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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive only been a member on this site now for about a week and a half and although i've had 1 meet which was great, i dont seem to have luck at getting other meets. I keep going through in my head ... Is it my profile? Is it my age? Etc. I don't just message one liners either, I actually try and start conversations to try and get to know the person/couple better. Or is just simply because I am new it's just a waiting game and meets will gradually come? Just wondering what your opinions or advice are. Thanks in advance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are men who've been on site months before getting a meet! I think you've been lucky so now have to manage your expectations.

Contrary to popular belief most women on sites like this don't just exchange a message with a stranger and meet him in a hotel room. I'm not alone in wanting to get a flavour of the man I'll be inviting into my home and that in includes no pressure social meet for coffee.

If you want insta shag then try a club...but a shag isn't guaranteed...if you want that there are loads of escort agencies!

Good luck.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

One shag per member per decade, it's in the small print.

Hope it was worth it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many meets per week are you expecting???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have been here less then two weeks and you have had a meet , there are a hell of a lot of guys here who would kill for that

We was here months before our first meet,I dread to think about what's the ratio of guys to couples are is and single fems

You just need to relax and chill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been months since we managed to get a meet

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford

What you have to remember is that this site is full of real people, with real jobs, real families, and real commitments. The idea that people will just drop everything simply because you want a shag is a little naive. You've already had a meet so, for a lot of people, you're not doing too badly.

Enjoy the site and be patient. Make contact, be nice, and just show people your good side, that way the meets will keep coming. But don't expect a meet every day, every week, or every month. We all have our own lives to live, and they don't revolve around you.

Sorry if this sounds a bit harsh but too many guys expect people to be banging their doors down to get to them, and the reality is we all have lives to lead and things happen in their own good time. It's not a race! Take a more leisurely approach by politely keeping in contact, to show interest, then wait for the right moment but enjoy the developing friendship in the meantime.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

its cos you live too far from Evesham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you have to remember is that this site is full of real people, with real jobs, real families, and real commitments. The idea that people will just drop everything simply because you want a shag is a little naive. You've already had a meet so, for a lot of people, you're not doing too badly.

Enjoy the site and be patient. Make contact, be nice, and just show people your good side, that way the meets will keep coming. But don't expect a meet every day, every week, or every month. We all have our own lives to live, and they don't revolve around you.

Sorry if this sounds a bit harsh but too many guys expect people to be banging their doors down to get to them, and the reality is we all have lives to lead and things happen in their own good time. It's not a race! Take a more leisurely approach by politely keeping in contact, to show interest, then wait for the right moment but enjoy the developing friendship in the meantime. "

Couldn't have put it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my god, one meet in 10 to 11 days.... I agree, you should of had 6 a day by now mate

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Ive only been a member on this site now for about a week and a half and although i've had 1 meet which was great, i dont seem to have luck at getting other meets. I keep going through in my head ... Is it my profile? Is it my age? Etc. I don't just message one liners either, I actually try and start conversations to try and get to know the person/couple better. Or is just simply because I am new it's just a waiting game and meets will gradually come? Just wondering what your opinions or advice are. Thanks in advance! "

I am sorry the site couldn't be the insta-shag you thought it would be.... and the women just were not dropping there knickers in front of you!!

seriously... 10 days and the complaint come in... wow.....

I tell everyone, Time,patience,common sense....

so much for "Time" and "patience" eh......

do you want an opinion... seriously... okay... You should be happy you have already had one meet! people can take months to get there first meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive only been a member on this site now for about a week and a half and although i've had 1 meet which was great, i dont seem to have luck at getting other meets. I keep going through in my head ... Is it my profile? Is it my age? Etc. I don't just message one liners either, I actually try and start conversations to try and get to know the person/couple better. Or is just simply because I am new it's just a waiting game and meets will gradually come? Just wondering what your opinions or advice are. Thanks in advance! "

seriously how many meets was you expecting to get?

you've had a meet within 2 weeks of being on the site and you dont think thats good?

was you looking for a different woman every night of the week?

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

most of the single men on hear would be bloody glad of a meet in the first 2 weeks but it just dosn't happen (((you are a very lucky man to have gone this far)))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think the problem is because you fell on your feet so soon after joining your expecting to much from the site

it could be a good 6 months before you get another meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I am sorry the site couldn't be the insta-shag you thought it would be.... and the women just were not dropping there knickers in front of you!!

"

Yep if ya want 'hot horny women just waiting for you' then try towards the back pages in The Sun

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive only been a member on this site now for about a week and a half and although i've had 1 meet which was great, i dont seem to have luck at getting other meets. I keep going through in my head ... Is it my profile? Is it my age? Etc. I don't just message one liners either, I actually try and start conversations to try and get to know the person/couple better. Or is just simply because I am new it's just a waiting game and meets will gradually come? Just wondering what your opinions or advice are. Thanks in advance! "

how many a week do u want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count yourself lucky you got one so soon!

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"What you have to remember is that this site is full of real people, with real jobs, real families, and real commitments. The idea that people will just drop everything simply because you want a shag is a little naive. You've already had a meet so, for a lot of people, you're not doing too badly.

Enjoy the site and be patient. Make contact, be nice, and just show people your good side, that way the meets will keep coming. But don't expect a meet every day, every week, or every month. We all have our own lives to live, and they don't revolve around you.

Sorry if this sounds a bit harsh but too many guys expect people to be banging their doors down to get to them, and the reality is we all have lives to lead and things happen in their own good time. It's not a race! Take a more leisurely approach by politely keeping in contact, to show interest, then wait for the right moment but enjoy the developing friendship in the meantime. "
+1

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"Ive only been a member on this site now for about a week and a half and although i've had 1 meet which was great, i dont seem to have luck at getting other meets. I keep going through in my head ... Is it my profile? Is it my age? Etc. I don't just message one liners either, I actually try and start conversations to try and get to know the person/couple better. Or is just simply because I am new it's just a waiting game and meets will gradually come? Just wondering what your opinions or advice are. Thanks in advance!

I am sorry the site couldn't be the insta-shag you thought it would be.... and the women just were not dropping there knickers in front of you!!

seriously... 10 days and the complaint come in... wow.....

I tell everyone, Time,patience,common sense....

so much for "Time" and "patience" eh......

do you want an opinion... seriously... okay... You should be happy you have already had one meet! people can take months to get there first meets"
on the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its cos you live too far from Evesham "

Could I have one on my way down to bristol, if I ask nicely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive only been a member on this site now for about a week and a half and although i've had 1 meet which was great, i dont seem to have luck at getting other meets. I keep going through in my head ... Is it my profile? Is it my age? Etc. I don't just message one liners either, I actually try and start conversations to try and get to know the person/couple better. Or is just simply because I am new it's just a waiting game and meets will gradually come? Just wondering what your opinions or advice are. Thanks in advance!

how many a week do u want? "

One a night and twice on Sunday plaeas with maybe Eleven's as well on a Wednesdays only just to break the week up lol I think some folk just reckon its a shag fest site or something

Tho to be fair I cant complain my self as I have personally not done too bad in the few weeks since joining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you have to remember is that this site is full of real people, with real jobs, real families, and real commitments. The idea that people will just drop everything simply because you want a shag is a little naive. You've already had a meet so, for a lot of people, you're not doing too badly.

Enjoy the site and be patient. Make contact, be nice, and just show people your good side, that way the meets will keep coming. But don't expect a meet every day, every week, or every month. We all have our own lives to live, and they don't revolve around you.

Sorry if this sounds a bit harsh but too many guys expect people to be banging their doors down to get to them, and the reality is we all have lives to lead and things happen in their own good time. It's not a race! Take a more leisurely approach by politely keeping in contact, to show interest, then wait for the right moment but enjoy the developing friendship in the meantime. "

Eloquently put sir!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its scandalous, if your not getting like 5+ meets a week theres something wrong with the site, contact an admin!

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