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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It strikes me that there are a lot of people on this site that like to whinge , particularly single men .

As a single male I don't get as many meets as a couple or single lady but this site is free !

I think it's a fantastic improvement on the old contact mags etc .

Anyone else think people should stop moaning and realise how much things have improved and how lucky we are ?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

You make a valid point and I agree, it is a great site.

It is how you use the site that is the key to great times.

As for the moaners, no they should continue.... it helps with the deselection process.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha ha good point about the moaners !

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By *stwoforfun2Couple
over a year ago

South Suffolk Area


"You make a valid point and I agree, it is a great site.

It is how you use the site that is the key to great times.

As for the moaners, no they should continue.... it helps with the deselection process.

"

+1

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"It strikes me that there are a lot of people on this site that like to whinge , particularly single men .

As a single male I don't get as many meets as a couple or single lady but this site is free !

I think it's a fantastic improvement on the old contact mags etc .

Anyone else think people should stop moaning and realise how much things have improved and how lucky we are ? "

will you just sush... you will have certain people coming back saying "oh woe is me".....

the glass is always half empty in their world.......

i think some people think they are "owed" and have expectations that are way above what is the reality of swinging... and then complain.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You make a valid point and I agree, it is a great site.

It is how you use the site that is the key to great times.

As for the moaners, no they should continue.... it helps with the deselection process.

"

*applauds*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It strikes me that there are a lot of people on this site that like to whinge , particularly single men .

As a single male I don't get as many meets as a couple or single lady but this site is free !

I think it's a fantastic improvement on the old contact mags etc .

Anyone else think people should stop moaning and realise how much things have improved and how lucky we are ?

will you just sush... you will have certain people coming back saying "oh woe is me".....

the glass is always half empty in their world.......

i think some people think they are "owed" and have expectations that are way above what is the reality of swinging... and then complain....."

Very true , I have seen it from both sides as I played as a couple with my ex for five years and it was always single men that got nasty when they were politely rejected . Almost as if you should just say yes to anyone because it's a swinging site .

It. Can be difficult for single men but why make it worse ? It's supposed to be fun after all !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh give over, there's nowt like a good moan once in a while

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's a different kind of moaning ............

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By *ixson-BallsMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

the only "moaning" i like to hear is from a woman moaning in pleasureas i'm shagging her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While I do agree with the post, there are some little points tho...there are posters who do sometimes favor couples and single female posters.I have seen the exact same post from men being torn to shreds and their counterparts receiving pretty much supportive commentary.

Timewaster/no-show threads being one particular post type that this occurs on frequently.

I have a continued love and appreciation at the friends I have met via fab, and those I've not met, so I have no reason to whingemoan etcetc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Outrageous idea but singles should be vetted for their (and my) own good.Someone said in a forum that this is where you can live out your fantasys. Well I know I'm no ones fantasy male but suppose some guys won't or can't accept that and get a little bitter. Need to look at ourselves and compare with the guys who seem to get meets every week and see how you stack up. Not saying you won't ever get one but be realistic,it could be a while or never.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They should have a filter for people who whinge .

Just an idea ?

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

Ffs, this thread is moaning about people who moan!

What's next?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think if you have the right attitude and are reliable you are much more likely to be successful on here .

It's not just about looks .

I have in the past been treated appallingly by some couples but by the same token I'm sure plenty of couples have been treated badly by single men .

Best way is to accept the game as it is and just have fun .

If it stops being fun then don't do it anymore .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ffs, this thread is moaning about people who moan!

What's next?

"

Er no it isn't , the thread is about me wondering how many people agree with me that we are lucky to have this site !

I have been other sites in the past and in my opinion this is the best one and it's free !

Think you missed the point .

And your moaning about a thread that's moaning about moaning ! Lol

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Only a man could come up with a thread moaning about moaning. Shitheads (the ex) pet name from me was victor meldrew. I swear it turned him on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only a man could come up with a thread moaning about moaning. Shitheads (the ex) pet name from me was victor meldrew. I swear it turned him on "

i donnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnt belieeeeeve it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only a man could come up with a thread moaning about moaning. Shitheads (the ex) pet name from me was victor meldrew. I swear it turned him on "

Feel free to come and moan at me

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral


"Only a man could come up with a thread moaning about moaning. Shitheads (the ex) pet name from me was victor meldrew. I swear it turned him on

Feel free to come and moan at me "
i dont do moaning, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only a man could come up with a thread moaning about moaning. Shitheads (the ex) pet name from me was victor meldrew. I swear it turned him on

Feel free to come and moan at me i dont do moaning, x"

that's not what ur ex said

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

People just sometimes feel the need to let off steam..who cares really. Without moaning and debate forums would be almost empty. Doesn't bother me at all....why should it. Posts that annoy...I just ignore. Love moaning sometimes..lol

Ps...paddy I feel more abused than loved and appreciated.

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral


"Only a man could come up with a thread moaning about moaning. Shitheads (the ex) pet name from me was victor meldrew. I swear it turned him on

Feel free to come and moan at me i dont do moaning, x

that's not what ur ex said "
haha kiss me arse! Nowt like a bird having a good old moan x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You make a valid point and I agree, it is a great site.

It is how you use the site that is the key to great times.

As for the moaners, no they should continue.... it helps with the deselection process.

"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only a man could come up with a thread moaning about moaning. Shitheads (the ex) pet name from me was victor meldrew. I swear it turned him on

Feel free to come and moan at me i dont do moaning, x

that's not what ur ex said haha kiss me arse! Nowt like a bird having a good old moan x"
LOVE TO.

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"Ffs, this thread is moaning about people who moan!

What's next?

Er no it isn't , the thread is about me wondering how many people agree with me that we are lucky to have this site !

I have been other sites in the past and in my opinion this is the best one and it's free !

Think you missed the point .

And your moaning about a thread that's moaning about moaning ! Lol "

No it started out like that but then changed, and I was merely pointing out the irony, there being no shortened version for this, perhaps I should have added 'LOL' that would have sent a similar but incorrect inflection.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ffs, this thread is moaning about people who moan!

What's next?

Er no it isn't , the thread is about me wondering how many people agree with me that we are lucky to have this site !

I have been other sites in the past and in my opinion this is the best one and it's free !

Think you missed the point .

And your moaning about a thread that's moaning about moaning ! Lol

No it started out like that but then changed, and I was merely pointing out the irony, there being no shortened version for this, perhaps I should have added 'LOL' that would have sent a similar but incorrect inflection.

"

Got ya ! Looks like I missed the point if your post not the other way round

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

The site itself isnt what makes it, its the people that populate this bit of cyber world that make this a fantastic place... I consider myself fortunate to have met some wonderful people, I hope to meet more, I don't expect anything that way I can't be disappointed...

To those that moan ( not in pleasure) you can choose to continue to do the same things or you can change something about you, no guarantees that changing will result in success, to do the same things over and over and expect different results is a definition of insanity

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

Hmm, hasn't this horse been flogged enough. The perennial bashing item: single men..hmmmm

Let's just focus on the fun part of this site..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People just sometimes feel the need to let off steam..who cares really. Without moaning and debate forums would be almost empty. Doesn't bother me at all....why should it. Posts that annoy...I just ignore. Love moaning sometimes..lol

Ps...paddy I feel more abused than loved and appreciated.

"

Loved and appreciated the site...ur getting abused asap hehehe x

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

Yep, it is a very good site, maintained by people with energy, who are happy to have feed-back and re-new and improve the site.

Keep up the good work, management. x

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm, hasn't this horse been flogged enough. The perennial bashing item: single men..hmmmm

Let's just focus on the fun part of this site.."

I was thinking the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can safely say, I'll never have a moan, or a rant about this site, I'm having a Great time!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The glass is always half full

What can I say, this place is the place. Sometimes it's like reaching into a haystack and pulling out that glinting needle, but hey... life is good here

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ffs, this thread is moaning about people who moan!

What's next?

"

look out! it could be you .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too believe survival is the fittest, and the moaners and groaners will make those who are self-starters with positive outlook and mental attitude stand out more.

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