FabSwingers.com forum: Oral Etiquette

By *P curious OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

I have just overheard a conversation where a woman just said to the guy she was with

" you never thanked me for the blowjob I've just given you "

I really didn't think that a thanks was required. Have I been rude not to say thankyou? Just wondering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends.

I think I probably thanked the girl that gave me my first BJ..... But i was 15, bit awkward and didn't know I should have returned the favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I was brought up to always use my P's n Q's ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it’s just polite isn’t it. I’ll always make a comment of some kind. Something like “that was amazing, thank you” never hurts does it.

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Personally I was brought up to always use my P's n Q's ????"

Please may I have a blow job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need thanks, just return the favour

Jenny x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't need thanks, just return the favour

Jenny x"

The least I could do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just overheard a conversation where a woman just said to the guy she was with

" you never thanked me for the blowjob I've just given you "

I really didn't think that a thanks was required. Have I been rude not to say thankyou? Just wondering."

You heard this conversation at 5 am on a Wednesday morning ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Most guys can't speak after I've given them a blow job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most guys can't speak after I've given them a blow job

Wow. I am speechless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most guys can't speak after I've given them a blow job

You may be sucking the wrong bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most guys can't speak after I've given them a blow job

Is it that bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess, if two (or more) people engage in mutual sexual activities, a thank you may be out of place.

However, if he asked (or pestered) and it's not something she particularly enjoys, then a thank you may well be fitting

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Most guys can't speak after I've given them a blow job

Is it that bad? "

You tell me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most guys can't speak after I've given them a blow job

Is it that bad?

You tell me

I'll pop over and find out then.

Purely for science of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not gonna thank me, you can pay me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get my satisfaction from their pleasure, not the feeling I’ve done them a favour! Some acknowledgement of a job well done is always nice on top of that though

Mrs F x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most guys can't speak after I've given them a blow job

Hahaha! You go girl!!!!

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By *P curious OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

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By *P curious OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

"I have just overheard a conversation where a woman just said to the guy she was with

" you never thanked me for the blowjob I've just given you "

I really didn't think that a thanks was required. Have I been rude not to say thankyou? Just wondering.

You heard this conversation at 5 am on a Wednesday morning ? "

manchester

Yeah heard it. While was waiting for taxi home after club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just overheard a conversation where a woman just said to the guy she was with

" you never thanked me for the blowjob I've just given you "

I really didn't think that a thanks was required. Have I been rude not to say thankyou? Just wondering.

You heard this conversation at 5 am on a Wednesday morning ?

manchester

Yeah heard it. While was waiting for taxi home after club.

Clubs open on a Tuesday night, wow. I need to get out of Devon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clubs open on a Tuesday night, wow. I need to get out of Devon. "

Even if clubs weren't open on a tuesday night, i'd always advise getting out of Devon...

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

"I don't need thanks, just return the favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may not say the words ‘thank you’ but if they’ve done it right they’d know from my ‘fucking hell’ and stupid post orgasmic grin how appreciative I am...

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I always say Thank You, once I've got my breath back.

If somebody gives you something nice, or does something for you, it's only polite

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I generally hand them an appraisal form afterwards, detailing areas for improvement and so forth

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By *ookingforlustMan
over a year ago

northants

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

ladies always say thank you whilst im going down on them

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

"I generally hand them an appraisal form afterwards, detailing areas for improvement and so forth

We must always strive for excellence in all that we do.

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By *lanPartridgeMan
over a year ago

nottingham

I think a voucher system is always nice

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

My partner used to pat me on the arm and say well done

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Most guys can't speak after I've given them a blow job

You may be sucking the wrong bit

Pmsl

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Must admit I found it hard to speak any sense after the last blowjob I had..

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

"I have just overheard a conversation where a woman just said to the guy she was with

" you never thanked me for the blowjob I've just given you "

I really didn't think that a thanks was required. Have I been rude not to say thankyou? Just wondering.

You heard this conversation at 5 am on a Wednesday morning ?

manchester

Yeah heard it. While was waiting for taxi home after club.

Better than hearing it in the queue at Tesco!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can the payment be a good licking out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t have thought saying “Thank you” was a required etiquette, however showing appreciation is just good manners - be that returning the favour or an passing comment along the lines of

“Holy Shit Balls, I haven’t had a blowie like that since I told my Latin Master to put all his money on Mr Frisk in the 1990 Grand National”

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I wouldn’t have thought saying “Thank you” was a required etiquette, however showing appreciation is just good manners - be that returning the favour or an passing comment along the lines of

“Holy Shit Balls, I haven’t had a blowie like that since I told my Latin Master to put all his money on Mr Frisk in the 1990 Grand National”"

You know I'll expect to hear that now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d always return the favour; manners.

As for the thank you I usually go for the wow that was incredible approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just overheard a conversation where a woman just said to the guy she was with

" you never thanked me for the blowjob I've just given you "

I really didn't think that a thanks was required. Have I been rude not to say thankyou? Just wondering."

I thank a man for a fuck. Why not thank for bj?

Mrs

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By *ookingforlustMan
over a year ago

northants

I always say thank you.

Maybe if the receiver doesn’t show their appreciation the giver could do one of those text surveys you get when you’ve phoned your insurance company.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

“Thank you” is such an underused word, right up there with “good girl “

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By *east and belleCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Mr used to thank me but I hated it as it made the act feel more like a transaction so made me feel cheap. As long as there is communication of him enjoying I don't need a thank you.

Mrs

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