FabSwingers.com forum: Going vanilla

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just asking here, no nasty replies please x

My fiancé and I get married in September. We met at clubf and have swung as a couple since we got together.

We’ve agreed we want to go vanilla until a couple of months after the wedding. This is so we can concentrate on the wedding and then to settle into married life.

Have any of you dropped off the scene and gone vanilla? How did it go and why/how did you end up swinging again?

Hugs from A x (female half)

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have deleted our profile as we couldn't be arsed with it and there's a good chance that will happen again. I don't think we actually went back to anything different tho...We just carried on with our lives. I don't really understand the going back to a vanilla life part to be honest x

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For us there’s a definite difference in the swinging us and the normal us. I don’t know how I’ll feel about sharing him once we’re married and being honest, I’m not sure if I want to play anymore once we are.

I kinda feel confused if that makes sense

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us there’s a definite difference in the swinging us and the normal us. I don’t know how I’ll feel about sharing him once we’re married and being honest, I’m not sure if I want to play anymore once we are.

I kinda feel confused if that makes sense"

Just play it by ear then. Just concentrate on the wedding and get on with your life and see how you feel then x

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you, sounds like good advice xx

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you, sounds like good advice xx"

No probs. Hope the wedding goes well x