FabSwingers.com forum: Lets talk Spanking

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Many people list spanking as one of there interests. So let's hear what spanking means to you and how do you like it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a brat so spanking means i have been a naughty brat heheh

He thinks its a punishment.... but i like it

Sweetmiss xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't quite understand the question? What it means to me? Well I like a good spank.... What's so difficult to understand? I also like a good flogging, paddling and caning too. My Sir managed to break my cane in 2 places while caning my arse though last weekend

. Oh and I still barely flinched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a bad girl who wishes to be spanked...

Thats about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like some light spanking every now and then, just enough to leave a record.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a bad girl who wishes to be spanked...

Thats about it

That bum was designed to be spanked...

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Im a brat so spanking means i have been a naughty brat heheh

He thinks its a punishment.... but i like it

Sweetmiss xx"

I’m the same lol

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By *BCambsCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

Usually it means I'm going to get very wet! I just can't help it, spanking does something to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a brat so spanking means i have been a naughty brat heheh

He thinks its a punishment.... but i like it

Sweetmiss xx

I’m the same lol "

Shhhh dont tell them we like it

haha

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've found getting my arse smacked while being fucked from behind gets me cumming loads x

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Im a brat so spanking means i have been a naughty brat heheh

He thinks its a punishment.... but i like it

Sweetmiss xx

I’m the same lol

Shhhh dont tell them we like it

haha "

Haha depending on my mood at the time I’ll be a brat on purpose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a brat so spanking means i have been a naughty brat heheh

He thinks its a punishment.... but i like it

Sweetmiss xx

I’m the same lol

Shhhh dont tell them we like it

haha

Haha depending on my mood at the time I’ll be a brat on purpose

Me too hahhaha!!

Then he gives me THAT look and spank spank spank

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Im a brat so spanking means i have been a naughty brat heheh

He thinks its a punishment.... but i like it

Sweetmiss xx

I’m the same lol

Shhhh dont tell them we like it

haha

Haha depending on my mood at the time I’ll be a brat on purpose

Me too hahhaha!!

Then he gives me THAT look and spank spank spank

Nothing can beat that look that a spanking is due

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area

"Many people list spanking as one of there interests. So let's hear what spanking means to you and how do you like it x"

I am a bum man. I like the softness. When I spank a lady, I like the ripple of her bum, and the sound of the spank. It is music to my ears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't quite understand the question? What it means to me? Well I like a good spank.... What's so difficult to understand? I also like a good flogging, paddling and caning too. My Sir managed to break my cane in 2 places while caning my arse though last weekend

. Oh and I still barely flinched

Bravo miss

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I was going to mention the juxtaposition response of fractionation and George Miller’s theory of the 7 +\-2 to overcome tthe real restraint and rease of cognitive emotions.

Then again, it’s Friday.

Can leave it ‘till Monday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the sounds girls make as I spank them, the sting in my hands, the increased sensitivity it creates, and what I can use on it after, pin wheels, foggers etc. And the feeling of pleasure it gives me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the humiliation of being put otk bottom bared or stripped and spanked hard until red and sore. Gives me a reminder of it for a few days when I sit.

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By *n Search Of SunsetCouple
over a year ago

Search Of Sunset

We went to le boudoir in London one club night and MiSTARess was the hostess and gave a spanking demonstration.

The demo was great fun, sexy and inspiring for us to include it in our club night interests.

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

I once met a woman from here who listed spanking among her interests. When we were naked and I broached the subject, she said that if I “hit” her, she’d be straight out the door and considered it assault. :facepalm:

I didn’t meet her again

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By *otsMan
over a year ago

Higham

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By *uds1Couple
over a year ago

lanark

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By *otsMan
over a year ago

Higham

Well I've experienced it as the spanker and spankee

I dabble once a week at least.

OTK is fun and quiet sensual in a way however, I like to go all the way as a spankee, hand, slipper, hairbrush, cane whatever really.

Always game to play what about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've found getting my arse smacked while being fucked from behind gets me cumming loads x"

I have been pleasantly surprised when i have done this to a few ladies and found it has the same effect on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be in the right mood for spanking and really know the person well... can give to a lady and quite enjoy doing that... can not spank a man.

To be fair personally for me I'm more into a flogging.. but have found I really like being spanked with a vampire glove

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to be in the right mood for spanking and really know the person well... can give to a lady and quite enjoy doing that... can not spank a man.

To be fair personally for me I'm more into a flogging.. but have found I really like being spanked with a vampire glove "

I would only ever let Mr spank me

Anyone else tried it o would hit the roof. And he wouldnt like that either. I agree with you totally about the trust element.

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By *fionaTV/TS
over a year ago

Preston

Just love being put over a knee and having my skirt lifted x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a punishment for me.

I like it to be a surprise and I like the sting afterwards.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I have to be in the right mood for spanking and really know the person well... can give to a lady and quite enjoy doing that... can not spank a man.

To be fair personally for me I'm more into a flogging.. but have found I really like being spanked with a vampire glove "

Think I’m I lust, or is that musth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to be in the right mood for spanking and really know the person well... can give to a lady and quite enjoy doing that... can not spank a man.

To be fair personally for me I'm more into a flogging.. but have found I really like being spanked with a vampire glove

I would only ever let Mr spank me

Anyone else tried it o would hit the roof. And he wouldnt like that either. I agree with you totally about the trust element.

Xx"

Sadly now I'm on my own it's a case of finding friends I trust. I'm less picky with flogging if I know the person. But spanking is much more personal for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a bad girl who wishes to be spanked...

Thats about it

That bum was designed to be spanked...

Mine too

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

"Im a brat so spanking means i have been a naughty brat heheh

He thinks its a punishment.... but i like it

Sweetmiss xx"

It’s fun finding ways to be ‘punished’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A thorough spanking can be a bonding session, with aftercare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the stinging sensation followed by the warmth. If it's a really hard slap I love when he gently blows on my ass afterwards. Spanking for me is foreplay and why each slap I get wetter and wetter.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Have always enjoyed being spanked - whether that be a more "formal" OTK type spanking or just as part of play - I love the various elements to it, from feeling the sting as the hand (or implement) lands, to that gradual warming sensation across the cheeks, the soft soothing hand as it caresses both during and afterwards and then getting to inspect the reddened cheeks after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I not enjoy a little spanking, when I'm in doggy styleand about to orgasm.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I love it... especially if it’s done well... whether that’s been tied up and restrained.. blind fold on or eyes open so you can look... on your hands and knees bottom in the air while it is slowly caressed before being slapped... gently at first and building up...the anticipation of not knowing when it is going to happen and feel the sting and after burn.... or if it’s more in the heat of the moment being grabbed and pinned down and spanked hard... mmmmm I need this again soon!!

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By *s1212Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

"I've found getting my arse smacked while being fucked from behind gets me cumming loads x"

Yes, that's something I love too. The harder the better.

Hope I can experience it again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good spanking. Open palm, over the knee are the best ones although it takes quite a man to handle me over his knee !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good spanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me spanking is play not punishment. I love OTK, bare handed spanking, particularly when Sunny is alternating between spanking and fingering. I find it very intimate as well as it resulting in orgasms.

A well placed slap or spank during sex can tip me over the edge into orgasm.

I have always founding quite difficult to 'let go' but something about a bit of pain at the right moment puts me in the head space I need and helps me give up control. Sunny definately know how to get the balance right for me.

As a couple of other people have mentioned, I wouldn't be happy if someone tried it without asking. I would be very unlikely to do it with someone I didn't know/ trust.

Tink x

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