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By *ebjonnson OP   Man
over a year ago

Maldon

Many posts touch on the ‘too many single guys not enough women’ issue. I think the ratio is something like twenty to one?

Attempts to recruit more ladies doesn’t seem to be working.Here’s the solution- existing women on here need to up their game, put it about a bit more . Meet twenty different guys at least, problem solved.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I honestly find it hard to meet even one that is even vaguely compatible!

Its hard for me to find a connection that creates the sexual energy spark I want.

I have made some fabulous friends though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many posts touch on the ‘too many single guys not enough women’ issue. I think the ratio is something like twenty to one?

Attempts to recruit more ladies doesn’t seem to be working.Here’s the solution- existing women on here need to up their game, put it about a bit more . Meet twenty different guys at least, problem solved. "

Either that or quit gushing over 500 fabs from 490 fake profiles

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Many posts touch on the ‘too many single guys not enough women’ issue. I think the ratio is something like twenty to one?

Attempts to recruit more ladies doesn’t seem to be working.Here’s the solution- existing women on here need to up their game, put it about a bit more . Meet twenty different guys at least, problem solved. "

What a great idea, in the spirit of things I’m going to get one of those ticket dispensers you see on the meat counter, just form an orderly queue in the back garden please

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

The number isn’t the problem - it’s the quality/real profiles - on both sides.

Less idiot male profiles would mean more real female profiles and more couples allowing single male posts.

Love to be able to copy and paste the messages we get and post them all here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, who's first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find me twenty quality guys, who meet all of my stringent criteria, and you're on

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading


"The number isn’t the problem - it’s the quality/real profiles - on both sides.

Less idiot male profiles would mean more real female profiles and more couples allowing single male posts.

Love to be able to copy and paste the messages we get and post them all here.

You should see the shit messages we get from couples on here too

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't going to end well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A local search of ‘newbie’ men alone shows over 200+ ! if that’s just five days, women would have a problem just managing the newbies.

I like a challenge, but think the OP may need the take some of the responsibility with us ladies

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Find me twenty quality guys, who meet all of my stringent criteria, and you're on"

I’m one quality guy who you could fuck twenty times

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If the men upped the quality on the site I would be extremely happy! They could actually be of benefit as well.

Carry on as they do, they will always complain how they can't get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly find it hard to meet even one that is even vaguely compatible!

Its hard for me to find a connection that creates the sexual energy spark I want.

I have made some fabulous friends though. "

I feel the same.

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By *ife to play withCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

The biggest problem on fab is the quality of the single guys, which we think has been proven.....

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"The number isn’t the problem - it’s the quality/real profiles - on both sides.

Less idiot male profiles would mean more real female profiles and more couples allowing single male posts.

Love to be able to copy and paste the messages we get and post them all here.

You should see the shit messages we get from couples on here too

"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find me twenty quality guys, who meet all of my stringent criteria, and you're on

I’m one quality guy who you could fuck twenty times "
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Now how good would that be? Only twenty times though?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Find me twenty quality guys, who meet all of my stringent criteria, and you're on

I’m one quality guy who you could fuck twenty times ..

Now how good would that be? Only twenty times though? "

I’m kidding myself, it would be a disappointing once with me but I’d bring 19 sets of batteries for your favourite sex toy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh go on then.....I’m free for 20 minutes 3 weeks on Thursday so could finish them all off whilst I wait for my pizza delivery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A local search of ‘newbie’ men alone shows over 200+ ! if that’s just five days, women would have a problem just managing the newbies.

I like a challenge, but think the OP may need the take some of the responsibility with us ladies "

Me first. Before we get married at least

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Yay the guys!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly find it hard to meet even one that is even vaguely compatible!

Its hard for me to find a connection that creates the sexual energy spark I want.

I have made some fabulous friends though. "

I'm beginning to think I need to get a frequent flyer card or something so that I can travel to the other side of the UK to meet people like you who seem much more on my wavelength

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many posts touch on the ‘too many single guys not enough women’ issue. I think the ratio is something like twenty to one?

Attempts to recruit more ladies doesn’t seem to be working.Here’s the solution- existing women on here need to up their game, put it about a bit more . Meet twenty different guys at least, problem solved. "

I’m far too picky to be able to do this!

I’ll try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many posts touch on the ‘too many single guys not enough women’ issue. I think the ratio is something like twenty to one?

Attempts to recruit more ladies doesn’t seem to be working.Here’s the solution- existing women on here need to up their game, put it about a bit more . Meet twenty different guys at least, problem solved.

Either that or quit gushing over 500 fabs from 490 fake profiles"

So most of them are fake?!!!!

Oh damn...

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By *uma69Man
over a year ago

stockport

We just need alot more women who are genuine and actually want to meet

There to many women on here that just block for no apparent reason

One example not mentioning any names the profile said just ask to find out

My profile matched lovely so i mailed, introduced myself and asked where they were from and what there name was

No reply

Mailed again saying hi babe well I asked but didn't find lol xx

Blocked ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just need alot more women who are genuine and actually want to meet

There to many women on here that just block for no apparent reason

One example not mentioning any names the profile said just ask to find out

My profile matched lovely so i mailed, introduced myself and asked where they were from and what there name was

No reply

Mailed again saying hi babe well I asked but didn't find lol xx

Blocked ha ha

"

She probably wasn’t interested.

Easier to block you so you don’t message again by mistake.

She’s entitled to do so.

How did your profile match lovely if the profile only said “just ask to find out”?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"We just need alot more women who are genuine and actually want to meet

There to many women on here that just block for no apparent reason

One example not mentioning any names the profile said just ask to find out

My profile matched lovely so i mailed, introduced myself and asked where they were from and what there name was

No reply

Mailed again saying hi babe well I asked but didn't find lol xx

Blocked ha ha

She probably wasn’t interested.

Easier to block you so you don’t message again by mistake.

She’s entitled to do so.

How did your profile match lovely if the profile only said “just ask to find out”? "

I see you’re interested in Fill In Later, that’s a real coincidence because I’m interested in that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just need alot more women who are genuine and actually want to meet

There to many women on here that just block for no apparent reason

One example not mentioning any names the profile said just ask to find out

My profile matched lovely so i mailed, introduced myself and asked where they were from and what there name was

No reply

Mailed again saying hi babe well I asked but didn't find lol xx

Blocked ha ha

She probably wasn’t interested.

Easier to block you so you don’t message again by mistake.

She’s entitled to do so.

How did your profile match lovely if the profile only said “just ask to find out”?

I see you’re interested in Fill In Later, that’s a real coincidence because I’m interested in that too "

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By *uma69Man
over a year ago

stockport

We both didnt have much on our profiles and were looking for nsa as well as other things

And yes correct that is anyone's choice

I think i might have to start using it myself lol

I'm not that rude as i always reply even if its to say sorry your not my type But that's just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both didnt have much on our profiles and were looking for nsa as well as other things

And yes correct that is anyone's choice

I think i might have to start using it myself lol

I'm not that rude as i always reply even if its to say sorry your not my type But that's just me "

It’s not rude to not reply.

This is stated in Fabs FAQs.

People make their own choices, some of us delete messages from guys we aren’t interested in, some say “No thank you”. There is no wrong or right way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many posts touch on the ‘too many single guys not enough women’ issue. I think the ratio is something like twenty to one?

Attempts to recruit more ladies doesn’t seem to be working.Here’s the solution- existing women on here need to up their game, put it about a bit more . Meet twenty different guys at least, problem solved. "
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Brilliant lol

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By *uma69Man
over a year ago

stockport

Lol

I didnt say there was a wrong or write way its just common courtesy politeness and manners just saying

Like I said thats just me x

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By *nlyme45Man
over a year ago

Dumfries


"Ok, who's first?"

Me plz lol

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By *uma69Man
over a year ago

stockport


"Oh go on then.....I’m free for 20 minutes 3 weeks on Thursday so could finish them all off whilst I wait for my pizza delivery "

Make it 21 ill bring the pizza lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can show me where I can find 20 gents, who would appeal to me, where the chemistry exists, where we are compatible and looking for the same things, then send them my way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol

I didnt say there was a wrong or write way its just common courtesy politeness and manners just saying

Like I said thats just me x"

But it isn’t.

It’s not rude to not reply, it’s also not impolite to not reply. If you are messaging someone expect that they might not message back. If that bothers you, it’s probably best to let women come to you.

I have said “No thank you” many times and guys take it as there might be some interest and they keep messaging. Much easier to delete. Doesn’t make someone rude or mean they have no manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you can show me where I can find 20 gents, who would appeal to me, where the chemistry exists, where we are compatible and looking for the same things, then send them my way. "

Here here!

I’m up for the challenge

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Many posts touch on the ‘too many single guys not enough women’ issue. I think the ratio is something like twenty to one?

Attempts to recruit more ladies doesn’t seem to be working.Here’s the solution- existing women on here need to up their game, put it about a bit more . Meet twenty different guys at least, problem solved. "

What if all the ladies only want to meet the same twenty guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you dude. It worked for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, who's first?"

I’ll be the 22nd

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Many posts touch on the ‘too many single guys not enough women’ issue. I think the ratio is something like twenty to one?

Attempts to recruit more ladies doesn’t seem to be working.Here’s the solution- existing women on here need to up their game, put it about a bit more . Meet twenty different guys at least, problem solved.

What if all the ladies only want to meet the same twenty guys? "

I just hope I’m one of the twenty

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By *wansfeetCouple
over a year ago

Guisborough

Do I have to meet all 20 guys at once? I'm afraid that I can only manage 10 men in one sitting. Letting the Damn side down again aren't i?

Mrs S xx

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By *uma69Man
over a year ago

stockport


"Many posts touch on the ‘too many single guys not enough women’ issue. I think the ratio is something like twenty to one?

Attempts to recruit more ladies doesn’t seem to be working.Here’s the solution- existing women on here need to up their game, put it about a bit more . Meet twenty different guys at least, problem solved.

What if all the ladies only want to meet the same twenty guys? "

Your probally right there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not he final solution then? thats a relief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many posts touch on the ‘too many single guys not enough women’ issue. I think the ratio is something like twenty to one?

Attempts to recruit more ladies doesn’t seem to be working.Here’s the solution- existing women on here need to up their game, put it about a bit more . Meet twenty different guys at least, problem solved.

What if all the ladies only want to meet the same twenty guys? "

FIGHT!!!

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects


"I honestly find it hard to meet even one that is even vaguely compatible!

Its hard for me to find a connection that creates the sexual energy spark I want.

I have made some fabulous friends though.

I'm beginning to think I need to get a frequent flyer card or something so that I can travel to the other side of the UK to meet people like you who seem much more on my wavelength "

Mine has a few points already

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By *uma69Man
over a year ago

stockport


"Lol

I didnt say there was a wrong or write way its just common courtesy politeness and manners just saying

Like I said thats just me x

But it isn’t.

It’s not rude to not reply, it’s also not impolite to not reply. If you are messaging someone expect that they might not message back. If that bothers you, it’s probably best to let women come to you.

I have said “No thank you” many times and guys take it as there might be some interest and they keep messaging. Much easier to delete. Doesn’t make someone rude or mean they have no manners. "

If someone keeps messaging after you say your not interested fair enough

If any one blocks for no reason at all thats fair enough I was just pointing out that I personally think it's rude thats just my opinion

Please don't take it the wrong way xx

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

An alternative possible view here..

Maybe the quality of the single guys is actually much better than people give them credit for.

(A search of the single female profiles will tell you that they’re not up to much either). Forum users clearly excepted!

I would imagine that it’s not the low quality of the messages that women and couples receive that’s the problem, for they seem quite happy to receive them, and could after all block them out with filters. But perhaps the fact that the ability to pick from such a huge range of different guys, that makes it so difficult not to find one, but to choose one.

I suspect if people’s expectations were more realistic and there wasn’t the fear of accidentally missing out as a result of picking the second most eligible guy the women and couples would be able to complain less about not finding anyone acceptable.

After all, if you say you’re looking for the exceptional it seems churlish to complain that it’s difficult to find.

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By *lanPartridgeMan
over a year ago

nottingham

As a low quality single guy myself, I'm actually quite cuddly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find me twenty quality guys, who meet all of my stringent criteria, and you're on

I’m one quality guy who you could fuck twenty times "

But what would we do for the rest of the afternoon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both didnt have much on our profiles and were looking for nsa as well as other things

And yes correct that is anyone's choice

I think i might have to start using it myself lol

I'm not that rude as i always reply even if its to say sorry your not my type But that's just me "

I had a guy this afternoon who messaged me - minimal profile and no veri's so I replied to say sorry not my type. His reply "I didn't think it was about type" You couldn't make it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A local search of ‘newbie’ men alone shows over 200+ ! if that’s just five days, women would have a problem just managing the newbies.

I like a challenge, but think the OP may need the take some of the responsibility with us ladies

Me first. Before we get married at least"

I forgot! Don’t worry, I’m ring shopping on Saturday - September, wasn’t it?!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Find me twenty quality guys, who meet all of my stringent criteria, and you're on

I’m one quality guy who you could fuck twenty times

But what would we do for the rest of the afternoon? "

At least it would only take 10 minutes, your tea would have cooled nicely and be ready to drink

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By *ebjonnson OP   Man
over a year ago

Maldon


"Many posts touch on the ‘too many single guys not enough women’ issue. I think the ratio is something like twenty to one?

Attempts to recruit more ladies doesn’t seem to be working.Here’s the solution- existing women on here need to up their game, put it about a bit more . Meet twenty different guys at least, problem solved.

What a great idea, in the spirit of things I’m going to get one of those ticket dispensers you see on the meat counter, just form an orderly queue in the back garden please "

That’s the spirit. See, it can be done. Feedback please.

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By *ebjonnson OP   Man
over a year ago

Maldon


"Find me twenty quality guys, who meet all of my stringent criteria, and you're on"

Criteria needs to be less stringent. There’s men out there needing to meet.

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By *ebjonnson OP   Man
over a year ago

Maldon


"If you can show me where I can find 20 gents, who would appeal to me, where the chemistry exists, where we are compatible and looking for the same things, then send them my way. "

Dear Ruby, in the interests of helping the guys out, drop the need to appeal or for chemistry. Take one (or twenty) for the team.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I honestly find it hard to meet even one that is even vaguely compatible!

Its hard for me to find a connection that creates the sexual energy spark I want.

I have made some fabulous friends though. "

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By *ebjonnson OP   Man
over a year ago

Maldon


"Many posts touch on the ‘too many single guys not enough women’ issue. I think the ratio is something like twenty to one?

Attempts to recruit more ladies doesn’t seem to be working.Here’s the solution- existing women on here need to up their game, put it about a bit more . Meet twenty different guys at least, problem solved.

What if all the ladies only want to meet the same twenty guys? "

Now, well done for pointing out the one slight flaw in my otherwise brilliant plan. I can see I need to add some rules to make it work.

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By *cceptedKinkMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"Stringent criteria" Are we here to fuck or marry? Do they have a bod you could fuck? Tick.

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By *ebjonnson OP   Man
over a year ago

Maldon


"Do I have to meet all 20 guys at once? I'm afraid that I can only manage 10 men in one sitting. Letting the Damn side down again aren't i?

Mrs S xx"

No rules against anyone exceeding the 20, think of it as a minimum figure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you can show me where I can find 20 gents, who would appeal to me, where the chemistry exists, where we are compatible and looking for the same things, then send them my way.

Here here!

I’m up for the challenge "

Show me some then

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By *ebjonnson OP   Man
over a year ago

Maldon


"Find me twenty quality guys, who meet all of my stringent criteria, and you're on

I’m one quality guy who you could fuck twenty times

But what would we do for the rest of the afternoon? "

Good girl. I’ve just upped your quota

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Folk often use the word quality.. It's been mentioned on this thread frequently ... well just maybe the as you say 'quality' guys are out there having fun and frisky frolics already .. and you ladies might need to up your games to entice them..

Always two sides to the quality coin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Stringent criteria" Are we here to fuck or marry? Do they have a bod you could fuck? Tick. "

That may be fine for you but some of us want more than just a fit bod. I'm more interested in a persons mind as that is a persons most sexual organ after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you can show me where I can find 20 gents, who would appeal to me, where the chemistry exists, where we are compatible and looking for the same things, then send them my way.

Dear Ruby, in the interests of helping the guys out, drop the need to appeal or for chemistry. Take one (or twenty) for the team."

Haha...if I was happy to meet without appeal then I could probably fuck 20 a day, every day for a week at least

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By *cceptedKinkMan
over a year ago

Coventry


""Stringent criteria" Are we here to fuck or marry? Do they have a bod you could fuck? Tick.

That may be fine for you but some of us want more than just a fit bod. I'm more interested in a persons mind as that is a persons most sexual organ after all."

So it's marriage then. Wrong site

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Seb. You are a genious. Maybe it should be in the rules when new ladies join about being less picky and just fucking the first 20 guys that message them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An alternative possible view here..

Maybe the quality of the single guys is actually much better than people give them credit for.

(A search of the single female profiles will tell you that they’re not up to much either). Forum users clearly excepted!

I would imagine that it’s not the low quality of the messages that women and couples receive that’s the problem, for they seem quite happy to receive them, and could after all block them out with filters. But perhaps the fact that the ability to pick from such a huge range of different guys, that makes it so difficult not to find one, but to choose one."

What a load of doodoos

I cannot filter out height, cheaters or fuglies (the latter being subjective and possibly gorgeous in the eyes of others), nor from unsuitable locations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Stringent criteria" Are we here to fuck or marry? Do they have a bod you could fuck? Tick.

That may be fine for you but some of us want more than just a fit bod. I'm more interested in a persons mind as that is a persons most sexual organ after all."

I had to ignore that post... If i just wanted an orgasm I'd use my wand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Stringent criteria" Are we here to fuck or marry? Do they have a bod you could fuck? Tick.

That may be fine for you but some of us want more than just a fit bod. I'm more interested in a persons mind as that is a persons most sexual organ after all.

So it's marriage then. Wrong site"

Who are you to dictate?

A fugly? (see another of my posts for context ).

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"An alternative possible view here..

Maybe the quality of the single guys is actually much better than people give them credit for.

(A search of the single female profiles will tell you that they’re not up to much either). Forum users clearly excepted!

I would imagine that it’s not the low quality of the messages that women and couples receive that’s the problem, for they seem quite happy to receive them, and could after all block them out with filters. But perhaps the fact that the ability to pick from such a huge range of different guys, that makes it so difficult not to find one, but to choose one.

What a load of doodoos

I cannot filter out height, cheaters or fuglies (the latter being subjective and possibly gorgeous in the eyes of others), nor from unsuitable locations."

You could block all of them and search yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An alternative possible view here..

Maybe the quality of the single guys is actually much better than people give them credit for.

(A search of the single female profiles will tell you that they’re not up to much either). Forum users clearly excepted!

I would imagine that it’s not the low quality of the messages that women and couples receive that’s the problem, for they seem quite happy to receive them, and could after all block them out with filters. But perhaps the fact that the ability to pick from such a huge range of different guys, that makes it so difficult not to find one, but to choose one.

What a load of doodoos

I cannot filter out height, cheaters or fuglies (the latter being subjective and possibly gorgeous in the eyes of others), nor from unsuitable locations.

You could block all of them and search yourself"

I'd rather be in the forum than waste my time doing that

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"An alternative possible view here..

Maybe the quality of the single guys is actually much better than people give them credit for.

(A search of the single female profiles will tell you that they’re not up to much either). Forum users clearly excepted!

I would imagine that it’s not the low quality of the messages that women and couples receive that’s the problem, for they seem quite happy to receive them, and could after all block them out with filters. But perhaps the fact that the ability to pick from such a huge range of different guys, that makes it so difficult not to find one, but to choose one.

What a load of doodoos

I cannot filter out height, cheaters or fuglies (the latter being subjective and possibly gorgeous in the eyes of others), nor from unsuitable locations.

You could block all of them and search yourself

I'd rather be in the forum than waste my time doing that "

It is, of course, entirely up to you how you use the site. The advice commonly given to guys that are complaining about their difficulties making contact is that ‘they will get out what they put in’.

It would seem that a reluctance to make the effort to search for, and message profiles specific to your requirements may lead to the same sense of dissatisfaction with the results you get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An alternative possible view here..

Maybe the quality of the single guys is actually much better than people give them credit for.

(A search of the single female profiles will tell you that they’re not up to much either). Forum users clearly excepted!

I would imagine that it’s not the low quality of the messages that women and couples receive that’s the problem, for they seem quite happy to receive them, and could after all block them out with filters. But perhaps the fact that the ability to pick from such a huge range of different guys, that makes it so difficult not to find one, but to choose one.

What a load of doodoos

I cannot filter out height, cheaters or fuglies (the latter being subjective and possibly gorgeous in the eyes of others), nor from unsuitable locations.

You could block all of them and search yourself

I'd rather be in the forum than waste my time doing that

It is, of course, entirely up to you how you use the site. The advice commonly given to guys that are complaining about their difficulties making contact is that ‘they will get out what they put in’.

It would seem that a reluctance to make the effort to search for, and message profiles specific to your requirements may lead to the same sense of dissatisfaction with the results you get."

Well, I'm not complaining

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By *tsJeanLucMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Find me twenty quality guys, who meet all of my stringent criteria, and you're on"

Just read your bio and I’m literally what you describe but you’ve got your age range too high as I’m 24!! gutted because you look absolutely amazing lol

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Lol

I didnt say there was a wrong or write way its just common courtesy politeness and manners just saying

Like I said thats just me x"

But you probably don’t get 100+ messages a day all saying want a fuck? So the one or two you do easier for you to reply to!

I think men need a reality check and realise that a single girl or couple that say they looking for men - got to realise that they one of 100s messaging them! And not think of it from their own view that just cus they know they gods gift, a blank profile with no pictures and no details in message doesn’t really make the recipient aware they missing out on the shag of the century, add in the fact by the time they got to your email they already probably eased through a whole bunch that already made them think time to block single males. Add in the number of fake female profiles - and the number of emails you get ignored to as just doubled!

Think about it sensibly - take a look at the hot photos - some people have had their pick fabbed over 1000 times in 24hrs - let’s say half of those also sent a mail or wink - you really think they going to send you a thanks but no thanks - no they simply delete it.

We delete all messages that say nothing and have no photo - a photo with a half decent message might get us to look at profile, if the profile contains nothing then again it will just get deleted.

On odd occasion we get a really nice message and even though they not for us, because the message was good, and the profile was detailed we will answer and say thanks but no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Stringent criteria" Are we here to fuck or marry? Do they have a bod you could fuck? Tick.

That may be fine for you but some of us want more than just a fit bod. I'm more interested in a persons mind as that is a persons most sexual organ after all.

So it's marriage then. Wrong site"

If you seriously think that then you have no idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Stringent criteria" Are we here to fuck or marry? Do they have a bod you could fuck? Tick. "

So you will fuck anything then? I'm certainly not looking to get married again (been there, done that twice) but I am sure as hell only going to have sex with men I find devastatingly attractive. It doesn't happen often, but that's my choice. Only the best or go without.

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London

Great thread, its really refreshing to see that people have got the OPs tongue in cheek humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many posts touch on the ‘too many single guys not enough women’ issue. I think the ratio is something like twenty to one?

Attempts to recruit more ladies doesn’t seem to be working.Here’s the solution- existing women on here need to up their game, put it about a bit more . Meet twenty different guys at least, problem solved. "
100-1 Moray poll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A local search of ‘newbie’ men alone shows over 200+ ! if that’s just five days, women would have a problem just managing the newbies.

I like a challenge, but think the OP may need the take some of the responsibility with us ladies

Me first. Before we get married at least

I forgot! Don’t worry, I’m ring shopping on Saturday - September, wasn’t it?! "

It was. My birthday month.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Many posts touch on the ‘too many single guys not enough women’ issue. I think the ratio is something like twenty to one?

Attempts to recruit more ladies doesn’t seem to be working.Here’s the solution- existing women on here need to up their game, put it about a bit more . Meet twenty different guys at least, problem solved. "

Haha. Love this guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A local search of ‘newbie’ men alone shows over 200+ ! if that’s just five days, women would have a problem just managing the newbies.

I like a challenge, but think the OP may need the take some of the responsibility with us ladies

Me first. Before we get married at least

I forgot! Don’t worry, I’m ring shopping on Saturday - September, wasn’t it?!

It was. My birthday month. "

Better not clash and ruin your special day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the ratio is probably even bigger considering the amount of gay guys pretending to be women and/or couples that are on here.

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