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By *azmar62 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

Our relationship is perfect. We fuck like teenagers, always fulfill our desires with each other, we meet people of all ages and have amazing fun with them all, but it makes us laugh when we view profiles and read the age ranges, do people think that ubove certain ages, you then turn into ghosts or something so idiotic that you feel you shouldn’t be doing this kinda thing, don’t get me wrong, but it’s something that tickles us, we wink and message younger and older people with a set range, sometimes even get to meet them which kinda defeated same! We only put a range on our profile because it’s there, if people enjoy sexual contact and want to have fun, then age has nothing to do with it. Now braising ourselves for the fallout. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only reason I have an age limiting my profile as I have a thing for guys older then me.

However I allow any age to mail me and well never say never!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

One of our first full-swap foursomes (In a club) was with a couple in their late 60s. He was very vigorous and she was amazingly sexy; a very memorable swap! Now we're that age and still going strong, loving sex and having it more often than we did with our exes. Age is just a number. We'll keep on fucking together and with other people as long as we can!

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By *azmar62 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley


"One of our first full-swap foursomes (In a club) was with a couple in their late 60s. He was very vigorous and she was amazingly sexy; a very memorable swap! Now we're that age and still going strong, loving sex and having it more often than we did with our exes. Age is just a number. We'll keep on fucking together and with other people as long as we can! "

The oldest guy we’ve played with is 82, he’s an awesome person, he’s a regular at Chams and a dear friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont have any age range and are happy to meet anyone. But when send a message to older couples we usually get a reply saying they are to old for us. We also messaged a couple in their 50s and the couldnt get their head around why we wanted to meet them.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Its only a number .

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Dig ‘em back up! That’s what I say!

PS the eldest lass I had was 65 and I was 18! Still talked about by the lads but hey.......we were d*unk and she made me a bacon sandwich in the morning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I, on the whole, don’t find men over a certain age physically sexually attractive, and I don’t find men under a certain age mentally sexually attractive. There will be exceptions of course, but for the purposes of Fab we don’t want to be receiving extra messages that we are only going to reject. We don’t meet very often, so it make more sense to home in on guys who are of an age I am more likely to be sexually attracted to. For me age is not just a number, because the aging process alters what I am more likely to be sexually attracted to, at both ends of the age scale.

Mrs

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's just a preference like anything else.

I wouldn't go too low or too much older than me,it's what I tend to like and I have a connection with people and more in common with those near my age.

Maybe it's the same for others .

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs


"Our relationship is perfect. We fuck like teenagers, always fulfill our desires with each other, we meet people of all ages and have amazing fun with them all, but it makes us laugh when we view profiles and read the age ranges, do people think that ubove certain ages, you then turn into ghosts or something so idiotic that you feel you shouldn’t be doing this kinda thing, don’t get me wrong, but it’s something that tickles us, we wink and message younger and older people with a set range, sometimes even get to meet them which kinda defeated same! We only put a range on our profile because it’s there, if people enjoy sexual contact and want to have fun, then age has nothing to do with it. Now braising ourselves for the fallout. X"

By having age limits it doesn't mean we're suggesting you don't have good, enjoyable sex.

Admittedly, sex between us is arguably better now than when we were teenagers.

But for us there needs to be an attraction, otherwise the sex won't be enjoyable, no matter how good the other person(s) believe they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. I think that sex has got better and more interesting with age. The secret is to keep in fairly good shape and be a giver rather than purely a take in terms of sharing pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fot me it's just a personal choice. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im attracted to the naughtyness and taboo of an older lady with a young guy.

I dont understand why anyone should question another's preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our relationship is perfect. We fuck like teenagers, always fulfill our desires with each other, we meet people of all ages and have amazing fun with them all, but it makes us laugh when we view profiles and read the age ranges, do people think that ubove certain ages, you then turn into ghosts or something so idiotic that you feel you shouldn’t be doing this kinda thing, don’t get me wrong, but it’s something that tickles us, we wink and message younger and older people with a set range, sometimes even get to meet them which kinda defeated same! We only put a range on our profile because it’s there, if people enjoy sexual contact and want to have fun, then age has nothing to do with it. Now braising ourselves for the fallout. X

By having age limits it doesn't mean we're suggesting you don't have good, enjoyable sex.

Admittedly, sex between us is arguably better now than when we were teenagers.

But for us there needs to be an attraction, otherwise the sex won't be enjoyable, no matter how good the other person(s) believe they are. "

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

It’s just personal preference and the age ranges always makes me smile I know some I can’t contact but I’ve yet to find a 99yr olds profile as yet x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Age is just a number for me. But my age filters are based on the messages I get. When I opened it up, I got significantly more stupid, offensive, or troubling messages from the under 30s and over 60s. So I decided to do what made my life easier. I feel a bit uneasy about 18-25, it just feels very young to me, but in theory I could be attracted to any adult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our relationship is perfect. We fuck like teenagers, always fulfill our desires with each other, we meet people of all ages and have amazing fun with them all, but it makes us laugh when we view profiles and read the age ranges, do people think that ubove certain ages, you then turn into ghosts or something so idiotic that you feel you shouldn’t be doing this kinda thing, don’t get me wrong, but it’s something that tickles us, we wink and message younger and older people with a set range, sometimes even get to meet them which kinda defeated same! We only put a range on our profile because it’s there, if people enjoy sexual contact and want to have fun, then age has nothing to do with it. Now braising ourselves for the fallout. X"
Hey I'm with you on the age thing and it's good to see your age filters are set 18-99 but many age filters restrict you from messaging, for me it's about if you click but still I wouldn't go under 30 that's just me

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By *orovoyeurMan
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I, on the whole, don’t find men over a certain age physically sexually attractive, and I don’t find men under a certain age mentally sexually attractive. There will be exceptions of course, but for the purposes of Fab we don’t want to be receiving extra messages that we are only going to reject. We don’t meet very often, so it make more sense to home in on guys who are of an age I am more likely to be sexually attracted to. For me age is not just a number, because the aging process alters what I am more likely to be sexually attracted to, at both ends of the age scale.

Mrs"

Must admit, for people who receive lots & lots of messages, I can absolutely see why they would choose to put up an age restriction to limit numbers.

Can honestly say I don’t suffer from a deluge of mail ( and don’t have any particular age preference, particularly as older ladies tend to turn me on much more than younger ones) so I have very little need to put up age restrictions myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im attracted to the naughtyness and taboo of an older lady with a young guy.

I dont understand why anyone should question another's preference. "

This sums it up for me wuite perfectly. Although not what i’m on fab for atm I also love the taboo of young guy + older women. And I also believe strongly in letting people be free to choose what they do and do not like without question. Questioning peoples preference is a very slippery slope in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is extremely rare that I fancy guys anywhere near my own age or older, so when I was looking for guys to play with my limits were set to under 35. There are always exceptions to the rule but if I found those men then I would message first. Was a nightmare when I was first on here, before I discovered age filters! Was bad enough after!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people like younger people. Some like older. Some like people around their own age. And some will shag anyone from teenager to pensioner.

Non of those are bad choices. And non are better or worse than any of the others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s a little thing called preference, we all have them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally prefer lads my own age or a little older.. not saying that men outside my range are past it and no longer attractive- just as a general I find men in my range to be at the same level as me... it's just a personal thing

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP I find it a little odd that you seem unable to understand why people would have an age range.

Ours is based on the rough ages we find attractive and that we would be comfortable having sex with.

This isn't set in stone. However, we find that we are unlikely to want to be intimate with those close to either our children's or parents ages. We also want to be able to chat to them... so it's not just age that is a filter, though other things are more difficult to identify online. For this reason we usually meet in clubs.

Nita

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Age has a lot to do with things. I'm not interested in men under about 38 or over about 65. I'm not going to justify that, I just don't want to meet them for sex.

Socially and professionally I'm happy with all ages

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

I've met ladies on here from 23 to 72 & had thoroughly good fun with them all, my preference is 40+ usually but it depends on the person as most people in clubs etc don't have age tags on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree with the statement often said ... age is just a number ... i have age preferences because i dont want to meet guys anywhere near my kids ages (30s) or near my husbands parents age (mid 70s)

I find i have nothing in common with guys outside my age preferences anyway.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I disagree with the statement often said ... age is just a number ... i have age preferences because i dont want to meet guys anywhere near my kids ages (30s) or near my husbands parents age (mid 70s)

I find i have nothing in common with guys outside my age preferences anyway."

I disagree with it too. Age isn't just a number. I'm very different in many ways to a want of 20, not least physically. I also have different life experiences and probably attitudes to certain things.

I'm not ashamed to be the age I am, it has advantages and disadvantages. Dismissing it as just a number seems to discount achievements made and life lessons learned as unimportant.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

* a woman of 20

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