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By *ffanotdyke OP   Couple
over a year ago

Telford

We had recently been the subject of someone, who kept their identity secret, advising family and friends of our swinging activities.

As we both have jobs in the public service we would prefer to remain anonymous until we know folks and feel comfortable with them

How would others deal with this as it has caused us a load of trouble.

G&A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

own it. so fuck your a swinger. big fuckin whoop. theres people out there breaking the law in all sorts of manners. fuck them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep cool

Maybe hide veris and profile for a while

To be honest I think it will just fade away

Bottom line it's nothing to be ashamed of.

Swinging is adult fun

Non swingers have affairs and fantasies .

You know whats best i guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In this case call their bluff. So what you don’t advertise it blatantly and are discreet. Your jobs shouldn’t therefore have any reason to complain it’s bringing it into disrepute.

It’s almost childish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah they only have power over you if you give them it they want you panicking and all worried etc as they say dont feed the trolls they soon starve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you know who they are?

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Hide your profile or remove pics they can't proof anything.

Where did you go to last or who did you send pics to? how did this person know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hide your profile or remove pics they can't proof anything.

Where did you go to last or who did you send pics to? how did this person know?"

They must be on the scene too or at least have found you on here

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By *ffanotdyke OP   Couple
over a year ago

Telford

No thats the whole point they sent a series of anonymous messages to our employers.

We think it may be a guy who G turned down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No thats the whole point they sent a series of anonymous messages to our employers.

We think it may be a guy who G turned down."

Hide your profile until this blows over

No proof is your best defense

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By *ffanotdyke OP   Couple
over a year ago

Telford

We dont have any public pictures. We believe the person or person may have seen us at a party and it is possible that it may have been a person we said no thanks to.

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By *aughtybynature73Couple
over a year ago

shrewsbury

It's sad to say but working with public and swinging doesn't go together. I am beleiver in what you do in hour own private life is your business and no one else's. But have seen first hand what getting found out can do.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"No thats the whole point they sent a series of anonymous messages to our employers.

We think it may be a guy who G turned down."

It's particularly cowardly to do these things anonymously.

I wonder how they knew your employers, family and friends.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I would deal with it by refusing to comment on gossip, holding my head high and continuing with my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What sort of trouble has it caused you?

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By *adcat1961Woman
over a year ago

colchester


"own it. so fuck your a swinger. big fuckin whoop. theres people out there breaking the law in all sorts of manners. fuck them all."

Totally agree with this so what thay soon get over and found something else to gossip about just show your not bothered if you lose friends well thay were not worth having anyway if thay are so quick to judge.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If they have no pictorial proof why can't you just deny everything ?

As you are a consenting couple in a long relationship at a private party I dont see how your employers could take action ?

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