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If your next meet was absolutely amazing...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...would you quit looking for others on Fab and enjoy just meeting them for a while?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"...would you quit looking for others on Fab and enjoy just meeting them for a while? "

No, that's not what I'm here for...

If I could carry on meeting others with him involved - even better

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No. There are two reasons for that. It isn't what swinging is about for us. They might not want to meet again.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I would meet them again, but not stop looking.

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By *anTouchThisCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Depends on their diary. We've had some amazing meets, but scheduling is often a problem. Besides, we've also had amazing socials we've yet to follow up on for the same reason.

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

If they were absolutely amazing, part of that amazingness would have been how free each of us are to meet others. By all means spend three days in bed getting to know each other, then start talking about how to involve other people. Part of my pleasure is seeing a partner getting pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, and already have done

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. I'd just upgrade them in my mental priority list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

But can’t deny it would become more difficult to chose how to spend my time ... go with amazing and known or risk meeting someone new who might be crap

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"No

But can’t deny it would become more difficult to chose how to spend my time ... go with amazing and known or risk meeting someone new who might be crap "

Meet both. Nothing like hands on experience to help in decision making

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the car that person would drive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on the car that person would drive. "

Why should the car matter when you've got world class knee caps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the car that person would drive.

Why should the car matter when you've got world class knee caps? "

Well if you think about it, a world class knee caps would come handy in a car that need strong pressur on the pedal to change the gear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...would you quit looking for others on Fab and enjoy just meeting them for a while? "

For a while, probably.

I'd still like the freedom to choose to meet others but wether I would or not is a decision I'd make after a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he was absolutely amazing I'd be looking for another bi man to join us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously though, I have very little free time and I like to take my time and spend as much time with someone I want to keep seeing. The excitement of a new man in nice but I like learning how he likes to be sexually satisfied and getting very intimate with him.

I won't be in the right mindset for that if I was squeezing in lots of different men.

I could say though that my LTP is amazing sexually-which he is-but he's too far and too busy to see as much as I would like,so, I have another local friend who I can see more. That doesn't mean I wouldn't meet someone else, to get a different experience from them, but I don't crave it. I leave options open.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No iv enjoyed the company of every woman iv met for very different reasons they have all been totally

Different kinds of people but been fun all the same be that the shagging ones or the general chit chat ones and i expect the same going forward

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...would you quit looking for others on Fab and enjoy just meeting them for a while?

For a while, probably.

I'd still like the freedom to choose to meet others but wether I would or not is a decision I'd make after a while. "

This is how I see it too. People on here can be too quick to pass over a good thing. I'd rather sit with it for a while and let the connection deepen a little (always leads to better and better sex imo). It doesn't need to be about developing strings or anything. It's just nice to see someone you had a great time with again... and again... and again

Plus, this site is so frustrating and full of weird people that if I happened upon the rare enchantress I wouldn't be in any rush to log back on here

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I've been fortunate to have had amazing meets with people who have become close friends but that hasn't stopped me from meeting new people. I'm too much of a free spirit to commit to any one person at the moment, but feel I have enough friendship, affection and desire to share with a select group of special people.

How many people? I don't know as I haven't reached a saturation point yet!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No iv enjoyed the company of every woman iv met for very different reasons they have all been totally

Different kinds of people but been fun all the same be that the shagging ones or the general chit chat ones and i expect the same going forward"

Absolutely. One of the things I love about this is the variety. Every person is unique sexually. It keeps things interesting, and shows me things that help me up my game too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...would you quit looking for others on Fab and enjoy just meeting them for a while?

For a while, probably.

I'd still like the freedom to choose to meet others but wether I would or not is a decision I'd make after a while.

This is how I see it too. People on here can be too quick to pass over a good thing. I'd rather sit with it for a while and let the connection deepen a little (always leads to better and better sex imo). It doesn't need to be about developing strings or anything. It's just nice to see someone you had a great time with again... and again... and again

Plus, this site is so frustrating and full of weird people that if I happened upon the rare enchantress I wouldn't be in any rush to log back on here "

I had that kind of friendship for nearly 3 years. We were free to see others, but neither of us really did.

It's proving difficult to find that sort of thing again.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"No. I'd just upgrade them in my mental priority list. "

This....

I would enjoy great times with them, and club with them, but also like to leave us both open to share experiences with other people separately .

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm too much of a free spirit to commit to any one person at the moment, but feel I have enough friendship, affection and desire to share with a select group of special people.

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This pretty much sums up how I feel about it. I would obviously want to enjoy this amazing person and enjoy exploring and learning more about them but I'd still want to meet others I think. I don't know until it actually happens, I might change my mind.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Good Lord no but they would be a priority over meeting someone new! I'd also look to doing other things with them fmm, club etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...would you quit looking for others on Fab and enjoy just meeting them for a while?

For a while, probably.

I'd still like the freedom to choose to meet others but wether I would or not is a decision I'd make after a while.

This is how I see it too. People on here can be too quick to pass over a good thing. I'd rather sit with it for a while and let the connection deepen a little (always leads to better and better sex imo). It doesn't need to be about developing strings or anything. It's just nice to see someone you had a great time with again... and again... and again

Plus, this site is so frustrating and full of weird people that if I happened upon the rare enchantress I wouldn't be in any rush to log back on here

I had that kind of friendship for nearly 3 years. We were free to see others, but neither of us really did.

It's proving difficult to find that sort of thing again. "

That sounds lovely. Maybe we're not too far away from each other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and I’d accept an open relationship but they would have to tick every box. Sex is crucial but there are other things that need to be right too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes..… But It would depend on if they were also willing to not meet others too. Feelings can slip in, when you are only meeting one. If they are still meeting others, the dynamic may become a little skewed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes..… But It would depend on if they were also willing to not meet others too. Feelings can slip in, when you are only meeting one. If they are still meeting others, the dynamic may become a little skewed. "

From my point of view, like one of the posters above, it's just my choice. I'd have absolutely no problem with them meeting others. Nor would I make anything of being exclusive or any of that crap. It's just that, for me, she/they would probably be enough... at least for a while... and I like taking things a little deeper, like a second or third or fourth meet

But equally I wouldn't be clingy. It's just that if there was mutual enjoyment and we wanted to repeat it I wouldn't be checking my phone every 5 minutes to see who I next want to fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes..… But It would depend on if they were also willing to not meet others too. Feelings can slip in, when you are only meeting one. If they are still meeting others, the dynamic may become a little skewed.

From my point of view, like one of the posters above, it's just my choice. I'd have absolutely no problem with them meeting others. Nor would I make anything of being exclusive or any of that crap. It's just that, for me, she/they would probably be enough... at least for a while... and I like taking things a little deeper, like a second or third or fourth meet

But equally I wouldn't be clingy. It's just that if there was mutual enjoyment and we wanted to repeat it I wouldn't be checking my phone every 5 minutes to see who I next want to fuck "

I get your point of view. I know what I'm like though. If I were meeting someone regularly and not meeting others, I'm the type to catch the 'the feels' over time. If I was going to consider meeting only them, I would expect the same back. Otherwise we'd just both come to the agreement of meeting others to stop that from happening or not meet each other regularly, but more sporadically, to avoid that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I have other friends I like to meet too and I would expect them to have other interests too. Exclusivity would be reserved for a relationship, and that’s a whole other can of worms.

But they’d get a high priority and it might be fun to meet others together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't it depend on what both want?

And if it works for each person?

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

No, i have done before on another site and regreted it. Prefer to meet different people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I couldn't forgive myself for denying others the opportunity to have a go on me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Quite surprised by the trend on this thread towards moving on. But then again I guess it's not so surprising on here. It's one of the things I dislike about this place. Everyone always checking on their phones at parties or meets about who their gonna fuck next.

I find it bizarre that if you found someone who was super hot and fucked like a banshee most people wouldn't think to return to that. Perhaps people just aren't getting good sex on here and so are never stopped in their tracks by it? I know it'd stop me... at least for a while

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

My last meet was amazing and we're both looking to meet again but due to shifts/ work/holidays/childcare its been over two weeks.... and could be several more....why would I hang off on meeting someone potentially as great just because our lives have gotten in the way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I like fresh meat... or fresh cock in my case!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet one couple repeatedly and I’d be happy just to meet them and nobody else however curiosity gets the better of us so we branch out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m quite happy to meet just one person and stick with them if the sex and everything else was good.

I find meeting new people quite hard work and it’s not exciting or thrilling to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it happens and it's what we both wanted I could walk away from here without a backward glance....

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By *40 maleMan
over a year ago

chesterfield


"...would you quit looking for others on Fab and enjoy just meeting them for a while? "

Yep

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