discussions in the various Forums are an attempt to ask or explain why people make those choices.

I wish some would recognise this difference and, perhaps, obtaing explanations for our sexual choices may be made more easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad I don't take anything seriously xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people should just do what they want to do ... it is them that needs to deal with any outcome.

if people ask for opinions, people will give opinion.. it is nothing more than an opinion.. no right or wrong

I post because I want to.. and choose to in a funny way, a caring way when required , a supportive way when required , an informative way when required ...

and if I think people are speaking shit and lying... I will say that also... but again that is my opinion and may not be what is factually correct.

as is anyone else's entitlement to do the same to me.

regular posters in the forum and chatters in the room will piss off some people, goes with the territory and that is something I accept.

I used to care overly about it.. now I dont give a shit what others think.

as long I can look at myself and think ' I didnt go out to upset anyone '

if I upset someone and I think they are worthy of an apology .. I will apologise unreseverdly.. if I dont think they are ... 2 fingers up lol

my very honest reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not one to comment really... prefer to sit back and read. Ignore eh.. best way.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not one to comment really... prefer to sit back and read. Ignore eh.. best way.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not one to comment really... prefer to sit back and read. Ignore eh.. best way.....

Shut it soapy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only post to piss folks off and practice me spelling for school

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By *1dKingColeMan
over a year ago

east london

I though the purpose of the Forums was to wind up the usual suspects!

;-);-)

LOL

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By *1dKingColeMan
over a year ago

east london

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol ,,, some folks do take it all a bit serious ,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol ,,, some folks do take it all a bit serious ,,,"

Dare ya to name em lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oooo oooo can I play this game???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oooo oooo can I play this game???

Yeah...... Open to all, its a forum eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol ,,, some folks do take it all a bit serious ,,,"

yea here here some ppl need 2 chill abit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thread posted to stir up a fight me thinks ..

have answered honestly ..

now canna be arsed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oooo oooo can I play this game???

Yeah...... Open to all, its a forum eh

I for one take it very seriously. I get very upset when people donot take note of my threads, make light of my very important and highly educational topics and make light of them.

This is not a fun place and I wish people would stop treating it as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol ,,, some folks do take it all a bit serious ,,,

yea here here some ppl need 2 chill abit

I'm sorry hun... I'll lighten up a bit lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

here here ,,, way too frivilous ,,, its late on a sunday evening and we all need to realise the importance or intelectual conversation through the written word ,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol ,,, some folks do take it all a bit serious ,,,

yea here here some ppl need 2 chill abit

I'm sorry hun... I'll lighten up a bit lol!!

aww hun dont lighting up 2 much lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol ,,, some folks do take it all a bit serious ,,,

yea here here some ppl need 2 chill abit

I'm sorry hun... I'll lighten up a bit lol!!

aww hun dont lighting up 2 much lol"

Oh he wont. He is pie eating this week for his diguise...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol ,,, some folks do take it all a bit serious ,,,

yea here here some ppl need 2 chill abit

I'm sorry hun... I'll lighten up a bit lol!!

aww hun dont lighting up 2 much lol

Oh he wont. He is pie eating this week for his diguise...lol

hope its no a hairy pie

lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not one to comment really... prefer to sit back and read. Ignore eh.. best way.....

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jesus ! you go to the pub for one night and notts hasturned in to an angel wtf???? xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oooo oooo can I play this game???

Yeah...... Open to all, its a forum eh

I for one take it very seriously. I get very upset when people donot take note of my threads, make light of my very important and highly educational topics and make light of them.

This is not a fun place and I wish people would stop treating it as such."
lmfao!!!" xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eh?

This is the only bit I get.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eh?

This is the only bit I get..... "

That will be the dementia kicking in!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Leave Granny alone, she's a sweet old thing and can't help it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed that when attempts to discuss 'why people do certain things' in the various Forums some people confuse this with attempts to restrict other rights to enjoy themselves the way they wish.

Did the OP ever come back and explain this or was it confirmed, that his intent was to ' to restrict other rights to enjoy themselves the way they wish '..

if I was a guessing man.. it was because I posted a comment re married people playing away and he and his 2 pals ... all married don't like it.

anyway, back to fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eh?

This is the only bit I get.....

That will be the dementia kicking in!

Kicking? I'm more M n S than S n M ....is this the pension Q ?? Put your clothes on young man ... such a skinny chest that boy !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love M & S Granny xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Leave Granny alone, she's a sweet old thing and can't help it!

That's Cheeky - SilverHelmet!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love M & S Granny xxx"

Strange ... you passed through my head yesterday as I roared toward Edin. n saw Glasgow signs.... are you the ONLY inhabitant ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love M & S Granny xxx

Strange ... you passed through my head yesterday as I roared toward Edin. n saw Glasgow signs.... are you the ONLY inhabitant ? "

I pass thro many heads ... usually in the hours of darkness and they usually wake screaming from a terrible nightmare xxxx

hope you had a nice time in scotland xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love M & S Granny xxx

Strange ... you passed through my head yesterday as I roared toward Edin. n saw Glasgow signs.... are you the ONLY inhabitant ?

I pass thro many heads ... usually in the hours of darkness and they usually wake screaming from a terrible nightmare xxxx

hope you had a nice time in scotland xxx"

I have a romanticised view of Scotland ( sorry ) Oft there... due to relatives ... always a good time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

off to get ma kilt on and wave a haggis ..

brb with a blue face and waving my sabre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"off to get ma kilt on and wave a haggis ..

brb with a blue face and waving my sabre "

I can see your sabre clearly and BOTH your haggis' ..... slurp ! xx

Off to do that old English Lady thing now. Break the speed limit and swear at innocents

xxx Have a lovely day View xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"off to get ma kilt on and wave a haggis ..

brb with a blue face and waving my sabre

I can see your sabre clearly and BOTH your haggis' ..... slurp ! xx

Off to do that old English Lady thing now. Break the speed limit and swear at innocents

xxx Have a lovely day View xx"

and you granny xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No VIEW, I am not married. Nor did "he and his pals" respond to any more than the question that was initially asked which if I remember was should value judgments be made on married people playing outwith their relationships using this site.

At no time was anyone organised to give any response that i am aware of.

The initial posting attempts to make clear that Forums are there to allow people to discuss issues of concern.

It is therefore absurd to turn any attempt to openly discuss issues into an attack on anyone's rights, practices or behaviour.

Used properly, the Forums can be an iopen forum to allow people to explain why they enjoy, dislike or prefer a number of sexual practices. A full discussion of the issues will allow those who disagree to explain their disagreements.

Unfortunately, some keep turning these discussions into accusations that attempts are being made to either condemn or attack others. This is wrtong.

Humour, irony, flippancy, and sarcasm can add to a discussion. These do not worry me.

It is the was that nasty personal accusations are mingled in that cause me concern.

Just read some of the unchecked accusations already made in this Forum to see why I am concerned.

I intended to let the discussion run a little longer before I interved again. However, some of the comments have forced me to respond sooner than I intended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shaved, definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops!! Wrong thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oops!! Wrong thread!

PMSL!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oops!! Wrong thread!

PMSL!!!!!"

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"Oops!! Wrong thread!

We love you slut, we really do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, now the combatants have finally been identified perhaps we should all sit back and let battle commence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No VIEW, I am not married. Nor did "he and his pals" respond to any more than the question that was initially asked which if I remember was should value judgments be made on married people playing outwith their relationships using this site.

At no time was anyone organised to give any response that i am aware of.

The initial posting attempts to make clear that Forums are there to allow people to discuss issues of concern.

It is therefore absurd to turn any attempt to openly discuss issues into an attack on anyone's rights, practices or behaviour.

Unfortunately, some keep turning these discussions into accusations that attempts are being made to either condemn or attack others. This is wrtong.

Humour, irony, flippancy, and sarcasm can add to a discussion. These do not worry me.

It is the was that nasty personal accusations are mingled in that cause me concern.

Just read some of the unchecked accusations already made in this Forum to see why I am concerned.

I intended to let the discussion run a little longer before I interved again. However, some of the comments have forced me to respond sooner than I intended."

good man , have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oops!! Wrong thread!

We love you slut, we really do

Awe fanx boys, you've made me go all unnecessary now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah, now the combatants have finally been identified perhaps we should all sit back and let battle commence

unlike you 2bonks, yu mellow today lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who wants to join me in the quiet corner?...... I have popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"who wants to join me in the quiet corner?...... I have popcorn

me *waves hand to catch Laines attention* ohh please I like popcorn is it sweet or salty???

I likes salty things

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"who wants to join me in the quiet corner?...... I have popcorn

me *waves hand to catch Laines attention* ohh please I like popcorn is it sweet or salty???

I likes salty things

Shona

x x x "

I'll bring the drinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"who wants to join me in the quiet corner?...... I have popcorn

me *waves hand to catch Laines attention* ohh please I like popcorn is it sweet or salty???

I likes salty things

Shona

x x x

I'll bring the drinks

ta Stu we need drinks cos of the salty nibbles xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"who wants to join me in the quiet corner?...... I have popcorn

me *waves hand to catch Laines attention* ohh please I like popcorn is it sweet or salty???

I likes salty things

Shona

x x x

I'll bring the drinks

ta Stu we need drinks cos of the salty nibbles xxx"

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"who wants to join me in the quiet corner?...... I have popcorn

me *waves hand to catch Laines attention* ohh please I like popcorn is it sweet or salty???

I likes salty things

Shona

x x x

I'll bring the drinks

ta Stu we need drinks cos of the salty nibbles xxx"

Stu you bringing the salted peanuts??

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"who wants to join me in the quiet corner?...... I have popcorn

me *waves hand to catch Laines attention* ohh please I like popcorn is it sweet or salty???

I likes salty things

Shona

x x x

I'll bring the drinks

ta Stu we need drinks cos of the salty nibbles xxx

Stu you bringing the salted peanuts??

Shona

x x x"

take my salted nuts everywhere with me shona....feel free to have a nibble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" take my salted nuts everywhere with me shona....feel free to have a nibble

Ohhhh dont tempt me I already told you I love salty things!!!

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" take my salted nuts everywhere with me shona....feel free to have a nibble

Ohhhh dont tempt me I already told you I love salty things!!!

Shona

x x x "

lol...then dive on in and help urself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can I play... what we watching ?

will bring sumit with me ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"can I play... what we watching ?

will bring sumit with me .."

not sure what we watching......was just thought of Laine....Shona...and salty nibbles that perked up my interest......so just cum on in and join us

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"who wants to join me in the quiet corner?...... I have popcorn

Should we bring the camera?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"who wants to join me in the quiet corner?...... I have popcorn

Should we bring the camera?

Bring the camera, oh and a webcam and we can do a live broadcast from the quiet corner... it's all nuts you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"can I play... what we watching ?

will bring sumit with me .."

bring some prime Angus fillet View, we having nibbles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lets have a orgy in the corner while the battle commences. take odds on the loser and fuck the winner...sounds like my sorta fight. so view dont deliberately lose coz am betting on ya man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lets have a orgy in the corner while the battle commences. take odds on the loser and fuck the winner...sounds like my sorta fight. so view dont deliberately lose coz am betting on ya man

nibbles, nobbling and naughties... what a result!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else broke the site thinking about nibbles and angus fillits!!!

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think it was us Shona hun, site running slow and when I rebooted couldn't get into site for ages

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"Bring the camera, oh and a webcam and we can do a live broadcast from the quiet corner... it's all nuts you know!"

No webcam shows

if they can't be bothered to get off their backside and take part, why should we give them a show?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well so far there is us three ladies in the corner. if we have no men volunteers we perhaps will have to play amongst ourselves....oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pussy hun you forgot our biatch . . . .STU. . . he will be the one wearing the waiters outfit and entertaining us

Glad it wasnt just me then Laine I thought I had upset my pc with all the laughing.

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 ladies, bimale couple, Stu... gone for salty nuts and drinks and View priming his fillet ... party!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry was watching come dine with me and she serving crayfish.. she pulled it open and said the poo is the best bit and ate it... there was a thud as i ended up on the floor .. toe pointing up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 ladies, bimale couple, Stu... gone for salty nuts and drinks and View priming his fillet ... party!

Oi I have a reputation... my fillet is ALWAYS primed.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so we girlies will be beckoning the finger at View with the words "come over here and fillet"

mwuh

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"oooo oooo can I play this game???

Yeah...... Open to all, its a forum eh

I for one take it very seriously. I get very upset when people donot take note of my threads, make light of my very important and highly educational topics and make light of them.

This is not a fun place and I wish people would stop treating it as such."

Fekkin right on sister!!

I for one spend lots of my very valuable time on the forums dispensing my nuggets of wisdom. I come on here to educate the peasants out of the goodness of my heart. Anyone not taking it seriously should be soundly thrashed with a wet copy of the Sunday Times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol mart