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By *tuOnePlum OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps?

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We try to have a few of hubby but he’s not very photogenic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think ours are pretty evenly split.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Husband hates pics of him being taken. I still managed to persuade him now and again

Mrs

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Maybe because some women like to dress, like me. That gives a lot more oppportunity to have different pics.

I agree you’re right, but I’m intrigued why you being a straight guy are put off ?

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By *tuOnePlum OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford


"Maybe because some women like to dress, like me. That gives a lot more oppportunity to have different pics.

I agree you’re right, but I’m intrigued why you being a straight guy are put off ?"

I'm not put off but quite like

artistic couple shots. I was just curious why the majority seemed female heavy...

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm not the ratio police but I do think it's counter productive when there are no (Or at least half good) pictures of the male half. After all this is not Cilla Blacks blind date and I suspect this if off putting to a lot of people.

Imagine me saying to my other half 'I've seen this great couple, the female is just what floats my boat'. So she says 'Oh, what's the bloke look like? Me, 'I don't know, you don't care do you, you'll sleep with anyone won't you as long as I find the female hot'. Not entirely sure if it works like that last time I checked. Apparently there needs to be mutral attraction for all parties.

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By *ussexsocialMan
over a year ago

Billingshurst

Men are generally turned on by visual stimulus so we’re the ones that tend to take the pics of our partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes this annoys me as someone who is looking to potentially meet a couple find it really off putting when there are no pics of the male. If a joint profile should be pics of both in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps? "

Yeah I don’t get that either, ours are pretty evenly split

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

There's quite a few of me (along with quite a few other guys and their cocks) but the ratio is probably a bit skewed as it's generally me that takes the pics. We don't do blind dates (or even blind messaging) so pics on a profile or first message are essential for us to start the ball rolling.

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By *oxoffrogsCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Mr BOF often sees a couple and thinks the lady is really hot, only to find there are no pics and sometimes even no text about the gent. Needless to say I’m not really interested so we move on. It’s a shame.

I have to say Mr BOF isn’t keen on photos so I understand why the balance might be out, but no pics at all?

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

It's just me that physically plays so only my pics, but I joined as a couple,as he would be in the room during certain cuckold scenarios.

I didn't want to get a singles profile as it doesn't represent my situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because thats what they want to do you nosey parker

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By *wo Big GuysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Reading


"Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps? "

Just a hunch but it would probably suggest the man controls the profile and arranging of all meets. In 6 years on fab I have yet to come across a couple where it’s the other way round

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps?

Just a hunch but it would probably suggest the man controls the profile and arranging of all meets. In 6 years on fab I have yet to come across a couple where it’s the other way round "

Consider this your first then

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Anita often grumbles about this too. She often needs to ask couples who've messaged us to send pics of the bloke.

Generally though, men are much more interested in perving women's photos than women are men's. We gave photo's of us both, but the ones of me are much less likely to be fabbed than those of Anita. Ultimately, women are much nicer to look at than men.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps?

Just a hunch but it would probably suggest the man controls the profile and arranging of all meets. In 6 years on fab I have yet to come across a couple where it’s the other way round "

We're the other way round

Your 6 years of search is over

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have both in our private gallery. He doesn't want his on show to the public

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By *hisky and WineCouple
over a year ago

the vicinity of Betelgeuse


"We try to have a few of hubby but he’s not very photogenic "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours are fairly evenly split

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to think we've got a good balance too but she's just better at taking photos of herself, and the likes ratio certainly proves more people want to see the woman than the man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just me that physically plays so only my pics, but I joined as a couple,as he would be in the room during certain cuckold scenarios.

I didn't want to get a singles profile as it doesn't represent my situation."

This is also us, apart from the cuckolding, it's more mmmf play for us. So only bait that's needed is moi

Mrs

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think there are a few reasons OP - the most obvious being there's a greater range of pics available for women to take - just a simple change of underwear can make the same picture different - whereas there's a limit to the number of poses a guy can take before pics start getting "samey".

Some couples profiles are only looking for single men so don't see the need to post pics of the guy (especially where the male half is straight).

I agree though it's always good to see pics of both halves, and ideally a few where both are in the pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps? "

Although most photos are of my gorgeous wife, we do add a few of myself too. Its only fair and its important other couples see us in different pics etc. I like it ( when im not having a 'fat' day

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By *r. Pepper...Man
over a year ago

liverpool

I think women are a lot more lens friendly. They tend to enjoy looking all sexy for photos. The majority of men I know hate getting their photo taken

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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago

Nr Salisbury

Because Mrs P is way hotter than me!

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork


"Because Mrs P is way hotter than me! "

Having just looked through your photos ( purely for investigative purposes in relation to this thread ) we agree with your comment!

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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago

Nr Salisbury


"Because Mrs P is way hotter than me!

Having just looked through your photos ( purely for investigative purposes in relation to this thread ) we agree with your comment! "

I'll take that as a compliment! Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On most of the ones I've looked at they are only looking for a bi woman for the woman to play with, and the husband doesn't get involved.

I assume they don't think the male's physical appearance is important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because Mrs P is way hotter than me!

Having just looked through your photos ( purely for investigative purposes in relation to this thread ) we agree with your comment! "

The majority of us men are punching and got lucky

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps?

Just a hunch but it would probably suggest the man controls the profile and arranging of all meets. In 6 years on fab I have yet to come across a couple where it’s the other way round

We're the other way round

Your 6 years of search is over

Mrs"

We've found very profiles where it isn't both running it.We certainly do.

Our pics are about 50/50...which probably explains our hit rate !

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin


"We try to have a few of hubby but he’s not very photogenic "

Lol....harsh!!

But you have a point ...the ladies are the fairer sex....looking at the Fabs on our pics, it's hers that get the thumbs up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have pics of us both on ours always have done. When looking for a meet want to see pics of both

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By *issminxandmrcCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham


"It's just me that physically plays so only my pics, but I joined as a couple,as he would be in the room during certain cuckold scenarios.

I didn't want to get a singles profile as it doesn't represent my situation."

The same here at the moment!! as Mr is on the subs bench with his recovery from Prostate Cancer,so we still have our joint profile and clearly state this on there,I also have a singles profile & meet solo(which again~ is clearly stated) xx

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps?

Just a hunch but it would probably suggest the man controls the profile and arranging of all meets. In 6 years on fab I have yet to come across a couple where it’s the other way round

Consider this your first then "

and this his second!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s one thing we notice whenever checking out a new profile, if there are zero photos of the man which is often the case then we generally don’t respond. I can understand there being more photos of the lady, there are only so many photos you can put up of a man before they all start to look the same but to have none at all just strikes me as odd and makes me think there’s something wrong.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Their profile, their rules.

We choose not to interact with them.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Could also throw criticism of the "single" male profiles with no pics of the male but several of an "unknown" cock entering an attractive female (often unprotected) lol and by the way our profile has couple of pics with us both in it! and in private we have several pics of Bruno to show anyone we actually intend to meet

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By *haznsteCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We try and keep ours even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps?

Just a hunch but it would probably suggest the man controls the profile and arranging of all meets. In 6 years on fab I have yet to come across a couple where it’s the other way round

Consider this your first then

and this his second! "

3rd

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

It’s because I don’t really exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try and keep a good mix of us both.

Eve takes a great pic, mine a few and far between

Adam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a few of me but there’s a lot more pics you take of the female without it getting boring or them looking the same.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

We try to keep an even mix of the two of us either separately or together.

If the male of the couple isn't represented, then we just stay clear. We'll presume (rightly or wrongly) that he looks like Shreks ugly brother, and since we're shallow and there needs to be a physical attraction we'll move onto the next profile.

Same goes with a single male profile when there's only his cock in the pics but 90% of the pic is of a woman.

We'll stay clear of those ones too (although there's nothing like a bit of veri checking to find out who she might be) Your profile should be showing you off, not someone else.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Our photos are pretty evenly split with some of myself and some of Mrs2 and some of both of us together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always tell Mr to get more pics of him, he just hates photos of himself, ive sneakily put one on of him though. He doesnt think hes hot but i know he is, just very modest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always tell Mr to get more pics of him, he just hates photos of himself, ive sneakily put one on of him though. He doesnt think hes hot but i know he is, just very modest "

I like your man is like that. Hes clearly gorgeous but so relaxed he doesnt even notice, that in itself is attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are only meeting guys for fun with her, so not really a issue for us,a lot of couples are the same..we have never been asked for a pic of Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause the woman is nearly always fitter and most people don’t care what the husband looks like.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs


"most people don’t care what the husband looks like. "

I do if they expect me to fuck him!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

This comes up on a weekly basis and the answers are always the same. I will repeat my answer in case anyone is interested in hearing it yet again:

Profiles are advertisements for the people who post them. If the ratio of female to male pics works for them then there is no reason for them to change it. If you see an "advertisement" that doesn't work for you just move on and find one that does. It's a similar story with dick pics. Some don't like them, some (including me) do. If a guy wants to advertise himself with them then who are we to ask why, or complain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curious to know if OP is calling couples profiles into question...????

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"This comes up on a weekly basis and the answers are always the same. I will repeat my answer in case anyone is interested in hearing it yet again:

Profiles are advertisements for the people who post them. If the ratio of female to male pics works for them then there is no reason for them to change it. If you see an "advertisement" that doesn't work for you just move on and find one that does. It's a similar story with dick pics. Some don't like them, some (including me) do. If a guy wants to advertise himself with them then who are we to ask why, or complain. "

We concur.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

On our Couple profile ,I got fed up of this.

If a couple want to meet couples,there should be pics of both.I understand if it's just the lady that plays ,otherwise no reason why there can't be pics of both people.

I just don't engage with profiles like that ,as I won't chat just to find out he isn't for me ages down the line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a mix, not 50/50 but what we think is enough.

To be honest, with the consensus on cock pics, we find it easier doing female pics. Male pictures take a bit more effort and thought. Any advice or ideas would be greatly recieved

We like to see a small variety of both sex on a profile, at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a mix. More of me because we like to show how he dominates me . That way people know what we’re into.

L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a mix, But more of me simply because D loves to take pictures of me, And it turns us both on either way

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By *ame-room-no-swapCouple
over a year ago

Taunton

Since I'm not going to be touching anyone apart from my own partner, Its much less important what I look like, unlike Mrs T who might be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a few of mr Trent , but Trudy is definately our hottie lol

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Because they want to, because they want to!

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I'm not the ratio police but I do think it's counter productive when there are no (Or at least half good) pictures of the male half. After all this is not Cilla Blacks blind date and I suspect this if off putting to a lot of people.

Imagine me saying to my other half 'I've seen this great couple, the female is just what floats my boat'. So she says 'Oh, what's the bloke look like? Me, 'I don't know, you don't care do you, you'll sleep with anyone won't you as long as I find the female hot'. Not entirely sure if it works like that last time I checked. Apparently there needs to be mutral attraction for all parties."

This

I always say if I cannot see the male then forget it, we're not interested. Its very important both of us are attracted to the couple. No way would I take one for the team just because Mr is attracted to the female. *mrs

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"This comes up on a weekly basis and the answers are always the same. I will repeat my answer in case anyone is interested in hearing it yet again:

Profiles are advertisements for the people who post them. If the ratio of female to male pics works for them then there is no reason for them to change it. If you see an "advertisement" that doesn't work for you just move on and find one that does. It's a similar story with dick pics. Some don't like them, some (including me) do. If a guy wants to advertise himself with them then who are we to ask why, or complain. "

Agreed but the trouble it is clear on our profile that I want to see the male half and couples without the Mr showing still message us *mrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is because it's only really the female playing, when we are chatting to a couple we'd send a face pic of the husband just so they know what he looks like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe because the guy of the couple isn’t very attractive? The view of the female is to get more attention but when they see who she’s with tends to sway the deal as such

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

It’s simple

Zero effort = Zero reward.

If you can’t be arsed to ask then you won’t be for us anyway.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps? "

It’s to ‘advertise’ the female. It makes me wonder if it’s the males idea!

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