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By *he Secret Ones OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Looking for that elusive female for Socials/Dates/Fun as a Bi woman is very hard? Even more so when I'm not comfortable as of yet to play in the Club environment? Advice welcome please? And feel free to message, Thanks x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Your profile isn't that clear on if you are looking for a single female to meet you alone, or you as a couple. That's my first impression. If it's just for you, a single female profile might have better results. Good luck in your search!

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By *he Secret Ones OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Your profile isn't that clear on if you are looking for a single female to meet you alone, or you as a couple. That's my first impression. If it's just for you, a single female profile might have better results. Good luck in your search! "

Yes point taken and Generally just for myself so thankyou for the advice x

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP I would suggest being clear about what you are looking for on your profile.

If you are looking to meet and play as a couple say so and put a bit in there about how you want to play. I.e all of you playing together or just the ladies playing with the man watching etc.

If you want to meet solo you may do better with a singles profile.

Most single ladies who are looking to meet other ladies tend to search for just single ladies and don't look at couples profiles.

I know you said you are not keen to try the club scene but it may be the best way to go. Most clubs have evenings where single men are not allowed. Some clubs have special ladies only events. Cupids host a ladies event. They do allow male partners to attend but they can only use the upstairs of the club. Downstairs is for ladies only. This means you can go together and leave him upstairs if you want to play and chat with other ladies without him. If you want to involve him you can both stay upstairs. (Not sure I explained that too well but I hope you get the idea )

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By *he Secret Ones OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"OP I would suggest being clear about what you are looking for on your profile.

If you are looking to meet and play as a couple say so and put a bit in there about how you want to play. I.e all of you playing together or just the ladies playing with the man watching etc.

If you want to meet solo you may do better with a singles profile.

Most single ladies who are looking to meet other ladies tend to search for just single ladies and don't look at couples profiles.

I know you said you are not keen to try the club scene but it may be the best way to go. Most clubs have evenings where single men are not allowed. Some clubs have special ladies only events. Cupids host a ladies event. They do allow male partners to attend but they can only use the upstairs of the club. Downstairs is for ladies only. This means you can go together and leave him upstairs if you want to play and chat with other ladies without him. If you want to involve him you can both stay upstairs. (Not sure I explained that too well but I hope you get the idea )"

No that was perfectly explained thankyou and yes I've noted alot of what was said so thankyou x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

L loves to play with ladies (strike that, L likes to play full stop).

You have llittle or no chance of them coming to you, no matter what’s on offer. You have to meet them at their stomping grounds, that is usually a club, a safe environment and they can inspect the dynamic and what is on offer.

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