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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sometimes a good vent about your emotions can be amazing for your health. So lets use this little space to get some things off our chest and also have a bit of a vent.

So whats been getting you down lately?

For me, its that I've just recently left university and got turned down for a job. Every other job I get offered is the "oh, it's unpaid by the way". I've also hit onto some hard financial difficulties which is making me reevaluate how I need to approach job seeking.

So what about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After two years of trying I can’t stay pregnant for more than ten weeks. And I’ve not been able to get pregnant for a year now.

And now that my sister in law is pregnant and we have neglected to acknowledge it (they’ve caused us so much misery that we don’t speak to my husbands family at all) I’ve been getting abusive text messages. Guess they just like rubbing it in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been struggling mentally lately which gets me down. M is a massive help though, he keeps me going. Just sometimes I want to give in to what my head is telling me, no matter how good life seems to be going. Just a lot of things has happened within the last year and I keep trying to move forward. I am seeing a professional as well though, so at least I’m making positive steps to keep me going. Plus as I said, M is a massive support for me.

L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After two years of trying I can’t stay pregnant for more than ten weeks. And I’ve not been able to get pregnant for a year now.

And now that my sister in law is pregnant and we have neglected to acknowledge it (they’ve caused us so much misery that we don’t speak to my husbands family at all) I’ve been getting abusive text messages. Guess they just like rubbing it in. "

I just want to send you a massive hug!!! I’ve never been able to fall pregnant and my brother has 6 kids! My other 2. I hope you are blessed with a full term healthy pregnancy soon xxxxx hugs A xx (female half)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After two years of trying I can’t stay pregnant for more than ten weeks. And I’ve not been able to get pregnant for a year now.

And now that my sister in law is pregnant and we have neglected to acknowledge it (they’ve caused us so much misery that we don’t speak to my husbands family at all) I’ve been getting abusive text messages. Guess they just like rubbing it in.

I just want to send you a massive hug!!! I’ve never been able to fall pregnant and my brother has 6 kids! My other 2. I hope you are blessed with a full term healthy pregnancy soon xxxxx hugs A xx (female half)"

Thank you so much

I’m always feeling pretty shit about it if I’m honest but this has been a massive kick in the teeth. My brother in law (husband’s brother) and his wife have always said they don’t want kids, they hate kids etc. Apparently this pregnancy was unplanned. As awful as it is it just feels like they’re going through with it to spite us. I know that probably isn’t the case - just feels that way with the circumstances and abusive texts xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing. I'm good thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After two years of trying I can’t stay pregnant for more than ten weeks. And I’ve not been able to get pregnant for a year now.

And now that my sister in law is pregnant and we have neglected to acknowledge it (they’ve caused us so much misery that we don’t speak to my husbands family at all) I’ve been getting abusive text messages. Guess they just like rubbing it in.

I just want to send you a massive hug!!! I’ve never been able to fall pregnant and my brother has 6 kids! My other 2. I hope you are blessed with a full term healthy pregnancy soon xxxxx hugs A xx (female half)

Thank you so much

I’m always feeling pretty shit about it if I’m honest but this has been a massive kick in the teeth. My brother in law (husband’s brother) and his wife have always said they don’t want kids, they hate kids etc. Apparently this pregnancy was unplanned. As awful as it is it just feels like they’re going through with it to spite us. I know that probably isn’t the case - just feels that way with the circumstances and abusive texts xxxxx"

I understand exactly where you’re coming from. As for the abusive texts, don’t reply to them babes. As hard as that will be, you’re giving into their enjoyment of annoying you. If you ignore the texts they’ll sharp get bored! You just concentrate on you, after all, you’re more important xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My old job was a constant source of stress and unhappiness. I decided to take hold of the situation and got a new job at the start of the year. Not looked back since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After two years of trying I can’t stay pregnant for more than ten weeks. And I’ve not been able to get pregnant for a year now.

And now that my sister in law is pregnant and we have neglected to acknowledge it (they’ve caused us so much misery that we don’t speak to my husbands family at all) I’ve been getting abusive text messages. Guess they just like rubbing it in.

I just want to send you a massive hug!!! I’ve never been able to fall pregnant and my brother has 6 kids! My other 2. I hope you are blessed with a full term healthy pregnancy soon xxxxx hugs A xx (female half)

Thank you so much

I’m always feeling pretty shit about it if I’m honest but this has been a massive kick in the teeth. My brother in law (husband’s brother) and his wife have always said they don’t want kids, they hate kids etc. Apparently this pregnancy was unplanned. As awful as it is it just feels like they’re going through with it to spite us. I know that probably isn’t the case - just feels that way with the circumstances and abusive texts xxxxx

I understand exactly where you’re coming from. As for the abusive texts, don’t reply to them babes. As hard as that will be, you’re giving into their enjoyment of annoying you. If you ignore the texts they’ll sharp get bored! You just concentrate on you, after all, you’re more important xxx"

I haven’t replied to any. I’ve actually switched iMessage off, so they’re messages just send as texts. We had their numbers blocked for over a year and when they would text, it would send as a text instead of an iMessage. So hopefully the think they’re numbers have just been blocked again xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats gettin me down well i had a baby 4 weeks ago and still got between 2 and 4 more weeks till recovered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After two years of trying I can’t stay pregnant for more than ten weeks. And I’ve not been able to get pregnant for a year now.

And now that my sister in law is pregnant and we have neglected to acknowledge it (they’ve caused us so much misery that we don’t speak to my husbands family at all) I’ve been getting abusive text messages. Guess they just like rubbing it in.

I just want to send you a massive hug!!! I’ve never been able to fall pregnant and my brother has 6 kids! My other 2. I hope you are blessed with a full term healthy pregnancy soon xxxxx hugs A xx (female half)

Thank you so much

I’m always feeling pretty shit about it if I’m honest but this has been a massive kick in the teeth. My brother in law (husband’s brother) and his wife have always said they don’t want kids, they hate kids etc. Apparently this pregnancy was unplanned. As awful as it is it just feels like they’re going through with it to spite us. I know that probably isn’t the case - just feels that way with the circumstances and abusive texts xxxxx"

99% of People, family or not, are insensitive arseholes. Lost count of the comments I got after my miscarriage.... although my best friend was pregnant at the time and she was amazing and so sensitive to my feelings. I was luckily enough to get pregnant soon after but I'll never forget how wonderful she was.

I was going to come on this thread and moan about my son just vomitting all over me, himself and his bed but you've reminded me how blessed I am. Thank you for stopping me being such a self involved, ungrateful cow (albeit one that now stinks of puke) xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After two years of trying I can’t stay pregnant for more than ten weeks. And I’ve not been able to get pregnant for a year now.

And now that my sister in law is pregnant and we have neglected to acknowledge it (they’ve caused us so much misery that we don’t speak to my husbands family at all) I’ve been getting abusive text messages. Guess they just like rubbing it in.

I just want to send you a massive hug!!! I’ve never been able to fall pregnant and my brother has 6 kids! My other 2. I hope you are blessed with a full term healthy pregnancy soon xxxxx hugs A xx (female half)

Thank you so much

I’m always feeling pretty shit about it if I’m honest but this has been a massive kick in the teeth. My brother in law (husband’s brother) and his wife have always said they don’t want kids, they hate kids etc. Apparently this pregnancy was unplanned. As awful as it is it just feels like they’re going through with it to spite us. I know that probably isn’t the case - just feels that way with the circumstances and abusive texts xxxxx

99% of People, family or not, are insensitive arseholes. Lost count of the comments I got after my miscarriage.... although my best friend was pregnant at the time and she was amazing and so sensitive to my feelings. I was luckily enough to get pregnant soon after but I'll never forget how wonderful she was.

I was going to come on this thread and moan about my son just vomitting all over me, himself and his bed but you've reminded me how blessed I am. Thank you for stopping me being such a self involved, ungrateful cow (albeit one that now stinks of puke) xxx "

Oh no please feel free to moan! I’d be moaning too!!

Thankfully I have a wonderful husband who is holding my hand and helping me through. And a few good friends - who have thankfully never gone through to same thing, but have never once said a bad word or anything to make me feel worse xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After two years of trying I can’t stay pregnant for more than ten weeks. And I’ve not been able to get pregnant for a year now.

And now that my sister in law is pregnant and we have neglected to acknowledge it (they’ve caused us so much misery that we don’t speak to my husbands family at all) I’ve been getting abusive text messages. Guess they just like rubbing it in.

I just want to send you a massive hug!!! I’ve never been able to fall pregnant and my brother has 6 kids! My other 2. I hope you are blessed with a full term healthy pregnancy soon xxxxx hugs A xx (female half)

Thank you so much

I’m always feeling pretty shit about it if I’m honest but this has been a massive kick in the teeth. My brother in law (husband’s brother) and his wife have always said they don’t want kids, they hate kids etc. Apparently this pregnancy was unplanned. As awful as it is it just feels like they’re going through with it to spite us. I know that probably isn’t the case - just feels that way with the circumstances and abusive texts xxxxx

99% of People, family or not, are insensitive arseholes. Lost count of the comments I got after my miscarriage.... although my best friend was pregnant at the time and she was amazing and so sensitive to my feelings. I was luckily enough to get pregnant soon after but I'll never forget how wonderful she was.

I was going to come on this thread and moan about my son just vomitting all over me, himself and his bed but you've reminded me how blessed I am. Thank you for stopping me being such a self involved, ungrateful cow (albeit one that now stinks of puke) xxx "

Congratulations what you went on to have a gorgeous little boy!! Hope he gets better soon, and for the record, you’re not an ungrateful cow! You’re a mum! And you’re probably thinking of the extra washing you have to do tomorrow on top of everything else you do on a Monday xx

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Well after reading all this, my problems are so not worthy to report, best of luck everyone happy days x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there I was about to moan about something as mundane as an ex... not even close to being a real problem. Be strong you guys. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well after reading all this, my problems are so not worthy to report, best of luck everyone happy days x x"

If something gets you down, its worthy. We are all affected by situations happening in our lives, and to keep issues bottled in can leave lasting damage. So speak up! its therepeutic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After two years of trying I can’t stay pregnant for more than ten weeks. And I’ve not been able to get pregnant for a year now.

And now that my sister in law is pregnant and we have neglected to acknowledge it (they’ve caused us so much misery that we don’t speak to my husbands family at all) I’ve been getting abusive text messages. Guess they just like rubbing it in. "

Block their number. Shows you were right not to acknowledge it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After two years of trying I can’t stay pregnant for more than ten weeks. And I’ve not been able to get pregnant for a year now.

And now that my sister in law is pregnant and we have neglected to acknowledge it (they’ve caused us so much misery that we don’t speak to my husbands family at all) I’ve been getting abusive text messages. Guess they just like rubbing it in. "

I wish for ladies like yourself I could donate my fully functioning and unneeded lady organs

So, so unfair when someone wants a child and can't, yet mine are wasted on someone like me.

I hope you have a full term pregnancy in the near future and all goes well.

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