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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else find it Funny how people delete messages without even viewing your profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do realise many people view in stealth don’t you? You can chose not to appear on ‘who’s looked at me’. You’d never know if I’d looked or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hilarious.

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I look at profiles before I read the message and if they clearly haven’t read mine then I tell them to sashay away

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Welcome to Fab

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Many women view in stealth mode, as noted. Guys sometimes think looking at profiles means women are interested in them, which isn't always true.

Sometimes the message isn't even worth looking at the profile though, so yes, sometimes I'll just delete without looking.

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

Your best bet is to just compose your message send it then delete it ...that way you don’t need to worry about wether it’s neen read or not and if you get a reply it’s always a bonus and a surprise x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find it Funny how people delete messages without even viewing your profile! "

I do that. I can tell from the avatar and the message whether it's worth pursuing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is quite annoying sometimes though. Especially if you’re taking a bit of a stab I the dark on someone who’s profile you’ve read and liked it’s just their pics are either very abstract or friends only. You carefully construct a witty opener and introduce yourself... hit send... deleted within seconds!!! Can’t have even read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At times when we view a profile, even by accidentally pushing on the name, we get bombarded with messages, so if the message doesn't grab our attention or we can tell they haven't read our profile then we just delete, there's no offence meant by it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really "

Not even a smirk??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really

Not even a smirk?? "

Occasionally

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Sometimes the message is so short, you can read it without opening it. And in that case the delete button looks very tempting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is quite annoying sometimes though. Especially if you’re taking a bit of a stab I the dark on someone who’s profile you’ve read and liked it’s just their pics are either very abstract or friends only. You carefully construct a witty opener and introduce yourself... hit send... deleted within seconds!!! Can’t have even read it. "

Sometimes it's best not to open that line of communication if you know it's not want you want, I replied to a single male last night who made an effort with his message but it was a polite no thanks as the wife already has options for a playmate, we where then bombarded with message after message even to the point he demanded to know who the playmate was, even looking up our recent veri and asking if it is him, all that for trying to be polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it quite funny how the same OPs get posted day after day, as if there is something new to say on the topic

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Short messages can be read without opening them and yep, stealth mode.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it quite funny how the same OPs get posted day after day, as if there is something new to say on the topic "

Don't waste your time replying then... Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find it Funny how people delete messages without even viewing your profile! "

No! I do it all the time. If the message or pic doesn't

interest me I don't bother reading the profile.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's an accepted way of saying no thanks on here OP - know some guys find that hard to accept but there are 101 reasons why people do it (although as High Heels said it doesn't mean they've not viewed your profile - those looking in stealth mode won't show) some of those reasons are:

Replying then creates a tunnel past any subsequent filters the recipient may apply.

Replying can lead to further messages that are either abusive or demand to know why the recipient doesn't want to meet.

Some women/couples get lots of messages each day to the point that replying to all of them becomes an admin task that could be better spent elsewhere.

As someone else said, if it bothers you the best bet is to delete sent messages as soon as you've sent them (it doesn't delete them from the recipients inbox) and then if you get a reply it's an unexpected bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is quite annoying sometimes though. Especially if you’re taking a bit of a stab I the dark on someone who’s profile you’ve read and liked it’s just their pics are either very abstract or friends only. You carefully construct a witty opener and introduce yourself... hit send... deleted within seconds!!! Can’t have even read it.

Sometimes it's best not to open that line of communication if you know it's not want you want, I replied to a single male last night who made an effort with his message but it was a polite no thanks as the wife already has options for a playmate, we where then bombarded with message after message even to the point he demanded to know who the playmate was, even looking up our recent veri and asking if it is him, all that for trying to be polite "

Haha. Oh dear... Well that’s the difference between me and someone particularly insecure.

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